THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednsedcy, November 8, 1961 9 MARY HAWORTH'S MALL tn avg ego ag indeed a fine person. also wisely refraining from try-,getting to know too much, in de- * a ° She would be much less ad-jing to anticipate your future|tail, about the modus pnerandi Bride Resents In-Law S Gifts mirable if she were content to|purposes. She had no way ofjof their partnership, thus depriv- concerns a problem my husband|much at first; then I began to be a parasite at your expense,|knowing then, that you wouldjing them of the privacy and in- . for so long as you could be in-jcontinue indefinitely to hover terdcpendency that are "'of the Of Money, Clothes, Groceries duccd to lavish largesse onjover the marriage as if it were|essence' Peter. Your hand - out policy,|your special hobby. |domestic teamwork. ; i i though perhaps well meant (in-| But now, as you show no dis-| Dear Mary Haworth: Thisjour gifts. This burt me very peta Pag pice nog amounts|position to wean them from tak- lao all you can to help them out. of good and growing You are wrong in wanting to i j . to arresting Peter's growth. It\ing, she is behaving admirably| The more you can help them to} aie oe pe ag ve! re objected to tak-|insists upon treating him as a in setting her sails in that di- |do without your help the more | has been married almost a year|ing any of the many things 1|4ependent stripling, who pre- rection. In effect, you have been and until recently I had thought\have handcrocheted for them; |s¥mably couldn't make his way|moving in on their marriage,|fruitfu! adults. M.H. Mae was an ideal daughter-in-|in fact she always seemed quite|Without mama's and papa's Jaw pleased. hovering ministrations. be hurt and A month or two ago, however,| To cut a long story short, re- You profess to I began to realize a specialjcently she even said to me riage alr by sed agronna change problem between us: which is,|"Please don't give us so much; |!" pened 8 . fest as aries ae our helping them. we can support ourselves." She|*i5 ah at firs age P- Peter is a pharmacist . only|used to tease -- being poor, oe. tion to your ample gift-giv- two rs out of college. He has|but never mentioned it now and . a sag job but is struggling|always says they are doing fine Sey : ae p mage along with car payments, rent,|if I bring it up. She seems to|® at st i aa repayments of his school loan,|think Peter feels as she does,| Ons 0 Fares gv * --- etc., plus regular living costs.|though he's never acted that|*CCommo fall - a Hon Mae does part-time secretarial| way. even = ully to ng % work to help out. In all other respects Mae is seg? conte acneiet ue. Knowing about their financial|very pleasant and seems a good . es, iin os ee ae we have often bought|wife tc Peter. Are we wrong in|° a "8 fice ng 4 carts ¥ them clothes, sent money or|wanting to do all we can to help|' det toate al Bo n Peg made payments on Peter's|them out while they are just|"¥© atant auiit of peal ' school loan. We also have given|starting marriage? Please ad- GETTING oe ARINGS y- thein loads of groceries to take|vise me. B.H. ; eet She was just too new in the home when they've visited us. |waxrs GOOD SENSE family to assert herself about MOM IS HURT Dear B.J.: By and large,janyilung. She was moving with At first Mae didn't seem to|Mae's attitude is sound andjthe current, adaptively, which object to all the nice things we|yours isn't. The fact that she|shows that she has good will did; but little by little I began|shrinks from being a leach on/and social intelligence. She was ACCEPT NO | SUBSTITUTE Why waste time ond energy, messing with "measuring spoons , . . pots ond pons... when you can get the REAL thing "At The At Your Door" in the" "Pure-Pak" throwaway container, 01 PURE as MILK QUALITY DAIRY syle fmt OSHAWA. ONTARIO PHONE 728-6241 you are setting them free to be} | | to notice that she didn't want|your bounty and would muchj|taking time to get her bearings; ONLY TOP QUALITY MEAT FREEZER SPECIAL WHOLE LOIN pore u, Average Weight 10-Ibs., Cut into Chops and Roasts to your own Requirements MEATY-- WITH OR WITHOUT DRESSING G SPARE RIBS. sn. 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