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ao. ear eek iformed in Toronto, believed "tordent--plans to 'visit 'Patients fi;mamly between the azes ot 19 Women Organize {trast Toruts, believed fe hospital, form diver service|and 4 ROE: ate : sojand s oths at health and; To Help MS Society, '® 3% torces with the Ontario sical. conventions. | «| division of the Multiple Sclerosis) "There are 172 patients in Tor-| HOUSEHOLD HINT... TORONTO (CP)--The Ladies| Society of Canada. onto hospitals and nursing|: To clean paint splatters from Association to thee Multiple The association, with Mrs. N.| homes with multiple sclerosis, a)arms and face, use cooking oil Sclerosis Soctety has beenlG. Hatch of Toronto as presi-|disease that afflicts patients instead 'of paint remover. » sient : : 14 THE OSHAWA 'Times, Thureday, Jenuéry 13, 1966. gS ANN LANDERS Self-Confidence Based On Self-Preparation a Des + ue : WALKER'S Dear Ann Landers; I am a it's the first date or the 1% t4-year-old girl who is looking' date. A kiss should not be pay- ' forward to her first date. It|ment for an evening's entertain- ~ won't be until next year but I) ment. Kiss a boy only when you want to be ready. These ques-|feel genuinely fond o} him, and tions might Keem stupid to girls;}when you know he {feels the who are/ already dating, but)same way about you. ~~ they are{a matter of life and) A death to and I don't know} where to get the answers. . So Dear Ann Landers: I have rfo problem because I have solved 1. Should I be ready when the boy comes to my door or should I linger in niy room, so I won't appear too anxious? | 2. Should we stay a while and talk to.my parents or should we it, Perhaps my letter wil} help other. unmarried, rettred women who live alone. After 40 years in the class- room I suddenly found myself faced with the challenge: 'How 0 right on? to be happy though unem- 3. If we go to a restaurant|ployed." |_, after the show should I let the I am blessed with excellent boy order first so I don't gojhealth and have an adequate, over his budget? \though unimpressive, income. 4. If he doesn't open the door|The feeling of uselessness was for me should I just stand there | closing in on me. Then I discov- until he does? lered the answer. I sald to my- 5, I have heard it is wrong to) self: let a fellow kiss you on a first) «qRyery day you must do two date. If he tries, how do.I stop|things. First perform some him without getting into a fight? | major, unexciting hous e hold I don't want my first date to be chore, such as latindering your my last. Thank you. -- Miss'Gray Lady uniform, washing ss hte 1 don't dak toe venetian blinds in the -- ear Dubious: ont | room, or haking a pie. Second, your questions are stupid. I} jet no day pass without perform- think they are sensible. Here|ing at least one unselfish act.' are my aged iy 'h th ba On the:days that I work in the : _ the Me Gio keere hey | hospital or community house it priges itin is Bb lhl is easy. Other days require a = Den't B th the. be t of {little more thought. I-write a ek sas lg wt if ny O'|Ietter, visit a shut-in, or take a howd pete fa owed parents. (SHC2 of that freshly baked pie or of him, A five-minute chat is|*° 'he old-dady slowastass. just about right. | Still I have time for my Printed | Flannelette Sleepwear REMINISCING OVER PAST FIFTY YEARS each Oshawa Times Photo olas Copes. Pouring tea were | Ifish -activitie ds S : R : H 3. If you are.gofcerned about|Durnly We nies, reading, TV| MUL DIISe eception onors Mrs. Reuben Northey and Mrs. going over the boy's budget, | movies. My system actually | Baker prhile grandchildren ask him for a suggestion. Then é odie ee i e thing. works. Try it.--Contented Tho' M & M W ll E S | helped serve or eae ts ace nk accus | Retired I. Is. liliam £. tacey | Their grandchildren received tomed to opening doors for girls.| Dear Contented: Thanks for | the guests who were from Tor- If you just stand there they will/an excellent formula for retired; Mr. and Mrs. William Ernest| They have two sons Ernest|onto and Oshawa at the door. know (eventually) it is ex-/contentment. You've demon-| Stacey were guests of honor at/and "Gordon and nine grand | recientes ected, and they will learn that|strated (for the. zillionth time)|a surprise reception given at children. HELEN TUCKER CITED it is the thing to do. |that those who are capable of their home on Mill street, by| The bride and bridegroom of ve ae 5. Don't be afraid to say no|real unselfishness are never) their sons, daughters-in-law and) fifty years received flowers and) TORONTO (CP)--Helen Tuck- to a good night kiss--whether | bored. grandchildren, on. the occasion|numerows cards and gifts from|er of nearby Port Credit, chair- Reg. 3.98. Cozy warmth. And so daintity femi- V" nine, strewn with roses and daisies +». raffied and laced. PJ's and shift | gown have dickey fronts...the gran- ny gown velvet ribbons and bows, | Pink or blue. The former Gladys Cristabel|low carnations and the bride-| Needs Outside Interests They moved to Oshagva in|roses, carnations and chrysan-|her peace work. of their golden wedding anni-| relatives and friends. man of the women's interna- CHILD GUIDANCE versary. | The btide's corsage of yel-|tional liaison committee for the Woolley and William Ernest) groom's boutonniere were gifts | International Co-operation Year ; ' ® Stacey were united in marriage} of their youngest grandchildren,|is one of six named women of Emotionally Tied Child December 28, 1915, at the home| They were recipients of many|the year for 1965 by Eve's of the bride's foster parents the| gifts including an AM-FM radio) w; , if it. late Mr. and Mrs.. Thomas Je-| presented to them by their two| een i BOMBAY. 100. gana wett, Patterson street, Peter-| sons and a beautiful floral ar-| ee announced here Thursday. . | borough. rarigement of yellow and gold| Mrs. Tucker was chosen for By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD go back in your memories. You} 1916 were they resided on Celina|/themums from the family. Others were: Mrs, Indira/ We are not surprised when an|might recall some instances/street, Mary street and Elgin} The tea table was centred|/Gandhi, New Delhi, for diplom- only child or the younger of two|when her discomfort in Your! street until they moved to their| with a three tier wedding cake|acy; Dame Elizabeth Lane of becomes emotionally tied to thejabsence began or was ane present residence, 121 Mill] set in white tulle and surround-|London, first woman justice of e Shift Gown -- 8,M,L mother. But if the child is thejaged. Clearly she is strongly street in 1917. jed by gold candles in crystal/the High Court in Britain; Mrs. middle one of several children|tied to you. : Mr. Stacey retired from Gen-| holders. The cake was made by|Tara Cherian and Mrs. Thrity ¢ Granny Gown -- M,L,0S we may be somewhat puzzled.| You might be able to ois eral Motors in. 1956 were he|their daughter-in-law Mrs. Gor-|Taleyarkhan of India, and Sis- Of course, this youngster may|more insight into this child's|worreq as a laborer on the|don Stacey and decorated by|ter Ursula Eichstaedt of West Pyjamas -- $,M,L be retarded or mentally handi- capped or may evince other ob- 'vious reasons for overdepend- ence. A mother writes about her daughter, eight. Mary is third in a family of five children. She is closely tied emotionally to her mother. Mary 'does very well in her third-grade) studies and poses no problem at| school." | "Mary doesn't want to par- ticipate in any activity away from home. She is taking ballet} lessons on Saturday morning. | All morning she whines and) wants one of us to stay with) her while she takes her lesson. | "She went to stay overnight} with a friend and they had feud she plays with only. one bring her home around 10 p.m. The only reason she gave usjher own way. behavior if you had the assis- tance of a clinic phychologist or psychiatrist. Undoubtedly you have catered to her whims and babied her. When you wanted her to enter Brownies, why didn't you take her to the meeting without question and leave her there to the end? I do hope you help her td] have more fun with other chil- dren of her age and to cultivate playmates outside the family. Help her attract some girls of her age to your home when you could study her in relation to them, curb some of her ugly ways with them, and guide her in being a better playmate child she can more easily have itheir granddaughter Mrs, Nich- Germany. was she 'wanted her mother.'| Your daughter may be striv- We wanted her to join Brown-jing hard to be important in the jes. They had a meeting today.|family and have doubts. that We told her we wanted her to'she is--so considered by her go and have <fun. \brothers and sisters. She wants "Mary started crying and said|to feel sure of your special at- she wanted to stay home with|tention. Most of all, she needs) Mother. We have been taking|to be more self-reliant | her to ballet and leaving her! She might gain in self-regard and she is alright after she gets|if she were induced to read to there. ithe two younger children. She "As far as we know, we have|may need. the care of a physi- Se eas cane troll ware 40 eatth Nar Som Bes 3] e afr go away from|way a ; home. Mary is a very sensitive|you can find means whereby child. She's easily upset. She|the other children of the family plays better with just one child}accept and-enjoy her. It-could as opposed to a group of chil-|be that she is a tyrant with dren. them as well as with you "When she plays a game,| Don't expect sudden and dra- every rule must be obeyed per-|matic changes in her; nor fectly, or she gets angry and|should you suddenly w 'draw says 'so-and-so is cheating' and|your show of affection i her. then Mary quits playing. It)Try to find some times when seems she is always 'at war'jyou and she can be together with someone. Then she comes!with wholehearted -mutual en in the house and pouts and says|joyment. 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