PLAYMATES It's one birthday afyter an- | Edmund are the sons of Mr. other for the Piho boys. Michael Thomas was one year on February 22 and Edmund Charles was three on February 23. Michael and CHILD GUIDANCE and Mrs. Heldur Piho, Col- umbus, and grandsons of Mr. and Mrs. Ferdinand Piho, Tartu, Esthonia --Photo by Hornsby How To Help Eight-Year-Old Who Still Sucks By G. CLEVELAND MYERS When a child over eight or 10 continues to suck his thumb it becomes a serious problem for him and his parents An Ohio mother writes "You have helped us twice with annoying problems through your writing and a letter. So again we ask for help "We have an 814-year-old son who still sucks his thumb. A little in school, much at home, in church, in public, anywhere He has sucked since birth. He likes sports, doesn't care much for school but his marks are all right. he is a nervous child, from a family that is nervous. "He wants to stop but can't And promises of rewards are futile because, as he says, 'The thumb goes in my mouth any- way.' JUST A HABIT "I know that this {is not dis- obedience, but habit. He would rather suck even with bad-| tasting medicines on the thumb "We can't go on being ashamed of him and it isn't good for him to be ashamed of himself. And I know he is. We wouldn't care so much and could be more understanding if he didn't do it in public. But an $14-year-old boy! "We read to him, check his TV programs and see that he gets plenty of sleep "He seems to get along with his friends all right." My reply: It won't be easy to help that His Thumb it and if all of you work to- gether to build him up to feel more mature and worth while in the family and among other children Some years ago I had success with a few older children in this way The mother set a period of the day when she agreed with the child that if he kept the thumb out of his mouth for 20 minutes while she observed him, she would mark down a St} score for that day. She would do this on successive days, and if he failed during this short pe- riod she wouldn't put down any mark. Of course she would be careful not to notice during the rest of the 24 hours PROMISED A PRIZE Beforehand she promised him that when he got a total of, say, 20 points, she would get him a prize he would greatly cherish Usully the child, on discov- ering he could control the habit for a period of a few minutes, would see that he could manage himself at other times One child, 12, after a few days of the experiment, told his mother she didn't need to bother about the prize as he was sure he could succeed without its help, and he did PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. What needy students have the best chance of winning scholarships? A. Those in the top third of the class in high school or with high entrance test-scores. | ANN LANDERS Grandma's Knitting | Creates Problem Dear Ann Landers: This is a problem too tough for me to jhandle. My grandmother is 83 lyears old -- well-meaning and jsensitive. She is proud that she 'can still knit without glasses. Last Christmas Grandma knit} socks for my husband. Grand- ima feels hurt because she has jnever seen Howard wear her 'creations. If you could see the sweaters and socks you'd under- stand. She runs out of yarn and the dye lots don't maich One armhole is four inches smaller: than the other. She makes up her own designs and 'they are pretty awful. The socks. just kill Howard's feet. She-tied knots in the heels and the knots give him blisters He refuses to wear the socks and I can hardly blame him. Every time we see Grandma she asks why Howard isn't wearing the things she made for him. Help, please. AQUAMARINE Dear Aquamarine: Tell grandma, Howard wears her creations only on sp al occa sions. One day, make it a "special occasion,"' deck How ard out, and make a call on grandma. He can change socks in the car Dear Ann Landers: Our daughter is attractive, ener- getic, capable, and active in everything from politics to ath letics. Beth excels in cooking, sewing and music, and she has won prizes and awards galore. With all her accomplishments Beth lacks confidence and she is painfully shy. Our big prob- lem is that she doesn't want to go away to college because she can't bear to leave home. Last year she attended a 4-H con- vention and was miserable the entire week. She said she en joyed the program immensely, but. fought homesickness and | tears for seven straight days Our son, on the other hand, can be away from home very easily. He doesn't have her drive for excellence, however. What can we do about Beth? >» let her attend a local lege or should we insist she go away to school? DILEMMA Dear Dilemma: Children can not live forever under the pro- tective wing of home and par ents. Parents usually pass on first and the individual who has not learned to fend for himself ; is in for serious trouble. Urge Beth to go away to school. If she is utterly terrified at the prospect, permit her to spend one year at a local col lege. If, after a year, she re- fuses to leave home, she should have therapy The umbilical cord, if not severed by then, could strangle her permanently. Dear Ann Landers: I am writing to complain about money. I am 10 y s old. I get 40 cents a week. The boy who lives across the street from me is only nine years old, He gets 50 cents a week I do a lot more. work than he does. In fact he doesn't do any- thing. He doesn't even take his own bike into the garage when you if I think you are "'under- paid." As for the boy across the street, kids who collect money for just breathing and aren't ex- pected to do anything in return for their allowance, have their problems later. So cheer up, pal, you're in better shape than he is. Confidential to Ready To Give Up: Your husband must tell his brother to get off his "high-class qualifications" and get a job. Any job. Give him ten days to! go to work and kick in 15 per} cent of his pay for room and board, laundry, etc. usually} | le +4 i Dessert Musicale | | t Warmly Received The Dessert Musicale which was sponsored by the Sunshine Unit of the United Church Wom en of Simcoe Street United Church, was very well received by the many guests present. Mrs. Jelle Bakker welcomed everyone and called on Mr. Re- ginald G. Geen, L.T.C.M., F.C.C.O. (Hon. Causa.) who in- troduced the artists Master Larry Johnson, bov soprano, of Sunderland opened the musicale and delighted the audience with his voice The next r ning artist was Mr. aham of New- castle who displayed a tremen- dous talent at the piano Mr. Ross Cotton, entertained), with the beautiful quality and depth of his voice : ; 1 Mr. Geen spoke briefly on the| art of practising-referring to younger children. Among other things he stressed the point that children should be told to prac- tise until they had accomplished certain amount; never told to practise for a stated length of time, which in that case may just be time wasted. Larry Johnson returned and closed his portion of the prog- ram with the solo, "Jerusalem"' Fred Graham concluded his pi ano selections with '"'The Polon- naise" by Chopin Mr. Cotton brought the musi- cale to a moving close as he sang as his encore, "Ole Man River" The artists were thanked by Mrs. Jelle Bakker, who invited he guests to retire to the Mem- orial Hall which was gaily de- corated in St. Patrick's theme and looked most attractive with its cloth covered tables, each with it's own spring flower, A buffet, laden with a variety of special desserts, enhanced by triple silver candelbra and floral arrangements was the focal point for all. This successful event was co- convened by Mrs. William Stir- ling and Mrs. Donald Houlden CHILD GUILT MONTREAL (CP) -- Mont- real psychiatrist Hilliard Jason, in a speech on parenthood, said children of separated parents may tend to think they them- FISH AND PEACHES Tasty Peach Dishes Add Variety To Lenten Menu Combine the delicate flavors of tartar, peaches and fish for an original! touch in Lenten menus. For complete full flavor) use Canadian freestone peaches which blandly. blend with a new version of the traditional tartar sauce. FISH A LA PECHE 2-3 cup of milk 2 Ibs. fish steaks or fillets \%4 Ib. butter, melted cups soft breadcrumbs Y% cup onion minced (15-0z. can) Canadian free- Chemists Produce Pregnancy Test Quietly researched for more than two years, a_ brand-new and much faster pregnancy test has been introduced ac ross Canada. It's the latest in womankind's long search for ways to show whether a blessed event is due. These methods range from soothsaying to frog tests The new test is ultra-modern in concept, requires no animals and can be completed in four hours. It achieves the same approximate standard of accur- acy as the best of previous tests Like the older tests, it relies on detecting human chorionic gonadotropin (HCG) in urine HCG is a hormone secreted in early stages of pregnancy. Tests were conducted with stone peach halves, drained Lemon juice lg cup commercial sour cream Y% cup finely chopped dill pickle 1 tablespoon minced parsley | 2 tablespoons minced onion Marinate fish in milk for 15) minutes. Saute 4% cup minced onion in 44 cup of butter until transparent. Add breadcrumbs and toss lightly until coated with butter. Salt and pepper the fish and top with bread-crumbs and arrange on a greased bak- ing sheet. Bake in a 400 degree} oven 15 minutes or until flaky. Sprinkle peach halves wit h| lemon juice. Combine the re-| maining ingredients and let} stand a few minutes. Spoon into peach cups and serve with fish. Man States Views On Fashion Foibles The fashion industry is a gig- antic plot, a world-wide conspir- acy "to drive men mad, yes mad, with desire," McKenzie Porter writes in the current issue of Canadian magazine. "You will see that women's garments for 1962 are conspi- cuously voluptuous,"' Porter writes. He warns that this year the designers will emphasize the Cleopatra look," or bared navel, 'Although there seems to be no danger yet of our wives hav- ing to bare their umbilici at dren. ! THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, March 28, 1962 & | a 'Some Interesting Predictions ~ For Homes Of The Future : be Experts are making all sorts|not are washed off all 'aces of predictions for our future|of any materials placed in thé, homes. So if we stick around|tanks--and this thorough cleans: long enough we may see suchiing takes but seconds. marvels as plastic-surface walls) The management of at lea that look like the finest of wood | one skyscraper in New Yo paneling and wall-to-wall car-|City is using' ultrasonic wast peting made from fibres that|ing for such things as venetian will need only a sudsy going-|blinds and the lenses of lighting: over to remain new - looking. |fixtures. 3 And the house that will contain} This process has been used such delights will be con-jby industry for cleaning mae structed of easy-to-wash colored|chines and precision instru asphalt and plastic bricks. iments for some years. Now it Then there's something else|is being adapted for house~ to intrigue and interes t the|cleaning on a skyscraper scale, homemaker. The talk is that this. tee Industry is using ultra-easy,|Will be adopted, in time, for ultrasonic cleaning these days.|%ish-washing machines and for And in this wonderful land of Washers. ' ours, things that begin on a _ Speed the day! : gigantic scale are apt to sim-/ TODAYS WONDERS pe mer down into equipment that) But in the meantime, we'r@ can actually be used in the|not doing too badly! Even now average home and as the equip-,we have new plastic - surface ment becomes popular, the cost/coverings for old, cracked eases, too. jwalls. We have carpeting that can be taken up in strips to put COMPLEX AFFAIR NOW into the washing machine piece | As it is now, ultrasonic clean-|pby piece -- or that can be ---------- ing is rare and it's a complex'scrubbed with suds right on t WED 70 YEARS WATERLOO, Que. (CP) -- A'tank is filled with detergent./as shining clean as the baths special mass was sung here to|The tank bottom has a device|tub. And the dishwasher and celebrate the 70th wedding an-|to introduce sound waves, or|the washing machine aren't too niversary of Mr. and Mrs, Ade- vibrations, into the liquid. As hard to manipulate, are they' lard Jolin, parents of 10 chil-|tiny bubbles generate and col- and hisjlapse, the impact is like the/all the marvels, secure in the wife, 88, maintain their own| action of thousands of rapidly-| wonderful fabrics, surfaces and home here and Mrs. Jolin still)moving scrub brushes. does her own housework. jaffair. |floor; we have handsome pla To describe it simply, a huge'tie floor tiles that can be kept So we can afford to wait for cleaning machines that are Dirt, stains, grease and what- available today. SPECIALS more than 1,300 women. On rare occasions when the test/Parties, many evening gowns was in error \t showed - false|will be equipped with little gauze negatives rather than false pos- windows through which this at- itives. This is the opposite of|,.. i z : the tendency in animal tests. It tribute may at least be glim- is generally considered better|PSed by strangers. In daytime, to tell a woman in error that|the navel will be wholly un- she is not going to have a baby|trammeled by modesty. Slacks than that she is rok a RE NY Animal tests rely on. frogs, or home an resort wear will rabbits, rats and mice. The be worn with a skimpy halter ' and will hang so low that the frog test was onsidere b x i "a He any to be: the _ phe Bd pelvis will almost be visible. at Frogs pose an even greater| In 1962, Porter claims, Cana-| problem of maintenance than|dian women will pay into the THURSDAY, FRIDAY AND SATURDAY ONLY DRIP DRY BROADCLOTH Ou: WONDERFUL SUNNY 44" wide, Reg. 98c value. SALE PRICE, yd. PRINTED SHINO Kitchen PRINTS BEng 42" wide in a 99 1.19. SALE .. Reg. 7%. SALE In white or Ecru, Cc Reg. 89c. BEDSPREADS CHROMSPUN TAFFETA Double Bed Size. Col- ors Lilac, Rose, Green, Turquoise and Beige Reg. 10.95. 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