perp ney: pee eas a REBT RSET SL ANN LANDERS End With Two Dear Ann Landers: I was struck by the letter from the woman whose husband had life- like dreams and limped around all day after dreaming he had injured his foot. To those who haven't had first-hand experi- ence the letter probably sounded funny. But it isn't funny, Ann. My father had life-like dreams and for years mother put up with a series of strange experiences which resulted in many sleep- less nights. : One night Dad dreamed he was in a supermarket. He got ™ \out of bed, grabbed the chair mceerat TIERED EVENING GOWN From Monte-Sano and Pruzan comes an unusual and beautiful evening dress fashioned of brown silk matelasse. Its bodice is blouson and has a low scoop neckline. The tunic-type skirt is gathered from the waist and is ankle-length and triple-tiered. --By Tracy Adrian Special Women's Supplement The Oshawa Times is preparing to publish a special supplement later this month publicizing the activities of women's service organizations. Space will be available in the edition for organizations wishing to submit items naming their executive members and noting their main projects. Such articles should be no more than 200 words in length. It is preferable that the items be typewritten. Those which are not should be legibly written on one side only of the paper. Deadline for those organizations interested in submit- ting reports is noon Saturda lication it is asked that the the Nov. 13 deadline adhered y, Nov. 13. To facilitate pub- summaries be kept brief and to by all organizations. by the wooden arms, pushed it around the room, collected the alarm clock, books and maga- zines from the bedside table and the framed pictures from the dresser. He even took money from his wallet to pay for the '"'purchases." Dad has kicked himself out of bed playing football and pulled down the drapes while blocking a pass. Once he injured his hand striking an imaginary in- truder. (He hit the wall.) The day he hit mother was the \day she ordered twin beds. |Strangely enough he hasn't done much real-life dreaming since. Maybe this could be the solution for the wife who wrote to you. |Please pass it on.--LIZ. Dear Liz: The experts tell us artner. fact \beds helped solve your mother's |problem supports this theory. \Consider the word passed--and |T hope it helps. Dear Ann Landers: What do you think of a boss's wife who volunteers to do club work and then hands the job ovet to her husband's secretary? I have served on numerous committees as a volunteer. I've written hundreds of letters on CHILD GUIDANCE Growth, Mentally and Morally , Depends on Family Relations By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD It's wonderful to be able to win the happy co-operation of the youngster under five or six. It enables the child and his par- ents to enjoy one another. With such family relationships this child may seem to develop well mentally and morally. He may} and hard to be comfortable wit his schoolmates. In today world when so many mothers rk, a little child with ex- periences like his may not have good preparation to be happy if his mother works, whether he is four or 14. | work, A better program for th By ELEANOR ROSS The consumer, who demands rniture that encompasses |beauty, greater comfort and |durability, is responsible for the lincreasing use of steel in this ifield. Classic simplicity of de-| sign underlines the increasing popularity of contemporary steel) furniture. It is interesting to think back and realize how the timeless elegance of steel was used in buildings and~ furnishings by western European architects of e|the 1920s and 1930s, who sought h 's Classic Simplicity Contemporary Steel Popularity Life-like Dreams A my Own typewriter, and used my own stationery and stamps. I've made dozens of telephone calls on my own time because I wanted to make a personal contribution to the causes I be- lieve in. Don't you feel it is fraudulent to accept a job and then turn it over to someone else?--Horse BEHIND THE SCENE Dear Horse: Are you doing Madam's club work on your boss's time? If so, (and nothing in your letter indicates other- wise) your complaint is not justifiable. Mrs. Doe makes a contribution by volunteering to do a job even though her hus- band is paying to get it done. Obviously, Mrs. Doe will not experience the satisfaction of doing it herself but presumably this does not matter to her. Dear Ann Landers: I am 20 years old, a high school grad- uate and I have one more year jof navy duty. I went steady before I joined up. Mae and I were both in high school. She told me i was the first boy she had ever been intimate with but I never be- lieved her. I haven't seen Mae for over a year. She didn't write for a long time, then six weeks ago II got eight letters from her all at once. She is pregnant and wants me to marry her by mail that dreams are often triggered|so the baby will have a name.| : by a noise or because one per-|This baby can't be mine and} To Be Published In November son's sleep is disturbed by his|we both know it. Mae says since/Ver. p The that twin|I am the guy who started her) A child born on t She|be self-confident and ambitious, on sex I owe her marriage. says we can get divorced later if I want to. My folks know about this andiness. , have told me to make my own ldecision. I need your help-- ISAILOR AT SEA IN MORE |WAYS THAN ONE Dear Sailor: You need this marriage like you need a hole lin your hull. The' word from here is no, no, no! Underlines or channels, all either surface- finished or chrome-plated. ADD STEEL All are still in favor, but stainless steel has since been added and has become exceed- ingly popular. Still one of the most renowned and prized steel furniture pieces is the Barcelona chair, designed by Mies van der Rohe in 1929. Regarded as a classic of the 20th century, it came out with chromium-plated steel bar legs. Produced even now and in stain- less steel, it is still sellire well THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Go ahead with postponed projects now -- whether of a business or personal nature-- especially if your plans involve those in partnership with you. Pian't. sa_averhnard in. financial commitments, however. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, you should find the year ahead marked by fine progress along both job and financial lines.As of last week, you entered an excellent five - month cycle where monetary matters are concerned and other good pe- riods are star-promised in early July, September and late Oc- tober. Despite good planetary influences. governing these in- terests, however, it will be im- portant that you avoid extrava- gance and speculation -- espe- cially during the first half of April, in mid-May and early June--or you could offset them. Best periods for occupational gain: Late December, January, late April and next October, Socially, the period between now and the end of January should prove highly stimulat- ing; also, next July, September and October. During these cy- cles you should find some good opportunities to make new friends and business contacts. 'Romance and domestic con- cerns will be under good as- pects for most of the coming year, with emphasis on senti- mental interests during the cur- late June and late July. Do not | | | | take September or October "crushes" too seriously, how- his day will but may have to curb ten- dencies toward over-aggressive- rent month, in January, May,} pag CARACAS (AP)--Venezuelan husbands who kill two-timing wives would get a legal break lunder a bill approved by the sanate They no longer would be charged with homicide, like 280 men whose cases are pending. Conviction might mean only six months in jail instead of the 30 years that is the maximum un- der present law. Now Venezuelan women are demanding equal shooting "Tf they can shoot us in an act of adultery and go almost unpunished by law, why can't we do the same?" a woman lawyer, Rosa Brunstein, indig- nantly asked the lawmakers. The bill still is subject to ap- proval by the Chamber of Dep- uties. Perhaps the chamber will pass it, but the pressure of women's groups suggests it may be pigeonholed. As drawn up in the senate, the bill says: "He will not be guilty of homicide or injury, who, finding his wife in the actual act of adultery, kills or injures her or her accomplice or both. Sen- tence in this case would be no more than three years and not less than six months." APPLIES TO RELATIVES or other male relative who, in his own home, finds a woman 'Tor f 660.000 new jobs REMOVED © PERMANENTLY Superfluous Hair By Electrolysis tronic Shortwave method. Revealin: your true self, free of worry and embarrasment -- Over 15 years' experience. MARIE MURDUFF Will be in Oshawa at the Genosha Hotel Nov. 8, 9, 10 PHONE 723-4641 and the newest [| fastest selek- through Autopact GIRLS! The same applies to a brother | EOE TEES Women Want Equal Rights To Kill Two-Timing Husbands in sexual intercourse with a man. "This amounts to legalizing the death penalty in sete "ge. the -o¢ other woman lawyer, Omana. A prominent woman politician vowed to mobilize her party's "female masses in defence of the rights of women which this government has taken away." A woman deputy of the Dem- ocratic Popular Front, Petra de Aranguren, said, "this law is a violation of our rights." Lawyer Brunstein said the easiest solution is divorce. She said divorces would even reduce the conceivable number of mur- ders should women be given the right to avenge the family honor with a .45. "The law always condemns women, but all men are adul- terers," she said: Miss Haydee Rangel, a law student, said: "What happens is that in the case of women adul- tery has more serious reper- cussions because of the possi- bility of pregnancy." And that is the whole point, according to Senator Mejias Nee en ee en a ia iat en el a le ie ad Salvatierra of the government Democratic Action Party, The senator argued that in the case of adultery by a woman her husband's paternity is al- ways in jeopardy. "Besides," he said, "one must|" jalwavs remember that man ts! rz. the head of the family and when |convc he commits adul he usually) ~ does it outside rt house and always in circumstances which are not offensive to conjugal and social relationship whereas when a woman commits adul- tery she jeopardizes paternity and relaxes moral authority," FARM RANKS HIGH Agriculture is Ontario's larg- est primary industry. "OW YOUNG AGES... You con see the prettiest and most practical fashions for boys end girls . . «+ Infants to size 14, LAY-AWAY for CHRISTMAS EARLY + «« The Best Costs Less et... vig OSHAWA SHOPPING ulNicMalclelg TAKE A WORLD FAMOUS \. WALTER THORNTON COURSE RIGHT HERE IN OSHAWA NO AGE LIMIT learn speech well, learn to think and create. He may also learn te escape many known dangers, and to respect the rights and possessions of others in the little child is to learn early tojunencumbered shapes and be more self-reliant physically|forms in keeping with the and emotionally. To this end, hejemerging type of modern archi- needs to learn from the time|tecture and new technology. he begins to creep and toddle| Like the older designs, the to respect the meaning of "'no"|new ones are based on the rarely heard and not repeated|Physical properties of steel-- in the same situation. He needs|Weldability as Well as tensile ; ° i also to learn as early as ane and compressive strength--that|°2US° the design requires im ! eccable handcraftsmanship i sible to amuse himself and to|contribute to strong, sturdy and, der ta prodiiee Seradexioally. rts fun with other children|@bove all, elegantly scaled fur-), 1, -hine-made appearance. of his age. Of course, he needs niture. : to have a mother who has all) The types of steel used in the Tsu Ay te accel the patient lovely ways we havejearlier European furniture de-|p, | eue rs cantilevered. chro- already noted. jsign were predominantly round | miu eee m-plated steel side chair has jor square tubing, bars, angles,!heen in continuous production : since he designed it in 1928. what she wants him not to do|With a cane back and seat, it is in her presence. She will limit | and has done much to establish welded, polished steel frames as the epitome of modern furni- ture design. The Bacelona chair, prob- ably the most expensive on the market, costs about $900 be- Florida sun, anyone? This winter from Toronte Only Air C d flies th |the prototype of thousands of| eo i ' jher -- to ah young-|variations seen throughout the! sifiihis For appointment Call: aie tice in wholesome ways in her|SteT under four or five to the} world. ' 7 absence. No mother should hope|'°™ things he must not do. Other developments in steel] ay sent y. | An occasional mother who spends all the day with the youngster is so winsome, lovely, and patient as to guide the. youngster pleasantly with rarely uttering "no" or "don't" to him. She molds his behavior as.a potter molds with clay. A mother may not see the need to get him with other chil- dren of his age and may be glad;PLAN FOR FUTURE that they are not around. She| But the youngster also needs may only dread the day when |to learn in her presence to re- he will learn the ways of these'spect the little word "no" other children. She shows him how to have) fun with his playthings andi . supplies him with those he en-|to bring up a young child with ' 4 joys. He likes to talk with her.}out ever saying "no"' to him A age ae abou She listens to him as he talks. and without enforcing this little|ready dad or some other per-|2! hee -- ayy ag bapa mi word wi Physical pain. |son must go searching over the of ler quiet tones. She answers) With this meaning established|neighborhood for our son, six.| all Ms questions kindiy. jearly, she can hope to win his|What do you advise? 4 |co-operation by making attrac-| A. Why let that lad be such gg: a Se lg ong will look|"1¥@ t© him the many things sheja nuisance? Try to have the at pictures for a few. moments wishes him to do. She will care-jevening meal at a regular time at a stretch, she reads to him|tully draw the line between|and hold him responsible for and keeps on doing so more and| What she wants him to do andibeing in the house then . 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