Se 'DISTAFF DIARY Summary of reports of Oshawa women's organiaztions as compiled and activities of meetings . from reports submitted by their secretaries. WESTMOUNT KIWANETTES The Westmount Kiwanettes held their March meeting in the Corvair room of the Genosha Hotel, One guest was welcomed by the president, Mrs. A. M. Moore. Volunteers were asked) to work at Hillsdale Manor Fri- day, March 5. A paper or "Ki- wanis Education" was given by Mrs. A. Suwala. Mrs. W. A. Smith introduced the guest speaker 'Miss Lynn Avery" physiotherapist at the Crippled Children's School and Treatment Centre on Bloor street east. She gave an inter- esting outline of the school from its beginning with a small en- rolment up to the present time where they now have one full time teacher, one part-time teacher, a speech therapist and Miss Avery the physio- therapist. She had_ illustrated colored slides of the children in their classrooms and play area, and much credit was given to the firemen for assisting the children with swimming lessons at the Boys' Club. Mrs. Donald Thompson thank- ed Miss Avery on behalf of the club and a tour of the Crippled Children's School followed. CHRIST MEMORIAL WA The March meeting of the CENTRE STREET UCW 2 The March meeting of Centre Street United Church Women, Unit 2, was held in the chapel. Mrs. William Noble was in charge of the devotional period with Mrs. Roy Lick assisting. Mrs. William Noble read a story by the well known au- thor, Mr. E. R. McEwen, tell- ing of the work among the In- dians in the Red Lake and Moosonee districts by the church and mission workers. The president, Mrs. Mansell Gerrow, presided for the busi- ness meeting. Plans were made to cater to a wedding in April and activities for the spring were discussed. Mrs. Wilfred Badgley and Mrs, Claude Flew- welling will serve at the Tuck Shop at Hillsdale Manor. It was announced that Unit 2 would be in charge of the devotional period and refreshments at the UCW meeting on March 24. ST. MARY'S CWL The Reverend N. L. Gignac joperied the March meeting of St. Mary's of the People coun- cil of the Catholic Women's League recently. The president, Mrs. Max Cole- man, welcomed the members and called on education conven- er, Mrs. Frank Maloney, to in- troduce Miss Vivian Kostiuck THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Maintain a. strictly down-to- earth attitude on Saturday. Some adverse planetary aspects indicate delays and disappoint- ments in putting over new plans, so it would be best to stick to routine generally. Avoid making hasty decisions, too, or you may have to reverse your- self later. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that within the next 12 months your SWEET SOUR CORNED BEEF SANDWICHES bs dell scales Corned Beef Brisket Is As Irish As Paddys Pig Faith An' Be Gorrah, if it|beef and sweet-sour cabbage. Naomi Branch of Christ Memo- isn't St. Patrick's Day! A gay rial Church Women's Auxiliary was held recently, with Mrs. Gordon White presiding. After the opening prayer, the presi- dent welcomed the guests pres- ent, Mrs. Donald Ellis introduced the Reverend J. D. Osborne who showed and spoke on an interesting film strip entitled "The Christian Altar." Mrs. David St. Andrews thanked Mr. Osborne on behalf of the mem- bers. Many pretty and useful articles for the Dorcas Bale and Master Robert Bryden, re- cent public speaking contest winners. Robert is to go on to represent Ontario County South in further contests in Toronto. Both students delivered their talks. Vivian on 'Canadian Unity" and Robert on "Thom- as Beckett'. The spiritual convener, Mrs. enneth Johnson, suggested that the league make a contri- bution to the World Day of Prayer, March 5, and it was decided to offer-up first Friday were on display. Refreshments) ™asses Mrs, Coleman thanked Mrs. holiday when clay pipes, sham- rocks, the Blarney Stone, and the Wearin O' The Green be- come the order of the day. And for your Irish market order, add a rosy corned beef brisket, as traditional as the holiday itself. Complete the list with a head of cabbage and a loaf of rye bread, accompani- ments to the corned beef. At the market, look for the two most trusted words in meat. This famous brand corned beef brisket is sold in neat, con- venient, flavortite, transparent The cabbage is cooked until ten- der and then brown sugar and lemon juice are added for the special fiavor. Sandwiches are assembled bv covering slices of rye bread with corned beef and topping with sweet-sour cab- bage. For an extra-special dessert, serve lemon cupcakes iced in white and trimmed with tiny green shamrocks. So Faith An' Be Gorrah, make this St. Pat- rick's Day complete with de- licious sweet-sour corned beef tional and fi ial inter- ests should go very well. Job and-or business matters will take an uptrend in late April and early May, in September, late December and January. Best cycles for fiscal interests: The balance of this month, early May, all of July, mid- September, mid - October and next January Personal relationships will be governed by generous influ- ences for most of the year ahead, and social activities should be unusually stimulating between May and September; in December and January. Do not overtax yourself during the latter month, however, since new opportunities for business and financial expansion should be available then and you will need to be at your best, both mentally and physically, to take advantage of them. Best per- iods for romance: late June, all of. July (an all - around good month for Pisceans) and late September A child born on this day will be endowed with excellent lit- erary ability, and could become} sensational stories. it. 'Insist he write it over if it is slovenly,' you say. "Then, Dr. Myers, you must, to be fair, insist that the child who stutters keep talking until he speaks plainly and that the child who can't sing must prac- sandwiches. SWEET-SOUR CORNED BEEF | SANDWICHES tice until he is a good singer ae er a exqappemente we -- 2 see THE OSHAWA TIMES, Friday, Merch 12, 1965 1 1f ANN LANDERS Denials Useless In False Identity Dear Ann Landers: Recently 5 y you printed a letter from a 23-/a2m now dating. and having year-old homosexual who was/00d time. classified 4-F. He wanted to|, Last night Rex called and know what to tell friends and|begsed me to meet him at a relatives who kept pestering|¢afe. He sounded very upset s him with questions about why told the young man not to feel under any obligation to give de- tails to anyone--including his mother, to every 23-year-old male on the West Coast who is not in the army because he trouble, a trick knee or a heart murmur? in print five people asked me if I had read Ann Landers' col- umn. Then they looked at me funny. It so happens that I am 23 years old and that I live on the West Coast. I am also a 4-F--for reasons which -- will not go into here. Sometimes -- think you cause more. trouble than you do good. Why don't you retire and check into an old folk's home? -- 4-F AND NORMAL Dear Norm: I'm a little un- der age for the old folk's home he was not in the army. You|his wife and he's not sure th Do you realize what you did|t@ke him back. confused and afraid to become has backlinvolved. Please help me.-- RI The day that letter appeared|Poison. He is also married and| owe him nothing. I agreed. He tells me he hates| baby is his. He wants to get, a divorce and marry me, H says life isn't worth living and he'll commit suicide if. 1 don't I loved him once but now I'm ANNAMA Dear A: This character js] a father. Tell him to stay away from you and to work out his problems as best he can. You Dear Ann Landers: I am 14] years old (a boy) with a prob- lem that none of my friends| seem to have. My Dad is always asking me to call up certain business peo-| ple on the telephone. I'm sup-4 \ posed to look up the number, get the party on the line then call him. Sometimes I feel like} a jerk because I can't think off an outstandingly good writer of| where gets mad at me because anything to say. Last night I told my Dad J didn't want to make the calls| any more and he said, "I don't] care whether you want to or| not, I do plenty of things I don't} want to do. This won't kill you."' How about it? Is my father fair?--RATTLED ROBERT and I like my work too much to retire, but I'm sorry I made trouble for you. Every day someone, some- a letter that appeared in the column is~- uncomfortably simi- lar to his problem. When this occurs, denials are m " useless. Remember--he who. ex-| Dear Rattled: Yes, he's fair. cuses himself accuses himself.| !t's a joy (and sometimes a Dear Ann Landers: Eighteen shock) to encounter a teen-ager months ago I became engaged who can speak courteously andj to Rex. We were both 21 and intelligently to an adult he nows, much less a stranger. were served. | PMA CLUB The Pleasant Monday After- noon Club met at the Legion Hall for its weekly meeting with Mrs. George V. Lee pre- siding. Favorite hymns were sung and readings given by Mrs. R. G. Collison, Mrs. Alice Baker, and Mrs. Stanley Harri- son. The annual outing to Niagara Falls will take place June 14, and names are now being taken, Members reported sick were Mrs. John Callison, Sr., Mrs. Mason Chamberlain and Mrs. Albert Morphy. LEGION AUXILIARY The Ladies' Auxiliary, Royal Canadian Legion Branch 43, met for its weekly meeting with the president, Mrs, Alyn Elliott, presiding. Mrs. Alfred Lavender's report on recent} catering was given, also a re-| port on sports activities by the + mad Mrs. Edward Bouck- y. | Members were reminded of| the Auxiliary sports social on March 23 which will include euchre, cribbage, darts, bingo,| and refreshments. It was announced that at the conclusion of the meeting on March 30, a_ representative from the Bell Telephone Com- pany would address the meet- ing and sketches would be shown, and that a social eve- ning was planned for April 20 with visitors from four other Auxiliaries. The Zone darts tournament Gordon Dignem, Mrs. Mary Chinn, Mrs. George King and Mrs; Leonard Weeks, who work- ed for four hours recently at the Tuck Shop in _ Hillsdale Manor. Mrs. Leo McCarthy, con- vener of TV radio and films, announced that a list. of the 10 best films of tht year would be posted at the back bulletin board. Mrs. Hart Williams and Mrs. Chinn were thanked by the president for running a success- ful rummage. sale. Mrs. Kenneth Johnston and Mrs. Dignem, conveners for the March 16 dessert bridge called a St. Patrick's Night of Cards announced that plans were going well and ticket sales were good. Mrs. George Evans has been recruited to help lunch eonvener, Mrs. Norman Fry. It was suggested that in or- der to furnish our new rectory that we join with the Holy Na Fund. A Holy Hour is to be held June 20 at the Civic Auditorium. It was decided to present a scholarship to a_ student in Grade 9 at St. Joseph's High School, obtaining the highest marks in Grade 8 at either St. Christopher's or St. Paul's schools. Father Gignac addressed the group about the book 'Black Like Me" written by John How- ard Griffin. Program convener, Mrs. William Edwards showed a film on Dublin. Refreshments will be held in the Legion Hall on April 29, at 7.30 p.m. A night of cards was planned for May 5 and tickets were were served. CAR INSTRUCTION WINNIPEG (CP) -- A Winni- |wrap completely vacuum-pack-| jed to keep the juices in. Popular| Yield: 9 to 12 sandwiches |family - size pieces range in|3 pounds corned beef brisket weight from 2 to 3 pounds. Since|8 cups shredded cabbage corned beef is boneless and|2 tablespoons water served thinly sliced, you can|1 tablespoon butter or marga- plan on 3 to 4 servings -per rine pound. 1 teaspoon salt Cooking corned beef is a| % cup brown sugar simple matter. Just place the|2 tablespoons lemon juice brisket in a deep kettle and| Rye bread leover with water. Cover the| Place corned beef brisket in kettle tightly and simmer .. .|a deep kettle and cover with do not boil ... one hour per|water. Cover pan tightly. Bring pound, or until the meat is fork-| water to a boil. Reduce heat and tender. simmer 2% to 3 hours or until Carving corned beef calls for|meat is fork-tender. Combine a special technique. Begin at the|cabbage, water, butter, and salt narrow, thinner end and cut|in a saucepan. Cover and cook, across the grain into thin %-inch|stirring occasionally, about 20 slices. The grain changes direc-| minutes or until cabbage is ten- jand the child with a limp must)Ten days after my parents an- walk until. he doesn't favor the|/nounced our engagement at a |bad foot or leg. Why should|lovely party, Rex told me the d together two years. A Pi ' had gone togetlt y Don't fight it. It's good training. now on sale, The Zone Rally|neg service station has been will be held in Whitby, May | Commended by the Greater Win- 11, with dinner to be served at! nipeg Safety Council for estab- 6.30 pm. Names of members | ishing a series of safety clinics wishing to attend must be in/on safe motoring and car care by the end of April. for women. Women receive one Congratulations were express-|hour instruction in each of three) ed to Mr. and Mrs. Wil-|cessions. liam Evans on the occasion of their 61st wedding anniversary, HOUSEHOLD HINT March 10. Mrs. Evans was a' Pieces of driftwood can be| Zone Commander also _presi-|bleached with commercial wood | dent of the auxiliary a' few)bleaches, or wet it with laundry years ago, and active. in many|soap and water and place in| other phases of auxiliary work.|direct sunlight. Seek Six Macdonald Paintings | For Forthcoming Exhibition | ing Lake O'Hara" (oil on can- is looking for six paintings by|¥@s 30 x 5), and "In the Rock-| J. E. H. Macdonaid, believed]: °S, (AM messurements | pre} to be in the Toronto area. | Miss Nancy Robertson, one of The Gallery is now in thejthe Art Gallery's curators, who planning stages for an exhibi-|is arranging the J. E. H. Mac- tion of this well-known Group|donald exhibition and writing of Seven artist, to open in No-|the catalogue, says "In track- vember of this year, but, sixjing down Mr. Macdonald's key paintings wanted for the|paintings across Canada, I nave The Art Gallery of Toronto tion as carving progresses, so it} is best to turn the meat so that cross-grain cutting may be con- tinued. This holiday serve sweet-sour corned beef sandwiches, a. de- lightful combination of corned|bread, if desired. der. Blend in brown sugar and lemon juice and heat. To as- semble sandwich cover a slice of bread with sliced corned beef. Top with sweet-sour cabbage. Cover with second slice of Society in their Parish Project | CHILD GUIDANCE By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD A Wisconsin mother scolds me for telling parents to have their children rewrite homework and the like more neatly and care- fully. Here is her letter. "My mother wrote a beautiful script and this I thought I ishould be able to do if I just practiced enough. No child ever tried more intensely than I but it just didn't work. I tried arm and when these failed, finger movement, and that failed also. For years I labored under the delusion that if I just practiced enough I should be able to make "ovals"' as well and smooth as any one. I couldn't. FIRST ALWAYS BEST "My first line of writing was always my best. The longer I wrote the more I wobbled. The teacher would come by my desk and see that I was getting pro- gressively worse and say, 'See, up here where you really. tried you didn't do so badly. Start a new sheet and I want to see each line as good as that first one.' So I would tr; and fail even more completely than on the first sheet, "The harder I tried the less I was able to control my un- co-operative arm muscles. On movement, her next round of inspection the| - teacher was always less pleased. She shamed me by calling my work careless and slovenly. At this point I was in tears, and more writing was next to im-| A Mother Expresses Views on Handwriting some people's hands sweat, others tremble, others clinch a fist or twist anything they. can lay their hands on, others twitch or feel weak and jittery. A su- preme effort causes our muscles to tense up. In any of these emo- tional conditions muscular con- trol for exact work like penman- ship is impaired. CONTROL IMPORTANT "It is my contention based on my experience and on my. ob- servance of others that those children who have a miserable time learning to write have it because of an inherited lack of control for exact work, which is greatly exaggerated and com- pounded by the 'shaming' with which their handicap is faced by teachers and parents. "When a child has trouble controlling his throat muscles so that he stutters we would blush for shame at any one who insisted the child repeat the word over and over until it came out correct. But when a child has a tremor or a lack of contro! ef arm muscles is it any less shameful on the teacher's part if she scolds or calls the miserable child careless and slovenly? Yet it is done every day and you' seem to condone NEED A Mattress possible. For years I could not| exhibition are proving difficult/found that a number of paint-| weeks to locate. ings have vanished -- presum- read my own writing a few after. | | Dr. Myers, everyone knows) The paintings are: 'A Grayjably into private collections of|that emotions are transmitted to! Winter"' (which, in 1910, inspired) which we know nothing. I have|ur hands and arms in some! artist A. Y. Jackson to contact/reason to believe that some of|Way. Unde | : 'i the|{hese paintings may actually be) the future members -- of Group of Seven); 'October Af- ternoon, Howard Pond" (oil on canvas, 24 x 18); "Pumpkins and a Pump" also known as "Sunny Corner" (oil on board 21 x 26); "Outside Harbour Bar"' (oil on canvas 21 x 26); '"'Morn- in Toronto, or Montreal." | Miss Robertson . hopes that anyone who owns any of the paintings she is looking for, will get in touch with her at the Art Gallery of Toronto (363-3485) jimmediately. CcAN PATTE'S LUCIT WALL PAINT ADA SOON AVAILABLE AT PAINT AND WALLPAPER 85 Simcoe St. N. -- 725-3529 ff BEST SELECTION AT WILSON'S MATTRESS PALACE 20 CHURCH ST. stress | emotional | | THE ULTIMATE IN j SPACIOUS 1-2-3 BEDROOM SUITES * PENTHOUSE * UNDERGROUND PARKING * ADULT BUILDING G@ORGIAN er LUXURY LIVING!! CEILING ELECTRIC CABLE RADIANT HEATING * B; MODEL SUITE . * By Appointment Only 723-1712 or * 728-2911 mMansiOns 124 PARK. ROAD NORTH: OSHAWA Jone handicap be the subject of|horrible news. jshame and called careless and} j\lazy and 'slovenly,' and not the | others? "Why can't we believe that every child would write a per- fect script if only he could?' My reply in part. I do want to thank you for your letter. I'm sure you made a good point and I hope to keep this matter in mind the next time I talk about having parents check on children's neatness of handwrit- ing or to have them recopy written homework. However, I could not go with you all the. way. I think that, whereas your point applies to a few children, the average child who doesn't write neatly and legibly could be guided to improve greatly, He needs to be guided kindly, calmly and sympathetically. There is no place for shaming. I don't believe that you can properly compare stuttering to messy and illegible writing, though there must be cases in which this would be true. The very nature of stuttering usu- ally involves emotions to a far greater degree than poor pen- manship. PARENTS' QUESTIONS | Our son in the second grade has no assigned home- work. How may I prepare him now for doing homework he will get one or more years later? A. Make sure he is home after dark on nights before school, and that he spends at least half an hour each evening reading from material you ap- prove, other than his books. He had gotten an 18-year-old girl in trouble and would have to marry her. I never heard the girl's name before that night and here he had been seeing her on the sneak for over a year. I was a college junior and had to drop out for the remainder of the semester because I was too ill to get out of bed. It took months of therapy before I was able to leave the house and face my friends. I'm proud to say I made a good adjustment and. 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