Dear Volunteer: You've Barbara L. Dugan ta taeee tae e eaeaer learned able | . Wi * eous shower at the home of Mrs. we pull : neother pogo et por Honored By Friends a ER ane ANN LANDERS 8g nm OSHAWA TIMES, Pridey, November 2, 1962 _jhe pays no attention. WED IN HARMONY CHURCH Married recently in Har- mony United Church were Miss Rae-Elaine West, daugh- ter of Mr. and Mrs. Howard West and Mr. Gary Clendon Daughter Disapproves Of Dad in Swim Trunks Dear Ann Landers: Usually parents write in and ask you what to do about their teenagers Well k-re's a switch. I'm a teen-age girl who wants to know what to do about my 43- year-old father. In his younger, days he used to be a bar-bell boy--you know, the kind who had pictures taken on the beach with one girl on each shoulder and two at his feet. A lot of beer has gone down the hatch since the Brownie camera snapped old dad at Santa Monica Beach. But I don't think he realizes how much he has changed. Dad insists on sitting around the house in swimming trunks. When my friends come over, there he is. My mother doesn't like it either. Every now and then she'll say "Harold, go put a robe on." But My dad is wonderful and I love all 220 pounds of him, but do you think he should sit in the living room in swimming 'runks when I have company-- GHANDI'S DAUGHTER Dear Daughter: When your nother gives out with the, "Harold, go put a robe on!" Harold should do it as a matter of courtesy to the other mem- bers of the family. room in your bathing suit when dad entertains business friends, would you? Well, this is the same thing. Dear Ann Landers: The let- ter from "A Patient Patient" was especially poignant because I, to, was in a state mental hospital. The experience added an ~ portant dimension to my life. I gave me a rich appreciation for simple things which most people take for granted. I saw miracles there--lost souls rescued from a world of silence, anguish, and darkness. After my recovery I wanted to show my gratitude to the dedicated people who labor in the field of mental health. They are, for the most part, under- paid and over-worked. I had no particular talent or training so I offered my serv- ices as a volunteer. To the patient who has never had a visitor I am a symbol of t hill . the top ourselves' 'Thanks for| At Bridal Showers si Prior to her marriage to Rob-| pors, Dear Ann Landers: My hus- band and I and our three young children moved to California 18) months ago. We have a beauti- ful little home. my husband likes his job, the weather is di- vine, but we are terribly lonely- We've tried every which way to make friends--without. suc-' cess, We joined a church and attended three social gather- Ings. Beyond "hello" not a single couple said a word to us. The people seemed lovely-- the kind we'd like to know. And tl they were friendly -- to each other. Both my husband and I are beginning to think something must be wrong with us, but we don't know what it is. In Hli- nois we had no trouble making friends. We read your column back home and we read it here. Believe it or not, Ann, you're ert Keith Stumpf, former Barbara Lynn Dugan has been honored by many showers and receptions. A miscellaneous shower was held by co-workers from the Do- minion Life office, Kitchener, at the home of Miss Dianne Blades. The co-hostesses were Miss Irene Sodtke and Mrs. Dorothy Harker. Mrs. Stanley Becker, Kitchen- er, held a miscellaneous shower with the bfidegroom's mother, Mrs. Gordon Stumpf as co- hostess. A presentation of a living- room lamp was given at a ceramic ware was made to the future bride by Oshawa neigh- A "@inner party was held at the home of the bride's-to-be| aunt and uncle, Mr. and Mrs. Clark Dugan, Waterloo, in honor of the bridal couple. A presentation of crystal vases was made to the bride-elect by the Dominion Life Assurance Co., office staff. The prospective bridegroom received a gift of money at a stag party held at the home of Mr. Roland Strassburger, Kit- chener. He also received an electric fry-pan and electric mix- ette from the Clemmer Welding Industries, Waterloo. for @ special kind of candy enjoyment! Crispy pecan halves in the cream ; shower given by Miss Doris Toman, Kitchener, with Miss Jean Hoare as co-hostess. A miscellaneous shower was held at the home of Miss Ruth Skinner with Mrs. Samuel Skin- ner as co-hostess. our only friend. Can you help? --Mrs. X. Dear Mrs. :X Join smaller organizations and get on work- ing committees. Investigate the Great Books movement, a vol- study, League of Women voters, Red Cross--the list is endless. You will surely hit it off with one or two women. You can then invite them over for an evening unteer political group, Bible --with their husbands. the outside world. I ded no traini 1g to say "hello-" It takes no special talent to play a simple game, or to reassure a patient that he has not been completely forgotten. When I leave the hospital I am fulfilled because I've helped make someone's day a better one. There is no feeling quite You woudn't sit in the living like it. -- SYRACUSE VOLUN- Challice, grandson of Mrs. Percy Richardson, all of Osh- awa. The ceremony was per- formed by the Reverend N. T. Holmes. --tIreland Studio. UNITS, GROUPS AUXILIARIES tion towards jackets for the Bantam girls ball team. The girls are city champions. _At the acution sale at the park on Saturday, Nov. 3, NORTH OSHAWA PARK AUX. The Ladies Auxiliary of North Oshawa Park met at the home of Mrs. Gordon Lane, president on Monday evening with 12 members present. Mrs. Edgerton Bauder read the minutes and roll call in the absence of Mrs. James Master- son. 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