a ene ce Hae te He AY aR it en LOO ANN LANDERS . e ® ' ' : : ' ' Right Or Wrong - Kiss And Make Up * Dear Ann Landers: Three 'months after our marriage my 'wife and I had a spat. She said, "I'm sorry." That was 20 years 'ago and she has never uttered those words since, * I have to be the one to give *in, right or wrong. If I refuse, she turns on the ice and I get 'the silent treatment. This can +go on for days and even weeks, 'Finally I decided life in a deep. 'freeze isn't worth it, so I apolo- "gize, even though I know she is in the wrong. 4 She moved into the guest room on New Year's Day and says she'll move back when I apologize. We have two children, money worries, no drinking problem, and no pesty in-laws. I've never looked at another woman, although there are times when I wonder why. Is it possible I've been right only once in 20 years? What do you suggest? -- ETERNALLY WRONG. Dear Eternally: I suggest that it would be nice if there were at least one adult in your family. Since your wife is op- no erating at an 11-year-old level|It looks to all the world as if} week, They want to take out She knows when she's right GM OE MN OR OE GE OE THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, March 13,1963 9 and when she's wrong. If two little words can thaw the deep- freeze, say 'em, for heaven's sake , . . don't just stand there and shiver! Dear Ann Landers: Our son is 19, He is in collége and mak- ing fairly good grades. During Christmas holidays Maynard went to visit his girl friend who lives in another city. While there he called and an- nounced that he had given her a ring and wanted us to meet! the girls' family, When we got there we were shocked to see the ring was ac- tually a wedding band with two rows of diamonds. My husband that the "engagement" was actually a wedding band. Maynard said his girl didn't like the conventional engage- ment rings so they decided on the band. Now, how do we ex- plain this ring to our friends?| ring | his father's criticism and says we are making a big flap over nothing. Are we?--M AND D and his fiancee don't care for conventional engagement rings they probably don't care what conventional people say. friends for the girl's ring. You neither have to defend nor ex- plain your son's "taste."' high school student 17 years of age. A few weeks ago I had an ; A M qjaccident in my mother's 'car. hastened to tmform. MAynar |No one was injured but.the re- | pair bill was $50. pay for the damages which I think is fair, but I don't like the way they want to do it, me poverty-stricken, I wouldn't have a spare nickel. I want to pay the repair. bill with money from my bank ac- count, This money has been put away for my future education. I would return the $50 to the bank account when I go to work this summer. My parents have agreed to abide by your deci- sion. What do you say, Ann?-- CRASH Dear Crash: You're going to hate me but your parents are right. Punishment is useless if it imposes no burden. j The alternative whieh you have dreamed up for yourself is too painless. Take your lumps like a good kid. Maynard did not react well to Dear M and D: If Maynard Make no apologies to your Dear Ann Landers: I'm a My parents are makig me STUDY CHURCH ROLES Leading Catholic and Protest- ant spokesmen will discuss the tensions between spiritual and secular church roles on CBS-TV I get an allowance of $4 a has been there ever since. She| why don't you be the grown up? they are married. |$2 a week which would leave|March 24 and 31. LEGS-BREASTS = SIDE BACON COOKED HAM Turkye-Chicken-Beef-Pork YORK FROZEN PIES TableRite Sliced Rindless TableRite Sliced Vacuum Sealed HOSPITALITY Cherry PIES . 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