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10 / THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, October 3, 1962 : PORTRAIT OF RHONDA ~ Three-year-old Rhonda Lynn is the daughter of Mr. \ 'and Mrs. Earle Harding, Mon- f Nova Scotia. frave avenue, and grand- daughter of Mr. and Mrs. A fred Hurren, Oshawa, and Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Harding, | ANN LANDERS | Undisciplined Dear Ann Landers: My niece who lives in another city came to call on me yesterday. She brought her three - year - old! daughter along. When I greeted them at the door I tried to car- ess little Linda but she pulled away and said, 'I don't like you." A few moments later the child was climbingon the sofa and trying to remeve the pic- tures from the wall. When she tired of that she began to dig \in the potted plants. All this |time her mother said nothing. In order to distract the child I gave her some magazines to look at. When she proceeded to tear out the pages I told her quietly that she must not do that--that magazines weie to |look at and not tear. The youngster became angry, threw | the magazines all over the room and shouted, "You are 4 mean lady. I hate you." | Her mother smiled st me | apologetically and whispered "I hope you don't mind her saying |these things. It is emotionally healthy for children to express | themselves." | I was non-plussed at this }. | young mother's attitude. Is this |the new style of child rearing? |--BACK NUMBER Dear Back Number: No--in _---treland Studio | tact it's the "old style," which Child Possible Delinquent i has been largely discarded in favor of a little emotional health and self-expression on the part of the parents. The idea that children should be permitted to do as they please and say what they wish was part of a bum experiment. Experts in the field now know that youngsters who grow up undisciplined and with no sym- bol of authority in the home sometimes wind up expressing themselves to the juvenile au- thorities. Dear Ann Landers: I live in Toronto. So does my fiance. His family moved to "the United States several months ago. Glenn will be driving to the U.S. on a business trip next month. His parents invited me to accompany him and stay at their home. Everything is perfect except for my parents. They don't think it would look right for an engaged couple to take a three; day motor trip together unchap- eroned. Can you imagine any- thing so old-fashioned? My parents say they trust me but they certainly aren't acting| like it. Glenn and I plan to be} married in a couple of years so I fail to see why this trip would cause talk. Besides. I really don't care what the nosey neighbors say. I am eager to = 174 RITSON ROAD SOUTH Thanksgiving Day SPECIALS AT... GLECOFF Supermarket OSHAWA, ONTARIO SPECIALS For Thurs. - Fri. - Sat., Oct. 4-5-6 STORE CLOSED MONDAY, OCTOBER 8th, OPEN TILL 10 P.M. DAILY: EVISCERATED BROILER Turkeys 6 TO 8 LBS. CHOICE BOILING FOWL uw. 45¢* 39° FRESH SIRLOIN Steak or Roasts CHOICE BEEF RIB STEAKS LB. 7 or FRESH SHOULDER Pork Chops 2: 1,09 WIENERS """"* 3.us. 95¢ PORK HOCKS "27° SPEC. LB. 79° Chicken Backs 4.5 29° SALT PORK """" «39° esi a EGGS suse Boor 1.00 Instant Coffee "= 79" SUGAR """""?-- toss. BS¥ wanes Cooked Ham uc» uw 1.19 SPECIALS in Our DRUG and CLOTHING DEPT. Toothpaste sir" »:ten 2/38° Cough Syrup #3"5."" on 59° Shampoo #0110""" 'on 99F Suave Longmen es. on HE Sugar Bags wasn't ss. 3/89* Tampax 40's sects c'ror 1.59 Viele's vices varon nus rec. ose ror 5 Air Freshener *<'s.2/1.00 BUTTER FIRST GRADE CHRISTIE'S SLICED BREA CIGARETTES MINCEMEA CLUB HOUSE uw. 53° 2 MLOAVES 37° 3.09 YOUR CHOICE CARTON MAPLE 2-LB, ¢ LEAF TIN SPEC. 4 BISCUITS FRESH FIG BAR 1-LB. PKG. 29° have your wot! On thP?--sILL Dear Jill: I'm afraid: when you see what my word is you I agree with your parents. An travelling together, And my ob- jections are based on something over and beyond what the nosey neighbors might say. Why not fly down and meet Glenn there? Dear Ann Landers: I am 27, a graduate in library. science. and I live with my widowed mother. Several months 'ago my cousin went overseas with the Army. He showed my picture to a fellow officer. write me a lovely letter. since. The captain has sent a | looks. | My mother is furious. claims I am putting myself on stranger. a host of other unattractive pos- sibilities. fike your opinion--PRO-MAIL Dear Pro - Mail: permission from her mother. It goes without saying that | | wop't be so- eager to have it. engaged couple should not be} The captain I responded promptly and we have been carrying on an inter- esting correspondence ever few snapshots and I like his She a low level by writing to aj She also suggested that he might be married, and A girl 27 ought to be able to write to whomever she pleases without Fabric Plays B By ELEANOR ROSS Our final report on the fall futniture market is concerned with fabric. It is amazing how fabric has emerged as a vital factor in modern home furnishings. OLDER TREND Years ago, an upholstered piece was done in frieze or un- cut velvet and the finer pieces glowed with handsome silks and' termined by cost, rather than by the type of decor for which it was intended, But with the trend to basic Pieces that fit in and mix nicely with almost every period and Style, | fabric has become in- jcreasingly important to the dec- jorator and the shopper. 'MODERNIZED FABRICS _ Manufacturers and their styl- ists are much given, just now, to beautiful silks, velvels and brocades. The majority of those fabrics, while traditional, look I see nothing wrong in corres-|different because they are done ponding with this man. I would|in lighter colors, more delicate jweaves and, best of. all, are your letters should remain purely platonic until you meet the man in person and learn first-hand what's what. brocades. The choice was de-| ig Part In Decorating Schemes treated with stain and spot re- sistant finishes. What a boon! The ever-popular French ac- cent in furnishings makes itself felt in fabrics, too, with empha- sis on cotton, cotton-and-linen blends and linen fabrics. A vertical Paisley print in either pearl gray or an intense lapis blue is delightful and dif- ferent. The Spanish influence on home furnishings is growing and makes itself felt in dashes of vivid color and bold patterns. But what starred in the fab- ric department and created real enthusiasm was something old made new. This was a modern version of that cherished Victorian uphol- stery--horsehair. The modern version is of nylon that faith- fully simulates all the charac- teristics of the original--but is |washable. DECOR BOON Manufacturers are teaming a new wallpaper and a co- up to produce matching wall.) papers and fabrics. These are|in smooth cottons and. hopsack- a boon to the amateur decora-|ing with documentaries tor doing over her home, since|scenes of episodes in the Revo- SEN PG Mothers to Blame For Marriage Flops In Many Instances Most girls in North America today are not much better pre- pared for married life than a sedentary overweight office clerk is equipped to run a four- minute mile, according to Dr. Marta Wassermann, an Ottawa psychoanalyst. : Dr. Wassermann expressed concern at the increasing num- ber of disillusioned young; women who, within two or three years of their wedding day, be- give furnishings an entirely dif- ferent setting, . Just think what a wallpaper of colorful stylized flowers and medallions would do when teamed up with a sheer case- ment fabric of the same de- sign! AMERICAN DESIGNS And to wind up all the novel- ities and the various influences, iwe are happy to report that American Traditional is stron- ger than ever, Handsome upholstery fabrics and lutionary War. pleased store related fabric: completelyjbuyers and decorators attend- change the look of a room and'ing the market. came dissatisfied with them-¢ selves, their husbands and their « marriage. The blame, in her % opinion, rested on the attitudes = they learned from their fam-% ilies and especially from 'their = mothers. = Dr. Wassermann found that2_ very few of the young women® who consulted her came froma homes where mothers wereS wholly content with their role ase. wives. Instead of telling their® daughters that the work of a» woman in the home was of vital = importance most mothers show-= ed resentment. They felt that= their own lives had beens "wasted" and blamed the imag-. ined waste on their husbands,= who had cut them off from thee world. 4 Even more damaging tow young marriages was our ambi} valent attitude towards sex, thee doctor said, In the race to catch a husband, mothers prshed theirs daughers into sexual relation-> ships far too soon, yet did noth-» ing to teach them the impor-{ tance and meaning of these re-« lationships. - eeeiaa HOUSEHOLD HINT A demitasse cup makes a fine« holder for small flowers > Whitewash can have a glossy. . finish with ease by adding a} pound of soap, dissolved in a: gallon of hot water, to five gale" lons of whitewash, . | a MR. B, SHERMAN Because of the tremendous response Our Grand Opening Festival Sale will continue. Drop in this week end, for your free ticket in the draw for major valuable prizes and a look at-the tremendous discounts on top quality furniture, but, hurry, these bargains don't last long. TAKE ADVANTAGE NOW OF WILSON'S | MRS. B. SHERMAN TESS RSH SSA EER TET HOSE ORS ARERR EERE SESE EE HERE SECS SSS SSS Extra Special DECORATOR BEST BEDDING BUY! SMOOTH-TOP ! GRAND OPENING SPECIAL VALUE! DOOR BUSTER . CHROME ose; see eees: CUSHIONS Reg. 2.98 CASH AND CARRY CONTINENTAL BEDS COMPARE WITH $89 High quality full 39" size. Fancy headboard. Special Price for our Spring-Filled Mattresses Serta, Sealy, Featherweight Bedford, Beverly. Save many dollars, AS LOW AS KITCHEN CHAIRS Assorted Colors, Washable Vinyl seats and backs. Values to 8.95. CASH AND CARRY 4-02. a POURING CAN SUNBEAM OLD FASHIONED REG. 29¢ PKG. FOR LYNN VALLEY PEAR CHUM DOG FOOD TIP TOP TOMATO JUICE FAB '<3 AJAX CLEANSER REG.. 2/43 2/39°* SHAMPO ron 99° SHORTENING "*""* u. 23¢ Choice FRUIT & VEGETABLES McINTOSH APPLES sasker 69° SWEET POTATOES is, 8 FLORIDA GRAPEFRUIT 6 5; 49° FRESH CRANBERRIES NEW POTATOES °*™*° 39° 25° 24° OLD DUTCH 32-0Z. PLASTIC BOTTLE 4° 1.00 10 'i 1.00 TNs OO® FOR l a) | 5 BARTLETT REG. 29¢ 20-0Z. TINS HALO REG. 1.19 6 LB. 29° : 50-LB. 1.00 BAG FROZEN SWANSON T.V. DINNERS Reg. 67c¢ YORK STRAWBERRIES 12-0z. carton PITTED RED CHERRIES FROZEN 20-Ib, Pails DELMAR PURE VEG. MARGARINE Shop and Save at GLECOFF SUPERMARKET WE CASH PENSION, BABY BONUS AND PAY CHEQUES GRAND OPENING SALE 2 FOR $98.00 ron DOD FREE DRAW FOR VALUABLE MAJOR PRIZES Nothing to buy. Just drop in for your free coupon. STROLLERS ... SPRING FILLED CRIB MATTRESSES BARGAINS FOR BABY CHROME HI-CHAIRS 1962 CARRIAGES .. PLAYPENS ....... LARGE FULL PANEL CRIBS . . 19.88 eeeeeeee eens et, 5:88 SENSATIONAL DISCOUNTS IN Unpainted Furniture 4 DRAWER CHESTS 13.88 BOOKCASES ...... 1.99 STUDENTS DESKS . 13,88 RECORD CABINETS . 16.88 BRIGHTEN UP YOUR FLOORS THIS FALL WITH PRETTY, CHEERFUL PATTERNS IN A FULL RANGE OF FLOOR COVERINGS. GENUINE VINYL SANDRAN Reg. 1.99 CLEAROUT SQ. YD. ........ FLOOR COVERINGS By The Roll, Thousands of Yards PER FT. ' CONGO WALL AND ARMSTRONG WALL COVERINGS. FROM PER FT. 6 x 9 BORDERLESS LINOLEUM 1.39 23° OUR ENDEAVOUR IS TO OFFER QUALITY BRAND NAME MERCHANDISE AT LOWEST PRICES IN TOWN! YOU NEVER SA PRICES ! 2-PIECE Suites GRAND OPENING SP SUCH LOW, LOW Chesterfield Beautiful upholsterings. 'Foam Cush- $97. Ww ARBORITE ECIAL EACH WHAT A BUY! DESKS Drawer and shelf. Compare with 29.95 GRAND OPENING H SPECIAL 16.87 TOP SPECIAL FOR OUR GRAND OPENING SMOOTH TOP MATTRESSES -- dreds of coils. B HOT SPECIAL! Special purchase for our Grand Opening Sale! LIVING ROOM SUITE Stn) D, L WHILE ticking, Compare with $59.50. $22. You'll love this style and the price. $73. aii THEY LAST THE NEW, NEW, NEW FURNITURE COMPANY 20 CHURCH ST. 723-3211 * WILSO ¥