26A THE OSHAWA TIMES, Friday, June 18, 1965 - Twenty Good Resolutions To Strengthen Tie That Binds It takes two to make a per- feet marriage. The bride who tries to be a wonderful wife may succeed, if her husband @0-operates. Good example may the situation if the man sn't get the point at first -- that there is no sense in look- ing for trouble, by prolonging or gurturing "unpleasantries. Do your best and you'll have no pegrets. Here are some _ resolutions that may help in marital happi- ness. qt WILL 1. Make my husband's break- _ fast every morning, even if he insists I stay in bed. 2. Try to look human at the breakfast table by wearing a meat house dress or robe, comb- ing my hair. 3. Avoid mentioning my old boy friends and what I might have had if I married another. 4, Make sure that my husband has clean shirts, underwear and that his suit returns from the cleaner promptly. §. Cook him dishes that he en- ys, and lead him gradually better nutrition. 6. Try not to make him over (all at once). 7. Consult him about home furnishings and decoarating. 8. Avoid discussing money matters. with him in the morn- ing, before he goes to work. © 9. Discuss with him plans to Invite guests to the home, and the menu to plan for that even- ing. 10. Try to avoid being jealous ef his friends, male or female. 11. Not pout when he comes home from work late, and listen to his excuse with an open mind. 12. Give him some leisure time and not expect him to sit and admire me all the time. 13. Try to make his interests mine, instead of criticizing the time he spends on baseball or a hobby. 14. Not plead for compliments all the time. 15. Be sure to have his dinner ready when he wants. it. 16. Not criticize him for a friv- lous expenditure now and then if he provides well most of the time. W. Talk over a grievance in mature fashion, not pout or sleep on a grudge. 16. Try not to be jealous of his mother, even if he praises her cooking or compares it to mine. - 319. Show respect for him in the presence of others and not hu- miliate him by word or deed from work. 20. Be home when he arrives FOR THE GROOM A husband who is mature enough to marry should be able to cope with situations that arise in the home. If his goal is to make his wife happy then he will suceed. If he is worried more about his own selfish in- terests, then he may cause a snag in what could be a perfect marriage. Here are some resolutions for | the groom that could help put | the marriage on the blissful} beam: I WILL: 1. Not expect miracles of the mew cook, and will not complain about the meals, except. con- structively. _2. Try to remember that women love flattery, and it doesn't cost anything. 3. Ask her to set a fair cloth- tng allowance, so that she does not have to beg for it. 4. Take her out occasionally for dinner, and not make an issue of the cost. 5. Avoid criticizing her mo- ther and other relatives, even if I don't love them. 6. Not invite the boss, the boys or my relatives to the house without discussing it with her first, 7. Try to keep my home in good repair. 8. Prepare the breakfast occa- sionally; maybe on a Sunday morning. 9. Accompany her to church ff she: asks me te do so, as 10. Not argue with her over a card foursome. 11. Make suggestions about her hairdo, hat, dress, but not in a critical fashion. 12. Lend a hand with the house work occasionally, instead of taking the attitude it's her ex- clusive job. 13. Telephone her when I know that I will be late ~ee home. 14. Not expect her to provide porterhouse steak on a frank- furter budget. , 15. Not go off to work without a goodbye kiss even if I am miffed about something. 16. Listen to 'her day" which must become boring, for want of companionship. 17. Try to make her birthday and our anniversary a festive occasion. 18. 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