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ANN LANDERS Husband Must Decide Type Of Job Wants Pert, Efficient Miss Oversees Centennial Youth Travel Plan By BRENDA LARGE sion she usually goes home to OTTAWA (CP) -- When the|put in a few hours of study for centennial commission! her master's degree in political es eee She graduated with her which}bachelor's degree in 1964. will have thousands of teen,' Daughter of the late James agers touring Canada in 1967, it}Dunn Forbes of Ottawa and a naturally looked for a young] grand-daughter of former Com- : mons clerk Arthur Beauchesne, day and dri: fully hard to make a y and. drives 2 cab SM lew dollars? Thank you very person. e Valerie lives in a ba He is very ambitious ana poliiaal'stionce graduate of the|@Partment here, although her brood of him. We don't have|much--AN OBSERVER other Forbes many evenings out because Dear Observer: Every week mother and three oT Ott person "*|children also live in Ottawa. 'As a student, Valerie had| "What with my job and my been involved in such varied or-| Studying to do, I thought I'd get can't spare the time and wejf receive a handful of letters 'must save every penny. But I'm this kind of com- about that. I'mjplaint. I have printed several THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW ore usual but feasible ideas. FOR THE BIRTHDAY While a.m. aspects will be on|stare the mild rg' oe ve be ajthan routine yood period in w make' 7 lans for afternoon activities dl Me oar Mee ages B sw) vigorous influences, which!pnow could will prevai) after noon, will en-|cupational brea courage accomplishment in im-jand early May; aiso in late De- portant interests, stimulate un-|cember and January. In any gressi your horoscope indicates thatliousiy followed, will eventually unattended for two weeks, would you? Aren't your children|concerned, you will have a fine you should attack major objec- tives vigorously now -- espec- ially those connected with your job. Do not look ror immediate ecognition however, since promise not much more accomplishment lever, extra efforts expended} in late April event, it would be well to re- some nice oc-)mance THE OSHAWA TIMES, Mondey, March 8, 1965 9] May, however don't specu- nave an excellent year, with un- will prove A child born on this day will stimulating during the next 12|/be endowed with the talents months. with e¢ needed to make an excellent writer, physician or actor. member that no serious en- If tomorrow is your birthday, deavor is ever lost, so a pro-i-- ive program, conscien- net good returns. Where 'inancial matters are ganizations as the Canadian Un- ion of Students and the univer- sity's Model United Nations Association. And in the summer of 1964 she did a study of the commis- sion's pilot travel program which sent hundreds of students from one part of the country to. another. "In my short-term study of the project I made suggestions about how the commission could improve its plan. Now they've hired me to carry out my own suggestions." , Valerie, a slender girl, with brown eyes and bangs and a pert and efficient manner, has another thing in her favor. She is bilingual and switches from English to French with ease. She's also enthusiastic about the travel program. "If we can bring kids from the Yukon into Metropolitan To- ronto and teen-agers from the West into Quebec, we'll do so much to increase unity and un- derstanding in Canada." HASN'T BEEN WEST Supervising the program will give Valerie a chance to see the whole country herself--"I haven't travelled west of Winni- peg and I've never seen New- foundland."' She'll visit all prov- inces while meeting the heads of various youth organizations to help them with travel plans. The travel project won't be the only thing on.her mind this spring. She takes classes at the university one night a week. And after working a nine-to-five along better alone and it's work- mother's." When she completes her oral to write her thesis on the work of her grandfather, famous for| and forms. NEED TIME One of the principles Valerie stresses about the travel pro- gram is that all students should spend at least seven days with the families they are assigned to ir. other provinces. "That way they'll really get to» know one another and will have a chance to see the dif- exist across. the country." She also hopes more educa- tional activities will be a part of the plan, along with the social and recreational aspects. The program has two parts, one a federal rovincial ex- change plan whehaby students from different provinces ex- change visits with other stu- dents; the second a voluntary plan under which youth organi- zations may receive grants from the commission for ap- proved travel ideas. "Hundreds of groups want to participate and apparently we are meeting a need; most of the students have had only a limited travel experience in Canada." For example, she says, 80 per cent of the students who too part in the 1964 pilot project had never slept on trains before. ing out really well. But 7 still spend a lot of time at)7 exams for her degree, she plans| 4 his book of parliamentary rules ferences and similarities that) 2 QUEEN DIES Queen Louise of Sweden, 75, died Sunday. She suf- fered a heart attack last week and was operated on at a Stockholm hospital. She was stricken at the Drottningholm Palace out- side Stockholm and was brought to the hospital in an ambulance. --AP Wirephoto MR. HOUSEWIFE BONN, Germany (AP)--Papa is doing the housework and babysitting while Mama works in a factory in soice West Ger- man households, reports Food Minister Werner Schwarz. He explained that women can often find seasonal industrial work not complaining wondering if I should insist that} he find another job. My husband says almost every night he is 'propositioned iby a woman passenger, Most of them are half stiff and lone- some, He also gets women who iwant to pick up men off the street. Last night when he came for me at my sister's house I found! a pair of nylon stockings in the back seat. This is why I'm writ- ing. I trust my husband but how long will he be able to resist temptation? Should I make him , |quit?--ALICE Dear Alice: No. Your husband is the one who must decide what kind of work he wants to do. You should help him by demonstrating confidence in his judgment. Your husband would meet lonely women no matter what he did for a living, simply because the world is full of them, As for the nylons, they prob- ably had runs, which is why they were removed. (Not lady- like, perhaps, but it happens every day.) Any cab driver' will tell you this is one of the less shocking aspects of driving a hack. Dear Ann Landers: My son is a paper boy. He gets up at 4:30 every morning so he can start his route. His route is com- pleted by 6:15. If this sounds difficult let me assure you it is easy compared collecting the money. The boy has to start his col- lecting on Thursday to get the money to the office by Saturday. with another part of the job-- letters on the subject and I will continue to print them (hope- fully), C'mon folks, be fair. Have the money ready -- on time. Dear Ann Landers: Here is the situation and we need your| fest url My Bey had a serious operation a recuperating nicely. The doctor suggested she spend a couple of weeks in a warm climate. She wants to go to California to visit her sister but she insists that I take my vacation and go with her. Our three children are 17, 15 and 13, The two older ones are girls--and very fine girls, I might add. The 13-year-old is a yy who respects and obeys his older sisters. Should we leave the children alone? They say yes, and they're opposed to having a hired woman stay with them. My wife feels they are trust- worthy and dependable and that they don't need watching. The woman next door has offered to look in on them every day. I'm not sure that leaving them alone is the wise thing to do. What are your thoughts, Ann Landers?--PAPPY Dear Pappy: You wouldn't s far more precious? them. This doesn't mean you dojearly May; means you are taking chances. Get an adult to stay eulten' deat ppg not trust your children, I simply|breaks throughout July, no|September, mid - October and next January. Make no loans in| pow- rch, good monetary , in mid- the press: loin her English." INQUIRE OUR leave your jewelry or your furs A producer who hed recently im- ported @ foreign ster announced te 'She's @ nize goil -- and I'm gonne STORAGE a CLEAWIT SERVICE? 725-3555 Cigarettes LARGE PACK OF 25's 4\* WHITE or PINK Grapefruit 6 » 49° HAMBURGER 3 uw. 1.00 ABOUT BOX 174 RITSON ROAD SOUTH Think of all the economy cars GLECOFF"S Supermarket day for the centennial commis- more easily than men to fill up| Often he is still trying to collect the slack hours between plant-ion Monday. Some people ask ing and harvest times. him to come back three or four KEEP IN TRIM Self-Rejection Breeds Discontent relieving the anxiety that is at vin 'peste eat your the root of your conflict. that can give you up to 45 miles to the gallon. Self-Respect Breeds Respect By IDA JEAN KAIN "My husband thinks I am hopeless and can make such cutting remarks about my size." This postscript from a homemaker gives a significant clue to her problem. She writes: "I am writing this in the middle of the night. My prob- lem is too big for me to cope with. I, too, have been dieting most of my life. "Before marriage I weighed 160 pounds. Dieting for a year, I lost 40 pounds. When I was trim and pretty I 'trapped' my husband. Three children later I was back to 160 pounds, plus 10 more. Now my weight has become an obsession with me. "T teach school, keep house, live a busy life and on the sur- sace I am quite happy. But underneath I hate myself for not having any will power con- cerning food, particularly choc- olate. I just can't let it alone. "Because of a nervous condi- tion, I nibble excessively. Now the scales hover near 180 pounds. I managed to hold it by joining TOPS. I can't lose even with them behind me. It is so discouraging that I'm thinking of quitting. Is there hope for me?" she implores. APPRAISE YOURSELF Yes, there is hope, if you can appraise yourself rightly. Your letter indicates a kind of funda- mental rejection of self. You compensate by turning to food, with chocolate a special satis- faction. You label yourself un- attractive, and you appear to have the fixed notion you trap- ped your husband. This is the considered opinion of an emi- nent psychiatrist with whom I discussed vour situation. Why you do not like yourself may be the crux of the prob- lem. Are you unknowingly in- viting your husband to make cutting remarks by your own self - derogatory attitude? You To help you understand the importance of changing the way you see yourself, read for en- lightment. The book, Psycho- Cybernetics, deals with the im- portance of creating a new self- image The author is Dr. Max- well Maltz; a publisher is Prentice-Hall Mic. print this letter as a service to assume that because you have failed to cope with overweight you are not entitled to respect. Does this attitude stem from your overweight, or does the weight problem stem from your lack of self-esteem? It will help you enormously SINUSITIS Nervous Stomach Ronald W. Bilsky,p.c. CHIROPRACTOR 100 King St. E., 728-5156 \ Salon of Distinction (@ Call 723-5201 to take a new view of yourself. Regard that slim trim woman as being your true self, and the overweight woman as being the false self. Recognize that you are maintaining this false self out of a lack of self-esteem. Any homemaker - careerist who carries the load you do has character. You successfully re- duced 40 pounds, so you know you have what it takes when you are set free of conflicts. Develop a new self - respect, then your husband willrespond by treating you with respect. Cooperate with your own doc- tor and let him know how para- mount it is to your peace of mind to reduce and control your weight. 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