MARYON PEARSON, wife of Prime Minister Lester Pearson ,doesn't like cam- PM's Wife Dislikes Campaigning, spaigns. She feels uncomfort- ablesin crowds where her frankness and wit are often Is Frank, Outspoken Person By STEWART MacLEOD OTTAWA (CP) -- When you ask Maryon Pearson a question she doesn't beat around the bush wondering how a prime minister's wife should reply. She has a disarming tendency to be herself. There is no automatic 'I love it" in reply to questions about what it's like being the wife of the prime minister, Nor are there any "'it's so lovely being here" responses when Mrs. Pearson would rather be some- where else. Her frankness, coupled with a sharp, sometimes tart, wit, has tended to generate some criti- cism among the vote-conscious hierarchy of the Liberal party. And some Opposition strategists fairly glow with glee when Mrs. Pearson says something they consider less than prime minis- terial. In print, Mrs. Pearson's sharp comments appear harsher than of the fun. something, and the girl will say 'just a moment, Mrs. Pearson.' I feel a lot more relaxed when she goes. Shopping has lost most "T'll go into a store, ask for misunderstood but is an avid listener when her husband is speaking. Above, she walks through a crowd with Prime ~~ Gopt--olthe asset 10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesday, October 26, 1965 Minister Pearson during a 1963 election trip in North- ern Ontario. (CP Photo) CHILD GUIDANCE With Younger By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD The eldest of several children may sometimes tease and bully the younger ones and try to avoid chores at home. But at work or play away from his home, or at home when the other children are away, he may excel, be agreeable and | |happy. Often you may have been im- pressed with the desirable ways of any one child while spending some time away from several brothers or sisters. A-mother writes: "My 13-year-old boy has an excess of energy and if not kept busy all the time, he is teasing and picking on his two younger brothers (six and eight) until he has them in tears. "This summer he has been going to work with his father. who owns a car lot, where he waxes and polishes and cleans cars, "Our son goes there four days a week and everything at home goes peaceful during those days. The three days he is at home he just teases and torments his little brothers continuously. WORKS HARD "While at the car lot he works hard and is always looking for Older Boy Has Trouble Brothers However, when you see your son . clearly picking on younger brothers, send him away from them for an hour or two. Be decisive on this matter. Meanwhile, ask yourself if those younger brothers don't annoy him sometimes. See that they don't impose on him or annoy him when his friends come in. Make sure the older boy en- joys sharing in the family con- versation and that you and dad listen to what he says. You par- ents should encourage him in express: his opinions and ideas, and have a share in the everyday program of the family. Your bays' ages are so differ- ent that they can't be good |playmates most of the time. |Aim to help the younger broth- ers to have playmates of their own age and for this oldest boy also to have his normal play- mates. of the Oshawa General Hospi tal, Mrs. Harry Taylor, first vice-president, and Mrs. A. W. Armstrong, chairman-elect of Region 7 of the Women's Hos- pital Auxiliaries, attended the fall regional meeting held in the board room of the Ross Memorial Hospital at Lindsay. Reports on activities, fund raising projects, volunteers, pro- grams and services were read and discussed by the various delegates attending and their ideas on the various subjects his| Were expressed. It was stress- ed that it was more desirious to increase volunteer services than to channel these services completely toward fund rais- ing functions. Also discussed were problems and difficulties of the various auxiliaries and solutions were suggested. The slate of officers for 1965- 6 was presented with Mrs. A. W. Armstrong as chairman; Mrs. Harry Taylor, co-chairman; and Mrs. K. R. Wagg as secre- Mrs. James McCansh, presi- ' MRS. A. W. ARMSTRONG The Oshawa Auxiliary will be the host auxiliary for the next season's meetings. Hospital Auxiliaries Association! SOCIAL NOTICES: Elect Local Women To Executive ENGAGEMENT Mr. and Mrs. Frederick John- ston, Oshawa, wish to announce. the engagement of their daugh- iter, Constance Sandra, to James Arinur Dickinson, "son oi iars and Mrs. Arthur Dickinson, Elora. The wedding is to take , November 12, 1965 at 8.00 p.m. in Northmin- ster United Church, Oshawa. 'FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE Mr. and Mrs, Allen Hill, Beaverton, wish to announce the forthcoming their . Harry J. awa, The ceremony take Place on Saturday, November 20, 1965 at 3.00 p.m. in the United Church, Beaverton, PLAN LOVE FOR DOCTOR LONDON (CP)--The ministry of health plans a "be kind to your doctor" campaign this win- ter to relieve national health service physicians from unne- cessary overwork. Televis« ion and newspaper advertise- ments will try to provide guid- jance for when a house call is lreally necessary. tary-treasurer, all of Oshawa. The Peterborough Civic Auxil-! jary will announce their chair- man at a later date. in high school upon getting a C ona composition is sure it should have been marked A or B. We often agree with her. Are we doing the right thing? A. You may do great harm encouraging your daughter to NEEDS PRIVILEGES this older boy, that you give him some privileges the others are not ready to take. At home this eldest son may |feel that the younger children jdon't do their share of the I can shop incognito." DISLIKES CAMPAIGNS She has also found that some of her: casual friends stopped phoning her when the Pearsons moved into the official prime minister's residence. '"'My close friends haven't changed, course, but others who used to call occasionally now feel that I am too busy. I have to call them." Mrs, Pearson does not like election campaigns, and she was glad that her daughter, Mrs, Walter Hannah of Tor- onto, made some trips with the prime minister during the pres- ig, Bag grog her husband is speaking, and when she utters them in the confines of a small room. The bare quotations don't carry the twinkling eyes and the wry, warm smile that usually accom- pany them. As a result, many of her friends think Maryon Pearson is one of the most misunderstood women in Canada. She has been accused of being "very private' -- although she doesn't quite know herself what that means--of being mysteri- ous, dull and disinterested. Her sense of humor has been de- scribed as overly-caustic, cut- ting and razor-sharp. LAUGHS E/SILY The Canadian .eople gener- ally, says one friend, don't really know Mrs, Pearson, "And| there is no way to get to know her in large crowds where she feels uncomfortable." After seeing and hearing about the "public Mrs. Pear- son," a reporter approached an interview in her hotel suite with consider a ble trepidation. She didn't appear to be an easy per- son to chat with. But the fears proved to be a massive miscon- ception. Maryon Pearson, away from the hub-bub of politics, is a warm, mild - mannered grand- mother whose laughter bubbles out at the slightest provocation. Any tartness in her wit is di- rected at herself, not at others. It her public frankness appears unnecessarily blunt, her conver- sational frankness appears warmly honest. "Do you enjoy the role of a prime minister's wife?" "Yes, I do enjoy many as- pects. But I do miss not having our own things around us. The furniture is all government- owned on Sussex Drive, and even the things in the cottage belong to the government. Our own things are in storage, and I do long to have them around Another thing she dislikes is being recognized everywhere oc lly will whisper to him from behind. She prefers not to be publicly recognized, and elaborate introductions em- barrass her. "She would have every right to complain," her husband has said. "When she married me, she expected a quiet life as the wife of a history teacher--I was her teacher and I think she married me to get through her final year. She did get through that year, but how she got through the last 40 I'll never know." If Mrs. Pearson feels like smoking on the platform, she'll put a cigarette in her black holder; if she feels like pow- dering her nose, she'll do that too. One of her ambitions is to travel through the Greek _Is- lands with her husband, with- out having to worry. about schedules, hats and public ap- pearances, "I'd love to spend a whole month doing that." But travelling for the sake-of travelling doesn't appeal to her. "IT just hate packing and un- packing." Mrs. Pearson loves the week- ends she spends with her hus- band at their Harrington Lake cottage, where she can romp around in slacks and bathing suit, sitting in the sun to read historical novels. She tends to dote over her nine grandchil- dren, and the best weekends for her are when all nine are at the cottage, shut off from the public eye. HOUSEHOLD HINT able at saddlery and tack shops -- is the world's greatest fish scaler. anything." My reply in part: boy feels more worthwhile when /|Penalty for dereliction, he is on that job doing some-/ of e is an avid listener when| A metal curry comb -- avail- | Mr. James Arthur Dickin- son will take as his bride, Miss Constance Sandra Johnston, in a ceremony to be held in Northminster United Church on Novem- ber 20. The bride, a 1965 PLAN NOVEMBER WEDDING thing he likes. He is not worried ie graduate of the 'Toronto General Hospital School of Nursing, is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Frederick Johnston, Oshawa. The pros- pective bridegroom is the son of Mr, and Mrs. Arthur Dickinson, Elora, Ontario. | TORONTO (CP)--A_ merry- go-round model of auxiliary services won a first prize for display for the Oshawa General Hospital Auxiliary Monday at the annual meeting of the Hos- pital Auxiliaries Association of Ontario. Mrs. R. L. R. Mones of Bur- \lington presented second and \third prize in the public rela- jtions categery to the Queen Elizabeth Hospital ~ Auxiliary and St. Joseph's Hospital Auxil- jary, both of Toronto. A cardboard teen-ager in candy-striped uniform won the in-hospital display first prize for |the Ottawa Civic Hospital Alx- jiliary Dufferin Area Hospital Auxiliary, Orangeville, and the Jewish Home for the Aged and Baycrest Hospital, Toronto, took second and third. A glass hospital run by busy model dolls was first prize win- ner in the auxiliary project con- test from St. John's Convales- cent Hospital Auxiliary, Willow- ale. The Georgetown and District Memorial Hospital Auxiliary OGH Women's Auxiliary Display Gains Recognition At Convention won second prize, and in a tie for third prere the Charlotte Eleanor Englehart Hospital Auxiliary, Petrolia and the Jo- seph. Brant Memorial Hospital Auxiliary, Burlington. PRESENT AWARD Mrs. C. W. Sheridan of Ot- tawa presented the award for the photograph contest of the Canadian association to Joseph \Rrant Hospital: | Mrs. W. C. Vaughan of St. then about competing with his younger brothers. At home, of course, it's different. Student Group Apologixes LONDON (AP) -- A student group apologized Monday night for a prank in which five male students raided Princess Anne's school and two of them claimed to have sneaked undetected into her dormitory while she slept. The apology, to Elizabeth Clarke, headmistress of Ben- eden's school, where the 15- year-old princess is a resident- student, came from the Kings- ton and district students' chari- ties committee, They stressed that the students' action was un- authorized. The five students, all in their 20s, who broke into the school during the weekend, declined the use of their names when they related their escapade to the newspapers. They said they pulled the stunt to publicize stu-| dent charity week. 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