7 tLe BASH MODELLED IN Frances Stewart of Ottawa ereated this four-piece en- semble, in a viscose rayon tweed. Of burnished gold with blue highlights, the skirt fea- tures a front panel, jacket has side slits, and slit pockets, ANN*LANDERS "MONTREAL with co-ordinated sleeveless blouse, cuffs, and headdress in gold peau de soie. From the fall and winter showing of the Association of Canadian Cou- turiers held recently in Mont- Girl, Fiance Should I have been going together for| three years. He is' now a junior in college and we plan to be married when he graduates. Recently when I gave a pint of blood to a friend who was injured in an accident I learned my blood type is 0 negative. Dave was upset when I told him because he is a B positive. He says it is possible that we could not have a child who) would survive because of the differences in our blood types. After hours of talking it over . Dave told me perhaps we should break our engagement - I'm not eyen stire of my own name. Please tell me if Dave fis right about this or whether it could be an excuse fo break off with me? Thank you. -- INDIGO Dear Indigo: The combina- tion of your blopd type and Dave's could indeed produce children with blood problems. Many years ago such babies Consult Specialist Dear Ann Landers: Dave and). of gift, This makes more sense than six rubber ducks or ja half dozen pair of booties. | Dear Ann Landers:' I'm a jginl "15 with an unusual prob- lem--people insist on giving me their old clothes. My parents are not rich or poor--but sort of in the middle. and I've always felt neatly dressed. Yet the women I baby- sit for, my grandmother's housekeeper and the from my mother's church aux- boxes of dresses their children know these people mean want to hurt |anyone's feelings but they are jeither too large or too small, |or I just don't like the way |they. look on me, I've thought of accepting the jclothes gracefully then throw- jing them out, but this doesn't jseem right. Please tell me what to do.--SHMOTTAS Dear Shmottas: Thank the |people nicely, let them know "\our neighbors' I have all the clothes I need ladies itiary are forever dropping off have outgrown or just i nl go syacee wees 1 wee ee et ot tired him and I was certain he loved) | me, but now I'm so distraught) wey and I don't died, and no one knew why.|you appreciate their kindness Today when physicians know of/but tell them you don't need this condition in advance (and|¢xtra clothes. Suggest they caill yours will) the babies can be| Goodwill Industries, This. won- given transfusions at birth and|derful organization makes sure grow up to be well and healthy. | the gin? clothing gets into the I suggest you and Dave go to/Mands of those who do need a apouiatint: He will give you this kind of help. facts. a : Dear Ann Landers: At the) HONEY-GLAZED ONIONS risk of sounding like a broken) Honey glazed onions are espe- record I'm going to ask a ques-|cially attractive on a vegetable tion you've probably answered|plate. Cook about 12 medium dozens of times. I have yet to/small onions in boiling salted see a practical solution any-|water until just tender. Drain where. |well and pat dry with absorbent I'm fed to the tonsils with bri-|paper. Melt two tablespoons of dal showers and baby showers.|butter and blend in % cup of Today I have to go out and buy|honey. Add the onions and stir six gifts. It is impossible to} gently for three or four minutes avoid these little parties be-|to coat them with the glaze. cause my sisters, my sister-in-|Lift the onions onto a serving law, my mother-indaw, myjdish and reduce the remaining cousins and neighbors are all invited and we are a closely- knit group. We are ail expected glaze over medium high heat, stirring constantly, until thick, one to two minutes. Spoon the to show up Do you have an answer? Sign me -- FINANCIALLY EMBAR- glaze over the pnions, six serv- ings. Wie Jo Aldwinckle, Women's Editor Dial 723-3474 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Seturday, November 7,1964 13 Audley United Church was the setting recently for the mar- riage of Eileen Mae Guthrie, to Leonard William Hale Walt- ham, Brooklin. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Her- bert Guthrie, Whitby, and her bri is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Leonard Lester Walt- ham, Toronto. The Reverend Melville But- tars officiated and the soloist, Mr. William Brown, Greenwood, sang "The Lord's Prayer' and "Wedding Prayer" accompan- ied by Mr. Robin Nicholson, Whitby. Given in marriage by her fa- ther, the bride was wearing a formal peau de soie gown of bateau neckline and _lily-point sleeves. the front, billowed into fullness at the back. Her headdress was of white roses, embellished with leaves, holding her two-tiers of waist-length nylon: net veil and she carried a bouquet of pink sweetheart roses and feathered white carnations. She wore her great - grandmother's amethyst broach and the wedding shoes 4\of her grandmother. The bride's sister, Miss Anne Guthrie, Whitby, was her maid of honor and the bridesmaids were Miss Lynda Puckrin, Aud- ley, and Miss Wilma Guthrie, Whitby, a cousin of the bride. | Your Child's Generosity | Should Not Be By GARRY C MYERS, PHD. Our children in relation to children may pose many problems. A mother writes, for ex- ample: "The problem is un- Jusual in that it is in reverse. {Our children may be given an apple, orange, or some other fruit or candy when the case occurs. "The neighboring children may just say, 'Give me that' or 'I want that' and immedi- ately one or both of my chil- dren hand over what ft is they have--toy, food or whatever. "It is very disturbing in that sometimes they take bites and hand it back or get hold of the toy, break it and then give it back. "In either case it is always the same problem. I feel they are beitig taken advantage of. They are close in age and as a result play with and depend on each other a good deal. Our girl is five and the boy four. TRAINING IMPORTANT "My husband maintains they will outgrow this, but in the meantime it is a problem for me, Mostly because I know that this is the age to instill in them the meaning of right and wrong if they are ever to know the difference. "The neighboring children in- volved are not helping any in asking, although it is not their fault. We do not approve of these children anyhow in that we feel they are very poorly trained and being very badly treated by their stepfather. The other neighboring children are demands are moderate. "Everyone that I tell this to is of the opinion that it is bet- ter to be that way than selfish. But small children need to know what,to share and what not to share. This, to me, is a very big problem as it goes on all day and the mother of these children seems to say nothing even when she hears these things going on. "T hope that you will have some constructive suggestion for me as this is one of the many problems that we have | run into concerning these chil-| dren of our neighbors. "It seems that everyone S A HOME LEAGUE of women at the Home League meeting this week with 76 pres- ent. Everyone enjoyed the opening sing song and prayer by Mrs. Envoy John Dixon. Mrs. George Beard read the minutes. Mrs. Major Lewis gave the announcements and intro- duced the guests who were Mrs. Brigadier Kenneth Graham and Mrs. Envoy Frank Phelps from Peterborough. Mrs. Graham gaye an in- teresting demonstration about "Spiritual Embroidery." Dif- ferent women took part with readings fitting in with the topic. | Everyone enjoyed. a cup of |tea. RASSED Dear Fi-Em: At the risk of sounding like a. broken record myself here's the answer for the umpteenth time: Get to- gether' with your sisters, your sister-indaw, mother-in-law pitch in $1 each and buy one FILTER QUEENS Sale Price ' 49.50 sales ond service NUWAY RUG & CARPET SALES 54 Church Street H Ne IT ISN'T TOO EARLY FOR CHRISTMAS GIFT PORTRAITS Truly The Gift that Lasts Forever | Qreland. STUDIO For Appointment Call 723-3680 21 Athol St. W. ® Tuesday is Tots' Day Silver Cloud designed with a The skirt, straight at But we insisted that they share. less of a problem in that their} Waltham-Guthrie Nuptial Vows Solemnized In Audley Church "They were dressed alike in pink cocktail length dresses featuring short sleeves and full skirts of taffeta with overskirts of nylon chiffon held at the waists with cummerbunds. Their head- dresses were matching pink crowns adorned with pink flow- ers and veiling and they car- ried bouquets of pink and white feathered carnations. The bridegroom was attended by Mr. David Pegg, Toronto, and the ushers were Mr. Harold Guthrie, Whitby and Mr. Mervin Misselbrook, Brooklin. The reception was held at the church where a hot dinner was served. ine bride's mother re- ceived, wearing an aqua dress with beige accessories and a corsage of pink sweetpeas. The bridegroom's mother, assisted wearing a blue dress with brown accessories and a corsage of white chrysanthemums.. The master of ceremonies was Mr. Buttars. Before the couple left on a honeymoon to Quebec, the bride donned a two-piece blue woo] dress with matching hat, beige accessories and a corsage of pink sweetheart roses. Mr. and Mrs. Waltham are residing on the Audley road, RR 1, Brook- lin. ' Guests were present at the wedding from Toronto, Dwight, Minden, Norland, Whitby, Who wouldn't be proud to display this attractive lunch- eon set on her table? There's time to make it for a Christ- CROCHETED itt aint tek dik lth Aiea IE IE OF mas gift for a girl with a hope chest. If you would like to re- ceive the instructions simply send a stamped, self-address- ed envelope plus ten cents for LUNCHEON i ibe in sis eS als ai ih ii teal ye eerg EXECUTE CUBANS fishing boat in an attempt to HAVANA (AP)--Two Cubans|escape to a cease hag - were executed Tuesday in Isle|Sovernmen cee eal of Pines prison after being con- pee hey 4 30 ey in prison victed of killing the captain of alas accomplices. SET handling to the Needle- work Department, The Osh- awa Times, Oshawa, Ontario, with a note requesting leaflet No. C-8603. Judith Moulton, Judith Lynn Moulton, Scar- borough, formerly of Oshawa, became the bride of William Allen Merritt, Oshawa, in a ceremony in- Wilmar Heights United Church, Scarborough, re- cently. The bride is the daugh- ter of Mr. and Mrs, Gordon Brooklin, Greenwood. Exploited thinks her neighbors' kids are terrible and her own perfect. I know mine are not perfect, but if I could solve this problem I think my days could run a little smoother." LIMIT GENEROSITY My reply in part: Your prob- lem is not easy, The chances are you give your children too much and they don't have ac- casion then to protect it, but get feelings of importance when they give these things to other children. A related problem is when a child will carry out fruit and sweets, distributing them freely among other children, without having to go without such things himself. Sometimes, too, a child who can't normally win playmates will try to buy them with such goodies. Having thus. bribed them, a child may suppose he should have his way with them. Perhaps your biggest oppor- tunity is to get your children more often with other children of their age, hoping that some of these other children won't be able to lord it over your chil- dren and impose on them. When some of these play- mates are in your home, you ean study your children and guide them there in better ways. When these other chil- dren are there, you can step in and protect your child's rights 'and send the visiting child home when he violates reasonable rules. PARENTS' QUESTIONS My four-year-old daugh- ter can't be happy out of my sight. A A. Go away for short periods, leaving her first with Dad or another family person and later with a baby-sitter. Don't ex- pect good results all at once. |E. Moulton, Scarborough and the bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Harold A. Merritt, : Leaside. The Reverend E. J, Kirsey officiated and the soloist, Mrs. \Betty Davis, Scarborough, sang "The Lord's Prayer" and "Wed- ding Prayer" accompanied by Mr. Mcliroy, Scarborough. Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a gown of white crystal faille with a full length train of Guipure lace falling from the shoulders. Her headdress of satin rosebuds held her shoulder-length veil of tulle illusion and she carried.a bou- quet of white roses and chrys- anthemums. ~ LODGES AND SOCIETIES VICTORIA LTBL No. 55 toria Loyal True Blue Lodge No. 55 was held in the Orange Tem- ple with Deputy Mistress Sis- ter Phylis Arbourne presiding in the absence of Sister Mabel Blow. Sister Vicki Beaton acted as Deputy Mistress. The flag was saluted and "God Save the Queen" sung. The scripture was read and prayer said by Chaplain Sister Eleanor Mitchell. Roll was taken and minutes read. The bingo report was The regular meeting of Vic- W.A. Merritt Are Married In Scarborough The maid of honor was Miss Margaret MclIntyre, Scarbor- borough, and the bridesmaids were Miss Virginia Piper and Miss Diane Massey, both o: Oshawa. They were dressed alike in formal moss green velvet gowns, with the skirts accented. with back fullness. Their jackets and headdresses were of matching green velvet and they carried bouquets of rust, bronze and gold chrysan- hemums, The best man was Mr. James McKay, Orillia, and the ushers were Mr. Gordon Moulton, Scar- borough and Mr. Gary McKay, Orillia. ; The reception was held at the Canadiana Motor Hotel, Scar- borough, where the bride's mother received, wearing an original French' import brown silk sheath complemented by an turban. The bridegroom's moth- er assisted, wearing a claret French silk velvet sheath with matching hat and accessories. Before the couple left for their honeymoon in .the Eastern States, the bride changed into a teal green two-piece suit trim- med with sapphire mink and gun-metal gray accessories with a matching feathered hat. Mr. and Mrs. Merritt are residing at 994 Simcoe street north, Osh- awa. Guests were present from Oshawa, Napanee, Cobourg, Bowmanville, Port Perry, Pene- tanguishene, Bethany, Zephyr, Orillia and St. Catharines. original powder blue and brown WEEKLY WHIST DRIVE The Oshawa and District Old Country Club. held its weekly whist drive at Rundle Park Club/ house, Park road south, las|| Wednesday evening with a good| tui1out of members and| friends attending. Mr. Leonard Newland and} Mrs. E, R. Abrahams, tied at 177. Mr. Newland drew first to break the tie with a score of 170 thereby 'taking first prize. Mrs. E. R. Abrahams won sec- ond prize. The third prize was won by Mr. C..A. Abrahams while Mrs. E. Thompson won the booby prize. Light refreshments were serv-| ABI. 62 Birks Little Gallery ~ WE WOULD LIKE YOU TO SEE A fine exhibition of oil paintings by L. Sage. There is variety in the selection, and one would make an unusual and lovely Christmas gift, or, just to en- hance your own home. To list a few that particular- ly catch the eye... "Dancing Zinnias" . . . @ soucy row of orange-shaded Zinnias in natural stained ook horizontal frame . ideal for modern rooms "Winter Bouquet" . . . again with that popular blend of orange, rust and brown, with late blooming wild $60 flowers and twigs. "Miners Bay" . . . autumn scene with o different richer hue, reflected in the tronquil water of the bay, $60. "Filtered Light" . . . a semi-Abstract woodland scene that blends in the popular blues ond greens with an inner glow. $40 "Asters in Grandma's Pitcher' . . . this is done in shades from pink and rose to deep purple .. . most at- tractive, and we visualize it in a bedroom with @ tint of mauve in the decorating. ......... $30 "Old County Courthouse at Whitby" . . . this is o most realistic view of this fine old building, with a warm glow on the winter snow . . . woulld be on ideol furnishing for a lawyer's office, ........ 3100 BIRKS OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE Ronald W. Bilsky, >.<. 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