YWCA HANDICRAFTERS DISPLAY THEIR SKILL -Recently members of the Various handicraft classes of the YWCA gathered to model 'abd display some of their Cfeations, the result of a busy and enthusiastic season. Left to right, Mrs, H. C. Gannon shows some of her copper namelling in a set of jewel- lery; Mrs. Edward Oscapella, teacher of millinery and dress- making, models her Easter chapeau; five-year-old Caro- lyn Semple displays the hat and dress made in class by her mother, Mrs, H. J. Sem- ple; and Mrs., E. C.: Pogson and Mrs.,L. W. Ferenz model the suits and hats they have made: --Oshawa Times Photo Husband Hunting Prime Sport For London Debs And Mothers By CAROL KENNEDY In a clipped "county" accent, LONDON (CP)--wWith the first|she crisply denied that the sea- faint rustle of spring in ritzy Park Lane, a young man's fancy turns to thoughts of deb- Utantes and to the chances of becoming one of the season's son "The gel gets to' know other gels in her own sphere of life. Wherever she goes afterwards she will have a wide circle of is a marriage market. "deb's delights." friends. The young men are in- There are some who say the debs' escorts are a cynical bunch of freeloaders. All they feed is a well-tailored set of evening clothes, a smooth line of talk and a copy of the rather ribald. guide to the season's girls that circulates secretly round the universities. Then they're assured of three months' free food, drink and en- tertainment, _. Ex - deb Charlotte Bingham, who has just published her "memoirs," says it's been known for mothers to pay young men to take their daugh- ters out so they can be seen in cidental," For most parents, it's 2 costly course in how to win friends. Basic shoestring budget for a "coming-out" giving a cocktail party and a few dinners instead of a dance, and sharing with another par- ent. COSTLY PARTIES is £500: That's A dance at a big London hotel such as Claridge's or the Hyde Park could cost £4,000 and bills for lesser parties, clothes and tickets for Royal Ascot and Henley regatta sometimes mount up to another £2,000. Presentations at Buckingham the right places and asked other debs' parties. She rates most of her own former escorts as either "weeds or leeches." Last season a fa- vorite way of classifying es- corts was to ask: "Is Nigel--or David or Christopher -- sit?" meaning "'safe in taxi." The men can be caustic too. One young peer contemplating Marriage surveyed the aloof, pink-and-white faces at Queen Chariotte's ball, traditional 'May curtain-raiser to the sea- on, and commented: "It would "be like proposing to a straw- milk sundae." _ «Behind the champagne and handeliers looms that grey 'eminence of the London season! society columnist Jennifer of Queen Magazine, in private life 'Mrs. Betty Kenward. She knows everybody '"'in the gvim," draws up the annual dist of dances and provides par- ents with her own hand-picked catalogue of eligible escorts. Palace ended in 1958, but most society veterans agree that the real cache of the palace dis- appeared with the ultra-formal pre-war evening "courts,'"' open only to well-connected debs. To- day, money talks louder than a crumbling stately home. "When Labor came to power after the war we thought it was all finished," said Mrs. Ken- ward, "But there are more dances than ever." She claims to have invented the ""'ltttle season" which now exends the social whirl to Christmas after the traditional August and September recess spent shooting in Scotland or Norfolk. Some debs take the candy- floss marathon seriously. Many more are openly blase. Char- lotte Bingham knew a girl who carried a pocket edition of War and Peace in her evening purse. Another concealed Gone With the Wind in a lavatory cistern at the Dorchester Hotel and to spent most of her season read- ing' in the "loo."' As:a group, debs tend to look and sound alike. They are easily spotted. by their bland, wideeyed, rather supercilious stare aimed slightly above one's left shoulder;' by their floppy hairstyles wrapped in ex- pensive silk scarves; by their clear commanding voices ob- viously schooled in calling hounds to heel. They talk in feverish excla. mation marks, all about who- was - seen - where, sprinkling "dahlings" arid "my deahs" around like actresses, and tell- ing everybody what a '"'fab" time they had. Outside the ballrooms, debs and their escorts patrol a reg- ular London beat. On Sunday mornings they crowd into two panelled Knightsbridge pubs, the Denmark and the Admiral Codrington, a stone's throw from Harrods, the Victorian Gothic department store where upper - class' mummies help choose their daughters' clothes. In the evenings they some- times go slumming in Notting Hill Gate jazz clubs but more often are found twisting at the Saddle Room in Park Lane, the Blue Angel nightclub or the con- tinental -- style Discotheque in shabby Soho. After three months with hardly an evening at home, some debs have to go on a rest cure. Others, disillusioned by "young men in bowler hats who have to ask their mothers for pocket money," have been known to plunge into the simple life and, to the fascinated horror of the gossip writers, end up a French fisherman marrying or an Italian deckhand. ANN LANDERS --Dear Ann Landers: The letter from "Loose Bolt" bolted loose a few memories for me. I, too, had romantic fantasies about my "'lost love." For 17 years I mooned around when I heard "'our song." I kept visual- izing our life together--as it might have been if we had married. * Then the alumni association announced its big reunion. His name appeared on the roster as one who would be in town for it--with his wife and two chil- dren! My heart leaped! I talked it over with my husband and we agreed to invite the old boy friend, his wife and children to stay in our home. I scrubbed, polished, waxed, shined and ran Sweet Bird Of Youth Now Fat, Old Goose consider "answering back" and how it is different from "sass. ing?" Kids should be allowed to present their side of the story, but having presented it they should accept the decision of that person who just "happens to have lived on this earth about 28 years longer." Dear Ann Landers: I take violent exception to the advice you gave the landlady who com. plained because two working girls entertained male company in their apartment anywhere from 2:00 a.m, to 7:00 a.m. You said: "As long as. the tenants pay their rent, keep the property in good condition and refrain from disturbing the myself to a frazzle for 10 days straight. When 'they arrived I almost went through the floor. My poetry-writing dream-boat had turned into a bald'- headed, paunchy, stuffy old bore. He bossed his children like a ty- rant and his wife cowered in the corner when he looked at her. My husband and I roared with 17 years. How nice awake!--SQUARED AWAY done. Dear Ann Landers: I am getting 'very close to 12 years old so I consider myself almost a teen-ager. What do you think about free- dom of speech for us? I don't mean sassing adults. I. mean just talking back to parents when we don't happen to agree with them. Don't you think kids ought to have their say when an argu- ment comes up? Or do you think' they should just sit there and not answer back with any- thing. just because -the other person happens to have lived on longer? lately BUGGED having this problem, too. laughter when they left. I had been living with a dream for to be Dear Squared: And moreover you got your house. cleaning neighbors the landlady has nolé right to.complain about their' morals," ' I have news for you. The landly has a right to complain if the tenants are turning her property into a brothel. I've rented apartments for a long time and I try to be care- ful. But it's impossible to judge people by looking at them. I've had neighbors who go on hunt- ing and fishing trips at dawn tell me they see men sneaking out of my apartment house at 4:00 and 5:00 a.m. Of course I give these girls notice but too often I get the same kind in their place. You don't help any by telling these budding Cleopatras it's o.k. s0 long as they don't dis- turb the neighbors, Thanks for nothing. --E.C.W. 2.0. soe oe . Avoid Disappointment book your SUMMER HOLIDAY soonest Four Seasons Travel Fully recognized by all airlines, steamships, etc. 728-6201, --Dear E.C.W.: No landlady GIVEN GRANT should permit her apartment} LONDON, Ont. (CP) -- Dr. house to be turned into alp w. Nicholls of the Univer- brothel, And it requires no r 5 sity of Westém Ontario has genius to figure out that girls awarded a. $110,000 re- who have a steady stream of grant by the' United rch male visitors at odd hours are : not likely to be entertaining|Space Adminstration, Dr, Nich: olls, physics professor and head My advice pertained to work-|of the molecular excitation re- ing girls. They should not havejsearch group at the university, to account to the landlady for/has been awarded the grant for their visitors. general support of the work of Why don't you insist on refer-jhis group in laboratory astro- ences if you have so much|Physics, or space science. trouble? Electrolysis Removes warts, moles and superfluous hair. 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