Son of Mr. and Mrs. Harry Poloz of Zion is Jeffery Keiron Poloz, one year old in May. Jeff's grandparents are Mr. and Mrs, ANN LANDERS Dear Ann Landers: I've been married to a woman who con- siders herself too intelligent to do housework. She says house. work is for the peasants. She plays the harp so of course she can't put her hands in dishwater. She claims the water softens her skin and then the strings of the harp cut her fingers. I bought her a dishwasher three years ago but she used it twice and then quit. It loads from the bottom and she says she can't stand on her head. Our 12-year-old daughter listens to her mother's excuses and uses them herself. She plays the harp too and so, of course, she can't do dishes either. I haven't had a decent meal at home for so long I can't remember it. We eat at my mother - in - law's most of the time, or I open up a can of beans and boil some frank- furters. If you can etll me what to do you're a genius.--MARRIED BACHELOR Dear .Bachelor: .Your wife sounds like an adolescent who |has fled from the responsibili- jties of adulthood. Get her to a marriage counselor and salvage this anemic relationship before it's fit for nothing but burial. Dear Ann Landers: After reading your column for seven YOUNG JEFF and Mrs. Jacob Poloz, all of Oshawa and Mr. George Step- hen of Whitby is his great- grandfather. Ireland; Studio Harold F. Stephen 18 OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, July 11, 1962 7 She Plays The Harp While Hubby Moans years I'm well aware that you are not sympathetic with single girls who get involved with married men. I agree it's fool- ish, dangerous and non-produc- tive, but what about the single girl who doesn't know the man is married? I mét a man two years ago who had me completely fooled, He took me to the nicest places and behaved like a_ perfect gentleman. I learned by acci- for 15 years, had a fine family and that his wife didn't have the slightest inkling of what he was up to. I wasted a year and a half on him. Three months ago it hap- pened again. This man lied to me from beginning to end. It was a disaster because I had fallen madly in love. You say it's no act of friend- ship to tell a married woman her husband is cheating. I dis- agree. Why should the skunks be protected? Their wives should be told. Then the affair can be broken up. Sometimes) it's the only way an innocent i single girl has of learning the| dent that he had been married] dre, with a married man for 18 months and not suspect some- thing fishy. Dear Ann Landers: Your ad- vice to "Poor" was perfect. No Satisfaction can match inde- di It is impossible to be independent of parents if you accept their financial help. My sister and her husband bled my parents white for 25 years. The folks were not rich, but they were comfortable. In their declining years when they) had earned the right to take) things easy they were forced to) stay in business because my sis-! ter and her family "had to have so many things." Today my parents are gone, and so is my sister. Her hus- band is helpless. He became so accustomed to leaning on others that he is now incapable of tak- | | ing _-- of himself or his chil- | He blames _ the government, | bad luck and yes--the in-laws. He says they ran everything-- never gave him a chance to be a man on his own. Please keep hammering away on this point, Ann. It should be repeated over and over.--F.D. Dear F.D.: This is a double- jedged sword, my friend. For ev- ery gift there must be a giver as well as a receiver. In emer- gencies parents should help} their married. children. 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