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90 se te AS el. i, sie lst sith ln Aggie dee ga A Be I TIE I Me eS with difficulty, your first aim should be to find ways of help- CHILD GUIDANCE Tua Seiad st a A Time To Take Stock a atone ay requ Of Your Child In School 16 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Seturdey, November 6, 1965 Unless you are able to be very calm and patient as you yourself try to help this poor worrles,|reader, you should look for a - Bitterness And Hate Aili etn RAE ation z 8 : Hurt Only Yourself Ann Landers: I am a 13 who has a seven-year-old r. Laura is spoiled rotten. Tyhave orders not to lay a hand on. because I am older and . But she can kick and me whenever she feels pretty often. has learned a stunt to trouble. When she is e she begins to bawl so the people in the jock can hear. My dad ; "What did you Laura?" When I say ." Laura says, "That's e hit me." Then I get to do eight household and all Laura has to do is g a dust rag over a couple tables. When I complain m says, "She's just a little 1," but when I don't want to take her to the movies on Sat- urday afternoon (I go with my friends), Mom says, 'Take her. Slie's a young lady." It will be four years and tt months until I get out of house and go to college, if TAast that long. Tell me what t6. do until then.--In Misery Dear .In: .Little sisters and brothers can be a joy or a pain in the neck, depending on how their parents raise them. Big kids should not hit little ones and little kids should not iit big ones, either. Older chil- dren should do more work but they should also have extra privileges. "It is wrong to saddle a 13- year-old girl with a seven-year- old sister on a Saturday after- noon. It is also wrong to reward a.child for tattling on a brother or sister. The best system is for parents to insist that their kids work out their problems inde- pendently and refuse to act as Teferees. "Dear Ann Landers: I just read the letter from the mother Bip =299 en ee F 4 293 53 night, He kept telling me Jean- ette was a wonderful person and he loved her three children as if they were his own. Well, I refused to even meet her. My son married Jeanette when he was 19 (She was 29), Today, five years later, they are the happiest people 1 know. She is better to me than my own daughters. Jeanette tele- phones me every few days and says: "Mother, is there any- thing you need? What can I do for you?" My own daughters call only when they want me to sit with their kids. So please tell that mother to cheer up. Her son's older wife may be the best one in the bunch, Mine is--Had to he Shown ' Dear Shown: You son and Jeanette have beaten the. odds and my hat is off to them. Dear Ann Landers: Our youngster is a victim of hemo- philia. Because of his condition he is often covered with bruises and he appears to have black eyes, Strangers come over and say, "What happened to the child? Was he in an accident?" We don't. feel like discussing his condition with strangers, Fur- thermore we don't want the boy to feel he's abnormal. Yet we must say something. Advise us please. --W. P Dear W. P.: It's always diffi- cult to cope with thoughtless consider work. He may have dropped in his casual remarks in the fam- As he saw your interest in his may have seen some of his re- turned school papers or some special report from school. You at the market, on the street or information about your child at school. Or you may have had a brief conference with his teacher at school, As you and dad take stock you will consider the child's physi- cal and mental health. You note his emotional experiences, how even or explosive they are, should be for the boy. Tell the inquirers the boy has a blood condition. Chop it there. 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MYERS, PhD {whether he has man It may be a good time to take |anxieties, stock of your child in school.|how well he is getting along 1 Yeu aud dad might profitablyiwith. others.in the. family. and the evidence how/with other children outside the your child is doing in his school-|family, ily a great deal of information. |is outdoors during good weather schoolwork he may have tried|s¢t--how "much wholesome rec- to tell you much about it, You|reation he has. may have run across his teacher|#ble family regulations and if at the PTA when you got some|them. If your child has home- fears spare time and how much of it and how much in front of a TV 8hgers; iutor to work with bim daily, or for a reading clinic. Expect to find such « program costly in time and money. No , You note how he spends his|doube you can afford to cut on the family budget elsewhere. Just see what precious stocks you would be investing in. 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