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MARRIED 25 YEARS -- Astor Studio Guests From Far and Near Honor Mr. and Mrs. Clarence Butson g, all of Oshawa | Out-of-town guests from To-|Mrs. Lorne Wag ronto, Windsor, O sh aw a, Ux-jand Mrs. Roy Fowler, of P bridge, Beaverton, Claremont,| Perry. Goodwood, Agincourt, Bowman-| mr, and Mrs. Clarence Wal- ville, Blackstock, Raglan, Rod-jjace Butson were married at ney, Casearea, Burketon, Brook-|Chalk Lake, at the home of the lin and Prince Albert w er e)pride's parents, the late Mr. and among the 140 relatives, friends|yrs. Roy G. Redman, with the and neighbors who called at the|jate Reverend Joseph Denny home of Mr. and Mrs. Clarence officiating. Mrs. Butson is the W. Butson, Port Perry, on the/former Dorothy Mae Redman. occasion of their 25th wedding) My, Butson is the son of Mr. anniversary recently. and Mrs. Russell Butson, Prince Greeting the guests the} Albert. door was Mrs, Murray "Geer,) The bridal attendants were Utica, sister of the bride of 25)mirs\ Elmer Wagg, of Oshawa, years. The guest book wa% in| sister of the bridegroom and the the charge of a nephew, Master|jate Mr. Harold Redman, Douglas Geer. |brother of the bride. Mrs. Wagg Presiding over the tea table| assisted the happy couple at the with its antique lace cloth and) reception. gleaming silver, centred~ by al Among the many beautiful three-tiered wedding cake were}gifts and cards received were Mrs. Harold Redman and Mrs.|the presentation of an oil paint- James Redman, both of Portjing from the immediate family, Perry. Assisting in the tea room| twenty-five red sweetheart roses | were Mrs. Robert Slack, Ux-|and greetings from the Honor-| bridge; Mrs. Earl Redman,|able Michael Starr, M.P. and Mrs. George McKinstry, and'Mrs. Starr. at re erepscnc aerate emg amass led her with a sum of money Jo Aldwinckie, Women's Editor Dial 723-3474 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Friday, July 31,1964 7 Miss Sadie Callison who be- comes the bride of Mr, Doug- las Eugene Lavender tomorrow afternoon in Knox Presbyterian Church has been much enter- tained by friends, relatives and neighbors. Miss Callison is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs, Richard Calli- son and the future bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Nelson Lavender, all of Oshawa. A miscellaneous shower was held at the home of Mrs, Don- ald Lavender, Gatineau street, by co-workers of the bride- elect at Magill Business Sys- tems, The gifts were presented in a decorated wishing well. Games were played with prizes going to the lucky winners. The hostess was assisted in serving by Mrs. Arthur Catton, Mrs. William Taylor, Miss Arlene Sargant and Miss Sylvia Kiem. Mrs. George Lavender, sister- in-law of the prospective bride- groom, held a miscellaneous | shower at the home of Mrs. Nel- son Lavender, Eulalie avenue. The bride was assisted by the lflower girl, Miss Leigh Me- Donald, in opening the gaily wrapped gifts. Prizes went to the e lucky winners of games. bs \The hostess was assisted in Lavender, Lillian \Joan Sudsbury and Debbie |Sudsbury. | Mrs. Lloyd McCullough, one lof the bridesmaids, held a mis- leellaneous shower at her home lon Valley drive. She was as- sisted in serving by Mrs. Gor- don McDonald, matron of honor, Mrs. George Hubbard, tendant, and Miss Proctor. | Mrs. Lloyd Annis, Mrs. |George Lee and Mrs. John Mac- Gregor, were co-hostesses at a |miscellaneous shower held at lthe former's home on_ Albert \street. Those present were rel- atives and close friends of Miss \Callison's family. Assisting the \hostesses in. serving were Mrs. |Maurice Coe and Miss Sally |Callison. Neighbors. and friends of the bride-to-be on Burk street held a kitchen shower and. present- Marlene A presentation of an electric floor polisher was made to the bride-elect from the staff of Magill Business Systems. Mr. Edward Lavender, host at a party for the pros- pective bridegroom. Assisting the host were Mr. Frank Rich- ards and Mr. Donald Lavender. A trousseau tea was held at the future home of the bridal pair on Wecker drive. The bride-to-be received the guests wearing a yellow sleeveless linen dress with underskirt of silk floral print. She wore bone \colored accessories and a cor- sage of bronze Chrysanthemums Owing to illness, the bride's mother was unable to attend. Mrs. John Callison, grandmother of the bride - elect greeted the guests wearing a dress of mauve silk, black accessories and a corsage mums. Mrs. Nelson Lavender, mother of the Birch Paper Says Canada Lavender, | of pink chrysanthe-| prospective | Sadie Callison, Tomorrow's Bride Feted At Trousseau Tea, Showers bridegroom, assisted, wearing a white' and a corsage of Miss Leigh McDonald was in charge pale blue print dress, accessories white chrysanthemums. of the guest book, Mrs. G@don McDonald and Mrs. George Hubbard, the wed- ding gift room and Mrs. room, Serving the guests were Mrs. Lloyd Annis, aunt of the bride-elect, Mrs. Frank Rich- ards, sister of the.future bride- groom\ and Mrs. Ray Near. Following the wedding re- hearsal, this evening the wed- ding party will be entertained at the home of the future bridegroom's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Nelson Lavender, Eulalie Lloyd McCullough, the shower Shelley Dawn was one year old in May, and is the daugh- ter of Mr. and Mrs. Keith Martin, Ritson road north. She SHELLEY DAWN ° is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Herbert Martin, Columbus and of Mr. and Mrs. William Kirby, Rexdale. Hornsby Studio | 'ortiserving by the Misses Joanne} , | | an at-) Kenlin Studio, Lindsay TO MARRY Miss Linda Gail Heatlie, Lindsay, will become the bride of Mr. Larry Wayne Marshall, Oshawa, on Saturday, August 8, according to an announce- ment made today by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Harvey B. Heatlie, Lindsay. Mr. Mar- shall, who is the son of Mr. NEXT WEEK and Mrs. Albert Marshall, Oshawa, is a graduate of Pet- erborough Teachers' College, and is on the staff of Gert- rude Colpus School. The wea- ding will take place in the Cambridge Street United Church, Lindsay, at 8 o'clock in the evening | CHILD GUIDANCE For Help With By GARRY C. MYERS, Ph.D. Over the many years in which I have written this column, an occasional teen-ager has written ime about some personal prob- lem. As I recall, the problem jusually concerned worries over feelings of inferiority. | During .the last several |months an increasing number jof letters have been coming from boys and girls, 8, 10 or |12, about such matters as thumb-sucking, nail-biting, even bed-wetting. I always answer these children personally and as kindly as I can. When a child so strongly de- lsires to quit sucking his thumb, |biting his nails or wetting his |bed, as to resolve to write to ja person he supposes can help jhim, he has taken a long step toward self-cure. He has re- solved to manage himself, and is ready to carry out advice on ways of curing himself. nc Children Write Asking iwick drive, Scarborough, was Problems have had. medical advice, espe cially in bedwetting cases. nail-biting and thumb-sucking healthy in body. or nervous; and the thumb: tional] problems. may help, Also I tell the child that i person he really is. But,.as a rule, all these prob: do. himself. In writing to these children cision Ireland Studio For instance, there could be some local infection. Also, with the patient may need help in growing more calm, strong and Often the nail-biter is jittery sucking child may have emo- i A physician he has other worries I wish he would tell me about them. [ try to rteat him as the important lems can best be solved by the child himself, once he makes up his mind to solve them. The older he is, the more he may I compliment them on their de- to tackle the problem .|was given by Trousseau Tea, Showers Honor, | Margaret Parker In honor of her approaching marriage to Mr. Thomas George McEwan, Miss Margaret Mary Parker has been entertained during the past few weeks. Last Saturday a trousseau tea er mother, Mrs. Oscar Parker, at her home on Golf street, Receiving, the hos- tess wore a figured silk dress in beige and brown, with a cor- sage of yellow chrysanthe- mums. Mrs. McEwan chose light blue floral silk, organza covered, and a corsage of pink rosebuds. The bride-to-be wore aqua peau de soie with a simi- lar corsage. Pouring tea were the grand- mother of the future bride, Mrs. Ernest Parker, Mrs. William Walters, Toronto; Mrs. John McRoberts, Glasgow, an aunt of the prospective bridgegroom visiting, for the wedding, from Scotland. Among those serving were Miss Patricia. Stewart, Florida; Mrs. Raymond Holland and Mrs, George Warden, Mrs. Robert Olliffe was in charge of the trousseau; wed- ding and shower gifts were dis- played by Miss Sharon Robin- son, Whitby; Miss Carol Wal- ters, Toronto; Miss Debbie Bert- rand, Midland; and Miss Donna Reeves. Miss Donna-Rae Hol- land kept the guest book. SOCIAL NOTICES ENGAGEMENT Mr. and Mrs, Campbell Lewis Wallbridge, London, Ontario, an- nounce the engagement of their daughter, Jane Mary, to Thomas Richard McDoweil, son of Mrs. Thomas H. 'McDowell, Oshawa, and the late Mr. McDowell. The marriage will take place on Saturday, August 29, 1964, at 2.30 o'clock in St. Martin - in - the - Fields Church, London, Ontario. FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE ; Mr. and Mrs. Harvey B. Heat- lie, Lindsay, wish to announce the forthcoming marriage of their only daughter, Linda Gail, to Mr. Larry Wayne Marshall, son of Mr. and Mrs, Albert Marshall, Oshawa, The wedding is to take place Saturday, August 8, 1964 at 8 p.m. in Cambridge Street United Church Lindsay. ODETTE ROBBED LONDON (CP) -- Mrs. Geof- sistance heroine known as Odette, was robbed of jewels and furs valued at more than | £4,000 when thieves entered the bedroom of her stockbroker husband's Mayfair home. them that they can succeed, warning them that they may backslide now and then, and en- jtreating them not to become | discouraged. I suggest that ,if they will keep their mind on their successes and then praise themselves, they will do well. Recently I've begun asking them to write me later and let me know how they are getting along. It is too early for such replies, but, when any word of victory comes to me, I surely will write the winner to felici- tate him or her. I sometimes wish I had a fund out of which I could bestow a material re- ward for victory, But maybe that would not prove important. After a year or so, I may be able to tell you in this column whether or not I have received any concrete encouragement in this enterprise. I do want you parents to know that the ap- parent opportunity I have to help a few children gives me a lot of inner glow. PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. Our daughter, seems to have difficulty. mak- ing decisions. If in school or in catechism they are asked to f| ' frey Hallowes, the wartime re-| 12 years) A presentation of her chosen china, along with a kitchen gadget shower was arranged by. Mrs. George Warden at her home, assisted by Mrs, Edward Gibson, Mrs, Raymond Holland gave a miscellaneous shower. Mrs. Robert McEwan and Mrs. James Melvin were co-hostesses at a cup and saucer shower at Mrs. McEwan's home. Mrs. Robert Olliffe and Mrs. | |personal shower. The bridal party will 'be en- \tertained by Mr. and Mrs, Rob- ert McEwan, Farewell avenue, at their home, following the re- hearsal this evening. | Rootes To Keep Grasp On Reins LONDON (Reuters) -- Lord |Rootes, head of the British car |manufacturing firm Rootes Mo- ltors, reaffirmed in a statement \Thursday night that his family |would retain control of the group. His statement also denied that Rootes Motors might give voting rights to A class mon- voting stock. Last month Rootes and the Chrysler Corp, of the United States announced that agree- ment had been reached for Chrysler to acquire a 30. per. cent interest in the ordinary voting shares of Rootes and a 50 per cent interest in th enon- voting A shares. | 6 WIFE PRESERVER To polish charred barbecue skewers, draw them through a lwet dishcloth, . folded |spinkled with scouring powder. Wash in hot suds. FOR 'THE FINEST IN Custom Made WEDDED HAPPINESS - Mary's Studio Rose Willoughby, Donald Ellis - Wed In Double-Ring Ceremony: Lawson Parks together gave a\a double ring ceremony in the Martha Rose Isabell) Wil- lougby became the bride of Donald George Ellis, Bowman- ville, last Saturday afternoon in low roses holding a matching veil, ' The best man was Mr. Car- man Shirk, Bowmanville, and the ushers were Mr. Harold Willoughby, Oshawa, and Mf. Gerald Shirk, Bowmanville. . The reception was held at the Storie Park Clubhouse, where the bride's mother received, wearing a two-piece pale green linen dress, white accessories and a corsage of White and yellow carnations, The bride- groom's mother assisted, wear- ing a green lace dress, white accessories and a Gimilar corsage. % As the couple left on a trip to Niagara Falls and Mount Pocono, Pennsylvania, the bride was wearing a two-piece tur quoise suit and white access ries. On their return they live in Oshawa. Out-of-town guests were ent from Bowmanville, ews castle, Kendall, Toronto, Oril- lia, Port Perry, Seaforth, Otta- wa, Whitby, and Cobourg. LADIES! No Baby Sitter, No Car Fare MR. BERNAR Of Leading Toronto Salons Experienced Hair Stylist HOME APPOINTMENTS | PHONE AFTER 9 P.M. 728-9317 Free Methodist Church, Osh- awa. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. George Willoughby, Oshawa, and the late Mr. Wi'- loughby and her bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Henry Shirk, Bowmanville. The Reverend W. A. McMil- lan officiated and the soloist, Miss Lina Skelding sang '"O Perfect Love" and "Day By Day" accompanied by Mrs. Jack Stewart, Oshawa. Given in marriage by her uncle, Mr. William Hicks, the bride was wearing a formal gown of Chantilly lace over slipper satin with a scalloped sabrina neckline edged with seed pearls. The fitted bodice, enhanced with sequins at. the front, tapered beyond the waist- line and tiers of scalloped Chan- tilly lace cascaded down the front of the bouffant skirt, Her white petal headdress held a shoulder-length veil. She carried a white Bible crested with white carnations, yellow sweetheart roses and stephanotis. The maid of honor was Miss Marie Ann Willoughby, Osh- awa, wearing a waltz-length gown of pure silk yellow organ- za, cap sleeves and bouffant skirt featuring a centre panel of horizontal pleats flanked with frames of scallopeq Chantilly lace. A self-bow at the waist- line completed the front detail, Her headdress was three yel- & R R le ' How different are his feelings ed u jand experience when his 'mother writes about him or con- BELMONT, Mass. (CP) --isuits a specialist! For many American Opinion, edited by/months and years his mother Robert Welch, founde r and/has tried to get-him to "break leader of the right-wing John|the habit' and often has been Birch Society, has linked Prime| vexed that he did not respond. |Minister Pearson and Opposi-| Around the problem are as- \tion Leader John Diefenbaker sociated many unhappy mo- with what it calls the interna-|ments in relation to her, to the tional Communist conspiracy. |family, and to neighbors and In its July-August issue, pub-|other relatives, 2 lished here, the magazine says| jtion I had when victory came. both men consciously contri-| MEDICAL ADVICE | I'm sure these children. need Westfall-Shawcross Nuptials Sol i ed Las Sa d apre contr'-" Of course, in writing these|to feel th oceed fa cur- emniz t saturday buted to the spread of commas) i ot a them I assumeling themscher Joan Marie Shawcroxs, To-\in afternoon dresses of pin kj70 per cent controlled by com-|that they and their parents! So I try, sincerely, to assure| ronto, became the bride of satapeau, featuring scoop neck- munism. Stanley Ray. Westfall, Oshawa, |lines, bow trim elbow sleeves| The magazine says the Com- last Saturday evening tn Centre|controlled front skirts cascad-|munist conspiracy is zealously Street United Church, Oshawa.|ing into fullness at the backs|exploiting the Quebec separa- The bride is the daughter of and highlighted by detachable tist movement by persuading Mr. and Mra, William Lloyd|capelet trains. They wore match-|the French population of Que- Shawcross, Toronto and herjing headdresses holding wispy |bec that they are discriminated bridegroom is the son of Mr.\veils of silk illusion, and Cane Reet and Mrs, Frank Ray. Westfall,'ried bouquets of pink roses, It says that shrewd Quebec' Oshawa. white carnations and ivy. politicians dare not denounce | The Reverend A. W. Magee Mr. George Westfall, Oshawa, |SeParatism as nonsense and that officiated and the soloist, Miss. was best man and. the ushers|Co™munist plans probably call Hazel Rundle, Oshawa, sat giwere Mr. Edwin Westfall, |for renewed and increasing vio- "Wedding Prayer" and "O Per-|Queenston, and Mr. Norma nilence later this year. fect Love" accompanied by Mr.| Wilkinson, Toronto. | es Ronald Kellington The reception was held at the} HOUSEHOLD HINT Given in marriage by her|Flying Dutchman, Bowmanville,| When lining cupboard shelves| father, the bride was wearing where the bride's mother re-jor drawers put three layers of} a formal white silk faille gown|ceived the guests wearing an/the lining paper. Place all at) with a sabrina neckline and lily-|aqua blue sheath dress of silkjonce on shelves or in drawers.| point sleeves. It featured a fitted|shantung, appliqued with silk|When the top is soiled, slip it} empire bodice with the semi-/embroidered flowers and styled) off and there's a clean one ready full skirt falling into a chapellwith wrap skirt, matching hat/for use. train. A cluster of white silk and accessories and a corsage) roses edged with seed pearls of white and. pink feathered|black patent leather accesso- held her short bouffant veil of carnations. The bridegroum's| ries and a corsage of pink| tulle. She carried a bouquet of mother assisted, wearing a two-|\baby rosebuds for travelling. pink sweetheart roses, baby's!piece powder blue sheath of|The honeymoon will be spent in breath and ivy: imported French Venetian lace|Cape Cod and on their return The maid of honor was Miss|with mink colored accessories|Mr. and Mrs. Westfall will re- Barbara Shawcross, Toronto,|and a blue and white feathered!side in Oshawa. | and the bridesmaids were Miss carnation corsage Guests were present: at the| Doris Ohman, Scarborough, and The bride donned a two-piece wedding rfom Cobourg, Belle- Miss Jeanne Sutherland, To-|white lace sheath with short}ville, Kingston, Toronto, Peffer- ronot. They were gowned alikeisleeves and a shell neckline,|law and Oakville. themselves. I try to assure them that they need no longer feel ashamed of the matter, but consider it only a_ personal nuisance or inconvenience. 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