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20 THE GOHAWA TIMES, Thursdey, Mey 6, 1965 ANN LANDERS Not All Men Can Resist Temptation Dear Ann Landers: We aren't millionaires but we do have a considerable amount of money in our joint checking account, My husband has a habit of signing his name to checks and then he lets people fill in the amount, For example, we had some stone masonry done last week and the man who did the work said he hadn't figured out the cost of the job yet, My husband| wrote a check, signed it and said 'Fill in the amount when you figure it." When I told my husband this was dangerous he answered, 'I trust people." I believe the man is honest, but what if he lost the check and someone who wasn't honest picked it up? What can you suggest? -- WIFE OF RECK- § ROBERT Dear Wife: It's admirable to trust people, and Reckless Rob-|ffices. ert may never regret it, But it is foolish, for the reason you mentioned and another reason, In the same way that keys left in the ignition might tempt someone to steal a car, a signed check might tempt someone to} write a larger check than he} ought to write. } Dear Ann Landers: A group) of us high school students com-| nore the mone ; fed fami! < : |where y is going again, in our family of boys and, per posed some rules for teachers'}, this fair? -- Mutiny in the haps, in our hearts. When I saw to follow, Please print them in your column, Ten Commandments 1, A teacher should be neat and appropriately dressed. Many teachers would do well to keep this in mind. As for rule Number 7, 1 would like to add a word of my own, In New Jersey several months ago the governor signed a "Hit the Kid Back" bill which gives teachers the right to pro- tect themselves in the class- room, Most high school kids these days are bigger than the teachers, It's the teachers who need protection against man- handling--not the kids. Dear Ann Landers: 1 belong to a club that meets every other week, We play cards and the winners put half their win- nings into a kitty which we do- nate to a worthy charity at the end of the year. The officers decide which charity gets. the money. A certain clique has been running the club for the last two years because they hold the This clique has been voting that the money be given to their pet charity and we re- sent it, Yesterday we had another election of officers. The presi- dent and vice president are sis- ters. The president's daughter- in-law is secretary and her cou- sin is the treasurer, The vice president's niece is sergeant-at- arms, We know right now Ranks Dear Ranks: Do the bylaws say relatives cannot hold of- fice? If not--then it's fair CHILD GUIDANCE By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD "Dear Mr, Myers: I feel that you are an old friend as I have read your column for several years. My husband and I be- eame the parents of six sons in 'not quite' seven years, With our oldest son now 10 years old| and our youngest, three, we feel that we have just emerged from basic training, "We enjoy our children a great deal, although it seems that we must be correcting one or another of them almost con- stantly. Even so, there is a lot of laughter and show of affec- tion in our home, "You have discussed in recent articles the problem child who makes a sudden change for the better. I'm not sure our boy qualifies, for his has been a gradual change over a period of three or four years, But I'd like to tell you about it. |. "Don is our second son, now 814. As early as his first couple of years I sensed something wrong in our relationship to this boy, but seemed powerless to {change anything. I suffered with {him in his unhappiness and lack of approval, as he grew older, |yet scolded and generally dis- japproved of him much of the 'time, He became a bed-wetter, jeasily upset, stubborn, etc. | "{ think it was around his fifth birthday that I realized that this child had no real place this, I began to pray for a }genuine affection and a real place in our family for hing It wasn't long until I found the) Mother Reports Progress Of Her Problem Child | j did the happy times of reading| we had together. | "We didn't try to make op- portunities to-help our child as much as we sought to use dajly situations to the best advantage | 'My husband took the boys with him, singularly, more.often, try- ing to cultivate a closeness to/ each one dividually. BE MORE ATTENTIVE t "1 tried to be less distracted by my work and more attentive to their conversation and inter- ests, Our 'problem" child 'be- came a happier child, even thought it wasn't all at once. It has been gradual and a bit up and down, but progress is evident, | "At present there is no prob- lem with bed-wetting, His school work was good from the start although a bit inconsistent, He got a number of deportment checks at first but they, too, have lessened with time, His writing has always been care- less, | have worked with it, but inconsistently, "He loves to read and selects) very good library reading. His table manners always irritated) us, but they, too, have improved) although we're not s ied with) them, We're much less irritated. Hope we'll soon show no Irrita- tion with them, 'He shows a real desire to be) helped, and doesn't take offence! over being corrected as he once| did, He has gained respect as/ an individual among his broth- ers, mom and dad, and other) relatives, Also he makes friends) (and keeps them) more easily! than ever before. 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A teacher should not apply AIDS MENTALLY ILL make-up, or comb her hair dur- cdr tne Mom Computerized typewriters that; °hanses in all of us ing class. \talk when their keyboard 3, A teacher should not eat,|touched help teach schizophre- 1S\CHECK EMOTIONAL NEEDS 'As I began to really see our drink or take medicine in front/nic children to make contact)son's emotional needs, I shared of students, with reality, 4. A teacher should avoid)" i Playing favorites. | 6. A teacher should not be influenced too strongly by first impressions. | 6. A teacher should give at! least a day of notice on all tests. 7. A teacher should not man- handle students. 8. A teacher should strive for| F a happy medium between be-| [2 = my findings with my husband. |I told him how I thought Don} jfelt in certain situations and | why 1 thought he wasn't re- sponding to us as the other boys | were "We read articles and other literature in order to understand him better. We discussed things | together and tried to come to some conclusions as to how to |help him. We observed him |more and tried to understand you my findings on the subject| of our 'problem' child, It wasn't the child's doing; it was mainly mine, his mother, "My husband and | are be ginning to see our children, not only as our 'bunch of kids,' but as real men in the not too dis- tant future."" PARENTS' QUESTIONS @. Why do you urge. that children of schoo] age have a regular budgeted allowance? A. It helps the child use money well. It helps him feel OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE more self-reliant, and reduces parent-child 'vexations, his actions and reactions better. Open to 9 p.m, Thurs: & Fridoy 'We followed your advice to a po too personal and too dis-| WIFE PRESERVER 9, A teacher sh PP Noe Pag fh - OO SANG) oe ice wobdin "shelved and eliminate a lot of unnecessary] 10. A teacher should keep her|racks to inside of cupboard|,2"" ts' and stick to the impor-/ tant issues. 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