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| KEEP-IN--TRIM Get Your Will ~ Working For You By IDEA JEAN KAIN Traditionally, the first. Mon- | day of the New Year is National | Diet Day. It's in the very air.) Many of you, eager to banish 10 pounds, or 20, have firmly resolved to start today. Fine! But instead of viewing this as another go at dieting, stretch your mind to a new dimension. | Analyze what your aim really | is. It's not just to losé pounds | fast and then allow them to ease back on. Unless this is just | 'a game you play at the start of} a4 ae WEDDING ALBUM. A record.for your\ Wedding Album is provided by The Oshawa Times Women's Page. Fotms are available at The Oshawa Times office. Early publication of this wedding record is facilitated by submitfing the completed torm and a picture of the bride to the Women's Editor as svon as possible after the ceremony. You are asked to submit the names of out-of-town guests attending the wedding to the social editor either before or the day after the wedding. Delaney - Yeo St. Andrew's United Church|Mary Jane Johnson, Belleville, was the setting for the marragejand the other attendants were of Ruth Marie, daughted of Mr.|Mrs. Douglas Mewhort, Water- and Mrs. A. E. Yeo, to. William/loo; Miss Lois Delaney and Miss F. Delaney, son of Mr. and Mrs | Margaret Yeo, both-of Oshawa. More Rio Values For The Homemaker At January Savings! Buy Now and "Charge-It" "TELLERS Open Every Day From 9:30 A.M. -- 6:00 P.M, Thursday and Fridey 9:30 A.M, -- 9:00 P.M. A CAVALCADE OF SALE-PRICED FABRICS FOR SPRING SEWING! VIVID PATTERNS and Walter Biggs, all of Oshawa. | The officiating clergyman was the Reverend John Morris and! and Sabean, Oshawa, The best man was Mr. Donaid those the soloist Mrs. Earl Campbell | ushering were Mr. John McKen- was accompanied by Mr. Kelvin} James. bs Given in marriage by her} oth of Oshawa, zie and Mr. Douglas Mitchell, Following the reception held father, the bride was wearing a,at the Grandview Golf Club, the formal white peau de sheath gown with pearl trimmed| the Pocono Mountains, soielcouple left for a honeymoon in Penn- neckline and: lily-point sleeves.|sylvania with the bride donning | The self overskirt fell softly into|for travelling, a two-plece pink a train. Her headdress of self|wool dress, gray coat with silver roses encrusted with pearls held|mink collar and black patent her shoulder-length veil of tulle accessories. On their return, Mr. and she carried a bouquet of,and Mrs. Delaney took up resi- pink sweetheart roses. | The maid of honor was Miss! Oshawa. DISTAFF DIARY Summary of reports of meetings and activities of Oshawa women's organiaztions as compiled from reports submitted by their secretaries. BETA SIGMA PHI (Phi Phi Chapter) The first monthly meeting Phi Phi Chapter, Beta Sigma Phi, was held Tuesday, at the home of Mrs. Leonard Shay with Mrs, Donald McClennen presiding. of| tions of Beta Sigma Phi. Miss Marilyn the cultural program i*Am I Intellectually | ,Paul's Presbyterian Church to discuss the purposes and func- Larmer gave entitled} Compe-} tent?"' A general discussion fol- lowed and the members thought a greater knowledge of current) about school-age children a |dence at 118 Bloor street west, CHILD GUIDANCE By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD Receiving so many letters aK The theme for the dance to be) .yents was warrented and also|ening in briny beds, I believe held Friday February 11, will) much more reading of better| that there are many bedwetters be the "Valentine Swirl." It will) jitorature be at St. Gregory's Auditorium! The next meeting will and the annual Valentine Queen) tuesday, January 18, at will be chosen during the eve ning. It was decided that a skating party grill be arranged for the members and their escorts on/10 of King Street United Church Saturday, January 29. Stuart Smith invited all attend to an after-party at home of Mrs. Thomas Lane, KING ST. UCW, 10 her Redpath, with thirteen members home. present. There will be a convention on| During the business meeting, Saturday, January 22 at St./A worship service centred on ------ the theme "Duty," was followed THE STARS SAY ag skit and discussion on gos- By ESTRELLITA Mrs. Redpath made these an- nouncements: annual fees are FOR TOMORROW }due from each member; UCW Mixed influences indicate a|meets at 2 p.m. on January 13; somewhat routine, morning, but/King Street United Church an- many interesting possibilities in}nual meeting will be on Janu- the late afternoon and evening.|ary 25 at 7:30 p.m.; the Minis- There's chance then of a newjterial Week of Prayer is from business opportunity, un-|January 31 to February 4. expected visitors from afar, per-| Plans for a project were dis- haps an unusually stimulating|cussed, and further ideas will be social function, In any event,/added at the February meeting. | your surprises should be pleas-| Following the business meet- ant ones. jing a social hour was enjoyed. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, Women Must Learn re indicates that wit the next 12 months your occupational and financial inter To Change Roles ests should go very well. In| TORONTO (CP) -- Women fact, you are currently in an\should start to work their way excellent cycle which will gov-jout of their domestic pigeon- ern both of these matters until/holes and: stretch their wings about Feb. 21. It would be well|author Betty Friedan said Mon. to remember, however, that you|day night. could offset promised monetary! Mrs. Friedan told the open- gains if you engage in any spec-|ing seminar of the annual Insti- ulation next week. Next good fis-|tute of Ethics at Beth Tzedet cal periods: The entire month's ynagogue that until now of April, when long-range proj-|women have considered their ects will prosper but may not/main roles in life to be home- bring immediate returns; the!maker, wife and mother. first three weeks of September,| 'They have chosen to stay in the entire month of October and their private "hiding 'places next January. ng In jobs, besides the current if confining good period in which you are! domestic roles. operating, chances of advance Mrs. Friedan, author of The ment and gratifying recognitipn| Feminine Mystique, said that from superiors are star-prom-|as soon as women take the ised during the first three wecks| first step in choosing for them- of March, the last week of Sep-| selves the kind of life they wish tember, the first three weeks of to lead the nature of society October, all of November and will change. next January, It will be import-| Ry choosing to pursue a ca- safety of their ant, however, not to antagonize reer a mother will no 1 superiors in June, early July or have to live through her chit.| mishap. There is the first three weeks of Septem ber. Personal relationships will be responsibility for-their own de- governed by generous planetary velopment and become inde- influences for most of the year pendent eartier. ahead, with emphasis on ro- "Women have never Mrs.} Women was held at the home of who the new president, Mrs. Douglas) afraid to leave the comfortable, | | dren and will love them more.| Children will learn to take the| been The mother of a boy, nine, be, writes: the "Our son still wets the hed with great regularity although there are periods when he goes |for weeks and weeks with just The January meeting of Unit) an occasional mishap. "Lately he has been wetting the bed nightly and tries to act as though he hasn't. He hides his wet clothes, etc., and then I run across,them while clean- ing | SLEEPS SOUNDLY '7 try not to make an issue of is wetting, but do tell him |not to hide his wet things and |to try to awaken himself if he can. He does sleep very soundly at night, and I have quite a time to get him to go to the bathroom if I notice his bed still wets the bed there. "We have heard the theory expounded on bed-wetting that in order to stop it, we must be completely permissive to any and all things our son would | like to do. In other words, just let him be a monster for awhile | "Well, frankly, I cannot, in }good conscience, permit one child of mine to behave in a manner that would be in any way unexplainable to my other children." | My. reply in part: The most significant thing in your letter is your statement that your oldest boy, while at jhis grandmother's, doesn't wet the bed at all. While there. he doesn't have the reminders that younger brothers and sisters generally sleep dry. | Though you say you don't | make any ado about his wetting bed, somebody at home must be expressing considerable annoyance to the boy over the matter, else he would not he hiding his wet clothes. | | PRAISE SUCCESS | The most cheerful thing In {your letter is that there are times when he goes weeks and weeks with only an occasional your "ace | card." When he awakes dry, you |parents should make a great ado about these successes, and |when he awakens wet act as if |you don't notice the fact. I wish Dad would spend a lot mance during the latter part of|taken seriously as people, never|of time with this boy, going this month, in February, June;been seen primarily as late October and late Decem- human beings." Mrs. | ber; on travel and stimulating said : social activities: The balance of But more and more they are ph ggg te haha gla voy ee Ma to answer the ques- e Nov 2 ee: tion that men have always December. Jf careful to avoid to. answer: "What, at ae friction in close circles--espe-'to be?" : cially during late February, -- -- early March, late June and-or WOMEN SEW early July, you should experi-) py). walghiees HOME alta Sho duvet domestic olls' clothes are still made fife, at home for the traditional toy 1 Puld bow On thld day will industry of Thuringia, Ger- be extremely versatile and am- ee other|places with him and taking Friedan| Some of his pals along. If the boy can feel worthy and impor tant in the famity, he will have a strong desire to co-operate. | Dad should take charge of }him at night and make clear to him that. he is going to try to |help him. He could set a clock |with the boy, experimenting on how often it must call him up Lin order to keep him dry all |night. ! Why shouldn't Dad awaken bitious but, being of unusually strong character himself, will be most intolerant of weakness in others. CHOOSE DANCEY'S SOWITTOWN OSMAWA INTERIOR DECORATOR PURNITURE DRAPERIES BROADLOOM 15 King Street East CUSTOM MADE DRAPES Phone 725-2686 MR. AND MRS. WILLIAM F. DELANEY Ireland Studio. Dad Should Assist His Son In Overcoming Night Lapse dry when I retire. The peculiar | aspect is this: When he yisits| at his grandmother's he never} leach new year, you must decide} ito change your thinking along | with your food habits. Why not) get the pattern by which you) can lick your weight to a stand. | still and stay slim? | | CONTROL HUNGER i | Hunger is the biggest hurdle. Apply nutrition how - how,| lchange the character of your |meals and you can control hun-| ger scientifically. A high pro- | tein diet is the most effective in fassuaging hunger, for protein) |stays by you longer. The body uses protein more effectively j when it is included at each one of the three meals, starting | with breakfast. Food causes an increase in metabolism,. protein more so than other foods. By _\eating a good breakfast, includ- ling protein, you get the benefit lof increased metabolism all morning Four hours later you'll feel hungry again. Regular meal hours help you to establish an appetite - time - clock. It is the best way to cut out the hap- hazard eating that fosters wrong food habits. Eat a balanced lunch, planned around a protein food--cheese, cottage cheese, fish, or meat; plus a vegetable or sald, and fruit and a glass of skim milk Or have a sandwich made with thinly sliced bead and a thick protein filling, plus fruit and a beverage. HAVE A SNACK It's wise to have an afternoon pickup around 4:00, particularly if dinner is eaten late. There is a scientific basis for having a him to toilet when Dad goe go to the s to bed? SET CLOCK Then set a clock for one, two or three o'clock, experimenting when it should be done. In the future your son might be able to take care of it himself, set ting this clock to call him up often enough to keep dry What a fine family you have! I just hope you parents can en- joy these children and help them to have good times together and enjoy one another. I know that |pickup. With some individuals, you are right in not assuming|blood sugar is less stable, and you can handle this problem by|for them a protective pickup in letting him have his way and the afternoon is essential. Other- doing as he pleases. wise, you experience an energy Hold your son to the sfand- let-down. Moreover, you feel cai ards and regulations of the fam- intensely hungry that you can't ily just as if he didn't wet the help over-compensating at the bed. The main thing is that you | &Ve!ns meal. Overeating at any don't ags6viete.punishment with | 9% meal should be avoided. d bed-wetting. I assume you have Change your meal eerie beta had him checked by your physi- | YoU will be able to contro! your cian z |hunger and your weight far bet- : Iter, Be alert to when you tend PARENT'S QUESTIONS Ito do your overeating, and Q. Our son, eight, who does |change that apttern. Dinner is well at school, is a head-banger. |the meal to watch. Beginning in infancy, he used to | ----- SRE GIS sit in a chair and bang back ae 4 e SALE ; 4 4 softly. He still does this in the Bridal Gowns $25 car. His father keeps yelling at Complete with your Choice of Head do? A. You might be wise to con- sult a psychiatrist and follow his | 2= 4 Veil advice. But if this ree : were my} child I would paddle him for BRIDESMAIDS or PARTY DRESSES every bang. If that hurt more $7.50 each than his banged head hurt, he Complete with Head Piece would pretty surely choose to q 1 4 SARGEANT 3; quit banging. More humane anyway than Dad's hollering. RENTALS ond SALES 463 Ritson Rd. S$. 725-3338¢ him to stop. 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