CARE OF THE VERY YOUNG Victorian Order Nurses Heed Ever-Increasing Calls For Help By JO ALDWINCKLE Last year in Oshawa the Vic- torian Order of Nurses gave care to 298 persons who re- ceived 5,353 visits, an increase of 438 visits aver 1963. 'This marks the 3ist year in which the Victorian Order of Nurses service has been avail- able to the citizens of Oshawa and bedside nursing care to peo- ple ill at home continues to be our primary service," Miss Isa- belle Sorley, nurse in charge stated at the annual meeting. "Ninety-eight per cent of the visits made were to give bed- side nursing: care. Five years ago, in 1959, ninety-one percent of the visits were to give bed- side nursing care, Two per cent of the visits were to give health supervision and nursing care to mothers and new _ babies, just returned from the hospital. Maternity patients receiving visits were those who required visits for medical reasons, ap- proximately one patient in five, or those who felt the need of daily visits by the nurse during the first few days on their own at home." CALLS FOR ALL AGES Visits were made to people of all ages, Miss Sorley said. One in every two of the patients were 70 years of age or over. They received sixty per cent of the visits. Twenty persons received continuous care for more than one year, sixteen of these for more than two years. Of the remainder of the pa- tients, many have received visits periodically from six to eight years. The majority of persons were visited because of a chronic condition. "Supportive care is necessary," Miss Sorley said, "so that they may live as nor- mal a life as possible in their homes. Sometimes a weekly in- jection is given, a bed bath, assistance with walking or treat- ment. The nurses making the visits must keep in mind the principles of rehabilitation nurs- ing and healthful living in order to help the patient and family to as useful and independent a life as possible." NO ONE REFUSED Miss Sorley pointed out that many patients in the older group wers living on a reduced income. At the same time they were faced with the expense of illness. It was the responsi- bility of tne VON Nurse mak- ing the first visit to a family to set the fee, the maximum being $3.50 per visit. Considera- tion was xiven to the income, expenses . and approximate length of time the service would be required. No one was ever refused service because of inability to pay. Assisting Miss Sorley as staff nurses are Mrs. C. F. Litster and Mrs. Joseph Benson with Mrs. H. J. Durant as_ relief nurse. At weekends the Osh- awa Branch shares the work with the Whitby Branch and this plan, started in 1963 is also applied to holidays and night. The Osnawa Branch is super- Pom alive! You're in the Pepsi generation! PEPSI-COLA baal Smith Beverages Ltd., 750 Farewell Street , MISS ISABELLE SORLEY (Nurse in Charge) vised by the regional director, Miss Catherine Maddaford of Toronto and receives an annual grant from City Council and support from the Community Chest. This year's financial statement presented by showed a deficit of $2383, but like police and fire protection and public transportation, the VON is a service that Oshawa cannot afford to be without. STUDENTS OBSERVE Observing the operation of these qualified nurses also pro- vides training for students. Dur- ing 1964 two public health nurs- ing students from Toronto Uni- versity, one from Queen's Uni- versity, spent a totai of 54 days with the Oshawa Branch. This was to give the students practical experience in visiting nursing. Three undergraduate nurses from the Nightingale School of Nursing: and three students from the Oshawa General Hos- pital also observed the work of the VON Nurses. This period of jobservation helped them to junderstand the needs 'of pati- ents after discharge from hospi- tal. The Oshawa Branch owns three automobiles and all the nurses drive. In rain, hail, sleet or snow these' ministering angels in navy blue bring their professiona) calm, cheer and comfort to those in distress, the} treasurer, Mr. F. A. MclIlveen Old Country Club St. Patrick's Dance The Oshawa and District Old Country Club held a successful St. Patrick's dance at the New Kinsmen Hall. last Saturday evening. More than 200 members and their friends attended ~ and guests were present from Tor- onto and Hamilton. Among those seen dancing were Mr. and Mrs, S. Norton, Orono; Mr. and Mrs. F. Smith, Hamilton; Mrs. E. Long and friends from Toronto; Mr. and Mrs.' Leonard Beech, Hamilton; Mr. and Mrs. Ivan Dempster; Mr. and Mrs. F. McGuire; Mr. and Mrs. Brian Whitmarsh; Mr. and Mrs. Alex Air: Mr. and Mrs. Ron- ald Grossman; Mr. R. Seingier, Miss Joan Batchelor, all of Osh- awa, | Mr. George Day was the pop-! ular master of Ceremonies while "Geraldo" and his band supplied the music. Some musi- cal numbers heard included Mc- Namara's Band, 'Peggy O'- Neil", '"'Alexander's Ragtime Band", "Galway Bay", 'The Wild Colonial Boy" and a selec- tion of Irish Jigs. During the evening, Mrs. Ev-' erett Long sang a group of Irish songs including 'Danny Boy', and "When Irish Eyes Are Smiling'... agg. Mr. James Harris sang two or three songs one of which was "Are You Lonesome Tonight?" Just prior to the interval Mr. Brian Whitmarsh, Mr. Paul Mc- Ivor and Mr. Harry Davey dressed up as leprechauns com- plete with beards, green tunics, plug hats and clay pipes enter- tained an amused audience. Mrs. Ronald Grossman and Miss Joan Batchelor who were also dressed in traditional Irish costume gave out miniature Irish plug hats to all. Refreshments were served during the interval by Mrs. Dav- |id Boakes, Mrs. Leonard Riley, \Mrs. George Day and Mrs. Elsie Buttle. Photos of the variety night held February 27, were on dis- play as an item of interest. The building fund raffle prize, consisting of two matched pieces of luggage, was won by Mrs. William Allan. The lucky. door prize, a set of 12 glasses, was won by Mrs. Ernest Mcllwraith. The next attraction of the Oshawa and District Club will be the Spring Frolic Dance to be held in the New Kinsmen Hall on Saturday, April 10. R.C.A. Model GF631 SEE IT NOW 491 Ritson Rd, S. STARR . 723-3343 COLOR T.V. Al... FURNITURE APPLIANCES Oshawa CARE OF THE ELDERLY 18 THE OSHAWA TIMES Wemen , Thursdey, Merch 18, 1965 SOCIAL & Jo Aldwinckle, The choir of Albert Street |United Church were guests at /Grace United Church, Toronto, last Sunday, on the occasion of Grace Church's 78th anniver- sary. This was a return visit, Grace Church Choir having visited Albert Street Church last September, On Sunday, the Rev- erend S. C. H. Atkinson, a for- mer pastor of Albert Street United Church gave the sermon. the choir and Mr. Harold Ellis was the organist. i Mr. and Mrs. Harold Robin- son, Masson street, recently re- turned from a winter vacation in Coral Gables, Florida, where they visited Mrs. Robinson's aunt. Mr. and Mrs. Lorne Sykes, |Glengrove avenue, and Mr. and \Mrs. Robert Stewart, Shelley avenue, are leaving tomorrow, to spend a two-week vacation in Antigua, West Indies. Mrs. Uriah Jones, Simcoe street north, entertained the French Conversation group of the Lyceum Club at her home on Thursday evening. Metro Voice of Women (in connection with International Co-operation Year) are pre- senting the play, "The Highest Tree," starring Mr. Charles Joliffe, winner of the Drama Festival Award 1964, at the Unitarian Church, St, Clair avenue west,. Toronto, tomor- row. Those attending from Qsh- awa will be Mr. and Mrs. Bryce Ward, Dr. and Mrs. Syd- ney Bateson, Mr. and Mrs. E. A. Winkler, Mr. W. Gold- Jewellers A. Telephone 723 - 3474 for Women's Department PERSONAL Women's Editor ing, and Miss Madeline Gus- | cott. Local 45, Canadian Union of Public Employees, Oshawa General Hospital, held a suc- jcessful bingo and dance, Sat- jurday, at the Knight's of Col- jumbus Hall on Bond atreet. | |Mrs. Albert Law and Mrs. Ruth) |Shortt were the conveners, | | Mr. W. D. Parkhurst, Grooms avenue, was a visitor last week Mrs. Charles Naylor directed|with Mr. and Mrs. Raymond) of Nurses, held recently in the City /Bruce, Newtonville. Mrs. T. H. Everson and her| daughter, Mrs. W. G. Salter, had as their guest, Maple Grove. Mr, and Mrs. F. I. Thomas, \Miss Lynda Thomas and Mr.} Donald Gibson, all of Oshawa, | home of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas, Maple Grove, occasion of Mr. Harry Thomas' 71st birthday. Harry) on the) Saturday visitors at the home of Mr. and Mrs. P. J. Flintoff, Maple Grove. | Mr, and Mrs. Leonard Good-| murphy and family, Taylor ave-| nue, spent Sunday with Mrs.) Goodmurphy's mother, Mrs. Allan Snowden, Maple Grove. F.R. BLACK. o. OPTOMETRIST 136 Simcoe St, North PHONE 723-4191 Dainty hand-sculptured setting enhanced by § glowing diamonds, . Two side diamonds nestle in the charming rt motif. . Truly modern - with § A. 30.00 Down 7.50 Weekly B. 10.00 Down 2:50 Weekly C. 26.25 Down 6.50 Weekly BURNS JEWELLERS Poy diamonds in 20 Simcoe North 723-7022 OPEN FRI. TILL 9 PLM. DR. H. ROY ROWSELL A New President Dr. H. R. Rowsell was elected president of the Oshawa Branch of | the Victorian Order Hall. Other _ officers D. Russell; Gunter. Finance chairman, Mr. N. McFadyen; medical inating committee Mr. N. J, Moran. Oshawa VON Has | elected were: one day | Honorary member, Mrs. Uriah last week, Mrs. L, C. Snowden,|Jones; past presiendt, Mrs. C. Ist. vice-president, Mr. F. A. Mcllveen; 2nd. vice- |president, Major F. J. Lewis; secretary, Miss Helen Boddy; all assistant secretary, Mrs. E. A. were Sunday visitors at the/Mounce;. treasurer, Mr. C. L. advisory |chairman, Dr: H. R. Rowsell; Mr, and Mrs. Eric Brock and|@ducation and publicity chair- family, Ritson road north, were|man, Mrs. Joseph Haas; nom- chairman, anniversary. "Who is a delinquent or what constitutes delinquency depends very largely on time, the place and the individual. Actually, delinquency is a legal invention that came into existence with the development of laws." Thus began Mr. William Smith, at- tendance officer with the Board of Education, when speaking to the Vincent Massey Home and School Association recently. He went on to say that age determines whether a person was legally incapable of com- mitting a crime (under eight years of age), a criminal] (adult), or a delinquent (cov- ering the years between). "Apart from murder, youth- ful offences, for the most part, have no counterpart in adult life," he said. "An incorrigible truant child may be adjudged delinquent, but an adult could not be considered a criminal for such acts." Mr. Smith also pointed out that no longer could delinquency be considered a minor issue pecu- liar to certain groups living in undesirable areas, On the con- jtrary, he cited examples throughout the world, both East and West, which proved that in spite of the many welfare pro- grams instituted to elevate the lot of the poorer classes, crime and delinquency were on the in- crease, Even Sweden, with its excellent record of welfare care, was not immune. With society changes, from a rural family-centred type to an urban, industrial, rather im- personal type, becoming more prevalent, delinquency had in- creased, with the control pass- ing from unwritten laws and customs of family, tribal and religious origin, to written laws with the police, the courts and other special institutions enforc- ing them. . CAUSE OF MISBEHAVIOUR "A troublesome child is a troubled child." Mr. Smith emphasized that behaviour was caused, and stated that school offered a good place to detect possible delinquents as their troubles usually showed up in that environment. Every at- tempt must be made to see that a child's physical needs were adequately met for these could cause behaviour problems, but emotional needs were most often the cause. Eveny child had six impor- tant needs emotionally: affec- tion; feeling of belonging; in- dependence (within reason); sense of achievement; approval and recognition from his age- mates and the feeling that he measured up to his own stan- dards. Misbehaviour was usu- ally caused by a combination of factors. 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These children often came from homes where parents quarrelled frequently, did not agree on discipline, expected too much of their children at school, or rejected them, deny- ing them many of the emotional needs mentioned earlier. 3 "Casual" lacked strength to resist great tempta- tions, or to face up to a crisis, and so committed a delinquent act. The group was the only one that might respond to pun- ishment, requiring strengthen- ing and support in their efforts to behave. A child's feeling about his situation were impor- tant, particularly if there was a handicap of some sort involy- ed, His reaction to a handicap or his observance of adverse reactions in others around him to it, might do more damage than the handicap itself, be it physical, mental, or social (be- haviour). CORRECTION AND HELP Mr. Smith explained how at- tendance counsellors tried to help these children. Each child was presumed to have four sets of teachers; home, school, play- mate and community, and a combination of at least three of these would have to co-oper- ate to help, ex¢luding perhaps the playmate teachers. By listening to the parents sympathetically a friendly co- operative spirit could be estab- liyed so that a counsellor could often help them understand the child's difficulties. and view- point, and provided a real link between home and _ school. At school the principal and teachers welcomed the chance Grade four, five years in Grade 5 and six years in Grade 6, difference in mental age and ability and physical maturity between the top and the bottom students, This was in itself a source of many problems. Although a counsellor might not have actual contact with the playmate teachers of a. child he must recognize the impor- tance of their influence and should know in what capacity the child considers himself a member of their group, Seek- ing approval from them often led to deliberate mischief and pinishment would only enhance his position with them. A child's Church, Sunday School, boys or girls group, or sport group leaders all had a significant effect on his life. There were also those who must uphold and enforce the laws and an understanding attitude was of. prime importance in handling delinquent youngsters. "Let us as adults look to our- selves and examine our own attitudes and practices before condemning adolescents for do- ing what they see rather than what they are told is right," he said. "Who of us is 'without sin to cast the first stone'?" concluded Mr. Smith. Mr. Smith was introduced by Mrs. Walter Libby, convener for the evening, and thanked by Mrs. Gerald Hudson, BUSINESS MEETING A short business meeting pre- ceded the address, with Mrs. Gordon Garrison, president, in the chair. The membership chairman reported 68 member- ships sold, and the nominations committee chairman reported that the slate was not yet com- pleted. It was announced that there will be a bake sale March 25, and Mrs. Garrison also men- tioned the convention to take place in Niagara Falls from April 13-15. She also read a warning to parents that air ri- fles were considered a danger- ous weapon and were not a toy to be played with carelessly, and that parents would be liable for damage caused by children misusing them, The next meet- ing is April 12, and is the anual meeting. Refreshments were served by the mothers of Mrs, James Mc- Millan's and Miss Jaclyn Doake's classes under grade mothers Mrs. H. W. 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