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20 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, November 17, 1965 COLORFUL A favorite with high school and college. students is this paisley jacquard pullover drenched in vivid pinks. De- signed to brighten the dull- est day, its hem, sleeves and tiny turtle neck are PULLOVER ribbed in solid pink. The little topper is pictured with stretch pants, but it goes equally well with contrast- ed or matching skirts. --By Tracy Adrian ANN LANDERS Husband's Family Longs For Visitors Dear Ann Landers; We havejin a beautiful home, not seen my husband's family for years. His mother is domi- neering and tyrannical, Her chil- dren ..ave ulcers and they're) nervous or divorced, My husband was lucky. He broke away at 18 and has not considered himself part of the family since. We have made at- tempts at limited contact but it has always ended in a fight, so we gave up. erying around Florida because nobody visits them. My husband has begun to talk about the) early memories, which ' were good. He says he prishes things| jshe will not be fooled into think-|leaves ing that organdy place mats|dle him soundly. _ could have been different. A question has been raised about whether we should attend the guneral when the time comes. I say "No!" He feels he should go. Isn't this the height of hypocrisy? Your opinion is wanted.--Columbus Couple Dear Couple: When you die, Madame, I suggest that you leave your remains to a medi- cal school. It would be interest- jyesterday that her dad is a ing to find out what you've been using for a heart. If you don't feel like going to the funeral when your in-laws pass on, stay home but please don't add to your husband's guilt by talking him out of|pened. We fell for each other. going. I very much hope he goes to visit his parents while he can still see them alive. Without you they'll probably get along just dandy. Dear Ann Landers: spade a spade, sp please clean up the language and print this letter. I divorced my husband six years ago because he had the morals of an alley cat. Our daughter was eight years old Last year he married a society dame who is filthy rich. She too was divorced and had two chil dren-by -her-former- marriage Our daughter spends every | I call a} Valentine Dear Val: Put that show on \the road, So you are lonesome? What have maid service and they eat on a mahogany table with r-) |gandy place mats. \ ja lot wrong with me and our) japartment, She says dad's place) is more her style, Also the food) over there is better, She told me} wonderful man and I made al mistake when I divorced him. | a 14-year-old daughter that her dad was a rat?--Eight Ball any such ting. You try to give) her a decent set of values sohim, for thirty minutes, and maid service happy home. If you give your daughter love} and a feeling of personal worth you need not worry about losing out. | insures al, Dear Ann Landers: Four years ago I became friendly with the real estate man (mar- ried) who sold us our home. He) kept coming by the house sev- eral times a week to make sure the roof was in good shape, the furnace was okay and like that. Well, Ann, the inevitable hap- Five months ago my husband died. I know I should stop see- ing this married man but I'm so depressed I can't make the break. Last night I looked at his bill- fold which was on the dresser. When I saw the picture of his wife and four children I felt like a worm, But what is a lonely widow to do? Please. Tell me.-- was your excuse for the four years that your husband pas alive?-The-short-answer to your i= question, "What is a_ lonely riday and Saturday with her|widow to do?" goes like this: father and his family, They liveiStraighten up and fly right Christmas FOR YOUR HOME From CHOOSE FROM LARGEST Selection of "MILIUM" INSULATED Embodies attractive decorative appearance; yet functions! by keeping out enid In winter; hot sun in summer. DRAPES Patterns and fabrics /f% ' seator every decor; bud- | For Every Budget when you want something from the house. you ever make Ginger do any- thing?"' the older, seven and 10 years of age. dren (boy, six; girl, four). Both 'of them usually are happy and willing to do any task that w ask them to do. ° this with his father even more| so than with me. overlap. Lately my daughter has found|short. win escape. Don't try to con- jis not imposed on. Prove it by I don't like the way things are|what happens during the next Now his parents are old and|heading. How does a mother tel]/month or so. | lhis job, a good penalty is to re-| Dear Eight: You don't tell her| quire him to sit unamused, do-/ ng nothing, where you can see CHILD GUIDANCE Regular Jobs For Older Boys Can Develop More Security By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD Try, you and Dad, to find Vou are husv in the kitchen|ways to help that older boy feel the basement or another part of "Charles, get... for me," you say. As he goes, he whines, '"'Why don't more worthwhile in the family. Dad might be able to do most go andlin this direction, Perhaps the boy, six and the girl, four, play together a good deal and have their own inner circle apart from the boy, Chances are that Charles is|seyen. These two younger ones A mother writes: probably between/hardly can be good playmates lconstantly, Each needs some playmates outside the family. "We have two smaller chil-|gq does the eldest boy. "However, our son, seven, al- ways complains and says, 'Why do I have to do this?' He does) I have been trying to correct him in this way: there are Help each child to attract to your home some playmates of his own age. Then you can study him and guide him in be- coming a good. playmate. If the eldest boy can read often to the sister. His doing so should cultivate a closer bond between these two and in- crease self-regard in the eldest. many things they (the children)|paRENTs' QUESTIONS work at together, (pulling) weeds in the garden, picking sticks up in our huge yard,| picking up toys, etc.). EXCUSE TYKES finish the job by himself. "T would appreciate any sug-'and encourage, him to read for at least half an) hour daily, provided his school two assignments were not exces-| gestions." My reply in part: Just because your younger children are so co-op-|\S!V@- erative they get strong approval |~ from you parents, while the eld- est son often gets disapproval. | Set a few regular chores for eight, Inever read anything in addition \to his school assignment, What) jwould you do? Whenever he complains, I ex-| A. I would make available/ cuse the other two and he must! considerable reading matter easy enough for him to read) Q. Suppose you had a child, 11 or 12, who almost even require, SISTER JUST WALKED IN PRESTON, Ont. (CP) -- A each of the older boys. Try to family of sisters, one from find one that the older can do Aberdeen, Scotland, was re- with excellence. If either has a chore both dislike, see that they UN! ' alternate for periods of a week aration. Mrs. Marguerite. Gam- or so. Try not to have their jobs' mack arrived to visit her sister, Mrs. Gertrude Hockley. The re- nited here after a 55-year sep- It would be better not to as- union was in full swing when ™ \sign jobs to the youngest, just show strong approval when she ano' jvolunteers. When there are ir- son of Kincardine, Ont., walked the kids|\regular jobs like pulling weeds,|i, the: door. The three last saw limit the time each of the older) children is expected to help. | ther sister, Mrs. Elsie Jack- ch other in 1910. [THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW If you can control dsappoint-|be excellent for making new so- meni and dismay when unex-|cial contacts. pected changes of plan occur, you should have a highly satis-| against factory day. Avoid tendencies towar d aggressiveness and nin tin ante GomUNEETNg. your horoscope indicates that) mantic developments during you should make excellent|the next two weeks, in Janu- headway in job matters duringjary, May, late June and late the coming year; gratifying monetary gains-- especially between now and the end of March, in early July,|confident that he will succeed October.|in attaining his goals, which are/#S the target for a circus knife-| FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, |8°C5- September and late Some valuable contacts which'usually lofty. you could make f you nappen to travel in January, July or September could prove profit- able in a business way later in the year. The same months will You may have to guard emotional stress for brief periods in early January and mid-July, but this you can do if you will reiax and "'couni OTTAWA Consumers Assoc. Asks Restrictions On Cotton Bags (CP) -- The Con-\; sumers Association of Canada reported Tuesday that the fed- eral food and drug directorate! \ flour packaging. were re-using cotton ba mas taken action to stop the use;gating them. As @ result, mere of unsanitary cotton bags in|were cases in which consumers The association complained to the directorate recently that|torate has warned mill oper- some flour mills and bakeries|ators and plans inspections to flour without cleaning and fumi-ierly cleaned. found the flour infested by bugs. A statement said the direc- gs forjensure that flour bags are prop- your blessings," as the saying You have no cause for anxiety. Look for interesting ro- also some|July. employment downed by adversity, always throwing act. SEEK STEELY GIRL BECKENHAM, England (CP) Difficulty in finding the right girl for the job forced a Kent agency to offer A child born on this day will|2,000 yearly with free travel be a natural enthusiast--never around Europe. 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