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er eet _ was quency of their favorable refer- "CHILD GUIDANCE _ Don't Allow Children ~ To Criticize Teachers ~ "By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD years when our the sen aiiliven were in school I impressed with the fre- ence, while with their pals, to their teachers. But some children seem to gain a feeling of importance by 'p fun at certain teachers, } ly when with a school- mate. This practice can be very harmful to them and cause them to be unappreciative and cynical about their teachers and other persons. I think we face a problem here when we observe such a practice as chronic between our child and other children. Though it may often happen within a group of teenagers, the time when I have observed it most often is during the ages of eight to 12, and generally be- tween two boys. My impression is that a pair of boys who drift into making frequent unkind or cynical re- marks to each other about one or more teachers rarely are heard saying anything good about anybody. WHAT'S THE CAUSE? In case you observe this cyni- cal practice between your child/t, and a pal, it might be 'well to iook into the probable causes. Have they been succeeding at school with the teacher they "talk about'? Have they been "disciplined" by him? Are taeir remarks an indication of a - gmoke-screen covering up some of their delinquencies with that teacher or their general lag in school work? Are. they express- ing escape from responsibilities they don't wish to face? Whatever the probably cause you suspect, you can be sure their practice is unwholesome. You should aim to curb it. I'm not sure whether it's best fo condemn them both when you hear their cynical remarks discuss the matter with your child privately. If your relations with your son are companion- able, the latter may be prefer- able. Yet I can imagine times when you might be most effective at "landing" on both of them teacher. privately that some provocation, you usually will be wise to say bluntly and forcefully, "We just don't en- gage in such talk. Don't let me hear you do so again." REASONABLE LIMIT sidered the. school child who of- ten complains about one or more teachers meal or elsewhere in the fam- ily circle. We pointed out that, while we wish the child to ex- press freely his complaints so long as he is not abusive, there is a reasonable limit to how long and often we should let him go on complaining. child of his proneness to speak only in condemnation and of his failure to recognize any good ways in the teacher he con- stantly condemns. gest to him that, while he may have had some good reasons for his derogatory remarks, he might as well make up his mind expects of him and then strive to measure up to this expecta- tion. hear us berating some boss or associate with whom we work. Rather he should hear us more frequently refer to the desirable traits and ways of these per- sons. PARENTS' QUESTIONS three, doesn't talk very plainly. don't. In her présence, enun- ciate plainly speak. Do so as you read every day to her. down the words you speak. Do so as you read every day to her. Secretly write down some of the basic sounds she has trouble with and say words casually containing these sounds in her presence, DR MBO GTB IEE MIT Get gis Son My to- r on hearing their violently raging remarks about a Thought ht See In an earlier column, we con- at the family Often we should remind this Furthermore, we need to sug- o find out what that teacher Nor should we let him often Q. Our daughter, almost A. Many children her age the words you Secretly write KEEP IN TRIM To Hold The Dwell On End Rewards sponds to that stimulus, and en- thusiastically you plan ahead. In other words, wishing has been changed to action. resolutely|note job and--or. business' up- By IDA JEAN KAIN Your mind can make reduc- ing a stimulating challenge or a next to impossible task. But, as some of you inquire, "How do you go about making up your mind to reduce so that it stays made up?" First, you have to really want to reduce. To reach that frame of mind, you must have a con- viction that reducing is worth|#* the effort in terms of happiness. One overweight was moti- vated into action by facing facts. She listed in one column the pleasures she was missing by being fat. In the other col- umn she wrote down the "ad- vantages" of eating all the fun out of living. Suddenly she made up her mind that over- eating simply wasn't worth it. From that day'on the tempta- tion to over-indulge diminished. The cue is to concentrate on the rewards of being slim--mov- ing freely, wearing smart clothes, looking and feeling young and having fun again. By dwelling on the pleasures that come with normal weight, gone is the resistance to dieting. One courageous reducer who has taken off 30 pounds to date, but still has more than 100 to go, writes, "You have to make up your mind slowly but surely."" Now that she is eating to achieve normal weight, she is happier than. she has ever been in her. adult life. Her sin-| gle regret is that she' didn't/ start sooner. A jolt can often result in a sudden decision. One over- weight was shocked into action when on a visit to her home town her friends failed to rec-} ognize her . . . she had taken) on an extra 60 pounds! Now, | trim and slim, she is looking forward to her next visit back home. . Happily, eating for normal | weight gets easier as you go} along. On smaller meals the size of your stomach shrinks, and you feel content with less food. Then, too, on protective eating you change your food habits. Moreover, you delight in the feeling of being slimmer--even after losing just five or 10 pounds. Then your mind re- | DIAL FOR DIET TORONTO (CP) -- You can) dial a dietitian here and re-| ceive help with food problems. Begun by the Ontario Dietetic Association with financial back- ing from the Nutrition Founda- tion Inc., questions are re- corded and passed on to a dieti- tian who return§ the call. with information. ' Weightline CHARLIE IS A DARLING... He's the darling of his three sisters, Heather, five, Barbara, three, and Carol, two years old. He is Charles Murray Brock who was one year old October 31. The sisters and brother are the children of Mr. and Mrs. Murray Brock Stevenson road north and grandchildren of Mr. and Mrs. Roy Hepburn of Kedron. --Aldsworth Photography THE STARS SAY. By ESTRELLITA [ FOR TOMORROW Another good day for making progress in both job and mone- tary affairs, but you will have to use good judgment in all transactions, Sidestep all vis- ionary schemes. Devote leisure time to quiet pursuits rather than indulege in hectic social activity. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that the next 12 months will be ex- tremely important where your career and finances. are con- cerned. Even though progress may seem slow at present, if you take advantage of all available opportunities, are co-operative with both superiors and associ- ates and promote your highly original ideas in a convincing manner, results should prove truly rewarding. Once you have made up your own mind and|trends: have a deep inner conviction that you really want to be nor- mal weight, you will choose to follow the right pattern of eat- ing--for by so doing you are hat you truly desire. IN TIME FOR CHRISTMAS! VIANNA DELICATESSEN NOW OPEN! NEWLY RENOVATED For That SPECIAL CHRISTMAS MENU , @ SALAMI @ SMOKED MEATS @ VIRGINIA HAM @ KRAKOWSKA @ POLISH KALBASA and many more... Ask about our Porty Packs. We corry all kinds of beked fresh goods, including Ger- mon Fancy Pastries and Jewish Rye Bread and Rolls. VIANNA DELICATESSEN /® 543 RITSON RD. 8, 728-3281 Best periods along financial lines: early March, mid - July, October and November. Do be conservative in mid - January and late June, however. Months in which you should late February, late Do not overtax yourself and don't go to extremes in any- thing during February and Ocv- tober. Anxiety or tension. then could affect your health. Family interests will be gov- erned by fine influences for most of the year ahead and romance will be generously aspected in January, late March, mid-June and September. Best periods for travel and so- cial, activities: late December, heal mid-April and Septem- er. A child born on this day will be warm-hearted and sympathe- tic to his fellowmen; will be en- dowed with unusual organizing ability. TO COUNTER POISONING WINNIPEG (CP) --Legisla- tion requiring private caterers to have a knowledge of hy- gienic preparation, storage and serving of food is being consid- ered here. says Dr. Roper Cad- ham, Winnipeg medical officer of health. It's prompted by four outbreaks of food poisoning in ANN LANDERS Dear Ann Land For the In US. She Discovers Pleasure But No Joy b of quiet is a device to past six months I have been a visitor in your wonderful coun- try. Now that I am about to return to Austria I would like to tell you my impressions of America. Your country is indeed the most prosperous in the world. y' escape from one's thoughts. The' inability to be alone is one of =~ most telling illnesses of our ie. problem but I'm not so sure caused it, Ever since you printed that letter from the Dear Ann Landers: I have a ou can solve it because you woman who has a parrot which imitates voices on the radio (especially mine) I've been get- ting letters asking, 'Will the real Edward P. Morgan please stand up." T don't want a cracker, Ann. I want help. The sponsors of my program are disturbed. They want to know if the parrot is a member of the Actor's Union. I am disturbed too, be- cause if she is, they might de- cide to replace me. The parrot probably would work cheaper and be more of a novelty. An aunt of mine, idly looking for a possible legacy from the JP Morgan family, once traced our family tree. She found no connection with the financier ang Cee ict se ge aa ee RN os THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesday, November 24,1964 1] descendents from Henry The Pi- rate. It is possible that Henry mistreated his parrot and bird who imitates me has in- herited the resentment. Do you! have any solace handy? ward P, Morgan. Dear Ed: We just checked parrot and you can relax, She is not after your job. She says the reason parrots live for 200 years is because they are smart to get mixed up with ten- sion-producing jobs on radio, TV--or newspapers! 1 Dear Ann Landers: My hus- band and I were married two months ago. He is in the serv- ice and was sent overseas last week. Before Al and I were but learned that we are direct married we used to go to a little tavern and dance to box. In fact, that's met. the Bedi 1 ja ; --Ed-| if I went to that tavern for timental reasons, and little? What do you Nettie. too|seas should stay out of --for sentimental reasons. _ Stick to a schedule of the daytime and visit during with family and friends the evening. If you have an ex- cess of time and energy off your services to one of the many volunteer orgaiipations in your community. | : The spaciousness of America is overwhelming; the beauty, awe- some. I love every inch 'of it. But, Miss Landers, something is wrong with the people. They are friendly and helpful but they appear to be unhappy. In Amer- ica there is much pleasure, but no joy. Americans seem always to surround themselves with so much noise. They even walk with radios in their hands. Your people hurry a great deal. They are afraid of quiet-- afraid to think. And as one lis- tens to much of the social con- versation it is apparent that they do not think. They repeat only what they heard on the ra- dio or TV. I had a wonderful visit. Your country is the most beautiful in the world. You have lofty moun- tains, great prairies, endless deserts, beautiful tropics and imposing cities. May God bless all Americans and may you find the true joy that mere pleasure cannot bring--A Thankful Guest. Dear Guest: Thank you for some thoughtful observations. The distinction between pleas- ure and joy is a point worth making. Too many people don't know the difference. 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