The following text may have been generated by Optical Character Recognition, with varying degrees of accuracy. Reader beware!

Widows Must Learn |Ever tried making a simple but With Christmas almost upon tasty broth that is best served : us, a problem of etiquette ap- : hot on a cold winter day. % ; d i net mt . , 4 To Stand On Own Feet aggetl no ge ge | The first step is to remove as simple rules to help solve that'yq ©THE OSHAWA TIMES, Mondoy, December 13, 1965 jmany pieces of turkey as poss 7 pine 08 ee ecis 'aus: od te ee ob annual problem. : sible from the carcass, Set the * Dear ers: That let-\true-- When a card is sent by hus- ; |meat aside, then clean the car- ter signed "Outspoken" was the laughs with poke Cry, -- ae band and wife, the person who St Christo her's CPTA Hears lcass of any stuffing. Break the most vicious thing I have ever|streak your makeup." ~--Con a ¢ writes the card follows the nor- eo Pp. |turkey up and place the pieces, em Hy a oe ter wed elt <Aee Lande! 'Bares mal spuriesy of signing his or : o- along with any skin left, in a said; s 'vi si er name last. However, if the , h large pot. Cover with four stop telling us wives to thank how I solved the ba ys -- children's names are to be add- Psychiatrist On Mental Healt quarts of water, Add one or God our husbands are still alive yagi gpg Acid a ed, father signs first, followed itwo onions cut in half, the end topick up the phone and og ik as =e o tal re . by mother and then the chil-| St. Christopher's CPTA meting by keeping strong and/leaves or top from a stalk of invite a widow to a party." Her afi igs ST heh sodas ith " ; dren write their names, begin-|recently in. the school audi-|healthy," he said. lcelery, one or two carrots cut closing blast was this: "If you ig ad tg t _ sia up ae the ning with the eldest down to the|torium for its December meet-; Sometimes parents were in-|in quarters, two bay leaves, one husbandless females would be 4 a ts ' io free them ' sold youngest. It is quite correct toling. Mrs, W. A, Ottenbrite pre-|clined to protect their children|tablespoon of mixed pickling Jess self-pitying and not quite ur so Bhs RAT ian ee substitute 'and the family' or|sided. The membership report|from al! problems and hard-|spice, and salt and pepper to 0 boring perhaps you wouldn tieveryeling ane ter town. 'and the children' for the actual|was given by Mrs. J.ames|ships and make the child overly|taste. be so lonely. For 20 years I have told ev- names, or, if you wish, you may|Sarnovsky. ' |comfortable. This was a grave! Bring the water to a quick 'According to the insurance|eryone that my husband is sign the card 'From the John) 'The Holy Name Society was|iniustice to the child, who must joi), then simmer for. two hours companies, more and 'more|"'permane ntly stationed else- Doe's'. thanked by Mrs. Ottenbrite for|learn to meet challenges and/skim off any fat, strain to re- women are outliving their hus- where. eS rg was Business cards, when sent to|its efforts in erecting a skating endure misfortunes without £0-\move the bones, anc bring * bands. yi can promise "Out- ales pe y station in GOLDEN JUBILEE Chap- Starr, honorary vice-regent, a business acquaintance not/rink at the school. ing to pieces, liquid to a boil again. Once spoken" that if the shoe is ever|ceme' ery.) ter IODE bestowed further left, and Mrs, T. K. Creigh- THE STARS SAY known 0 your husband (Or! Mrs. Ottenbrite reminded the| DF- Kaczanowski covered|boiling point. is reached, add on the other foot it will not) I am invited everywhere be-) honors ;on its honorary ton, honorary regent, re- |wife) should be signed by the| eee (many other subject matters|noodies or rice to suit and feel very good.--Voice of Ex-)cause no one considers me a) regent and honorary vice- ceive their honorary life- By ESTRELLITA jsender alone. But if the reci- membership that January 9th is) .Wcn as a sense 'of belonging, |suit and cook until done, Add lence jthreat.--G. W. regent at its recent dinner membership pins from the pient is a social acquaintance the feast of the Holy Family|independence, self-esteem, rec: turkey pieces. Adjust seasoning. ANN LANDEKS @ cg veammemet i; ror Signing - FAY eo ¢. Turkey "Brot Christmas Cards (Li) let wind Cones eet oe | a meeting, Mrs. Michael regent, Mrs. John Vivash. |FOR TOMORROW as well, or is really a friend|and recommended that families|ognition and affection. He kept|Serye it hot. SsDear Ann Landers: '"'Out-| Dear Ann Landers: Can a Good planetary influences}whom you will probably intro-|go to Mass and Communion to-|the _membership's undivided! spoken" is right. Every word of|widow say just a few words to) ] bil Ch IODE continue. This will be an excel-iduce to your spouse at some| attention throughout his inter- j her letter is true. I know be-|"Outspoken'? en ju lee apter lent period in which to complete) time, then both names may be| Bother ap. oes SEneey esting talk which was followed) | HOUSEHOLD cep cae . bgt ~ to| If you and thousands of other| long-pending projects; | also tOlused. In this case you must de- The books purchased by the/hy question and answer| Six of eight strands of elastic learn the hard way that even| married women only knew how| hi start new ventures. Good as-|cide whether to address the/PTA for classroom libraries|period. Mr. V. Ruttan, the sixth/thread, run one at a time your dearest friends will drop/many of your husbands made| Present Honorary Members IPS | pects encourage personal rela-|card to the man and his wife,|were on display and it was an-jgrade teacher, thanked Dr. through the inside of stretched- you after a while. A husband: /passes at us, you'd have eaten tionships and stimulate com-lwhom you may not know. If/noynced that they would be|Saczanowski. The evening was|.+ cuffs of a sweater, will Jess woman is a social liability. /that letter instead of mailing it A highlight of the Golden Jubi-jagain this year and a request munications generally. }both names are included, it is). ¢ Christ ti M concluded with delicious re-|CU' SUNS 4 be pti Noe a thorn in the/to Ann Landers. liee Chapter, IODE December|for used clothing to be included|;or gy BIRTHDAY |preferable to send the card to|®'Ve" ® nristmas time. Mrs.|rreshments served by the execu-| bring them bac' into shape. Bide of the hostess. | I was 32 when I lost my won-jdinner - meeting held at the|with the hamper was made. The : ' __ |the recipient's horhe, rather L. Malone won the senior class} tive, Same goes for necklines, too. * When my husband died my) 4.4) husband. Within weeks of|Oshawa Golf Club was the pres-|members were very generous in If tomorrow is your birthday, | than to his office. lcount. Miss Ferris won the jun-|sm mace eee ee home was filled with relatives] si "entation of. IODE badges toloffering to supply all the articles|your chart shows many excel! 1, sqaressing envelopes, iftlor clase count. | jthe funeral I received three Rs ; : -- s which, rightly used ' end friends. I had to borrow} \Mrs 9 Mrs.| lent traits which, rightly us pi | 2 : | ge ree Mrs. T. K. Creighton and Mrs.|asked for. Christmas parcels of : lt} vard ig intended for th - tati rae made 'chairs from the neighbors. It\poorly disguised Propositions} yy Starr who were made hon-|books and candy have been sent| Ca" help you far along the path) s oe Steiiat be th Bota " ais Bon anal lasted three weeks. Two months/from the husbands of my clos-|orary life members. of the Chap-|to the chapter's adopted schools|t® happiness and success. You|whole family, it is proper to| Sed wyavena N i ih ' . N we e Ni later I called the telephone|..¢ friends and two out and out|ter. Mrs. Creighton and Mrs.lat Georgina Island and Me-jhave a fine mind, are extremely) write Mr, and "Mis. Jolin Doe|the Reverend Noroert ignac company to see if my phone far-sighted and endowed with\and Family on the envelope|for their assistance and guid- ' jeve i ,| Star v rve he Chap-|Karrow, Ontar 0 with the ; was out of order. I couldn't be-|Pitches. Believe it or not, my |/Star tare See mel chap Kart owe waste slong h great tenacity of purpose--even|and a personal message to the|ance through the past year. SUZANNE Hair Styling lieve that not a single person/sister's husband even offered OlRegent for fifteen year "Nominations chairman, Mrs.|in the face of obstacles. These| family on the card is quite cor- Mrs. George Dignem intro 5 John St. West and Simcoe South would have tried to call me in|/"help me get over my heart-| 4 punch bow! and social hour|W. D. Burns, requested that alijlast two traits, especially will rect and in keeping with the |duced the guest speaker, Dr.| five days. ? lache by bringing 'a new inter-jin the lounge preceded a deli-/nominations be in her hands by|be the true springboard to the|spirit of the season. Godfryd Kaczanowski, psychia-| * In India Hindu widows used|..+» t> my shattered life." pee dinner served in the dining|the New Year as the annual|Successes promised for you dur-| It is quite acceptable to use|trist at the Ontario Hospital in| to throw themselves -on the| 25 : room. The tables were gaily|meeting and election of officers|ing the next 14 months. You|colored inks when signing cards|Whitby. His topic was "How to) Madame Suzanne Lemieux, owner, cord- burning pyres at their husbands'| So my advice to you smug/decorated in the Christmas mo-|would be held at the January/have some excellent job and fi-|and this adds a festive touch,|prevent the emotionally dis-| ially invites you to consult her on all funerals. It sounds grotesque; women who feel inclined to toss|tif and added to the happy mood|meeting at the home of Mrs.|hancial periods indieated during/and the return address may be|turbed child : your hair care, 15 years of experience in but perhaps they knew what us @ crumb now and then is\of the members and guests pres-|L. R. Sawyer, King street east that forthcoming cycle, with) printed, written or address) Dr, Kaczanowski stated that) Monfrec!. Parmienent end Color Teche they were doing. Most widows! this: "save it. Some of us couldjent. Head table guests included) Mrs. Mitchell brought greet-|¢ MP hasis on financial gain|stickers pasted on the back ofjone out of ten to twelve chil-| are as good as dead the day|set the whole loaf." Mrs. J. A. Mitchell and Mrs.jings to the members from the within the next week; during|the envelope. But envelopes|dren now attending school will they wat oy A La RO ------|Wallace Butler of the Prince|Prince Phillip Chapter and Mrs.|'#¢ ee Pcie Migr Se rok -- be addressed by|need gi bey Ped mg bear ter an th Good Reason : Phillip Chapter, Mrs. Creighton|Creighton and Mrs. Starr spoke/@ry, te firs ays of Febru-| typewriter. time in the future. "In order to} HAIR HANGS HIGH land Mrs Starr briefly to the members. Prhe| ary, early July, mid - August} 'The best rule of thumb is to|attain mental health. -- rules! -- epi Dear Ann Landers: "Outspo-| Each hair of circus performer; following the toast to the|Regent thanked Mrs. E. R |(really outstanding!) next Sep-|follow your own good judge-/of hygiene must be followed and and make -- is rg My husband's Chrys Holt supports two ounces/Queen and dessert and coffee.a|Munday for arranging the -- October and January,|ment when deciding how to ad-|the, --_ gee "= icine arrangements for your leath made a woman out of me.| : rei |short business meeting was heidiner and wished everyone a i. \dress and sign your ¢ards, Con-|!e at is physical, spiritual) ; I never realized what a clinging of bar 1st poune Wea Ot ~ y the Regent, Mrs. J. A. happy Christmas and New Year| Where business and career|sider your Cehationsae. wheth-|and psychological, Our affluent| Christmas Perm. vine I was until I became aj'" ___|Vivash. It was announced that/A game of court whist and the| matters are concerned, look for-|er business or social, with each|society is offen blamed for) widow. When I was 43 I learned) la Christmas hamper would be|members exchanging {fifts|ward to good chances of prog-|name on your list. This will dic-|mental health problems that to drive. I enrolled in secretar-| ARTISTS PAID TRIBUTE [made up for a needy family!brought the evening to a close./ress before this month has|tate the type and manner of exist today. Perhaps the forms) HAIR jal school and got myself a| When Brigitte Bardot was)-------------- - ended; also during the latter|signature. But keep in mind|of danger have changed but the/ STYLING splendid job. Nobody has 10) timing Viva Maria in Mexico,} jhalf of January, throughout/that, however you. sign your tensions and fears have always) I Ee, cs tet tae tes | i inti d T k R 1 |May, August, September and/card, it is eflection of your-|been there. The answer then is} : have more than I can handle.|She svas given 18 paintings of Creame ur ey e€cipe ite Are Mall of eceealagr self. -- to build a resistance to stress| ° 5 John St, W. and Simcoe South I hate to be corny, Ann, but it's|herself by Mexican artists. | business proposition, well-han- - -- -------- jand hating much the are id For Appointment Call 725-4541 a jdied in April should work out}, ar-bless : . we bui a resistance to is-| =|Solves Leftover Problem ied in Apr thguld, work Ou star-blessed during the coming| ease' atiacking our physical be eee A : : : jtary.matters: Do be conserva-| in mid-January, early April and Christmas Turkey is always \% cup ripe olives, sliced tive during late February and early May. The aforementioned delicious, but how to serve the| %4 cup chopped almonds |throughout March and early! "affairs" 'will probably be on leftover portion can be a prob-| ¥% teaspoon paprika |April, when you may be/the light side, but will be very lem. Home economists at] Dissolve bouillon cube in|tempted to accept some high-|pleasant. However, a romance Macdonald Institute, Guelph,|mushroom liquid and water|Sounding proposition which)in late August could be more have a solution with "Cream-|over medium heat. Then add|Ccould, in the long run, prove|serious and, if you are single another ed Turkey Over Rice." Deli-| mili. Melt 3 tablespoons of|extremely risky. And do avoid/ could lead to marriage. Stars eately seasoned, this recipe|butter in the top of a double|extravagance next November, | indicate that you may take sev- not only solves a problem but/pojler, Add flour and stir over|vhen you may be faced with) eral short trips during the com- also provides a satisfying dish|jow heat until blended. Add|Some unexpected expenses. ling year, but these will prob- for any dinner during the holi-/pouilion mixture. Cook, stir-| Your personal life will also bej ably be of the business variety. days. ring constantly, until thicken-|z - pene a CREAMED TURKEY OVER ed. Place over hot water. Add RICE seapentegs Oe, Serer. Meee FUN FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY 1 : ' |Meanwhile, brown mushrooms) 1 chicken bouillon cube jin remaining 1 tablespoon of; cup liquid drained from | putter. Add to creamed turkey. | canned mushrooms and {dq olives and almonds just water |before serving. Serve over rice. elu ANEW Admiral cup flour | HOUSEHOLD HINT 4 A % teaspoon salt | Save the lace or eyelet from PERSONAL teaspoon pepper the bottom of worn-out slips 1" teaspoon grated onion and add it to the bottom of cups diced, cooked turkey|Daughter's slips when they be- " can mushrooms, drained 'come too short. ' PORTABLE : ae OTHER PORTABLES ALSO-ON: DISPLAY nician, does- her aerialist act. 'Wee SPACE - AGE INFLUENCE Straight from the space is machine-washable and age comes this costume de- requires no more than signed for winter -- tennis touch - up ironing. White enthusiasts. A suspender tights and a green turtle- jumper 'and helmet are neck shirt complete the made of warm white poly- striking outfit. ester and cotton flannel that By Tracy Adrian Be "Santa" To Yourself | ( i | | 3 ie Admirel-- MODEL P-1104 11" PORTABLE Your personal sized, na | y] 4 95 | Christmas is the ideal portable TV that "Goes with You', . ! RADNOR SNAP time to give him the gift that will mean so much, JUST IN TIME FOR CHRISTMAS !. -- CLEARANCE OF 23" ff / F JUST. IN TIME FOR CHRIST CLEARANC to one that he'll wear so long. Choose his favourite style in Full One-Yeor Parts and Service Warranty, OPEN DAILY 'TIL 9:00 P.M. Ye : : | NOW 'TIL CHRISTMAS perfect fitting Arrow shirts. Gat of cnr lend cllaonet he llc adie en: _| | Saturday 'tit-6 P.M; sy Button-downs, tabs or regular collars, right for gay party time, this one in rich dark otter / ew es Luxury cottons or easy care bienasd r type fabric and also in "Borg™. Brown, " | | s G cuitki, 628 YOUR COLOR TY STORE fabrics. Pick several. He'll love you for it. FLOORS | fe wemnocer ail] PARKWAY [II Tg 80 SIMCOE ST. N. TELEVISION Jeb: 2 ig OPEN A CHARGE ACCOUNT 728-6218 728.6218 -S rid tone Shnew 186 3 te eee No Money Down -- No Carrying SHOPPING CENTRE Se hes 918 SIMCOE ST..N. PH. 72 Charges. Bork: Sales Open. Kvaryc Night. Until .@: PM Pen Arey