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Annee | | | 8 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Friday, November 9, 1962 bs CE A surprise party was held in honor of Mr. and Mrs. Daniel Vetzal, of Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, on the occasion of their 50th wedding anni- versary. The host and host- ess were Mr. and Mrs. Michael Nicholishen, Ritson road south, while the honor- ed couple were in Oshawa visiting relatives. Mr. and Mrs. Vetzal were married in Ethelbert, Manitoba. They have three sons, Roy, We-l land; Alex, Regina; John, ¢/ BRATE 50th ANNIVERSARY | Saskatoon and one daughter, Mrs. Robert Watson (Anne), Toronto. To mark the occa- sion the reception ta- ble was ce nt red by an anni- versary cake and gold chrys- anthemums and _ carnations. Among their guests was their best man, Mr. Daniel Para- ANN LANDERS Widow Gets Wise To His Free-Loading Dear Ann Landers: I'm a bachelor, 42 and have been keeping company for three years with a pleasant but not beautiful widow who is 36. A few weeks ago we broke up over a misunderstanding. We live in the same apart- ment building. About five nights a week she'd have me in for dinner. (I must say she was a fine little cook.) Three times in the last- month she'd answer the telephone and say, "I'm sorry but you have the wrong number." Once I stood near the 'Iphone and I heard a man's voice. After these calls she al- ways seemed flustered. I began to suspect she was having an af- fair on the sly. I told her so in plain language. She broke down and wept and asked me to leave--for good. I phoned her twice last week but she was very distant and un- friendly. I guess I was a little hasty. Please help me fix things up.--Red Dear Red: Finding restaurant food a bit expensive? How could this woman be hav- ing an affair behind your back when she was feeding your face in her apartment five nights a week? And when would she have time for "wrong num- bers?" You were "'hasty"? 'Well, she was slow, She should have given you the air long ago. Dear Ann Landers: My hus- band and I are college students who have refused to accept fi- nancial help from either of our parents. (Both sets of parents are well-heeled and willing.) We live in a crowded apartment, drive an. old, beat-up car, and we both work 40 hours a week in addition to carrying a full load at school. All around us we see. young married. couples on campus who are having a ball. They live in lovely apartments, drive new cars, have nice clothes and some even have a part-time maid. These kids are being put through school by their parents and neither man. nor wife earns a dime, Are we crazy? Sometimes we think we are paying a terrible price for our independence. My husband and I are both ex- hausted and we have a tough time dragging our weary bodies around. Do you think we should quit our jobs, tell the folks to send the moola and relax like the other professional students? |--Enid, Okla. | .Dear Enid: Nobody ever died from working his way through college. If you kids are finding the sledding too tough, give up. Perhaps if you worked 20 hours a week and accepted a loan from your folks, you might feel less heroic but better rested. It's mighty sweet to be able to do it on your own--but you two sound resentful and bitter so where's the satisfaction? Dear Ann Landers: When I was a child I believed in Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy until I was 9 years old. I enjoyed the fantasies and it had no ill effects on my adult life. Our children are 8, 7, and 5. We have taught them to believe in Santa and the Tooth Fairy. My husband's mother thinks this should not be told '"'lies'". She "set straight" her own daugh- ter's children and this caused some trouble in the family. I don't want her to do this to our children. Soon enough they. will learn what is real in life and what is fantasy. Do you feel I have the right to tell my mother-in-law to please stay off the subject?--W.M. Dear W.M.: Since it is your husband's mother, he should ask his mother to please stay off ihe subject. It is the responsibility of the parents to teach and guide their children. No one should inter- fere, whether the area be re- ligion, manners, discipline or fairy tales. BIG FAMILY William H. Harrison, presi- dent of the U.S. in 1841, and |his wife Anna were parents of |six sons and four daughters. WOMEN'S DAY One day each week Romania's 12,000 village 'houses of cul- ture" are devoted to women's interests and problems. schuk, London, Ontario and friends and relatives from Welland, Sudbury, London, Tweed, Toronto, Bowman- ville, Courtice and Oshawa. --Oshawa Times Photo Bible Study Timely Topic At UCW Meeting A one - act drama entitled, "The Bible Speaks" was pre- sented at the November meet- ing of Westminster UCW held recently. The scene was a morn- ing coffee party at a member's home. The 12th chapter of Ro- mans was presented with the participants discussing their} ideas, and problems in under- standing certain portions. Dif- ficult phrases were explained and the group came to the con- clusion that the Bible is pertin- ent for today's problems. In this chapter Paul reminds the Chris- tians of Rome not to conform to the world, This advice also applies to Christians today. This does not mean that they should be nonconformists of the beat- nik variety but they should be as Paul says, 'transformed by the renewing of your minds". Paul also exhorts Christians to respect their own abilities and those of others -- to be indus- trious, diligent, generous, cheer- ful, sympathetic and magnani- mous; to avoid snobbishness, stubborness, retaliation and re- venge in order to "overcome evil with good". During the worship Mrs. Clar- ence Scott read an article about the Bible. She asked '"'Why is the Bible the World's Best- Known Book?" and gave these 'answers: 1. It has been in existence longer than any other book. 2. It has been translated into all of the main languages and many of the minor languages of the world. : 3. No book was every written more skillfully with such last-| ing and haunting beauty. 4. It has behind it the institu- tions of religion whose avowed purpose is to get its ideas ef- fectively into the thinking of every person on earth. To the question, "Why do we read the Bible?"' these answers were given: for enjoyment, for information and for inspira- " tion. After the group read Psalm 1 UNITS, GROUPS AUXILIARIES ST. ANDREW'S COUPLES The October meeting of St. Andrew's Couples Club took the form of a visit to Oshawa Mental Health Clinic. President, George Tanton, presided during the business meeting. The devotional period was conducted by Kelvin James. Members were reminded of| | Board) | the church's Official meeting, November 12. For the November meeting ; all couples are to meet at the home of Mr. and Mrs. William in unison Mrs. Scott went on to} say, '"'To countless people the world over the Bible is the Word of God. At the great festive) seasons of Christmas and Eas-| ter it becomes breathtakingly} alive. The Bible occupies a big} place in millions of lives and) has transformed the character | of hosts of people." | During the business meeting) presided over by Mrs. Kenneth) Young, it was decided to hold the December meeting at 6.30 p.m. on December 3 and have a pot-luck supper and exchange} gifts. A nominating committee| was appointed to present a slate| of officers at the December} meeting. It was reported that| the turkey supper had been suc- | cessful and the Reverend John} Porter expressed persona 1] thanks and the thanks of the| congregation for the manifold) ways in which the UCW aids in} the total mission of the church. | As a result of the turkey sup-| per and other projects, there is now over $1200 in the Manse Fund as this congregations as- pires to have financial inde. pendence and a full-time minis- | ter as soon as possible. | Refreshments were provided and served by the committee for the evening, Mrs. John Allan, Mrs. A. T. Suddard and Mrs. James Thaxter. Those who took part in the program were Mrs. John Allan, Mrs. George Lofthouse, Mrs. Clarence Scott, Mrs. Kenneth Young and Mrs. Thomas Moorcroft. is nonsense and that children) Doreen Pearce Wed To John Holdsworth The Reverend John K Moffat officiated at the mar- riage recently in Simcoe Street United Church of Miss Doreen Pearce, only daughter of Mrs. Jennifer Squires and the late Mr. Pearce and Mr. John Arthur Holdsworth, eldest son of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Holds- worth, all of Oshawa. The bride, given in marriage by her mother, wore a gown of sky blue chiffon over taffeta, and a white veiled hat. She carried an heirloom white Bilfle with white streamers and white aby rosebuds which had been carried. by the bridegroom's grandmother over 50 years ago. The bridesmaid, Miss Gloria Morris, wore a street length dress of ice blue lace over taf- feta, white' accessories and a corsage of pink rose buds and tinted pink carnations. The best man was Mr. Rob- ert Huddleston. The reception was held at 76 Montrave avenue with the bride's mother wearing a mink brown wool dress, white acces- sories and a corsage of yellow baby chrysanthemums. The honeymoon trip to Niagara Falls: and Buffalo,. New.. York, and are now residing in Oshawa. ' bridegroom's mother assisted in a dress of turquoise chiffon over faffeta, biscuit petal hat and corsage of pink baby chrys- anthemums. The wedding cake was cut by a knife which was over 100 years old. It was first used to cut the bridegroom's grea'-grand- mother's wedding cake and since used by succeeding gener- ations, The bridal couple jeft for a DAVISES ADOPT CHILD HOLLYWOOD = (AP)--Singer- actor Sammy Davis Jr. and his actress wife, May Britt, have adopted a 24-year-old . The Negro child, named Mark Sid- ney Davis, was adopted through the Los Angeles County. adop- tion. centre. 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President George Tanton) thanked Dr. and Mrs. Jackson. | "TEEN HAVEN A new teen-age restaurant in Oslo, Norway, offers dancing, foods and soft drinks includiag gen-aicoholic wines, closing at 11:28 am U *