3 y = Better ANN LANDERS Baby Spared A Life Of Suffering Dear Ann Landers: Three months ago I gave birth to my first child. When I awoke from the anesthetic my doctor was standing by the bed. He told me our little girl lived only 10 minutes. He explained that she had a heart defect and if she had survived she would have been an invalid A person who has.not experi- enced this tragedy cannot know what it is like to carry a child for nine months and come home from the hospital with empty arms. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. The same night my mother and two sisters came to see me. They said I should consider myself lucky that the baby didn't live. They said that to have an invalid child is the most terrible thing that can hap- live, The best thing Desperate |Mother can do for her son is jto leave him alone and help him cope with life as it is.-- Odd Man Out Dear Odd M from th d ithese past 10 years and most lof them are unhappy, fright- lened and lonely. They long to lead normal lives and ask me if psychiatry can help. I must tell them that the chances are slim, (The experts say less than three percent.) I always recommend therapy, lan: I have heard not produce a cure, it does help the homosexual to accept him- self--which is what your ther- fapist did for you, whether you realize it or not but still a satisfactory way to! however, because while it might! Bi eek sens nah re er es a ai a a ae 10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesdoy, Jenuory 4, 1966 NEW YORK (AP)--The new spring styles are like teen- agers: Stubborn, audacious, restless, romantic, colorful, ex- pensive and young. More than 200 fashion report- ers will judge this for them- selves at a 10-day preview of inew designs beginning Wednes- day. The American Designer Series, arranged by Eleanor Lambert, starts off the show- ings, followed Sunday by the New York couture group's semi-annual press week. Consider how stubborn the New York's Spring Fashions | Shorter, Restless, Romantic -- pen to a mother. I loved that child and I would; pear Ann Landers: A very have loved her sick or well.|ng young girl whom I will call What can I say to them whenikatherine babysits for us at| they talk crazy like that? Orjjeast once a week. She is 16} am I the one who is crazy?--!vears' old. Our children ,adore Needing Answers her so please don't suggest that Dear Needing Answers: Your|; engage someone else. mother and sisters are attempt-} ing to. comfort you: The ability to accept in life what you are powerless to change is one of the secrets of peace of mind. Katherine is deeply religious, | which is admirable, but her re-| ligion is different from ours iMy husband says Katherine AT THE FIR Frosty Ball f curlers and golf Oshawa Golf Clu $8T annual 'or junior ers at the b, those in Junior Members Of Golf Clu Mrs. W. F. Mereer, curling convener, who -- supervised the. event; Miss Pamela Miller, chairman of junior the receiving line were from the left: Mr. David Mc- Master, Miss Janice Grewar, dance convener; 'styles are. Didn't the experts | predict -- even plead for -- a |hasty death for short skirts, \shapeless shifts, bared bosoms, | plastered-on pants, boots, bon- inets and party pajamas? Yet defiantly, perversely, \skirts this spring will be even eurling and Mr. Gregory Bell. --Oshawa Times Photo 1 Extend Industry shorter, shifts shiftier, boots kickier, bonnets more babyish, pants tighter and party pyjamas funnier than they ever were. Audacious is the word for those short, jagged end se- verely straight-haired cuts im- ported from England via Vidal Sassoon. The word also applies to designer Jacques Tiffeau's suits with thigh-high hemlines, or in hip-slung bikini evening gowns with barely - there bodices. It goes, too, for Rudi Gernreich's chiffon see-through T-shirts and Bill Blass' nude- hued petticoats under black- 8; -SSTRELLITA----- FUn LUMmURROW Don't waste time on non-es- senitiais during "Wednesday's early hours. The aspects then will be highly propitious for getting "'big" things done, so make the most of them. During the afternoon, there is a possi- bility of receiving some news from afar; of interesting communications generally. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your chart shows fine indica- tions which should net monetary gains, career advancement and increased prestige before an- other birthday has rolled around. You may have to work a little harder than usual to gain all these benefits, and shoulder a few more responsi- bilities, but the extra efforts should not prove too burden- some and the results will be very much worthwhile. For in- stance, there's promise of both job progress and financial gain between now. and mid- February; further monetary progress in April, the first three weeks of September and throughout October, November and next January. Next good cycles on the occupational front: lace dresses, Anne Klein's slith- ery leather bell-bottom pants, and Anne Fogarty's wide-| legged gingham party pants. | / THINK OF LINE American ready - to - wear jdesigners are giving more thought to the purity of line of |the dress, coat or jump suit| ithan the line of the women! juary. The first three weeks of March, the last week of September, the first three weeks of October and |all of November and next Jan- Do be conservative in business matters during the first three weeks of March and in June, however. Personal relationships should be exceptionally har- b SOCIAL & PERSONAL Aid Handicapped |may not know it, but she has 'under these. a subconscious urge to convert people to her faith. She talks religion to our children every-) time she sits and they are be-| coming confused, Our 10-year-) old boy wants to know how} come he is told one thing in Sun-) Dear Ann Landers: That 17-) year - old boy whose mother} found 40 pictures of nude males! under his mattress is hooked,| No amount of family doctoring! or friendly counseling is going to make any difference. My father found my collec-\hy Katherine. He says, "Both| tion of nude males when I waS|<jories can't be true. One of| 15. Two years of doctors and/ihem is wrong." | psychologists left me a nervous 4 Sloase vive us 6 nis with] wreck. T tried to change Please give us some help with something that isn't changeable. Finally, a college freshman counselor helped me accept the fact that being different isn't the same as being damned. | Today I'm a PhD in physics I work for a large industrial Dear Big Q: Tell Katherine! she confuses your children when she discusses religion with them avoid the subject. Your children should be told concern. The few people whojthat Katherine's ideas on reli- know of my problem look at it|gion are fine for her but what| Freeborn, Mr. and Mrs. W. F.) Master, Helen McLaren, Janice/law, ; they learn in Sunday School is! Mercer, and the Club Manager,| Grewar, Judy MacDonald, Eve-| Leavitt, Carnegie avenue. what they should believe. the same way I look at someone who wears dentures--different Golden Setting | Of Ford's Great- By JEAN SPRAIN WILSON [ground, "'a kind of pop-up ef-/Karol Hair, Beth Rundle, Mari-\\7o.gunan Bill F or Wedding Granddaughter ter, | | 5 First 'Frosty Ball' The Oshawa Golf Clubjnett, Bill Sumata, Debbie Bell, sparkled to the rhythm of the) Bill Glover, Craig Burch, Sharyn "Young Set' amidst blue, white; Kent, Alice Little, Pat Dier,! and silver decorations at the Douglas Campbell, Robert Dart, Miller, Cathy B Junior Curling and Golf club)Short, Thomas members and their guests,|Bateson, Pamela Thursday evening. Sinclair. In the receiving line were) Gregory Bell, Neil Studley curling convener, Miss Janice) Bijl Dionne, Bob Warren, Chris Grewar, dance convener; her) Wetherup, Ruth Young, Walter escort, Mr. David McMaster;|Krochma, Heather Hall, Susan land that you would like her to| Miss Pamela Miller, chairman Dell, Wayne Adams, Robb Wad- of junior curling; her escort,! dell, Dale Thomas, Tom Reed, Mr. Gregory Bell. Chaperones Douglas Warren, Gait Freeborn were Mr, and Mrs. Vernon Kathy Maroasis, Davi Mc- Mr. James Lent, lyn Kirby, Carol Resenkeck, The guest book, which was at-) pay] Wilson, Ted Townsend, tended by Miss Gail Freeborn,' sandy Neil, John Morris Mr. Thomas Reed, Miss Joan ay i e Reed and Mr. Emery Frankfur- Beth Brosioent, ie iis included the following: | Intosh, Bob Middleton, Diane) Mary Rupert, Donald Woods,|Calder, Ross Taylor, Martha Leslie Greer,: Joanne Rundle,| Frankfurter, Bob Stroud, Barb Dee Kessler, Allan Tunnicliffe,| ywonaghan, Craig Russell, Penny Fedorezenko, Jo Aldwinckle, Telephone 723 - 3474 for Women's Department Mr. S. F. Everson,. King street east, spent the New Year holiday with relatives 'in day School and something else) «Frosty Ball" attended by the| Ruddy, Jackie Griffin, Douglas! Montréal, Mr. and Mrs. E. F. Cuthbert- son, Mary street, have returned from Pointe Claire, Quebec 'this sticky problem.--The Big Q| were Mrs. W. F. Mercer, junior Karen Thomas, Susan Calahan,|where they spent the Yuletide holidays with their daughter, Mrs. K. E. Sproule, Mr. Sproule and family. Mr. and Mrs. Verne Leavitt of Windsor, spent Christmas with their son and daughter-in- Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Friends of Mrs. R. J. Cordick, McLaughlin boulevard, will be sorry to learn that she is a patient in Oshawa General Hos- pital. Mr. and Mrs. Donald Thomp- son and family, Mohawk street, were New Year guests of Dr. NEW YORK (AP) -- Decor-|fect," as a: hotel publicist ex-/0n Crawforth, Grant Osborne, 7) 0 wara' Bradd Wilson, Nancy 89d Mrs. Ross McNeil, Lon- ators created a "young and/plained it, Stands covered with|Sandra Anderson, Steven Ros- golden effect' as the proper|black felt held large sprays of nik, Donald background for the pre - wed-| Florentine palms painted gold. | Liston, Robert Boychyn, Sharon ding' festivities of a young/A golden chandelier with gold! Clemens, golden girl, Anne Ford, great\tassels was placed over the|Molly Johnston, Marilyn Bur- the dance floor.|~ age Pee |Meyer Davis' society orchestra The 22 - year - old younger! provided music. daughter of Mrs. Anne McDon-| EAT CANADIAN BACON granddaughter of auto - maker |c Henry. nell Ford and Henry Ford II,| will be married today to Gian-| chicken hash, hamburgers, Ca- all Street/nadian bacon, finger sand- stock broker. The civil cere-|wiches and champagne was set mony will be performed before up in the smaller supper room, |°" a small number of friends and|decorated in twinkling pink Witters ever in her mother's Fifthltame and trimmed with green. carlo Uzielli, a Wall family Avenue duplex apartment. However, more than 450 at the Delmonico Hotel Monday night, with many of them first/ and his wife Christina, attending a dinner given by the he married after a divorce|over one shoulder, turquoise to- Giorgio' from Anne McDonnell Ford a/gas slit to the waist, and lots bridegroom's Uzielli. For the party, decorators transformed the hotel's main ballroom into a black, white and gold tent with gold-framed waiiii fi | candelabras were cloths dots against father, tng flick ermg On round tables with huge white a black back-! ors Te fe ware iiviie Aaa jlarge part of the Ford family guests were invited to a dance! from Detroit. entre of A buffet of scrambled eggs, A company plane brought a Space Age Lingerie To Be Sexy, Frilly socqal, NOTICES one of the most feminine, frilly Tim Dittmar, Marcia Paul Sutton, Doug, Richardson, Barbara Siorie, Bruce Smith, John Paynter, Mary Jane McKnight, Sue Pick- ering, Wayne Haas, Barbara Field, David Vesy, Susan Patte and Jim Spiers. Willson, Boychyn, " Boychy Williams, Debby Emery Frankfurter. NEW. YORK (AP) -- This is AT HOME Mr. and Mrs. Elmo Tattersall, 225 Nonquon road, will be at home to their friends, relatives} The man looking for a little bit of not much for the woman in his life will find black lace don, Ontario. Miss Lorraine Smyth, Univer- sity of Western Ontario, Lon- don, spent the Christmas holi- days with her parents, Inspector and Mrs. Norman Smyth, Sandra . street west Other Christmas guests at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Smyth were Mr. and Mrs. Charles Jackson and Erie, North Bay. Mr. and Mrs. Franklin Foote, Halliday Manor, celebrated their diamond (60th) wedding anniversary very quietly yester- day. Mr. and Mrs. Foote were jumpsuits, saucy pale nude and neighbors on Saturday, Jan-| married in the parsonage of The bride's father, Henry I1| lace - trimmed sleep chemises,| uary 15, 1966 from 2:00 p.m. to; Grace United Church, Napanee, year ago, also were to attend the party. The celebration for Anne, who made a debut at a cost of $280,000, will make up some- what*for hér simple civil wed- ding rites, called for because young Uzielli is divorced. Anrie is a Roman Catholic. | ready - to - wear, | | CLASSIC DRAPING PIERRE CARDIN sug- gesis the six. o clock dress, with an encirc all- ing from the sl into a free-flowing panel at the lain smooth al- crepe, ~d perfect back of norce mond green drar from one bow set high on the shoulder to 9:00 p.m. on the occasion of 'their 50th wedding anniversary.| and lots of maribou and ostrich feathers. There has been a revolntion in the lingerie industry. ae ong mag to. put "i Smith wish to announce the B | ee eet gem nae engagement of their daughter,| hate themselves," said William 7 A Burston, manager of the Na-|Sharon Evelyn, to Mr, Eric) tional Retail Merchants As-| Jude McNab, son of Mr. and} sociation merchandising Civis-| Mrs. Ian McNab, all of Osh- ion. "Now they lok like prima s 4 donnas. They become different | *¥*- The ceremony is to take people when they are wearing| Place on Saturday, January 15, them." 1966, at 4:00 p.m. in Christ "It's a against)Memorial Church, Anglican, said Miss J0-| oOchawa sephine Keegan, linerie buyer at a New York department store. The rebellion is expected to 5% give a big boost to lingerie 0 sales. Burston estimated they Discount would run $1,000,000,000 this it Y. year, and shoot up 10 to 15 per Bri ae? cent next year. "The business had been stand- ing still," he said. "Women were just doing a replacement ENGAGEMENT Mr, and Mrs. F. rebellion whom |Shocking pink gowns draped 4:00 p.m. and from 7:00 p.m.| 0" January 3, 1906. They came to Oshawa in 1921. They have had six children:. Harvey of Hamilton; Aleta, Mrs. Henry Price, and Frona, Mrs. Jack Harding, both of Oshawa; | TORONTO (CP) -- A woman | who founded and directs an in- | dustry aimed at helping home-| bound handicapped persons) support themselves plans a trip) Women's Editor fornia; Otis of Oshawa and 'Ross who was killed overseas ; ; Fa ito New York City this week as ee yond bb a whey the first move in an effort to ave 2 oe ildren and 11) extend her operations to other) great-grandchildren. Mrs. Foote countries. Wid ee of the Oshawa! "Mrs. George C. Marshall of | poet C sn -- and of the Toronto started Marina Crea-| ae epee tae ish tions in 1955 under the sp 1 Date - time and evening clothes are the restless ones. Designer John Moore looked back to the '30s for inspiration for his costumes, spirals or ruffles or swirls or flounces. Almost every designer has bor- rowed from the flapper '20s, creating long - waisted, short evening dresses with flirty skirts ¥ kind of yarty clothes this Registered nursing assistants joining the staff of Oshawa Gen- eral Hospital recently are Mrs. M.Mitchell, St. Joseph's Hospi- tal, Bradford; Miss C. Locke, Salvation Army Hospital, Tor- oronto; Mrs. J. Booth, McKellar Hospital, Fort William; Miss S. Dwitre, Nursing Assistant Centre, Toronto; and Mrs. 3aurer, Scarborough General. Graduate nurses from the British Isles, Holland and Jamaica have joined the staff of Oshawa General Hospital re- cently. They are: Miss R.- Kong, Ashford Hospital, England; Mrs. G. Dewdney, Kingston Public Hospital, Jamaica; Miss M. Rennie, Maryland Hospital, Scotland; Miss R. Slack, Mac- clesfield Hospital, England, and Miss. M. Nauta, Deaconess Hos- pital, Holland. Canadian graduate nurses joining the staff at Oshawa General Hospital are: Miss P. Brewer and Miss §S. Hickey of St. Michael's, Toronto; Miss P. Halliday, St. Joseph's, Toronto; Miss C. Johnston, Toronto Gen- eral Hospital; Miss E. Linden- field, Miss M. Uebele and Miss D. Wood, all of Belleville Gen- eral Hospital; Mrs. F. Black, St.. Joseph's. Hospital, Port Arthur; Miss D. Grattan, Hotel Dieu, St. Joseph, New Bruns- wick; Miss C. Sceviour, Ottawa Civic Hospital; Mrs. M. Young, Victoria Hospital, Renfrew; | Mrs. E. Waldroff, Cornwall Gen- eral; Mrs. G. Harroun, Aber- jdeen Hospital, New Glasgow, Howard/Anson, of Ocean Side, Cali-|N.S.; Mrs. A. Bandy, Brock- ship of the Canadian Society|spring simply has to swish, for Crippled Civilians. It sells|bounce, float, flit, jiggle or larticles. made at home by|move in some noticeable, way | handicapped persons. jin order to: be really in. Mrs. Marshall said Monday| Anthony Blotta's swish chif- she will meet U.S. federal gov-|fons are in shades of a more ernment and New York andidistant past'in the long-skirted Connecticut state representa-|granny dress. Also in the ro- ltives to discuss extending the|mantic mood are Cecil Chap- industry into the U.S. She also|man's draped crepes, George | will travel to Lima, Peru, April/Stavropolous' floaty chiffons, 15 to open a branch sponsored|and Count Sarmi's fluttery, by the Peruvian government. birdlike floral pastels. oo The trend designers are set- ting for spring is to dress like ;your grandmother did once, or jas babies do now, rather than | ville General; Miss B. Brown, Peterborough Civic Hospital; monious during the next 12 months, with very strong em- phasis on sentimental interests. Best periods along these lines; The latter part of this month, February, June, late October and late December. Dont't take May, September or November "romances" too seriously, how- ever. Creative workers in all lines will be star-blessed this year, pvith exceptionally profit- able periods indicatel in May, June and September, Stars don't promise much in the way of travel, except for short trips, during the next 12 months, but if you want to take a longer journey, the balance of. this month, the first three weeks of May, November and December will be highly auspicious for "taking off." A child born on this day will be endowed with the qualities needed to make a highly suc- cessful editor, writer or busi- Mrs. G. Czechowski, Kitchener- | 2 Waterloo Hospital; and Miss j.|for your own age. ness executive, Mason, Victoria Union Hospital, | Saskatchewan. Mrs. Douglas Barton and son) Tom, returned recently from) 'Moncton New Brunswick,' where they spent Christmas and the holidays with Mr: and Mrs. Kenneth Locke and family. Set your table Tonight with Beauty that lives forever and 21% New Year's Day guests at the) home of Mr. and Mrs. Elmer) Elliott Cadillac avenue south,| were Mr. and Mrs. Harry Quan-| ltrill, Canpbellcroft; Mr. and) Mrs. Douglas Bazinet, Toronto; | Miss Gloria Quantrill, Peter- borough; Mr. and Mrs. Richard March and Todd, Mr. and Mrs.) John Quantrill and Michelle,' Mrs. R. B, Elliott, Miss Freda) White and Miss Linda Eccles, all of Oshawa. Mr. Glenn Elliott of Queen's| University, Kingston, has been) spending the holiday season with his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Elmer Elliott, Cadillac avenue south. fib. There wasn't enough ex- citement. Now the industry has added a fashion note, and things definitely are beginning to stir. "Sexiness is an added stiu- lus,"' he said. Once straight - laced panty girdles now come in Mondrian squares, muted red plaids, splashy. yellow daisies and pop art~a hamburger on one side and a bottle of ketchup on the| other, or a pair of big blue eyes. | There may be a polka-dotted ruffle around the leg. Bridal Shoes TINTED FREE DANCEY'S DOWNTOWN OSHAWA INTERIOR DECORATOR FURNITURE DRAPERIES BROADLOOM 15 King Street East CUSTOM MADE DRAPES, Phone 725-2686 where your satisfaction is guaranteed or refun JANUARY SALE Watch For Your 12 Page Circular In The Mail Soon! Twelve pages of super specials in this popular annual ZELLER event! Money saving values on family and home fashions. ZELLER'S OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE "Whaem Vause Satiebactine le Gorn rnn taal am Waren Mhammes Dobumdad'! DOWNTOWN SIMCOE ST. 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