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§ THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, April 30, 1962 ewaland I always saved something. Wi I was never given an allowance. ANN LANDERS He's No Candidate - For Marriage Dear Ann Landers: Most girls|six inches. The prayer book) who write to you want to know|went kerplop on the floor and) how to keep the boys "'in line."}everyone turned to look at us.| Well, if my boy friend doesn't} What's with this guy anyhow? get OUT of line pretty soon--at| Help me, please. CAN'T GET A least enough to give me a good-| PULSE night kiss I may have to stop} Dear Can't: It's LB who needs seeing him. help, not you. A man in his mid-| I've been dating LB for seven|dle 20s who dates a girl for ates. We share the same cul-/seven month and jumps at the) middle 20s and college gradu-|touch of her hand is no red-hot} thing you can think of. The money I earned bought my CHILD GUIDANCE clotes, school plies, gifts, Now I make $56 a week at a 20-hour job. My aunt and uncle have invited me on a three-week trip with them in June. My share of the expenses will be $50. My dad says if I'm away from my job for three weeks I must figure in the loss of salary which will be another $168. He says $218 is too much to spend on a vacation. I want to go very badly. All this talk about money is making me nervous. Should I go? DAN Dear Dan: You sound like a hard - working, responsible. guy who deserves a vacation. Go and have a good time. Money for money's sake} means nothing. If you can't en-, joy the fruits of your labor, life POKY CHILD land that in itself gets me up Mealtime and Thwart Five-Year-Old By G. CLEVELAND MYERS Getting a tot to eat and to go to bed willingly are often twin problems. A Pennsylvania mother writes of her daughter, five: "She goes to kindergarten and likes it very much. "She is rather a poky child set because I am just the oppo- site. I do everything in a hurry. "At mealtime she never wants to eat. I don't let her eat be- tween meals but she does want umn for several years. Or have Bedtime to most often. I usually fuss until she eats meals but most times her food is cold. She either daydreams or talks and talks. When she does eat, it is only one helping and then ten minutes later she wants chips or pretzels or something else. While at the table she says she is so full she can't eat any more. BALKS AT BEDTIME "She almost always balks Serve her a small helping of one desirable food at a tine. Don't tell her to eat it. After she has dawdled over it five minutes or more, remove the food and let her leave the table. You say you don't let that child eat between meals, yet be- tween the lines I read that you Dad. Don't argue with her. The, less you talk the better. At other timer of the day try to have fun with her. Read a great deal to her, talk with her companionably, answer all her questions kindly, make things with her, you and Dad. do. Strictly forbid her having anything but fruit juice between meals. Say nothing about her eating. Manage yourself not to be so jittery. By and by you may hope for her to have a good appetite at meals, Make clear to her a regular bedtime, by the clock. Warn her of the time ten or 15 min- utes beforehand. If you can't persuade her to go, just pick about going to bed. Yet when she gets there, she's asleep be- fore you can count to ten. "She gets me so upset at mealtime and bedtime." her up and take her you or DID YOU VISIT HARMONY VILLAGE ? Model homes open every day. See the fabulous * i Credit Valley Stone, fireplace, Hollywood type kit- chen, have your choice of Arm- strong Corlon on floors, all prepoid services, mony more extras too numerous to mention. FUR STORAGE Modern Refrigerated Vaults A seally C led Fur Coat Cleening / STORAGE © FUR COATS « CLOTH GARMENTS CLEANING © SHINERIZING © REPAIRS COST ONLY MECCA Fast healing for CUTS, BURNS, BOILS, INFECTIONS ' | Soothing Antiseptic ates. We sahre the same cul-| candidate for marriage. J tural interests, the same reli-| If the relationship hasn't pro-|'® °° fun at all, son. I got the wrong impression? gion, and we enjoy each other's|quced ample voltage to spark a}. Dear Ann Landers: My BALTIMORE LADY company tremendously. Every-)goodnight kiss after all these daughter-in-law has redecorated) Dear Lady Baltimore: Of thing is perfect except he has'months of courtship, tell himjher home at considerable ex-| course a mother-in-law can have not even held my hand. goodbye--and point him in the|Pense. Ip a formal living room| opinions. But if she's wise she For the first several weeks I/direction of a psychiatrist. she has placed framed pictures| wij] keep them to herself unless|She does, for the more you try was pleased at his restraint.) Dear Ann: I'm a 17-year-old|of her family on end tables and) she's asked. |to hurry her, the slower she be- Then something happened which|high school boy. My parents are Other pieces of furniture. These) Confidential to Under Sus-|Comes. made me uneasy. In church last|in good shape financially. They|Pi¢tures seem out of place and/picion: What do you mean by| It's very important to create ip Sunday LB was holding both|both work and we have no big| detract from the appearance of) «third degree" and "'life - his-|a relaxed, cheerful atmosphere Sas prayer books, I reached over to/money worries. I've had odd/an otherwise lovely room. tory?" If you want to know if Hat mealtime. ie get my book and my hand ac-|jobs after school and on Satur-| Since I'm only a mother-in-|think a 16 - year - old's parents} It would be fine if dad would cidentally touched his. He must}days since I was 13. I havejlaw I'm not supposed to have} should know where she is, with|read her a story just before it. MECCA. have thought I was trying to painted, scrubbed, mowed,|my opinions -- or at least so I}whom, and when she will be} Then resolve that you won't Nile hold hands with him. He jumped shovelled, sat -- almost every-!gather from reading your col-i\home, the answer is yes. say a word to her about eating.' Attention!! All Citizens Of... OSHAWA -- BOWMANVILLE -- WHITBY and PORT PERRY! ...kour Co-operation Is Vital In TTT TTL This Emergency 1 1 (UNUOOUUSQUUOUGSOOOOUUASAREOOGSOOOAAAAOOULAAAUUT See for yourself and be sure you'll get the best in the "village." 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The Kiwanis Club of Oshawa and The Kiwanis Club of Westmount Oshawa and Whitby have added their support to the many volunteer workers in the communities of Oshawa, Whitby, Bowmanville and Port Perry, to make this Blitz a financial success. Please help to fight cancer with a Check Up and a Cheque. Walter C. Famme, Chairman of Ontario County, Canadian Cancer Society. e¢ (Oshawa Branch) i} Hi} Hy} A complete house - to- house convass of Oshawa, Whitby, Bowmanville and Port Perry takes place to- night, by the Kiwanis Club of Oshawa and the Ki- wanis Club of Westmount (Oshawa) and Whitby assisted by many other organizations and volun- teer workers in Bowmanville and Port Perry. Cancer MUST BE LICKED . . . and we appeal to all citizens to please stay at Home -next Tuesday ; Keep your porch lights on and . . . PLEASE Give what you can. to this vital effort. A Cheque Makes The Difference! The Major portion of your dollars is devoted to Cancer research. 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