is j FALL FASHION PICTURE A PACESETTER for a fashionable fall is this beau- tifully tailored coat cut on youthful lines. Made of cor- duroy it has wrist-length set- in sleeves, wide revered lapels, an away-from-the- neck collar and flap pockets. Matching bone buttons form the doublebreasted closing and trim the sleeves. The topper comes ina variety of exciting colors and is worn over a matching high-waist- ed sleeveless dress to cre- ate a charming ensemble. _--By Tracy Adrian _|like to work together, put on a _|double - sized thinking cap and fd to my mind is a man and tian idea to buy a rambling, old- the incubator for a while and By ROBERTA ROESCH If you and your husband seriously feel] that you would "brainstorm" as a duo. I mention this possibility, be- cause of recent talks with couples who have told me their dream job would be to work as a team, Yet most of them keep this day-dream in a deep freeze all their lives, although often they could make it come true. Many couples have, you know. One husband and wife team, for example, who always comes woman who were teachers but who were practically never to- gether because her classes were during the day while his were always at night. "We never saw each other," the wife explained one day. "Then all of a sudden. we got fashioned house and start a nur- sery school of our own." The couple put this dream in worked out all the details. Then they opened a suburban school in which the wife did the teach- ing while the husband drove a school bus, did all the mainten- ance work and taught part-time in another school until they got their start. A second couple I know who} created work as a team was al wife who worked as a librarian CHILD GUIDANCE Children Should Learn To Defend Their Rights By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD I don't know a much harder problem than that of trying to} teach a child, say from five to 10, to defend himself and stick age to your home--one at first and more later--when you can study him and encourage him to take his own part using his bare hands. But don't allow him up for his rights, especially if)'0 use sticks and stones or other he had been taught earlier not|weapons or attack with ugly to "fight back." jnames. It's not strange that somel Let your son know it is more parents, from the time the tot/honorable to retreat than to) is very young, try to teach him/resort to such measures, but not to defend himself. Fighting|that it is courageous to defend and quarrelling among children,|himself with his bare hands. especially in the family, are re-|When you see him making the Gg piesa a ol re in Spe geo compliment him, you and Dad. along agreeably with other chil- Don't look for ork progress dren, parents can easily go to0/all at once. Trust to a long, far in discouraging or forbid-|patient program. ding a tot to stand: up for his own rights. PARENTS' QUESTIONS As this child grows older, he|, @- If a school bus or common may become a victim of ead regret is available, is children who are aggressive hte good reason for high and acquire all sorts of fears of perio sys anaceg to drive cars to them. Then the same parents|/$©20* who taught him earlier never to} A. Hardly. fight become disgusted with him THE STARS SAY when, later, he supinely lets By ESTRELLITA other children "walk all over him." | DON'T NAG |FOR TOMORROW The father may incline to nag! Yesterday's excellent inf] u-| at this child for being "cow-|ences continue. You should ardly," sometimes punishing) make good progress in all him to make him defend him-| worthwhile endeavors, whether self. Often there are pathetic|in the completion of. outstand- and a husband who edited a trade magazine. DREAMED OF COUNTRY Many Husbands And Wives Work As A Team Successfully wife said. "We dreamed about) how nice it would be to live and 'work in the country. Then one day we faced ourselves across the kitchen table and asked each other point blank why we felt we had to keep our sep- arate jobs when we wanted)' something else." Once the couple decided they i wanted to work together away from the city, they brain stormed their way through) | countless ideas for earning money as free-lance editors fer a variety of publishers. They}; both had the background for this. WORKED TOGETHER Together they called on pub-|; lishers and gradually built up clients, working on this as a sideline while they held their old jobs for a while. But when they knew that their idea would work and give them the money they would need, they bought aj |" small house in the country and]; worked there every summer.|} Then each November they moved to the south for the winter. These two ideas for team work may not be the ones for you. But somewhere there will be other suggestions that you and your husband can follev either as a sideline or possibly fulltime if you: (1) List your enitre back- ground to see what skills you; LONG NAP furry brushed felt in a light beige shade was selected by Elizabeth for a luxurious looking draped cap. A matching silk satin bow nestles at the nape of the neck, The hat is THE FEEL OF F ae By ELEANOR ROSS Following a new wind direc- taking on Force-7 velocity is a early 19th century. This grace- |Sheraton, Directoire, Regency, _ |Empire and Biedermeier. It is a trend that will undoubtedly grow in popularity and is worth watching. As noted at the 1965 fall fur- Trend In New Furniture Back To Lines Of Grace j tion but showing all signs of revival of furniture styles of the ful furniture is reminiscent of 1N NEED of a : HOMEMAKER? % 'all... Homemaker Service at 723-7073 colors as melon, bright coral, blue green. Blues are stil] good and shades of red are comipg} up. Rich reds of ruby and gar-| net hues, russets, are seen in the new "dimensional" wovens. Other colors are dark green, | golden yellow and orange, apri- cot to shrimp, midnight blue. Turquoise is coming back on the scene, often in combination with other blues. _|niture show in Chicago, Early '|American or Colonial veers to- ward a heaviness and mass for the new "country" look, or leans more on Hepple-white and Sheraton for the typically more refined Federal look. The Oriental influence is found more in accessories and less in furniture groupings. However, Oriental has been around a long time and. blends so well with many styles of fur niture that it really never goes completely out of vogue. Upholstery. fabrics, geared to the new "loungy'" lush look are high-pile, very "nappy'"' and di- mensional in appearance. Many velvets and nap fabrics are us- ed,including elaborate cut-vel- Bini UR worn quite far back on the head to reveal the bangs in front. It also comes in black or green with bows of the same shade. --By Tracy Adrian vet, suede cloth, corduroy, jum-} bo slub weaves, anything but flat prosaic fabrics. | Even the flat surfaces resem-; bling burlap, linen, crash or jute have a dimensional interest} 'an combine, (2) hang on to a bread-and- butter job until you get a start. (3) Give your ideas a trial run KEEP IN TRIM "But all the while we lived) and worked in the city," the! to make sure you can work them out, Weight Is Not ANN LANDERS By IDEA JEAN KAIN s the Measure Of Obesity because of a combination of| weaving techniques and cross-| dyeing and blending of yarns. | A lot of quality is in evidence, | adding to the general rich ef-| fect. Used on. medium priced| prints, for instance, it gives a decorator touch. Colors are clear, fresh and bright. Green in all shades is gaining; browns and beiges Accurate "The body of a lean animal of man consists essentially of PS elena aint ail dal SAVE NOW OP- OATS DRY CLEANED FOR There Are Two Sides To Every Story Dear Ann Landers: My hus- band just handed me your column which carried the head- ing: Sexless Wife Needs A eit tor and A Prescription. He said,| "Here, read this. It fits you to! Dear Frantic: Your daughter| a T. jis obviously trying for perma- I agree with you, Ann--mar-jnent possession of the Bell riage without sex is neither nor-|Trophy. You'd better set up mal nor happy, but there's al-|some controls before she leaves ways more to it than appears on|the real world completely. the surface. No teen-ager should be per- My husband is too busy, too)mitted to yak endlessly even if important and too indifferent tojthe phone is her own, Tell her take any responsibility for his|the limit is one hour on school children, the house or me. I am|nights and two hours on week- mother and father, housekeeper,jends. She can spend all her cook, chauffeur, laundress,|time with one party, or she can gardener, nurse, sewer inspec-|talk. to 12 different people. Let tor, furnace and TV repairman.|her know that if she breaks the I need two operations. I have/Tules you'll yank the phone. severe headaches. I'm going) Dear Ann Landers: My hus- through the menopause. I'm onjband and his sister were or- the verge of a nervous break-|phaned early and raised by an down. If you say a woman in/aunt and uncle who have a great my condition should be a jolly|deal of money. When we were playmate to a man who shows| married the talk was, "Isn't she no interest in being a husband|lucky to have landed that rich or a father I'll eat this news-\one." Now I almost wish I had once wrote "A telephone is more than communication, it is an emotional outlet." Please tell us how to handle this.-- FRANTIC PARENTS | cases when a boy is urged or|ing matters or in the initiation commanded to take a_ stand of new enterprises. In the latter! against another boy he is sure|connection, however, be cau-| is too much for him. The father} tious--particularly in the p.m. would be wiser if he were more|,. skillful in guiding this boy so/fOR THE BIRTHDAY that the lad might be successful) If tomorrow is your birthday, | when taking a stand. |you may look ahead to a year lon age no prego afford to|which should bring satisfying) urge this child too much in self-| recognitio i Robes defence lest the child go to the| 9, "i 3 ig nen ip | opposite extreme and attack gi al and constructive ideas) others, especially those smaller, Put into effect now should have and weaker than himself. The|a vital effect on future prog-} rig bane in ge ger pe gp ress, but you will have to fol-| 0 fighting wit sticks an 7 7 stones or attacking from am- led througn Ade woul bush. achieve the results possible. By! Frequently this timid boy;mid - February, your occupa-| prefany 4 play wis younger|tional and financial affairs| children he can easily manage). , Of SH Glee children who will ns. Tits stable and you! protect him and let him often|°@% Plan on expanding your in-| have his way. A mother writes|terests in late June, with grati-| of her eight-year-old son: jfying rewards resulting through-| SON BACKS OFF jout next August and September. | "He is very easy-going and Be very careful to avoid sec-| easy to get along with. He likes|ulation between now and Dec.| other children and has friends|99 however to play with, although when he) i was much younger we taught! }), him it was not necessary to fight. I think he tends to back off rather than assert himself now when someone wants to take something that is his. He There is a strong likelihood at you will travel in early! February; also during the late-| May - early - September period. | Any lengthy journey taken dur-| ing the latter period could prove} a + j ci | wit just' aive i : ' advantageous in making new j give in rather than' contacts. | stick up for his rights. SS a for £0: "His dad has taught him a lit-| Nance anc SOCAL Interests tle by wrestling, ete., with him, Late December (an excellent He will not compete with some- "Sega 7 ge Peary iag" ject one his own age when it comes}. ay and August. Creative to their wanting to walk over workers will be the benefi-/ him. He is not nervous but just ciaries of fine inspiration--and| tg ie >» profit -- during the first six says, 'I don't want to fight. months of 1966. ATTRACT FRIENDS | A child born on this day will] My reply in part: be keenly perceptive and un Perhaps you can do best if, usually shrewd in business you attract some boys of his! matters. } x paper.--SEXLESS WIFE FROM landed a poor one. SCRANTON f : Auntie and uncle use their Dear Wife: I'm not going tO/money as a club. They let my say anything except that I hope|hushand and his sister know you will make an appointment/that if they fall out of favor it with a physician at once andicoylq be mighty costly "in al then do as he tells you. few years." When uncle told us| Dear Ann Landers: I suppose| how to vote I came close to teii-| you will say we got ourselves|ing him what he could do with into this, and you are right, but/nis money and his candidate. we need help and we are count- When I des my husband but ing on you to give it to us. te : Pgeoes +. ay iter up his uncle it makes me! Our 16-year-old daughter is an lose respect for him. Yet I find/ attractive, peppy, popular girl.| ; | Liable 7 ~..; myself carefully choosing werds hy FACE, ORES WG DOpHIAE. Shel top fear I will alienate them and! discovered the telephone at age perhaps spoil things for my hus+! 14. After that it became vir- tually impossible for anyone wee" Aggy tell me how to Sea get our line. Out of frustration| & Perera RELU we gave her a telephone of herl rant Bites gong -- RELUC- own for Christmas. ANT Almost immediately her, Dear Syce: Why don't you be- grades began to slide. Her last|!ave as if these people were) report card was the worst one|Stone broke? You'll then end up) she ever brought home. She al-\With your self-respect, if nothing] most flunked two subjects. jelse. Every night this week she} has been on the phone till al- HOUSEHOLD HINT most midnight. The telephone; Cover liver with milk and let| has become such am important|stand twenty minutes before fry-| part of her life we are afraidjing. The taste is improved, and to take it away from her. Youlyou can use the milk for gravy. | We Guarantee to y '\rectly related to each other. Obesity, oddly enough, is | a ) number one nutritional problem|four items: 1 water, approxi- in. our country today. A new|mately 65 per cent of the body approach to the perplexing prob- weight; 2 protein, about 20 per lem is directed toward body|cent of the body weight; 3 fat, composition. Body weight and|approximately 10 per cent of} body fat are not necessarity di-|the body weight, 4 salt, about) five per cent of the body) Obesity is a condition in which) weight. a disproportionate amount of WEASURES COMPONENTS the weight consists of body fat. : "Body weight, therefore, is i exes ft tha +B meats 'all Your componet the chionic degenerative @s- and does not differentiate be-| NG CUEOIEE, eee S/tween any. By contrast with the| paere jabove, obesity may be defined) It is helpful to take a look atias a disproportionate increase the early research in the field.|in the relative percent of the Vater rer a ete g | fat content of a given body. In epartment 0} | sciences, Michael Reese Hos-| pital in Chicago, conducted the initial research on nibbling ver- sus big meal eating in experi- mental animals. It was found that the little white rats which ate all their daily quota of cal- ories in two large loads de- posited more fat and retained less protein. My question to Dr. Cohn at that time was this: Did the ani- mals which deposited more fat in the tissues weigh more than the lean animals? I felt I must be confusing the. terms weight and fat. The meal-eaters de- posited more fat. The nibblers built lean bodies. Dr, Cohn's reply clarified the difference be- tween body weight and body fat. obesity .the fat content approxi-| mates over 25 per cent of the body weight. One can, therefore} visualize the following theoreti- cal, and actual, set of circum- stances, "Overweight but lean: An ex- ample of this situation is a 250- pound football player who may have 25 per cent protein (muscle) and only five per cent fat; overweight and obese: A 250 - pound individual who may have 10 per cent protein and 40 per 'cent fat; underweight and obese: An individual who may have 10 per cent protein and 40 obese: An individual of normal weight who may have 10 per cent protein and 40 per cent fat." per cent fat; normal weight and seem to be fading out of the popular picture, Accents are seen 5% Discount If You Bring This Ad. 25 Take advantage of this great savings OSHAWA Laundry and Dry Cleaning 50 MILL ST. IF BUSY CALL 723-9531 in such For All Your Bridal Shoes TINTED FREE CHOOSE DANCEY'S DOWNTOWN OSHAWA 723-1471. 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