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' a a i THE T-STRAP 1S widen- ed: on, the foreshortened AN EVENING SHOE of grained 'black patent stud- ~ se a oes Ht Te vamp of this pump which is set on a curved middle- height heel. BACK-ZIPPED BOOTS of taupe brushed leather foot- note a black cabretta.Span- Fall Footwear Fashions Feature Shanks, Slings, Straps For style Every Woman Must Find | Her Own Place In Life By SUSAN BARDEN The latest trends in shoe styles are toward an open look. This holds true for daytime, afternoon and evening -- the feet growing barer as the hours advance. Boots are still very much on the scene. They are neces- sities for the many devoted followers, of Courreges: and are equally important to the young- er set. So they appear for fall in almost every height and in JUDGE SPURNS WIFE ASHFORD, England (CP)--A | 31-year-old Kentish wife, _ peti- ded with rhinestones has a sling back and a high slim | heel, CHILD GUIDANCE Children Must tioning for divorce on grounds of cruelty, told the. judge her husband threw cold water over her, rubbed her back with snow when she was in a hot bath, photographed her in the nude and frightened her with his driving. The judge dismissed Learn | ANN. LANDERS Dear Ann Landers: My hus- band and I were at the ball game the other night and in the middle of the fifth inning a loud voice from behind bellowed "Well, if it isn't Dirty-Neck Swanson." I wanted to fall right straight througt the bleachers. M yhusband turned around and there was a fellow he hadn't seen since grammar schooi in Springfield, The man and his wife moved to this city just a few months ago. They'd 'been meaning to look us up. We have run into them twice since the ball game and it's al- ways "Hello Dirty-Neck." This upsets me no en® In. my opin- ion, "Dirty-Neck" is not an ap- propriate greetirig for a grown man who is an attorney and a member of the school board. My husband says he dcesn't mind it--in fact he thinks it's funny., You know how nick- names catch on. I'm afraid this loudmouth might start some- thing. Any suggestions?--LIVID LIVIA Dear LIV: If it bothers you (and I can see your point) tell the Springfield Flash to kock it off, In dealing with insensitive clods the direct approach is the only way. Dear Ann Landers: I am in- censed by the advice you gave the young widow with the 9-year- old-son. She said the boy was full of conversation at the din- ner table and her father-in-law made the boy be quiet because he didn't approve of talking at the table. You said kids should talk at the table and suggested that the mother and. son eat first and let the old maz. eat alone if he wanted silence. The trouble with kids today jis they are all mouth. They run jeverything and everybody. They jtell adults where to head in. ish cape and tight-fitting pants. --Leather Industries of America, a a eee a nad Fda ain Mdk Te Mi res ic aiaiadh bitiada dige Dneneseiaain ii ' Childish Nicknames Are Not For Adults respect for authority. If a grand- father wants to discipline a boy by saying, "Shut up and eat, That's what you're at the table for," he should do it.--OLD FASHIONED FATHER Dear Old Fashioned: Sorry,| - Dad, but. I don't call "Shut up dhd eat" discipline. It's more like a dictatorship--and in my hen this is no way to raise S. Dinner time should be family time. And family time means conversation involving all mem- bers of the family--small fry included, Dear Ann Landers: Two years ago I became engaged to a sweet girl. I've changed the date twice because frankly I'm scared, As the time gets closer] % I have the feeling I just can't go through with it. Maggie is a wonderful person but the fire is out, if you know what I mean. Ever since I gave her a ring it's like | got a dead battery. To make matters worse, I think I'm in love with her sister. Gert is three years younger than Maggie and I didn't meet her until after we were engaged. The minute looked at Gert I knew I had the wrong one. A few weeks ago I jokingly asked Gert for a date. She told me'to go soak my head in a rain-barrel, Please give me the straight word Jike you do every- body else. EENIE MEENIE, Dear Eenie: Now is a fine time to decide you've got a dead battery. Break up with Maggie at once. It would be un- fair to marry her feeling as you do. Bate others and don't go near Gert for at least six months, If she refuses to go out with you after that I wouldn't blame her. You've taken up enough of that They hit teachers*and have no family's time. a wide choice of leathers and colors. |WHITE THE FAVORITE However, white is way ou! in front as the favorite. toward the toes being rounded in either the quarter or full half dollar curve. Heels are mid, slim or chunky for daytime but they go back to the tall and slim for evening. OPEN LOOK The open look is everywhere. It appears in vamps, insteps, shanks and slings, Straps are back with Ts, tailored bow- straps and many other types. Buckles, either solid or picture frame, decorate daytime and dressy pumps. BRIGHT COLORS AFOOT Color as well as leather tex- tures abound in the daytime collections. The brights are \the petition, saying the first |two actions were only horse- Teachers Chinese orange, scarlet and vivid blues. The neutrals are in The new shoe silhouettes tend| By ROBERTA ROESCH In the popular Never-Never- land of solving "The Woman Problem," there seems to be no let-up in the viewpoints on the subject. And if I didn't know this from all the current books, I'd know it from the il now piling up on my desk, hin an- swer to my columns discussing) this situation. The letters give such good views I wish I had room to print them all. However, here's one I can share at least in part--with our readers. FROM GARDEN STATE It is from Mrs. Charlotte) McLernon, a Trenton, N.J., mother who's successfully rais- ing four children and working at home at the same time, run- ning a telephone answering service, typing theses for uni- commitment to. her husband, children and home before she takes the time and effort to go after her own personal desires. CASUAL MENTION "Most of the time these au- thors mention children as cas- ually as though htey weré fur- nishings in a home and almost as obtainable and disposable. At = ROO Bang Te ys BY ik gin GR giak pee gens ghrannaiand THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tursdey. Auguit 10, 1965 117 _ APRICOT ANGEL TORTE AND ICED TEA Play It Cool, Use Preserves To Get Out Of Kitchen Fast When the sun is warm andjl1 envelope (2 ounce) whipped) the outdoor world beckons, you can surprise your family with an angelic dessert and still get out of the kitchen in a hurry, if you plan it right. Planning starts with an un- frosted angel food cake from the. bakery or food store and a recipe for an Apricot. Angel Torte that's as easy to make as it is to eat. Its delightful flavor comes from apricot preserves, its fluffy texture from a whipped topping. If "your preserves are the thick kind, you won't need to touch the stove. If they're topping mix | % cup milk | Blend apricot preserves,| lemon rind, and extract, If pre- serves are 'juicy, heat to boil- ing point and cool; if they are thick, use without heating, Cut cake into three even layers crosswise, Spread 1% cup apri- cot. mixture between cake lay- ers. Combine topping mix and milk; beat as directed on pack- age. Fold in remaining apricot mixture. Frost top and sides of cake. Chill until ready to serve. quite juicy, it's best to thicken) Yield: one 10-inch torte, enough by bringing to a boil and cool- for 12 servings. ing. With only a few minutes off ] mixing and spreading, you) JAMES i achieve a gala dessert that's|§ fresh, cool, and satisfying to the sweetest tooth. It's quick|§ O'MALLEY'! Construction Ltd. APRICOT ANGEL TORTE 1 7 2 3 ba 7 | 2 2 1%- cups apricot preserves and easy enough for a week- 1 teaspoon grated lemon rindjg @ Homes @ Additions 1 Y% the same time, the h d is put into his place as a kind of built-in baby-sitter or maybe a pseudo-mother. "I'm also annoyed at the in- ference that all this. fulfillment we gals have to get is some- thing we must go OUT to find. In many, many cases that is unnecessary and a prime reason why so many of our youngsters have little knowledge of or have lost respect for the home and all the wonderful intangibles of baked 10- cake night dinner, and elegant almond extract Offi li 1 1° ices @ Remode' nos enough for Sunday - best or inch angel food | TEE guests. Cherney's : Semi-Annual - Inventory SALE | play, the nude photography aces pink taupes and grays. 'unimportant and the last com-|Black is still the most popular By GARRY C. MYERS, Ph.D.\scolds. We have talked this\"". 2 | i fs 'The image of an ideal schoollproblem over with our principal|P!aint_was simply per vopmirea cr evening with gold or silver which has been molded by edu-jand she tells us the ehilaren| a bad driver. next in line. a happy household that -make life worth living. "In the years that I have worked at home, I've had con- tacts with many wonderful peo- ple, though I've never stepped out of my own front door to experience the rewarding, prof- itable, stimulating and fun-filled life I've had. versity students and raising pedigreed pups. "While I agree wholeheartedly with many points in the current books about women. needing fulfillment as people,' writes Mrs. McLernon, "I rear up ifi indignatio~ at certain current authors who nowhere in their books dignify a woman's first SGUT goes recent decades - ofjhave to learn that teachers ; a "e centred" place where|have tempers and are people,| £ f Ri h everything is adapted to the| too. This is hard to translate to! amplon omen S 1g ts child, his development and sat-ja 7- and 9-year-old when they) isfaction. With this image injhave to be in the classroom) mind, most parents expect the|some five to six hours daily. | school always to measure up to} "Our girls are very good stu- this "ideal. 'When parents "sup-jgents and their teachers tell us pose it doesn't, they often mayithey both are very polite and | ALIX, Alta. (CP)--Mrs. Irene Parlby, a champion of women's 'Dies At Red Deer, Alberta Judge Emily Murphy, rs. Nellie L. McClung, both of Ed- NEWS IN BRIEF | "While I've had this, I've been home to raise our four children, as my husband and I FANTASTIC! cS. NL TARE OAR BAIT aaa say so to their child, sometimes|they are both on the shy side.| causing him to believe he is ill- "i{rights who became one of the Wed' Maisto' ue t teat st monton; Mrs. Parlby; Mrs. COLLECT FOR CHURCH treated at. school, encouraging him in self-pity. Of course there are, alas, a few terrible teachers. I get let- ters describing some of them but-rarely quote from these let- ters lest my readers might sup- pose most teachers are as bad. I sincerely believe most teachers are really wonderful in their:appreciation of children as' persons and in their under-) standing and kind ways toward children. A problem which has worried many parents and myself is that when we treat 'our own chil- dren as the precious persons they are, they may find it espe- cially-hard to adapt themselves to a teacher or any other person|across a good many other peo-|Was first elected to the legis-| who doesn't treat them so. We at ine pot pow geri h |first women in the world to hold Ith: higsts st. tancher. .who " go(Cabinet rank in parliamentary jimpatient and so inconsiderate|eoyerr yn" te of the children. : | Trimet: service will be held It would be fine if you couldjjn this central Alberta town Fri- persuade the principal to place your daughter with another teacher of the same grade, but if you talk to the teacher di- rectly about it, she probably will get worse. I thir you are on the right pital at Red Deer Monday after a lengthy illness. Although she officially retired from public life in 1935, she con- tinued to give. talks and lec- |tures and publish articles, hold- day. Mrs. Parlby died in hos-| Louise McKinney of Clares- holm, Alta.; and Mrs. 0. C. Ed- wards of Macleod, Alta., in 1929 won a decision by the Privy Council in London that women jcould sit in the Senate. | Mrs. Parlby's cabinet ap- pointment was six months after the late Mary Ellen Smith was taken into the British Columbia cabinet--the first woman in the British Empire to gain a cab- track to helping this little girl by telling her she must.try to find out what the teacher wants jand mahage herself accordingly, jand just expect some ugly things to happen. In her lifetime she will come} iple she will have to get used to.| t : jinet post. Miss Agnes Macphail ing to her belief that women/hecame the first woman mem- can be tough enough to crusadejper of Parliament in Canada on behalf of their ideas. ealthe same year. Mrs. Parlby was appoint 3 minister without portfolio in the} airs. pine Nye bob per _ United Farmers of Alberta gov-|; rr DRUGS OF, HE: Segre ernment in 1921, the year she|" : : She spent her retirement lature. She sat as member forjyears near here at beautiful parents may' feel greatly dis-'In the meantime, look for good|Lacombe for 14 years and held|Dartmoor ranch, which she and turbed then. MUST FACE REALITY Yet we need to face reality and keep in mind that teachers are people and that among them are a few who don't share our insight and consideration and emotional self-control. We need to keep in mind that a teacher with so many children may have to face more emo- tional strain than we face. The mother from California ways in the teacher and play! them up with your child.' PARENTS' QUESTIONS ; Q@ When my daughter, 5, goes |with me to the food store, she always creates a great fuss| 'when I arrive at the checking! counter till I buy something ex-| tra for her. What sheuld I do?! A. Before leaving home tell her whether or not you will buy) something for her and under} the cabinet post until 1934. her husband established 77 She was the last survivingiyears ago as pioneers. She member of the 'The Famous|worked on scrapbooks of her Five" who fought to gain thejhistoric times and at age 93 was right for women to sit in the)still doing her own light house- Canadian Senate. | keeping. TA Born in London Jan, 8, 1868, HOUSEHOLD HINT jshe was the daughter of Lt.-Col. Uncooked oatmeal toasted to|Ernest Lindsay Marryat. She a delicate brown and used for|was educated by private tutors cookies gives them a delicious|and spent 'part of her childhood nutty flavor. lin Punjab, India. who wrote the following letter| org does accept the foregoing. While) .-----__--_ EEE she does not di the) coeone tag] SURVIVES LIGHTNING teacher who does not control, .. . her temper, she tries to help), NORWICH, England (CP)-- Lightning struck a woman's her child 'realize that it is pos-| sible-to adapt herself better to| Umbrella as she ram for a bus, a teacher who doesn't always) Wrenching off the metal stem. speak and act as kindly and Mrs. Minnie Cobbold, 47-year- gently at school as her parents old Norwich housewife, believes do at home. her rubber-soled shoes and the "Dear Dr. Myers: umbrella's plastic handle saved "I would like help in trying, her life. to have my daughtér better un-- ~~ derstand a teacher that loses her patience and yells at her class quite frequently. Summer Ailment "My daughter is in the fourth Strikes Many grade and next term will have comes suddenly; a teacher who is quite noted for Hot weather can play havoc with ou: her temper. The teacher is ex-| eating and drinking habits. Over-eating cellent in every other respect. | Ct certain loeds, over-attivity. over-indut * ad to annoy) (i My daughter does not like to\Or""Summer Complante towne nee hear anyone shout as it upsets right quickly, keep Dr. Fowler's Extract o/ her. Both my husband (who! Wild Strawberry on hand at home, cot teaches in high school) and my- tage, or trips. It relieves nausea, cramps : . . and diarrhea--gently restores intestina self are rather quiet spoken, ,_ balance. Family-proven for over 115 years We have one other girl, 7, A favourite with children as 'well as who also does not do well with,adults, Dr. Fowler's Extract of Wild her {eacher if she eonstantly |St*wberry should be in your home, #s-s To. set you what conditions. Then keep your! 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