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Raa a EN areas eae ob gical gg aN y ol gy * he find many ways to escape do- THE OSHAWA TIMES, Priday, Oaober 8, 1965 CHILD GUTDANCE ing them or to do them tardily . ; 18 and poorly? Are there argu-| Q, When may it be safe 'to "BUFFALO GIVES CHEESE Child's Effort Is Necessary ments and doubts about his do-jargue with your child? > Png! AE 'oo me ae ait ing them? Is his having to do}, when you can do it without| of 'he Asan YS whieh th tai! his havin. To Arouse An Interest to" breathe? "To 'what degree|euger_oF Tasing your voce. [there are about 12407 in Nal. ie io go a Ce By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD |skili to exert great effort to read\@ble? What can take the place ry Recently we considered the}more and more. - Sle ani practice. Must THE ULTIMATE IN LUXURY LIVING! widely - prevailing doctrine that} 4 child must enjoy, success your child go at it without doubt - : fhe the only way to stimulate ef-\in order to gain interest and,!or argument, and do it accord- fort at learning in a child is to\therefore, to exert more effort.ling to certain reasonable stand- PRESTIGE arouse and cultivate his inter-/often the stage must be set 80| ards? est. he will have to exert effort in| jf all doubts and arguments We agreed that interest doesjorder to enjoy success and,jare avoided and the required DISTINCTION lead to effort and that wel/therefore, gain in interest,,which job or practice is done over a BEYOND should never cease to try to fire|in turn will create more effort.|sufficiently long period, skills COMPARE the child- with interest. We! Obviously, it is true that some|jare acquired, skills essential to : merely questioned the word only/things the child is forced to do|further success. There may a in this doctrine. he later hates and avoids doing,|come times when an effective We observed, moreover, thelif he can. But we can't say he|penalty is necessary. It won't J related doctrine that anything|will hate and avoid 'it just be-|be jawing and emotional orgies.|| UNDERGROUND a child is made to-do he will|cause he, earlier, was required) One effective penalty for the PARKING surely hate and avoid doing|to do it. Rather it was the inef-|child resisting and escaping thereafter. This is contrary tolfectiveness of the requirement,|chores, music practice and the many facts you have observed.|and the needless hampering ofjlike, is his having to sit un- * emotions during the require-lamused, doing nothing, for at , msions You know very well. that least half an hour for each de- G2@ORGIAN ma &-.)\@ } Ae many an adult who was re-|ment. t quired in childhood to attend|REACTS TO CHORES relection, not being allowed to) 494 PARK ROAD NORTH: OSHAWA Sunday school or church is now You say you require' your|do the chore or practice this a loyal church attendant. You child to do certain chores. Doesitime. : may have observed many an creme on eT older child or adult take home- responsibility and share in the Re , drudgeries there, who was re- " quired effectively to do so in earlier years. | You may know of many an ac-| complished musician who was A WEDDING TRIP to The bride is the daughter of | MR. AND MRS, Joseph Mrs. Joseph Doran Mitch. |Teuired 10 one 2S Mexico City and Acapulco Mr. and Mrs. Stephen Pod- Dominik Jr., will live in ell and the bridegroom is the {complished musicians who were followed the wedding of '2dlo of Kirkland Lake and Kingston, Ontario, when they $0 0f Mr. and Mrs. Joseph inot required to practice when the bridegroom is the son of Dominik, all of Oshawa. The they were much younger. Jean Podsiadio and Edward = Mr, and Mrs. Vincent Kolo. Telurn from a honeymoon = ceremony took place Satur- ; Stephen Kolodzie in St. Hed- odzie of Oshawa. trip through the Northern day morning in St. Ger- |INTEREST OVERLOOKED wig's Roman Catholic Church. --Aldsworth Photography United States. The bride, the trude's Roman Catholic What is overlooked by many former Clara Mae Mitchell, Church. theorists is that effort may be- is the daughter of Mr. and --Aldsworth Photography |required to arouse and cultivate WEDDING ALB\I 1M interest. The child at seven or 10 required to do certain chores A record for your Wedding Album is provided by The Dominik 5a Mitchell oe ag ee thereby which at least) Oshawa Times Women's Page. Forms are available at The Last Saturday morning in St.) with scoop necklines and elbow-|lower his resistance to doing Oshawa Times office. Early publication of this wedding |Gertrude's Roman Catholic|length sleeves and enhanced by|t#em and may even result in record is facilitated by submitting the completed form and |Church, Clara Mae, daughter of|peau de soie sheath skirts. |Satisfaction. a picture of the bride to the Women's Editor as soon as | Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Doran Mit. The best man was Mr. Den-|,./"@ child required effectively : ito practice music _ lessons) possible after the ceremony. You are asked to submit the | chell, was united in marriage to|nis Condos, Toronto, and the| against his will tends to acquire] names of out-of-town guests attending the wedding to the | Joseph Dominik Jr., son of Mr.|UShers were Mr. George Mitch-\necessary skills which are re-| social editor either before or the day after the wedding. and Mrs. Joseph Dominik, all of|°l:, Oshawa; Mr. Myron Mech\warding to him. In the future! Oshawa. : and Mr.- Arthur Szabo, both ofihe may choose on his own ac-| . . The Ravévend Joba Myers chlo jcord to practice and thus ac-| Kolodzie - Podsiadlo ficiated, assisted by the altar|...r%¢ Teception was held in the|quire great interest in music. | boys, Mr. Robert Mitchell, bro-| Picadilly Room of the Hotel Ge| Even some poor readers who The Reverend Anthony Bagsikjanotis and ivy tendrils, center-|ther of the bride: and Mr. John|°S!4, Where the bride's mother|at eight, 10 or 12 are required performed the ceremony unitingjed witf® an orchid. Kennedy. The soloist, Mrs, wil-|7¢ceived wearing a teal blue|to read for half an hour daily in marriage Jean Podsiadlo of| Mrs. Edward Cypta, Toronto,|liam Kinsman sang 'Aye Sheath dress of re-embroidered|from materials they are able to Oshawa, formerly of Kirkland!was matron of honor to her sis.| Maria', "Mother All Beauti-|@ce 2nd peau de sole in empire|read, acquire sufficient reading Lake, and Edward Stephen Kol-|ter and other attendants were| ful", "Bless Thou These Hearts'|St¥!¢ with a corsage of pink odzie. The bride is the daugh-|Mrs. Anthony Hroncich, Osh-|and "Lord I Am Not Worthy",| 1" Sweetheart roses. The. bride- ter of Mr. and Mrs. Stephen|awa; Miss Lily Trtany, Hamil-| accompanied by Mr. Jack Dris-| 8°00" S mother assisted wear- 5% Podsiadlo of Kirkland Lake and|ton, and Miss Mary Ann Hunt,|coll. ing a two-piece dress of French the bridegroom is the son of!Oshawa : ' : silk crepe in electric blue and a| Pj t ; . Given in marriage by her fa- scoun Mr. and Mrs. Vincent Kolodzie, | They were dressed alike in|ther, the bride wore a forma COreRES Oh Sen Fe | Coens. formal sheaths of lace and|peau de soie sheath, fashioned| AS the couple left on a honey-|If You The ceremony took place. in| chiffon in autumn turquoise and| with a scoop neckline, a beaded|™00n motor 'trip/jthrough the Bring This St. Hedwig's Roman Catholic| carried white, baby chrysan-|empire waistine, with a match-| Northern'; United' States, the Ad. on og song was Mrs.|themums. c ling beaded border on the elbow-| Dride was 'wearing a pyr hericienin arry Booth who accompanied! waster Richard C length sleeves and compfement-|tea! blue wool suit, matching) * herself at the organ. Pheeccongt cine oe ed by a detachable chapel train,| Velvet. blouse and' hat, a cor-| For All Your Given in marriage by her fa-|Joseph Kolodzie, the bride-|Her jeweled Juliet headdress) 528° of a white Philanopsis or-| Bridal Shoes ther, the bride wore a floor-izroom's broher, the best man.|held her veil of tulle illusion| Chid and white sweetheart roses, length gown of peau de soie|Ushering were Mr. Ronaid|and she carried a spray cas-|2"d black accessories, Qn their, TINTED FREE with a deep, rounded neckline|Keith, Clarkson; Mr. Stanley|cade of white Philanopsis or- return' Mr. and Mrs. Dominik) CHOOSE and lily-point sleeves. 'The em-|Marchut and Mr. Dennis Krout,|Chids and stephanotis. j.yall live at a8 Batt: 080; pire waist and hem of the bell-|both of Oshawa. The maid of honor was the|<ineston. --] DANCEY'S m eee jmesieeeeane s conananedatainamsnasaaael skirt were embroidered with bride' " bride's sister, Miss Margaret! a oy pearis and a triple tiara of cnys- sei ee talus ere dean In | Mitchell, and the other brides-| HOUSEHOLD HINT | tals and pearls held her four-|prown accessories and the| Maids were Miss Patricia An-| Convert plastic-topped coffee] tier, shoulder-length veil of tulle.|pridegroom's mother chose a\dtey, Miss Margaret Dominik|cans to colorful containers for; She carried a bouquet of steph-|dress and jacket of deep tur-|and Miss Diane Hercott, all of/children's crayons, marbles and -- | quoise brocade with accessories) Oshawa. They were dressed|small toys, cover with adhesive- to match. alike in opera green sheath|backed plastic and mark names A reception was held' in the | Sowns featuring velvet bodicesiwith a felt-tipped pen. Polish Hall and later the couple| : 5 left for Mexico City and Aca-} pulco, | For travelling the bride donn- | ed a creamy beige suit in tweed with a winter green hat trimm- ed in beige and tan accessories. Mr. and Mrs. Kolodzie will re- turn to reside at 250 George ERVER [tet A hairnet over the goldfish bowl | will keep fish from accidentally iN NEED of a jumon.ou.___ HOMEMAKER? BLUE LOSES APPEAL e LONDON (CP)--The glamor of the Royal Air Force is fad-BCall . . . ing, defence ministry recruiting figures imply. Total strength RED cross has fallen by 3,000 men to 103,- 380 in the last year and only 295 Homemaker Service men signed up for longer than five years in July, compared at 723-7073 with 08 in the same month in Authentic Crested SCHOOL JACKETS WARM QUILTED G--GOTHIC "ELFIN" white embroidered cot- LINING ; gto * L rN PP RSCS ton bandeau bra with 34" elastic adjustable stretch straps, adjustable back closing 30 to 36A, 32 to 38B, 32 to 40C and 32 to 40D....... cae OSHAWA: A--DAISY ERESH cotton bendeau bra with ; H--DAISY FRESH long-leg pantie girdle with " embroidered .padded cups, elastic insert ' yellow dot-design elastic sides and back, at waist. 30 to 36A daisy-embroidered satin lastex front panel. HTH | 32 to 38B L) 206! Detachable garters. 00 The million-dollar grapes Average Wey SMEML. 5 ..sss es: ' O'Neil and Doneva B--DAISY FRESH overage length pantie ¢ : in girdle with yellow dot design--elastic side , Ay 'and back, daisy-embroidered satin lastex 3 a 1--DAISY FRESH embroidered broadcloth bre A : ; front panel, White. 5 00 . J with elastic insert at! waist, two-hook adjust. 1n 1934 Brights began to import young vines Cream Sherry A favourite of sherry con- average hip $-M-L-XL. .... . We - able back closing, White, 32 to 36A, 2.50 of the finest wine grapes grown in the world. folsseurs. An appetizer wine of real merit. C_GOTHIS' ELFIN" 34 bre of white . 32 to 38B and 32 to 40C. WHITBY You see six of the results here. These are er tae cay ; broadcloth. 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