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10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesdey, July 18, 1962 GREAT FUND How To Handle Crisis Involving Mentally Il tenes a a, Gener pe By GARRY C. MYERS, Ph.D. ,When mental illness strikes the family--a parent, teen-ager, ndparent or more remotely felated member--all the rest of the family are affected, espe- cially the children. Perhaps the hardest time for them is when, as usual, the on- set of the mental illness is gradual and insidious and 'ts symptoms are not recognized as | LONDON (CP) -- A total of Edwina Mountbatten Trust, jopened after Lady . Mountbat- £228,000 has been raised for the|!ance Brigade and childrens are being made from invested capital to the St. John Ambu- charities. WED 68 YEARS FREDERICTON (CP) --Rev. 'land Mrs. G. M. Young Tne money raisedjhave been married for 68 years. thus far has come from many|At 95, the retired United Church parts of the Commonwealth, in-|minister still drives his own cluding £5,800 from Canada. car. His wife is 90. THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Planetary influences for this <n, day are somewhat adverse Yet this may not mean he must go far away from home to a public or private mental, hos- pital. A growing number of general hospitals assume _ re- sponsibility for mental _ ills; some have wards for private patients. If the general hospital in your community does not ac- cept mental patients, or if your relative does not seem to im- those of mental illness. AWARE OF SYMPTOMS Usually the adults of the family are earlier aware of these symptoms than the chil dren are. Yet few of these older members of the family will con- fer as early and promptly witb their doctor about these symp- toms as they would if the pa- tient showed many of the more familiar. symptoms of common physical illnesses. : Should a doctor inform you that a relative of yours is men- tally ill, it might not be easy for you to accept his diagnosis and his urging of the need for further study by a psychiatrist You may insist that such could not be. so until the patient's mental illness is far' advanced. ANXIOUS AND TROUBLED In the meanwhile, the chil- dren have heard a lot of whis- pering among adults, even tales among their playmates, about the unusual or queer ways of the patient. With all the vague- |prove under the treatment he is| \getting, your doctor may advise/ jthat he go to a mental hospital. HELPFUL MATERIAL There remains the big prob- lem of what to tell the child about a relative under mental care. A good booklet, When a Parent Is Mentally Ill: What to Say to Your Child, may be had (for 50c) from the Child Study Association of America, 9 East 39th Street, New York'! 28, N.Y. About the finest publication 1) know, a paperback of 95 pages which I wish all who read my| column would also read, is) Mental Illness, a Guide for the} Family by Edith M. Stern, pub lished by the National Associa- tion for Mental Health, 10. Columbus Circle, New York 19, N.Y. (50c) PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. When the baby sitter on our return home reports some naughty deeds of one or. both of our children, three and five, MANY SHADES. 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A few words of admonition, however: Avoid extrav Novembef and next January for jromance, A child born on this day could ibe highly s' ssful in the med- and speculation during August and October; emotionalism and anxiety during August and Feb} ruary. And do work hard to-| ward achieving worthwhile goals during the next 12 months. You will have good planetary help but must, of course, do your part. Late Sen- tember and January will be excellent for travel; September, ical, legal or musical profes- sions. : SIMILAR AIMS The U.S. Girl Scouts, similar to Canada's Girl Guides, was founded in Georgia in 1912 by Mrs. Juliette Low, who had been a Guide, leader in Eng- land. ee \ LOWER PRICES SAVE MORE Baked in A&P's own bakery by AtP Master Bakers. Stock up your freezer at this low price. 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