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10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, December 23, 1964 ss ie a ae i Woe ae 1 THE LIGHT OF THEIR EYES OUTSHINES THE CHRISTMAS LIGHTS JANICE ELAINE |is the seven-month-old daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Gordon Wal- lace, Bowmanville. She is the ea granddaughter of. Mrs. Ber- nice Lepard, Queensville, and © Mrs. C. R. Stewart, Oshawa. Her great-grandmother is Mrs. May Rogers, Guelph. THIS PRETTY little girl is Maureen Therése, the one- year-old daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Clape« Sullivan, Burton road. Mareen has an older brother, "D.J.", who is two years old. They are the grand- children of Mr, and Mrs. Basil Murphy, Lindsay. --Aldsworth Photography CHILD GUIDANCE Lone Wolf Can Attract Chums At Happy Home By GARRY C. MYERS, Ph.D. Many mothers write me of the child, usually the boy from six to 12, who has no playmates. This child may not have lived close to where other boys of his age lived. Sometimes this lone wolf lives' in a neighborhood where many other boys of. his age live, some of whom 'gang up on him," according to the mother's report. At school this boy also may be lonely, mak- ing few or no friends there. I have answered some letters describing a few lonely lads, and offered a few suggestions to the parent or parents. Often I have advised them to try to attract to the home some boys of about the same age as this lonely boy "where you can study your child in relation to them and subtly guide him to become a better playmate." PARTIES MAY HINDER Some parents suppose they ean help this~lonely lad by "throwing parties' for him. But, as a rule, a party frus- trates him and makes it harder for him to enjoy and attract friends among all these other children at the party. A party fs about the last thing the par- ents of a lonely boy or girl should think of. He needs to mingle informally with . only one or two at first, more later. Clever parents may success- to the home. But the boys they invite may not be the ones he would choose. As this lonely lad sees through his parents' efforts to socialize him, he may grow more aware of his loneliness and feel still more frustrated. It would be far better if the stage could be set by the lad himself to bring home a pal. If none of his age is in the im- médiate neighborhood, it could be a classmate living farther away whom he brings home with him. As a rule, he would choose only one guest at first, several at a time. MAKE HOME ENJOYABLE When one or more other boys do come to your home, you will want them to enjoy being there and your son to enjoy their company. You tay have thought first of providing them with good things to eat or drink. In their own mind, such may be the chief attraction. Think of all the parents who try to attract many children from four to 12 to their prem- ises by giving them sweets and soft drink, often to find these children leaving soon after they have had the refreshments. Sometimes the lonely child, himself, tries to buy playmates through such means, But there must be more sub- stantial allurements than just fully take the initiative in at- things to eat and drink. Are while his parents might choose i doors? Are there attractive books and magazines? Are there more attractions than TV which they can view at home? If. there is outdoor space, does someone direct them there in wholesome fun? Dad may be able to install or improvise some outdoor equip- ment and guide them in play skills. At times, when alone with his son; Dad may help him practice in skills which other boys will admire and join in during group fun. As any parent knows, the lone wolf will not become a good playmate all at once; some ef- forts to this end may not bring the hoped - for results. Long- continued, patient effort of the parents will be necessary. PLAN ACTIVITIES Sometimes one or two of the boys who have bullied your lonely son and have made his ife miserable, may come to your home. Then is the time to ingratiate yourselves with them and to play up the best in them. Dad might enlist their interest then at making things with him and his lonely son in Dad's workshop or, better still, in his son's workshop. He might win one or two of them to go on a hike or go fishing with him and his son. Sometimes attendance at a summer day camp or camp fat from home has great pos- sibilities for the lone wolf. PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. Our daughter, 7, is 'a good reader, but her brother, nearly 9, is a poor reader. He resents having her try to help him read better. A. Naturally so. See that she doesn't, or even is not present when you help her brother at there games to play quietly in- reading. tracting one or more other boys | jo" 2 A WINTER VACATION IS BECOMING MORE POPULAR Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Dooher, Poplar street, have recently returned from a fall vacation spent in sunny Ber- muda. They are seen here at the front of their hotel, as they prepare for a sight-see- ing trip by bicycle. Che Party And Dance Marks Christmas For First-Aiders Members of the local St. John Ambulance Division, Nursing Division and their Women's Aux- iliary combined recently to hold an enjoyable Christmas party and dance, in the Steel Workers' Union Hall. The hall was cheerfully decor- ated with streamers, bells, candles and a lighted Christmas tree, Members and friends enjoyed games, danced, and sang Christ- mas carols, Special guests for the evening were Mr. and Mrs. T. D. Thomas. Lucky winners of the spot dance were Corporal Peter O'Hare and his mother, Mrs. Edward O'Hare. Lucky door- prize winners were Mrs. Metro Sewchuk and Mr. Paul Hatfield. The role of Santa was aptly played by Mr. Leonard Clement, son of Corporal Mae Clement of the Nursing Division. Following the exchange of gifts a buffet supper was en- joyed. UNITS, GROUPS AUXILIARIES ST. PETER'S WA This year the fall and Christ- mas bazaar was a huge success. Many responded to the call for help and home baking. A Christmas box was sent by the group to the Reverend B. A. Burrows and his family at the Anglican Mission, Povungnetuk, At the December meeting of the Women's Welfare Leagte, the president, Mrs, A. P. Fulton and Mr, Harold McNeill ex- pressed sincere appreciation of the following volunteer work: Mrs, C. C. McGibbon, convener of the Volunteer Workers' Com- mittee and the volunteers who assist with work at Simcoe Hall, the Boys' Club-Eastview, and the Crippled Children's Centre; the Women's Pilot Club for pro- viding transportation for the Golden Age Club members liv- ing at Halliday and Hillsdale Manors; the Golden Jubilee Chapter of the IODE for serving Simcoe Hall Workers Thanked On Behalf Of Welfare League -- bulance First Aid Classes, Key- stone Club, sewing classes, homework room and the swim- ming pool. WINTER SWIMMING The fall swimming classes will be completed in December, and registration for the winter classes starting in January is now underway. A course for Red Cross Water Safety Instructors was held during the weekends of November 6 and 13. A num- ber of those taking part were volunteers serving with the aftefnoon children's Classes, Of the 18 taking part in the exam- The following groups rent the pool when it is not being used by the children: Retarded Chil- drén's School, Oshawa Sardines, Oshawa Doctors, Eastview Neighborhood Association, Old Country Club, Dips and Dives, Crandfield Underwater School, Westmount Kiwanis Club, St. John's Ukrainian Church, King Street United Church Doubles Club, YWCA, Oshawa _ Diving Club, Sunnyside Neighborhood Association, Seventh Day Ad- ventist Church, Columbian Squires, and other groups from time to time. During the past three months volunteers have. given a total of 1,678 hours of time to the var- ious phases of our program. During the past year volunteers gave a total of 8,404 hours, ination, 13 were successful. the Thursday evening refresh- ments to the Golden Age Club; Mr, William Smith, Harold Davidson and members of the Westmount Kiwanis Club for sponsoring and supervising the Junior Fish and Game Club and the Biddy Basketball Leagues; the Parent Council for Crippled Children, and Mrs. E. A. Wink- ler, Mr, R. G. Bell, Mrs. B. G. Found, Mrs, D. Clarke, Mrs. R. Stuart, Mrs. J, R. Grant, Mrs. L. Davey, Miss Diane Slobodian, Mrs. P. Boyko, Mrs. M. Parish, Mrs. P. Knight, Mr. D. Claus, members of the Oshawa Police Association Women's Auxiliary and members of the Civitan Club for working with the crippled children at the Centre; Miss Madeline Kelly for her help with the Teen-Age Girls' Club; Michael Karas, Harold Davidson, Robert Singleton, and Robert Goddard for assisting with the Boys' Basketball; Ralph Branton for helping with the gymnasium program; John and William Rajkovic for in- structing the Badminton Club; Alvin Tilk for teaching the Chess and Checker Club; Ronald Krag- lin for supervising the Statip Club; Jerry Reed for instructing EXTR "ene" Attendance: September, 6,355; A preosvcee 6 CHATEAU-GM WINES LIMITED Put iuy Panter @awnen the boys in the Senior Boys' Woodworking Class; Frank Ball, Wayne Bolahood, Andrew Cher- kas, Steven Ball, Gordon Kent, John and William Rajkovic for assisting with the Archery Club; | and the many others who assist) with the program from time to! time. Sof Attendance for the past quar-| ter showed: September, 3,343; | October, 5,698; November, 6,928, | a total of 15,969, an increase of| 1,065 over the same period last) year, | FIRST MILESTONE The Eastview Club has now; completed its first year of oper- ation. Since the club opened in| November, 1963, 104,078 people have used the club's facilities. | The gymnasium is in use daily| use with active programs) after school and in the evenings. | The children enjo archery, | badminton, basketball, tumbling, | floor hockey, volley ball, gym-) nastics, boxing, and a variety of gymnasium games. The games room continues to be popular with a variety of) games such as table tennis, bil-| liards, table hockey, chess, | checkers and other table games. | The woodworking shop is. well equipped with modern electrical tools, work benches, hand tools and other needed accessories. Some of the other activities Quebec. It is hoped that it will help to make their Christmas a little merrier. Recently the Reverend L. M. Ware installed the new officers of the WA at a church service. New officers this year are: pres- ident, Mrs. Lawrence Haisell; vice - president, Mrs: William Boorman; secretary - treasurer, Mrs. Victor Hullatt; Dorcas sec- retary, Mrs. Reginald Ander- son; Little Helpers secretary, Mrs, William Ford; educational secretary, Mrs. Victor Brass; recording secretary, Mrs. Wil- liam Plume. A Christmas party was held at the home of Mrs. Ware for the members of the WA in the form of a pot-luck- supper. Everyone exchanged parcels. The past-president, Mrs. Des- with a small gift by Mrs. Law- rence Haisell in recognition of her services in the past year. The meetings will resume in the first of the New Y DISHPAN HANDS CURE Suffering from dish-washing hands? Keep a handy fold-up tube of lanolin or other protec- tive ingredients near the sink. Apply the soothing substance when the chore is done. rmey's FURNITURE Ww oO R LD FINEST REFRIGERATOR- With Total App' PARTS . . 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