'Norman Parker and the other/their return, Mr. and Mrs, Solo-| s Women 18. THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, September 29, 1965 +e pe i a i ri oo School Grading OTTAWA (CP)--The use of marks in school grading systems is unfair to the child and can be harmful to his mental health, says a former director of the federal health department's mental health division. Dr. Charles G. Stogdill, chief of child adjustment services for the Toronto Board of Education, says that in time more and more members of the' public will come to appreciate the de- structive effects competition in school achievement can have on pupils, In an outspoken article in the department's publication, Can- ada's Mental Health, Dr. Stog- dill writes: "The use of marks as a meas- ure of comparison between pu- pils in a class is of little value-- tive importance, a point widely recognized by educators. "Why then do they continue to use them and force compe- tition? The teachers themselves are competing. Parents expect marks and class standings and passing from grade to grade." So long as the public de- manded this system, the schools were bound to accommodate. But already there is a good deal of support for the use of psy- chologists, social workers and psychiatrists in school systems. 'Damaging practices . . . will soon no longer be tolerated." Dr. Stogdill, who was the first. chief of the mental health division when it was established in 1945, writes that competition for marks is faulty because the children' seldom have an even bert Street United Church. The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Clifford Solo- mon, all of Oshawa. --Ireland Studio MYRNA IRENE, daugh- ter of Mr. and Mrs. E. E. Jones, was united in mar- riage to Robert Gordon Solo- mon in a ceremony in Al- WEDDING ALBUM Arecord for your Wedding Album is provided by The Oshawa Times Women's Page. Forms are available at The Oshawa Times office. Early publication of this wedding record is facilitated by submitting the completed form and a picture of the bride to the Women's Editor as soon as possible after the ceremony. You are asked to submit the names of out-of-town guests attending the wedding to the social] editor either before or the day after the wedding. Unfair To Most Children yet is is of enormous destruc-) ystems "The innate, developmental and experiential differences be- tween: children makes it unfair to compete. Through failure, or fear of failure in this unfair competition, children become so frustrated and tend to give up, and so never reach anywhere near their potential." He says even the children who win out often fail in the long lrun by their emphasis on excel- ling over others, rather than ex- periencing the inner satisfac- tions of acquiring knowledge, developing skills and feeling & sense of personal growth and progress. He says there is grave danger the child will begin to do only as much as is required to pass his subjects or to win his teach- er's or parents' approval. jand these standards become ir- lrelevant, he is not likely to feel the need for further education or training. However, with this essential that learning continue throughout life." Dr. Stogdill says parent- teacher communication will do more than anything else to re- duce learning difficulties for the SPIN eM Eo Ci rapidly changing society it is) anions "A beautiful voice is a gift from God -- A teacher can en- rich it and it is a joy to guide," stated Dorothy Allen Park, a prominent teacher of singing and a member of the Board of Examiners of the Royal Conservatory of Music, at the annual dinner of the On- tario Registered Music Teach- ers' Association held in Simcoe' Street United Church Sunday School Auditorium. Mrs. Park, born in Aberdeen, Scotland, has a wide experi- ence in cert opera and oratorio. In continuing her talk on the singing teacher she said, "the singer deals with language and there is a great need for perfect speech and attempting others. "There is a need for dedica- tion and discipline--many sing- ers vanish because they sing too loud, too young. Opera is hard on the voice and these blockbusters are attempted too soon. A beautiful voice must vee ¥ ba LEE OOG AS PON, SOROS sta | ' aa -- ane (as nes tein tact i " POF wr PP Oy ale 4 fait i poy 3 . ® ' * £4! with his singing of 'Tu Lo Sal,";the members of the Commi A Beautiful Voice Is God's Gift by Torelli, "When I Think Upon|Unit of the United Chureh chuk; treasurer, Miss Liacitc Tyzsn- program, Miss ida The Maidens" by Michael Head|Women for once again serving|Arnott; social, Mrs. Helen Eng- perfect diction. One must speak; his own language well before Scottish Examiner Tells ORMT and "Climb Every Mountain" from Rogers and Hammer- stein's "Sound Of Music,' ac- Mrs, Park was introduced by\companied by Mr. Geen, Mr. Reginald Geen and Miss Helen Willard expressed the appreciation of those present. guest soloist and delighted all Mrs. L. W. Parrott, member of Council and vice-president of the ORMTA, brought greetings and made several announce- Mr, Larry Marshal was the|ments. an excellent dinner. lish and Mrs. Sadie Brown; Mrs. Jan Drygala, president,|press, Mrs, Charles Naylor, introduced the guests and the executive for 1965-66 as follows: Mrs. Drygala announced the prize-winning recital would be Ist vice-president, Miss Ruthiheld October 23; the teachers' Skinner; Mrs. Marie Taylor secretary,; 2nd_vice - president,|workshop would be on Novem- ber 4; and the October meeting Miss Judith Davison; assistant|would be held at the home of secretary, Miss Joan Matthews; Mrs. Marie Taylor, Port Perry. Miss Judith Davison thanked have steadiness, reliability and definite tone control. "It is necessary to hear a xicat deal of music and to create one's own musical en- "But when he leaves school|vironment. The singer needs to have a good cultural back- ground -- to read poetry--study art. One does not inject his own personality in oratorio, it re- quires style, the beauty of the jscripture must be clear," | Mrs. Park, in speaking of songs, stressed the need for a wider knowledge of the many beautiful British songs. | | At all store 3 Days Only -- Starts Thurs, Sept. 30th CLEARANCE s in Ontario JOAN Exciting Offer From Burns Jewellers 0% OFF One of Canada's most popular patterns... | by STERLING Offer expires October 2nd 20 Simcoe North JEWELLERS of ARC NTERNATIONAL Open to 9 p.m. Fridays school child. | "Neither (parent nor teacher) should feel that he alone has all the answers. More teachers need to recognize that a fam-| ily's expectations inevitably play an important part in the chilu's work and behavior at school. "More parents need to realize how different the school's ex-| pectations and program are) from what they were when they) start. were young." Solomon - Jones The Reverend Helmuth Dyck|The junior bridesmaid was Miss| Washington Society Anticipates officiated at the marriage of|Debbie Jones. They were dress- Myrna Irene, daughter of Mr.jed alike in formal gowns of rose) and Mrs. E. E. Jones, to Rob-jand pink peau de soie and car-| ert.Gordon Solomon, son of Mr.|ried cascades of white and pink! and Mrs. Clifford Solomon, all/carnations. of Oshawa. The ceremony took) The best man was Mr. Philip place in Albert Street United/Solomon and the ushers were Church. The soloist, was accompanied by Mrs. Mari- WASHINGTON (CP) -- Wash- ington society, sharply rationed \Mr, William Solomon and Mr,|this year in the supply of for- Mr. Harold Hay,|Ronald Pedwerbecki. jeign visitors, is looking toward The reception was held at the -- and Princess Mar- lyn Searle. Grandview Golf Club, where the/84"e"- Given in marriage by her|bride's mother received wearing We undoubtedly shall make father, the bride wore a formalla two-piece lace dress of jade.|more enemies than friends," gown of white lace and organza,|green with gold accessories and sighed a British embassy offi- with a lace bodice and lily-point|a corsage of gold tinted carna-(Ci@! conjecturing on just how aleeves, The full skirt was or-|tions, The bridegroom's mother|™Uch social exposure can be ganza with a scalloped lace edg-\assisted wearing a lace dress insqueezed out of Britain's prin- ing. The back of the gown was\royal blue, pink accessories and\°°S$ and her husband. highlighted by a detachableja corsage of pink tinted carna-|. The visit to the United States, lace train. Her floral headdress tions. beginning Nov. 4 at San Fran- held her bouffant veil and she| As the couple left on their|*!S¢® originated with a private carried a lace covered Bible|honeymoon, the bride was wear-|nVitation from Sharman Doug- crested with a cluster of pink|ing a two-piece green wool suit,|!@5 Princess Margaret's good roses. |black accessories and a cor- friend for more than a decade. Princess Margaret's First Visit with a large retinue has been in town as an unofficial visitor who nevertheless has seen a lot! of official people and had tea) with the president. Japanese Prince Mikasi, brother of the emperor, had a) courtesy reception and Crown! Prince Harald of Norway was a September caller. There has been some specu-| lation that Queen Elizabeth may) be considering a visit to Wash-| ington next March after a Car-| ibbean visit with Prince Philip --a.rumor that the British em-| bassy promptly scotches. | Prince Philip is coming in| March for two or three weeks/ The matron of honor was Mrs.'s . F Now semi-official touches are : ote rey eee On| ,eing added for the three-week! i tour, which will be Margaret's reside on Marland rest tn the US. Los Angeles, Arizona, Wash- jington and New York are on the| itinerary | Just what role- President Johnson will play in the visit of| several days here is not known.| The president has his own tech-| nique for such occasions, usu-| ally announced at the last mo-) jment. But Washington's social) |set just can't imagine the pres-| jident not seeing the princess and the Earl of Snowdon, and) elder daughter Lynda Baines! Johnson has been pondering #|what swains to take to Princess Margaretparties. Not that the president has seen many foreign visitors this year. | |FOUR VISITS The number of state visits jtotals only four so far in 1965 --Japan, South Korea, Upper y2\Volta and Italy. There were 11 in 1963 and 10 in 1964 and the jlate President Kennedy in fact jentertained more foreign visi- jtors in state in two years than |President Roosevelt had done in 112 or President Truman in eight. President Johnson, while be- lieved to fret at the time-con- isuming protocol involved in jstate visits, has had excuses in |the slow pace of 1965. He has had the Vietnamese war and a huge congressional program to manage. Much of his entertain- jing has been functional--often jon Potomac River boating par- 4 ties There is an impression that visits have been curtailed be- jcause Prime Minister Shastri of \India and Preident Ayub Khan lof Pakistan were asked to post- attendants were Miss Joan Solo-;}mon will mon, and Mrs. Ronald Hickey.|avenue. in response to an_ invitation) from Variety Clubs Interna-! tional, comprising entertain-| ment-world folk who work for} charity and which the prince) has supported. But any hopes! that Texas-style hospitality will be showered on the Queen her- self are said to have no basis in fact. | Color Issue | Debated In Book By British Author | LONDON (Reuters) -- Brit- ain's two chief political parties are both strongly attacked for their Commonwealth immigra- tion policies in a new book by | Paul Foot, son of Britain's chief | United Nations delegate, Lord Caradon. Foot, a newspaper man, and |member of a noted left-wing; | family, warned that the color) issue seems to be establishing} itself as "a crucial feature of | British politics." "There has been since 1962 a | steady, consistent retreat on the issue by politicians of all major parties toward the views of their right - wing extremists," Foot wrote. His book, Immigration and |Race in British Politics, was jwritten before the Labor gov- 'ernment's new Commonwealth immigration. curbs were an- nounced Aug. 2. These put an 8,500-a-year ceiling on work per- }mits for these immigrants, who come chiefly from the West In- | dies, India and Pakistan. | But Foot 'criticized an earlier |Labor party reversal of Its op- | position to restrictions, first in- WOOLWORTH'S Save Tomorrow and Every Day on all your TOMETRY NEEDS CHECK OUR PRICES WE BELIEVE THERE ARE NONE LOWER! ¥ 99. 37: Y 87:38 VY 99.30 37: NOXZEMA COVER GIRL MATTE MAKEUP V 14778. 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T.| peau de soie, with a matching| .There has not been a com-\of Commonwealth immigration Cox, Bowmanville, to Bruceljoverskirt, a self-flower head.|Plete drought. | during its 13 years in office. Arthur Elliott, son of Mr. and!dress encrusted with sequins) Madame Chiang Kai - shek) "The party has moved further Mrs. Bruce F. Elliott, Newton-jholding a matching bouffant ai Res ~~ }and further to the right against ville. The Reverend A. W. Hard-)veil. The best man was Mr.|of white carnations, and deep|the counsel of its own intelli-| ing officiated. Robert Elliott and the usher was|pink sweetheart roses. gent economists,"' he said. ' The} Given in marriage by her fa-|Mr. Gary. 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