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B THEOCSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, August 6, 1964 ere § \these reminders have been so MOHAIR CARDIGAN Put the very young ladies into the forefront of fashion with a cardigan knit in lovely mohair. These cardigans are knitted with raglan sleeves which can be trimmed with the cable as shown or left for fast and easy knitting. If | you would like the -leaflet | with the instructions for | these cardigans, simply 'send | CHILD GUIDANCE . Causes. Mother By GARRY C. MYERS, Ph.D. Most adults are procrastina- tors. We differ from one an- other in the frequency with which we put things off and in the kind of thing. we neglect. Our procrastination often an- noys other persons and causes remorse. ' Our children, observing our example of procrastination, are more ready to put off. doing things themselves. How often we parents are vexed at this practice in children eight to 18. Naturally .we keep reminding them, When they don't quickly respond to our prompting, we repeat it. Each time we do so, we have more anger in our voices. We become chronic naggers; and the more we nag, the more procrastinating they become. The whole matter be- comes a chronic source of irri- tation between child and par- ent. A LIKE SITUATION The phenomenon is somewhat similar to our repetition 'of no to the tot 3 to 6. He waits till \ne figures from our voice that we really mean it, that we are mad enough to act. We need to find proper ways of teaching him that he can't put off doing certain necessary jobs. Of course, if we were skillful enough and could manage our- selves well enough, we might help him if our reminders were delivered in quiet tones devoid of any anger. But, as a rule, often charged with temper that he tends to sense vexation in even our softest words. A MOTHER WRITES | A California mother writes of her son, 11, who has been a well-behaved boy with school Child's Procrastination ito announce a specific reward, ja reward and a penalty. Stick Concern constant nag, because that is what I have become with my constant reminders. I have tried not saying anything, hoping he might do things on his own, but he, doesn't." \ 4 My reply in part: Many par- ents have written of the child who puts off long-time school! assignments: Perhaps a millicn more could do so. Procrastina- tion in such jobs as lawn-mow- ing is familiar to most parents. So are many like problems re- lated to collections by boys with paper routes. They are familiar to many parents. I doubt whether you. should attack all these problems to- gether. It might be better /to centre on one of them, Let's consider the lawn-mowing prob- lem. Why not sit down with this lad and try to ascertain what would be the hour most con- venient to him to begin this job each Saturday morning, and the hour when it should be fin- ished. Then have him post this agreed-to schedule, Also the de- sired and reasonable quality of the job, when done--including trimming and the like--should be made clear, Let him know that this job is his sole respon- sibility and that you will merely check on how well he has ob- served the schedule. To do this, you won't need to remind him once. SPECIFIC PENALTY - Also let him know the specific Mr. ton, Oshawa, are seen in this pit- ture aboard the S.S. Bahama | Star of their way to Nassau for their honeymoon. Return- eck ABS se i tnt NIE. Scania marriage ceremony before 'a church wedding may take place. 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PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. His teacher gave our son) Needlecraft Department of | the last minute and then, most/ a list of books to read during} Portraits Now Will Be Refrigerator tS yagi eR OONNNA tT IE rata this paper requesting MO- /of the time, he has to be re- LANA CARDIGANS, leaflet minded to do it." She reports number 9-64. that he puts off school assign- ments--to be finished in two weeks--till the last day or so before the deadline. | He puts off mowing the lawn, 'which he knows he has to do every Saturday; and yet, until he is told, he makes no effort to start by himself." He ne- glects collections on his paper route. A CONSTANT NAG . "I feel,' she writes, "that he is going to think of me as a} | yak to you but to the kids it) Ronald Ww. Bilsky, D.C, is the core of their existence.| CHIROPRACTOR It's important for kids to be! ' . ee | in touch, and the-telephone fills Spinal Disc Injuries an emotional need. Hay Fever (And now a word for you|| 100 King St. E, 728-5156 || perfectly plain. The sizes given are for 2, 4, 6 and 8 and No. 3 needles are used ANN LANDERS Cigar Habit For Women Is Unwelcome Import : Dear Ano Landers: Several months ago I began to take out a very attractive woman who is successful in business and well-known around town. She is gay, interesting and a perfect companion. Three weeks ago this woman went to Europe on business. When she returned I went to the ainport to meet her. Her = landed 20 minutes early. mn I arrived, there she was, sitting in the ainport smoking a cigar. It wasn't one of those dainty little cigars, Ann, it was a big black one, the kind pool players and poilticians smoke. When I asked what she was trying to prove, she replied, "It's very fashionable now and frankly, I enjoy it." I'm a fairly sophisticated guy, but somehow I don't feel comfortable around a_ cigatr- smoking woman, Should I make an issue of it?--SMOKE RINGS summer, on which he would be) tested in September. He has} done almost nothing on them yet. What to do? A. If you have sufficient con-| trol of him, write a schedule, | indicating the number of books| he must have read by certain } LADIES! No Baby Sitter, No Car Fare MR. BERNARD Of Leading Toronto Salons Experienced Hair Stylist FOR HOME APPOINTMENTS PHONE AFTER 9 P.M. 728-9317 Salon Treasures Later Jayn-Modde | {; DRESSES | --by-- ' | Greland. STUDIO $°. 77 KING ST. EAST a Opposite Genosha Hotel 723-3680 > | defrosts itself! TELEPHONE 725-4561 : Wikre PARKING in the rear" how, plus other trivia which may sound like a lot of yakety teens who want to use this as} ammunition against your pa-| etait rents: Twenty minutes is | limit, so don't tie up the horn) for hours and say "Ann Land-| ers says it fills an emotiona! need.") Dear Ann Landers: Am I losing my mind? Tell me please if you think I should see a skull mechanic. Last week when introducing my father-in-law to a neighbor I forgot his name I was ab- solutely horrified. Yesterday I was rushing to the bus and I began to talk to myself. I said, 'Slow down.,! Dear Rings: They are going|Take it easy." What frightened to hate me in Copenhagen but/me was that I answered my- I can think of no sight less|self. I said, "Yes, I will slow feminine or more revolting)down. There is plenty of time." than a woman with a big black! I know that talking to one's cigar in her face--unless it is/self is one thing, but answering a woman who chews tobacco.|is quite another matter. Help, I don't know the intensity of! please --ALLISON your feelings about her but in| Dear Allison: I know of no my opinion if your friend val-/one whose memory has not ues the relationship, she will/failed him occasionally, And as give up the heaters--just be-|for talking to one's self--and| cause you ask her to. answering--we all do that, too. Dear Ann Landers: Are you\So cheer up and welcome to, losing your buttons? Parents semj-Kooksville -- where all of need all the help they can getlys visit from time to time. in our child-dominated society., --__--_-- Mais Here you come along and Say) kids shonld be allowed to talk on the telephone for 20 minutes! every evening. | We have three teen-agers in our lunatic asylum calied, home. This means tying up the' phone for one solid hour every evening with nonsense and yak- And their dresses are more beautiful and becoming than ever. Come, see how our special new collection interprets this. fresh young feeling in fashion. 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