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AR EERE," UE ea eS ea ANN LANDERS More Comments On Hiding In Closets "exhibitionistic," Sick you bet. And they can thank their moth- ers, Dear Ann Landers; | am a@ 16-year-old girl who has fallen head over heels for a 17-year-old fellow. I met at a religious camp, » We only had two weeks to- gether but it was heaven, Daryle asked me to correspond with him so I wrote a letter the min- ute I got home, I began, 'Dear Daryle" and signed off, "Oceans of love with a kiss on each wave," His answer arrived today and I felt like a sap, He started his letter, 'Hi there' and ended with, "So long for now, old buddy." I didn't think my let- ter was overly mushy, but maybe it was, How should I start my next letter and how should I finish it---Mise Over- did It Dear Miss; "Dear Daryle," was 0.K,, but you closed with Dear Ann Landers: Recently you printed a letter signed 'from Georgia' commenting on women who undress in the closet, I have a few comments of my own to add, My husband was married to one of those screwballs for 18 years, After raising his two chil- dren he walked out, We have three sons and another child on the way. I am 40, He is 50. You'll look a long time before you find a marriage better than ours, It some of those frigid bed- boards would unwind and do what comes naturally they'd make their husbands a lot hap- pier, They might find, too, that thelr husbands wouldn't ogle every leggy waitress in a tight uniform, Men who are married to closet - hiders get to be like amall boys who want to "look,"' Sick You bet, And they can thank those walking glaciers, who call themselyes wives, | too much love. and too many Glencoe | kisses for a growing boy, Finish Dear Glencoe; I doubt that|the next letter with Sincerely" your comments will smoke out and sign yourself 'Old Buddy," the closet-hiders, They consider |If he continues to treat you like themselves 'properly modest'jone of the boys, I suggest you and insist that your breed {s|save your atamps, King-, Queen-Size Beds For Reclining Years By ELEANOR ROSS |! the standrd sie for a baby's It is a rueful awakening whenjcrib mattress, d | it is realized: that the newly>) A queen-size bed is six inches ~Ipurchased double bed simply|wider than a standard double; THEY CAN ONLY SIT AND WAIT derness, She is holding their nine-month-old son, James. The Defence Department ordered the RCAF Search and Reseue Unit in Halifax Friday to resume the search called off Monday, after Mra, Bindermann asked her MP to intercede, (CP) Mrs, Gall Bindermann, wife of a 33-year-old Mont- teal pilot missing since Aug. 14 in Labrador's barren wil- CHILD GUIDANCE Home Aid By Parents Helps Child's Reading By GARRY C, MYERS, PH.D. Recently I discussed some practices in the kindergarten at etting the child ready to read, fsise pointed out that in some modern first grade classes chil- dren are often given reading readiness practice for many weeks or months before they are really taught to read, I also pointed out that some children and their parents are impatient with waiting so long to go, but added that the trend seems to be toward shortening this practice period in reading readiness, If you and your child of th first grade are impatient over the long wait his teacher is hav- ing him get ready to read, you hardly, would be wise to tell the) teacher you are, or to try to) change her ways, Indeed, she) may have, or think she has,| good reason for her procedure. | In case you are sure your child is eager to learn to read now you might, without damage) but with profit to his future) learning to read, do the follow- ing; does not add up to comfort forja king-size is two full feet Many Paths Open ltwo people, |wider, Both king and queen are Not only has money been ox: isle inches --. The extra pended on the mattress andispace is a welcome improve: For Woman Of 50 bedstead, but ' sheets, hed-|ment, providing more turning} I T d F So s spreads, blankets and possibly|room and seg mh rg | a headboard as well, Super-size bedding, blankets,| n oO ay s ciety| And now that sad, poignant spreads and sheets are avail-| Statistics tell us there are|moment of truth, . . this dou-jable in the stores in the latest {more women than men over age|ble bed may have been ade-\designs and styling, and priced 150, but we wanted to know alquate for one's parents, but alto fit the purse, your child clearly enjoys the/little more than the mere nu-|couple of decades of superior) Bed and headboards also are) experience, Call 'a halt to this|merical factors involved, so weleating and living patterns havelavailable in a variety of sizes) activity if it becomes a chore|called on Walter Pitkin Jr.,j)made what was once consid-|to go with these larger mat: to your child, even if you your-jauthor of the lively and prac: ered a standard size bed com-|tresses, self are teaching him to read.|tical Life Begins at 50 and son|pletely obsolete, The super-size mattresses pre- In case he shows interest, of a famous father, Prof, Walter! This is a serious consideration sent no problem in handling be-| point out to him printed signs in/Pitkin, who back in ! | stores or on the street, and to|wrote Life Begins at 40," lbuying, with special emphasis with luxurious, latex foam rubs) labels on food packages, Keep) The new book came" into be-lon' those furnishing their first/ber, they never have to» be reading more and more tojing, Pitkin explained when I/home or those shopping for re-jturned because they have no your child, enjoy companionable|went to ask him his viewpoints/placement pieces. springs to get knocked out of conversations with him, answer|for women over 50, "after it)EXAMINING NEW BEDS {position or that can become all his questions kindly, and try, Was suggested to me that I re-} Now is the time to investigate | bumpy, to stimulate his curiosity, vise and update my father's|queen-size beds on the market.) Since geen show _ Occasionall 0 ight ask Work lIn fact, 30 per cent of all mat-|most people spen one-third © him paggrcnen hog othe "However, in really. goingitresses being sold today are in/their lives in bed, a prospective | . . jover Life Begins at 40,' 1-found!those categories, lpurchaser of bedding certainly easily could come out of his own head. Some examples are:|'t W4S #0 personal in its terms| Double bed dimensions have|should investigate thoroughly} 4 Is you nose above your chin and so dated because of our) been standardized at 54 inches|the new products that are being or below your chin? Are you changing world, that no mere/by 75 inches long for manyloffered to make his reclining older or younger. than your|revision could make it appro-lyears, giving each sleeper Ajyears more relaxing and 'rest grandfather? Do. animals sit Priate to today's needs {mere 27 inches of space, Thisiful, down at the table and eat as), Fina ig Bh, Sal yl . you do? Which is larger, a cow), °, for to-| : 4 nat? eay Gay § middle-aged Man," Pit gs Way 0 you wee kin went on, "I discovered to- 0 or S etter ution pi day's Woman." . . . GAMES DEVELOP CHILD ' ; ee Th Go 7 P h You peat -- all sorts of Pig | an ing 0 syc latrist games to play with him, such as ies at 50?" Cae te vl ak ail ee ee tall,| Ry ROBERTA ROKSCH --|Dear Mrs. J. Bi: out a direction you give him Belen uanae po gpl nny - Dear Roberta Roesch: | That depends on the job for |fore he begins to carry it out:|New York publishing house, a} Why do you encourage women which you're hired. But i Mat |Close the door; open the door;|retail book-seller and a writer,/to think they want to w -|should not expect too much in READ TO HIM put this book on the table, Keep)jecturer and teacher , the very beginning for your en Go on reading to him more|Making the directions a bitiMORE EMANCIPATED and more from sources other longer and ioe but don't ad-| 'Today a woman of 50 is a than his school reader, Read aa|vance too rap y. Aim at suc-/more liberated, emancipated difficult material as he will|céss by him and celebrate his/person than her counterpart greatly enjoy, reading over and wera gy was at the time of my father's over again those he wants you. | e, ae brings home his)pook," Pitkin answered. 'She in read repented Cakes nat yor en eae ak ee ese, snes § : 's and bee : ' h it oo hd br at home how well he can read, ears een exposed to a whole lot eR ee amelt him, Del exPress. strong appreciation! "But to make the most of her rel "tx to know the| Ver, his achievements: But i'S|opportunities inthe years from}. | likewise tf Seong © ate totter better--to--have--him--show!50-on--she-has-to-set-new- ree sion because she doesn't have|perience you get at your name of a letter he points 'lyou how he can read than for acquire oy he insights sik Tater. a job " ; ring -salary---will-help--you ney If he wants an eager play) you to ask him to show you how ests, grow intellectually, cut the Unsigned|up to more money, once 3 mate or an older brother OF he can read apron strings from her chil-| Dear Unsigned prove you're worth It, sister to teach him te read.) Indeed, you may be wise toldren"s lives -- and even from! If your wife wants a job that OPPORTUNITY TIP | warmly approve, a8 long @8iuse his school book to teachiher grandchildren, Often she|badly, it's better than having Don't waste your time envy:| ihim at home to read. Find) must replan her own life." her go to a psychiatrist ing people who have nothing to FOR HUSBANDS--HOW TO | other books from the library or| As far as new goals are con do, They certainly are going no PRESERVE A WIFE: ager rg Hie pote: --. Age sg ---- ee _-- Ranych ' where , ' , hy ipossibilities, One, for example,| I'm and in need of a job ou) cn a go yet ig eg P| book, full of attractive pictures|is helping a husband face retire-/for an outside interest, But 1) fully to rid her of any ingit.| on brad bg ery to him, Be/ment, A second might be an oo-|will have to replace myself at) (The Irish do it this way) ference. Be careful not to | ag -- vee | enough. /cupational goal; a third, an eco-|home if I go to work, because} Carefully wash 3 Ibs. tender her as you would & spoiled! you, : cot og and success, /nomic goal I still have a child at home as spinach leaves; cut off roots but oie 3 tenting will make her _ emptation will be to press) "Tt the income for the latter|well as a relative who can't be) do not detach leaves from main tough and apt to froth at tha | him too hard, when you might halt of life looks like it will bejleft alone, With this in mind. stems, Slow-heat saute until Ragan inl = -- harm to his learning ja problem," Pitkin points out,|how much do you think I can! well-wilted in \ ¢, cream. Sea- Litt her gently into the nome , a woman of 50 can often helpcount on earning when | get a son to taste with salt and pep: ] Most of all, read more and prepare for the retirement/job? per preserving kettle and tie her)more to him from what he likes'years by going to work on a Mrs, J, B, Serve '"'as is", with strong cords of affection) to hear as he looks at the illus-|part - time or full-time basis!~ , | which are not easily broken.) trations, Measure your success with the idea of saving the DID You a | | Do not sear her with sarcas@M,| by his success and pleasure. (money she makes for the years or is By an penal supe? inte the. business. war? port them? _s \Neither should you expect an | 7 employer to pay you on the ba | Just as one example, my wife sis of your expenses at home. would never have to earn a dol-| Instead, invest in your future lar of her own, But at this stage\by being willing to accept a of her life, she has developed|beginning salary for the pres: such acempuleion to seelent, The margin of profit may whether or not she can earn{seem small when you deduct the some money on her own that expense of replacing yourself at she goes into periods of depres:;/home, but in the end, the ex LEAF SPINACH IN CREAM will make her mushy and spon-|Where he could gain much him-| "With family responsibilities gy with your friends and in| Self and the other children could behind her, a woman can afford North: America stewed wives|8ain moral values in under- to work for less and fill some have never been popular. [t is;Standing and appreciating him. jobs that pay less | bet to let her simmer tenderly) > -- ; at will, to blend tactfully with! dressing and seasoning, Humor} her before asking a great favor, | a little caress or even a glass of cool water will often add to her tenderness Flavor her with oil of hanppi- ness, an ounce of undersianding and a bushel of laughter and fun, Should she seem weak or troubled with masculine fiir tation, smother her in garlic and onions and treble your charms Do not spoil her disposition by unpleasantness, but serve her) daily a platter of strength and} courage, praise her and garnish her with occasional flowers and candy *« *« * K Mm STARR Furniture and Appliance 723-3343 491 Ritson S, OPEN FRIDAY TO 9 P.M. for that causes spitting and) PARENTS' QUESTIONS that are ahead, sputtering which ultimately re) Q. 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