ANN LANDERS Child's Heart Knows True Mother Love Dear Ann Landers: I'm wiit- ing in regard to the 19-year-old rl who signed herself Grace. and her mother were like strangers, There was no warmth between them, Grace said there hever was. You put the whole blame on the mother, I think you could be wrong. My own daughter is|¥ 16, and she's another Grace. When she was seven, she let me} know she didn't want my bugs or kisses. Whenever I tried to be affectionate she pushed me away. So, I stopped trying. Many times I I to hold fet i my arms but she had set_ up er. My husband left me when my "Grace" was six, Perhaps this is a clue, I remarried a few years later and now have a lov- ing husband and a darling, af- fectionate daughter. The two girls are so different as night and day. So please print my let- ter, Ann, and tell some of those cold daughters to warm up 'o- ward their mothers and maybe they will get something in re- turn.--DELTA Dear Delta: No one is born "cold." All children want to be loved. If your daughter refused to accept your affection it was because you somehow rejected her first. Your "clue" is a revealing e. You did not love your hus- band and this child by him was probably unwanted -- and un- loved. Your second marriage was a good one, You loved the man and you loved his child, A s heart is the most delic-/va "sensitive machine in the . It knows. Dear Ann: When I have guests for dinner I like to clear the dishes and leave everything in the kitchen until I can do things my way, My guests think they are doing me a favor when they insist on "helping." I keep re- peating, "No, no... I'd prefer to do it myself," yet they go right on chipping my china, breaking the stems off my good crystal and scratching the sil- ver, One guest threw a large piece of roast beef into the garbage can before I could stop her, As- other' guest tossed out several servings of salad saying, '"'Why clutter up the refrigerator with this?" Please, Ann, tell people when a hostess says she'd rather clean up the dishes herself she means it. Thanks--RUTH Dear Ruth: When some peo- ple say "no" "maybe." If you don't want help be emphatic, Often it's not it sounds like what you say but the way you THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, February 7,1963 7 say it, that delivers the m Dear Ann Landers: Correc- tion, please, on, your statemeat --You've got a tin ear, brother, and there's no cure for it." There is, indeed, a cure for 't, if "brother" is willing to work hard, A cousin of mine loved to sing but the poor guy couldn't carry a tune in a picnic basket. He was determined not to miss the fun of singing, and set out to memorize sounds. He actually slaved at training his ear, and after a while he was able to sing on key. By the time he got to Har- vard he sang well enough to join the Harvard Glee Club. For four years he was one of their best baritones. Although he never achieved absolute pitch (this cannot be taught) he did 8 their parents. A "buzz session" Family P roblems was held after to discuss the problems presented in the play. Mrs. Ralph Boneham sum- Portrayed in Play marized the findings of the A group from Oshawa Little] groups, Theatre presented 'the playlet|" Mrs, James Anderson presid. oe Yeoting pig ni oa ed for a abort, business session, t luc! rthda Home and School Association. | the le is oi gh Me Mrs, W. H. Langton introduc-|March 15 when Mr, Stephen ed the cast and outlined the|Saywell will be the guest speak. story, which dealt with two emo./ er. tionally disturbed children and YOUNG WINNER LACHINE, Que. (CP) -- Ten: succeed in overcoming his tin year-old Sherry Parkinson of ear.--ROBERT C. MARSH Dear Bob: I stand corrected (by the distinguished musie cri- tic of the Chicago Sun-Times yet). 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