UNIVERSITY WOMEN OF OSHAWA AND DISTRICT START FALL SEASON hold its annual membership tea. Here the immediate past-president, Mrs. G. A. Rundle, Oshawa, pours tea TO USHER jn the fall sea- son it is the custom of the University Women's Club of Oshawa and district to Sat congratulates a new mem- ber, Mrs. D. V. Stroud, both THE INCOMING _ presi- dent, Mrs. Barnard Lewis ~ ANN LANDERS for two guests at the home of Mrs. William McLean in Pickerin Villege, Wed- nesday evening. The guests ' RRS RR of Oshawa for the tea members are encouraged to invite University graduates who might be potential members. are Mrs, E. G. Bailey and Cee a ee | CHILD GUIDANCE Jur Good Experiences Are Worth Repeating By GARRY MYERS, PhD crow 'up to do likewise? Do Our children growing up with|they do any of it now?" us in the family often may} So disgusted with some of hear us talk about unpleasantithese observations, I have long experiences we have had, espe-|since resolved that I will try cially when adult guests are|not to have such sins of mine present. They may hear us dis-|visited on my children and cuss serious accidents in which/grandchildren. But I guess I we barely escaped alive, of longjhave slipped sometimes. spells of illness or of operations) Nevertheless, 1 believe such we have had. reflections have helped me to At each telling the account\try more steadfastly to im- may grow more embellished/prove. I have heard so many with details. If we should for-|persons t#ll of their operations get to relate a certain item one|that I have resolved that when of ihe children may fill it in.|I have the first one of my life- Like most newspaper accounts|time nobody will hear me tell | peor THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW The planetary restrictions of yesiuay continue on Sundayv-- but along somewhat different lines. It will be most important to use great tact in personal relationships, since many per- sons will be rather "edgy." Use caution in travelling, too. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that you should take advantage of every available opportunity to advance . yourself in occupa- tional matters now since, while results will not be immediate, your stars presently stimulate good ideas and ingenuity in put- ting them over. Best periods for job 2nd-or business gains: Mid- December through mid-Febru- these recitals far more often about it. dwell on unpleasant items than Most of us will have had al on pleasant ones. fair share of tragedies, sorrows} | ary, late June, late August and all of next September. Good financial periods parallel the In the family alone or when and misfortunes; some of us guests are present, our children more than others, almost prac-| may hear us relate unpleasant!tically all of us could also re-| experiences today while shop-late some pleasant memories. | busy at home. How often our children may hear us complain\ CURB CONVERSATION | about the way some co-worker) When we have time to sit or boss treated us today. down and reflect on this prob- Tomorrow they may hear the,lem, 1 believe we might con-| same kind of report. It may/|clude that we are going to try| |be a continued story or serial. {0 avoid dwelling often in our! iFrom these accounts our chil-conversation anywhere, an y-! jdren may come to suppose that 'ime, especially when our chil- {most people are unkind, incon- dren are listening, on our un- lsiderate and that it is a work happy memories; that, instead, of distinction to be able to de-|We will strive to keep our at-| scribe the meanness in so many tention and conversation on of them. happier and more hopeful mat- | ters |CORRECT HABIT Let's endeavor to do so not |_All the foreoing may happen jyst for our own better mental| if We don't watch ourselves and health and thatof our adult keep ourselves from the habit friénds, but also for the better| ae | and Telating a Our outlook and mental health of pias § hearing our unhappy our children and their children's} | xperiences. dhiidsen. acta, 7, and areata Some years ago a. cea | ed : > WE mother was driving in her car jknow pretty well, especially|with her son, five years old. feet cua or one 'May get a/The door flew open and he fell | reports like the/oyt, She stopped the car and ping or while at work, or while So could our children. | 15% Discount lf You Bring This Ad. For All Your Bridal Shoes TINTED FREE CHOOSE DANCEY'S DOWNTOWN OSHAWA . =, ee THE OSHAWA TIMES, Saturday, September 25, 1965 ] above, with June an outstand- ing month for expansion. But do avoid extravagance and specu- lation--especially in early De- cember and early April. Where romance and social re- lationships are concerned, you can look forward happily to most of the year--with accent on especially stimulating exper- iences ag lat December: q next April, May and August, | Sentimental affairs could prove { | disappointing in late Novemher,.« June and July, however. mF A child born on this day will? be endowed with ambition, > great. intelligence and an une usual love of masic. me OPEN AGAIN WEDNE! BOTH LOCATIONS OF IN OBSERVANCE OF THE HEBREW NEW YEAR | noe perianay : MONDAY & TUESDAY, SEPT 27-28 -- [ee ee | te? bak wid SDAY, SEPTEMBER 29 Mrs: A. M. Dixon, both of |foregoing. Oshawa. If, later, we reflect on these "Do I talk that way? Do jtalk that way when my chik jdren are listening? Will they ELECT LEEMANS STRASBOURG, France (AP) Senator Victory Leemans, a Christian Democrat from Bel-| gium, was elected president of| matters, we may ask ourselves,| 1| safely rescued him. But as she drove on, she kept asking the little fellow some anxious ques- tions. Pretty soon he said, "Mother, this is just one of the things we don't talk about." the European Parliament Fri- day following bitter Some Socialist members pro- calling he had served as secre- istry of economic affairs during the Second World War German occupation, After the war, Lee- mans was officially cleared of any wrong-doing. Due to Our HIGH HOLIDAYS The store will be closed Monday, Sept. 27th Tuesday, Sept. 28th RE-OPEN WEDNESDAY, Sept. 29th ot 9 A.M. M. & C. DRY GOODS & DRAPERIES Theatre Goers, Attention! THE OSHAWA LITTLE THEATRE 1965-66 SEASON OPENS SOON A $3.00 SUBSCRIPTION ENTITLES YOU TO SEE debate. | tested Leemans' candidacy, re-| tary-general of the Belgian min-| "THE LARK" Jean Anouith "THE PLEASURE OF HIS COMPANY" amuel Taylor "THE MOUSETRAP" by Agatha Christie Phone for information Mr, Kappes--7 28-6185 Mrs. Williams---7 28-2828 Mrs, Richards--725-3254 OR SEND YOUR $3.00 DIRECTLY TO Mr. K, Kappes, 732 Cedar St. Oshawa 74 Celina Street Oshewa | DON'T DELAY--GET YOUR SUBSCRIPTION NOW A Widow Shouldn't Indulge In Self-Pity § tam ? Dear Ann Landers:' You've) reciprocated. Ann, when. the had many letters in your col-|waitress came to take our or umn about widows jately. | wasiders Mr, X. said 'Separate especially interested in the one checks, please."' signed, Not So Subtle A re-;) My husband and I are minder shocked and burned up. How It's true that when you weepican we let them know we think you weep alone. Even my late they are petty and cheap?-- husband's brothers and sisters SPEECHLESS COUPLE have fled the scene, They g0 tO Dear Couple: If you remain parties, take trips and enjoy| speechless they'll neyer know themselyes. Their lives have nol|) wish some of you who write changed one jota, to me about such "problems" What really bothers us 1s) would produce the answer your when people say, "Your chil selves by facing the offenders dren are grown, You have a anq jeveiling with them instead lovely house and-plenty of insur-lof asking me to provide an ance. Consider yourself lucky./easier way out It could be worse." I'd like (0) Dear Ann Landers: My hus: know how much worse it could pang does portrait paintings as be. The most important thing Ma hobby, A member of the fam- my life is gone. What good isijjy often expressed the wish a beautiful house and money? that Henry would do 'his wife's I'm sure I am not.the only portrait. 'They agreed. on a widow who feels this way.lnrice and everyone seemed Please print my letter for all! nieased, i : of us who are. -- LOST AND 414... several weeks of hard BEWILDERED work he finished the portrait Dear Last: You may feel that) ang | thought it was wonderful I, too, am unsympathetic butiso did all the neighbors who your friends are right. It could) saw it, When Henr: presented indeed be worse, and if youlit to the man he didn't. say read some of the letters I get/much but we could see he was from widows who are left with disappointed. He sent my hus small children, no income and)pand 'a cheque in the mail the swamped with bills, yet, you'd next day and didn't write a note know how much worse it could saying that his wife liked it or be. anything. Dear Ann Landers: My hus We have been to their home band and I nave been friendly|twice and the portrait is no with Mr. and Mrs. X many|where in sight. We didn't men years, I cannot count the num-jtion it and neither did they ber of times we have had them/|Henry feels he should return! to our home for dinner. We've|the money and take the portrait never failed to include them/back. What do you sav--Yes or whenever we have a party.jno?--MRS. DON'T KNOW They invited us to a picnic two}; Dear Mrs.: No. Henry is un- vears ago and we were told to der no ob igation to return the bring our own, food. We didn't}man's money. He did his best mind too much because and if the portrait did not times this is the way people do'please the fami! t's too bad on picnics CONFIDENTIAL TO ME OR Last week we were invited to MY CHARIOT: One way to have dinner, with them in a'make sure is.to leave the car restaurant. Both my husbandjin the garage for two weeks and I agreed it was about time they ask her to ride tne bus or walk for some THE YWCA BELONGS TO EVERYONE OSHAWA Y.W.C.A. - » » Register Now For Your Activities FOR WOMEN Swimming Take-a-break Millinery Basic Ady Copper Enamelling Pattern Adjusting Dressmaking Dressmaking Curling Weaving Decorations REGISTRATION for SWIMMING CLASSES will be on Sept. 28 from 2 Rand from 7-9 at ~ All fees must be poid when regi Reg, Bridge Adv. Bridge Badminton Club Ballroom Danie Great Books D Painting and Drawin b ing. Please The YWCA is assisted by the Greater Oshawa Community Chest FOR MEN AND WOMEN OPEN HOUSE TUESDAY 2 p.m. to 5 p.m. -- 7 p.m. to 9 p.m. SEPTEMBER 28th 199 Centre St, 723-7625 FOR TEENS ership Training es Baby Training Course Swimming (age 8-12) Junior Art Class (age 8-12) jay Morning Fun Group sitter Training Course na scussion Group re] Satur the YWCA to bring your YWCA membership card. This is your what it offers you. UNEMPLOYED Men and Women Improve Your Qualifications Free Tuition Plus Living Allowance The Province of Ontario, in co-operation with the Government of Canada and the OSHAWA BOARD OF EDUCATION will provide training at THE R. S: McLAUGHLIN COLLEGIATE AND VOCATIONAL INSTITUTE 570 Stevenson Road North, Oshawa Commencing MONDAY, OCTOBER 4. 1965 to Gr 1. Basic T 2 z, 4. 5. Industrial Sewing and other ining Sor Skill Devel Clerk-Typist. -Stenographic (Secretarial), Shop. Welding Operator. All courses will take place Monday through Friday from 4:45 to 11:15 p.m., and will come mence October 4th if enrolment is sufficient. Duration from 3 to 10 months. A day-time program, including Commercial-Clerical, Key Punch and Business Machines, d shortly, Watch for the advertisements be will W. G. Faweett, Co-ordinator, Program S$ REMEMBER -- 90% of our graduates find jobs --- why not you? APPLY AT YOUR LOCAL NATIONAL EMPLOYMENT SERVICE OFFICE ade 11. £. A, Bassett, Chairmen Oshawa Boerd of Education CARNATION EVAPORATED MILK * SAVE. 14+¢- al Ting STOKE 48 oz. TIN LY FANCY TOMATO SNE st POWER PERFECT. GRAIN-FED BEEF PORTERHOUSE:SIRLOIN-WING STEAKS. ROASTS. 85