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HOLY CROSS Roman Ca- tholic Church was the setting recently for the marriage of 'Carmen Margaret Josephine Ebejer and Emmanuel G. S. Calleja, both of Oshawa. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Ebejer, Malta, and the bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Saviour Cal- leja, Malta, and the late Mr. Catleja. --Mary's Studio oa IN THE SALVATION ARMY Citadel last Saturday afternoon, Major Fred Lewis united in marriage Dorothy Joan Carrington and George William Hester. The bride is ANN LANDERS He's Leaving a But Not On Her Dear Ann Landers: Our daughter Sarah is 27 years old. She has a good job as secretary to an executive in a shoe fac- tory, For the past four years she has been going with a fel- How who works there as a fore- man, I will call him Ralph al- though that is not his name. In fact he doesn't work at the fac- tory either. I just put that in to disguise him in case this let- ter shows up in the paper. Ralph lives in a rooming house, He 'comes here for din-) uses our bathtub. He says it is almost impossible to get into the bathroom at the rooming mer three nights a week and| You might say they are just Ring Finger ial fish, hunt, bowl, golf, skate and dance. We've taken them pic- nicking, camping, on sight-see- ing trips and given them every-| thing they need. Yet, ever since} they learned to talk all we have heard is '"'but all the neighbor kids have nicer biscs, better guns, more spending money." Now it's, "but all the other kids can go steady, I'm always the first, one to leave a party. Everyone has more fun than I do." spoiled, but how did they get that way? We take them to church regularly, insist on week house, When he does get in, there is no hot water. | We don't mind except he! never cleans the tub after he uses it. Once my wife placed a can of scouring powder right} in the middle of the tub, but he| didn't take the hint. We wouldn't care if we were sure Ralph was going to marry) jour Sarah, but he hasn't pro- the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. |posed to her even though he Arthur Carrington and the jnever takes out anyone else. bridegroom is the son of Mr. |What do you think? -- Wedding and Mrs, George Hester, all |Bells Wanted of Oshawa. Dear Bells: I'm afraid the ; only ring Sarah will ever see| is the one Ralph leaves around) the tub. --Ireland Studio UNITS, GROUPS AND AUXILIARIES A fellow doesn't go steady) with a girl four years and not declare his honorable intentions) WOMEN'S GUILD (Grace Lutheran) The April meeting of an Church was held with the president, Miss Gladys Colbreay| presiding. Business included further dis- cussions on the Foster Child kmimeograph machine, with the} Women's Guild of Grace Latter gals in Japan and the Auxiliary is sending a cheque for $100 to the A cheque was- also sent recently to the Cerebral Palsy Fund. Plans for the "Night of Cards" --if 5 } iHome and School Council which|.c/ 0% [as Sy. Soret oe stated that an officer finishing|regarding the future. If he isn't| | the|fund being raised to help him) , 2-year term this year is elig-|interested in marriage she for $25) should--if you will excuse the ible for another one-year period.| é eel een Fe : |expression--pull the plug on him! Mr. G. A. Korry, principal,| pear Ann Landers: We are stated that the report cards wWill/ ready to admit we are failures nights for study, and set their allowances at a reasonable mini mum, They can have the car occasionally, but we always know where they are, and with whom. Yet they seem dis- contented, misunderstood and dissatisfied with their parents. Why?--The Failures Dear Friends: I refuse to call you failures because I don't be- lieve you have failed, There is no such animal as a_ perfect parent because there are no perfect people. You have invested a_ great deal of time and energy in your children and believe me, it will pay off handsomely in the long run, Your children may seem to you to be discontented and mis- understood, but I don't buy it. They may gripe, buck for more freedom or rebel against auth- ority. But so what? Every kid tests, Every kid feels for soft spots, Every kid vies for posi-| tion. | At times all parents feel they are failures, but your letter con- to be held tomorrow, April 14,|b@ issued for the third time atistrange, too, because we were at 8.00 ; report cents includes door prizes and); ine about the p.m. Tickets will be] ine end of June. However, in going to be perfect parents, It p cases wher »CeSS le Plan and the purchasing of a|available at the door, price breve ae e it is necessary, @N|should have been easy, Our own may be sent|wants are few and we were will- middle of May.|ing to devote ourselves totally \various groups MISS CAROL LANE Travel Expert To Address Harmony UCW Miss Carol Lane, well-known authority on travel by car, will address the Harmony United! of the church|refreshments, "Discipline" was the topic for|to our children. tains no sign of failure--only a report of their. gripes. You sound as if you are unquestion- ably in control. And when par- ents are in control the children |participating. Hand work done) Mrs. Edward Luke gave the oak { by a patient was displayed and auditor's report, and the cater- viet ge nel votes De eee orders will be taken for moreling report was given by MTS.) .qnte Neeeat formed fo work. It was decided to start a| James Anderson. Members were ea . arnese leaders oe Christmas stocking which is t0lasked to attend the Vimy Mel cn orn ared outlined of ' be turned in at the December) morial Service held on Satur-\ ca] discipline problems ch meeting. day, April 11, at 2.00 p.M./narents might incur. Members The topic study, what is alat the Cenotaph. of each. group offered sugges- "good"? member of the Church,) Members of the Poppy Fund tions of various ways in which discussed by the Reverend/wili meet today, April 13,)t0 cope with the problems. Philip Fiess, was in three por-/at 7.30 p.m. At the next business/When the discussion leaders tions: 1. types of Church mem-| meeting, April 21, a shower will/summarized the suggestions and bers, 2. attitudes toward the/pe held for the country store|comments for the entire audi- function and operation of the/pooth. A few seats are stilllence many interesting and in- church, and 3. God's description) available for the Zone Rally in|formative solutions were gained. of good members. |Port Perry, May 12. The attendance banner was which| We are an average family,|feel secure. They know their with an average income. Welparents love them enough to live in an average house and|keep an eye on them and to in- drive an average car. Wejsist on decent standards of con- taught our children to swim,'duct. AT Refreshments were served by |Miss Colbreay and Mrs. Alex.) |Christie. LEGION AUXILIARY Dr. DR. J. F. CANNON Hi and 8S Mrs. Victor Hulatt presided lover. the regular meeting of the| |jointly won by Miss Pauline Tease's and Mrs. Marion Har- rison's room, Ancus-(RAYDON F. Cannon Home and The Ladies' Auxiliary, Royal School Association. Mrs, Hulatt) Church Wo. { men's group at iheld 2.99\Canadian Legion Branch 43,\read a special bulletin from its weekly meeting last ---- = = p.m. in Oshawa, on April 23. Tuesday with the president,| Miss Lane, Women's Travel|Mrs. Norman McEvers, presid-| Director for Shell Canada Limit-|ing. One new member was ini- ed, will discuss her ideas onjtiated and welcomed into the how to make car travel a relax-|Auxiliary, and Mrs. George ing carefree and rewarding ex-\Stevens of the Peterborough perience for the whole family, |Auxiliary, was a welcome guest.| What clothes to take on vaca-| Bazaar goods were shown for tion always poses a problem for|the bazaar to be held on April any woman. But Miss Larie has|28, at 8.00 p.m. Mrs. Charles| a practical answer -- a color co-\Smith, one of the oldest mem-| ordinated wardrobe that gives a|bers, has made and donated a woman a broad selection of out-|!arge rug. | fits yet requires a minimum of|_ Mr. Barclay Law of the Men's) luggage. One of the highlights of|Branch spoke briefly on sports) Dessert Tea Wed., April 15 SPEAKER:-- BETTY KENNEDY Stor of C.F.R.B. 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