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She has'"'s not jetting your daughter |t0 explore, discover and learn ee love and security, Usu-jalways apie cigs Mite recep you lowering your stand-|for themselves, says Dr. Mar- aly they have eat dreams fr/We have always shown he var fr her because olber par |in D. Jenkinson, hexd of cur nAicco roy hagas 'on, ents don't have as high s' ririculum research for the appreciate their efforts and sac-}as she does. Every day I won-). 14. for their daughters. [Ontario Institute for Studies in | Education. rifices for him. der, what next? We are getting But if they feel their dreams|desperate."" | . 'Wash Kitchen | She told the Ontario Curricu- |lum Institute Friday that cur- rent information will be out- are not coming true; and if he, ' Se as time goes on, does not show | PROBLEM UNIVERSAL My reply in part: R scare | mothers Before e€-painting | datea soon and the fact content jof curriculum will have to be appreciation and graditude to) Thousands of real If you're a do-it-yourself pait-| replaced. them for their sacrifices for) him the new parents may be-| might truly have written your come frustrated, even embit-|letter. Ever so many teen-agers ; ; 3 : tered. are unappreciative of their papel ee Denne eee ene art Dr. H. A. Elliott of the math-| ©00K macaroni, noodles, corn In the first place, adopting|ents and treat them disrespect-| Yea suggestions 'that wil] ematics department at Royaljon the cob using a French parents, aware of what other fully. se Sok do a hatter job Military College, Kingston, saidifryer basket. Saves time be- parents might think and say, Jt's not improbable that some- Although you may not notice|Youns children are being taught!cause you drain as you lift. about them, tend to lean over|times when you feel frustrated] it" cooking deposits a thin film! backwards in providing the) and distressed over this daugh-|of crease on kitchen walls and child the best opportunities forjter's ways toward you, You| coiling Saks giite Sou remove development they can provide.| whine to her, "After all we have this grease by washing all sur- lacama WIFE PRESERVER They are especially apt to give him too many material things and to make too many personal sacrifices to gratify his wishes. These parents may hesitate to. discipline him adequately. They may fear they might be too strict with him. Perhaps they are inclined, as a rule, to more excessive permissiveness! than they would be if he were theis.own natural child. BLAME PARENTS Suppose they find this adopted done for you and sacrificed for you." It's easy to see how you might feel then; also how your daughter might feel. I'm sure you know that such utterances only arouse bitterness and an- tagonism. So please do watch yourself and never let yourself say such things to her. When she acts and talks ugly, try to be calm and silent. In private with your husband, try to agree on what you will require of her, that you | faces with a wall cleaner or |strong detergent solution, (If; | you skip this step the paint will | idry slowly and may even take' |days to harden.) A light scuff-| ing or sanding of previous glossy or semi-gloss surfaces will pro- duce better adhesion. When painting cabinets, it's a good idea to remove all the doors and hardware. 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