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§ THE OSHAWA TIMES, Phursday, August 24, 1961 The Reverend Warren Dickson officiated at the mar- riage of his daughter, Mabel Jeanne, to Donald Arthur Feather in Centre Street United Church last Saturday afternoon. dressed in pink taffeta and car- church The bridegroom is the son of Mr.| ried a small basket of pink and bride's and Mrs. Arthur Feather of Toronto. Mr. Ronald Kellington played the wedding music and Mrs. Kellington sang. The bride, daughter of the A FATHER'S BLESSING ON NEWLYWEDS Bride's Father Performs Ceremony Uniting Jeanne Dickson, Arthur Feather G.|trimmed with Swiss Guipure|ronto was best man and the ush | tart to finish on this earth. In {1ace. They carried cascades of |pink and white carnations The flower girl, Miss JoAnn Neldham. of Hamilton, was white carnations Mrs. Charles Sperriro of To- 'Margaret McGregor Is Honored Guest At Bridal Parties Mrs. J. Bruce McGregor, Lau- - | white MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL were dying of thirst, Ricken- backer fervently recited a Advised To Forget Griet In Service For /| Dear Mary Haworth: Two 'imonths age my wife passed on. :|We had been married 25 years. '(She was my first love. She was |17 and I was 18 when we mar- |ried. | There were no children and {neither of us has any family |living. Am 1 wrong in thinking | there is nothing left to live for? | Sometimes at night I lie awake for two or three hours, |reliving our life together. |can't convince myself that she |is gone. Years ago my best friend | committed suicide. He and I} were buddies until I got mar |ried. A couple of years after our| '| marriage, I received word that| {he had shot himself. Until lately I couldn't under-| stand why anyone would want| to end his life Now I can see| that it might be a solution to a| | hopeless problem. "| To love one person for more than a score of years and then| lose her, seems, to me, to raise an unanswerable question--is it| worthwhile going on? Sincerely, | R.P HUMANITY FIGHTS | i A 4 3 EASIER TO DIE THAN LIVE World War, --once in the wake of a plane | crash on land, again following a psalm and the others joined in. Immediately a sea gull lighted on their raft, was seized and| shares as emergency food-and-| drink. The group was encour-| aged to hold out until a search Others {party found them. falter, temporarily. In such al LIFE IS TO BE SHARED case, the time-tested remedy ist Now, suppose you had mil- prayer. Prayer is the antidotelions of dollars and no immedi- to despair. late family or friends or remote {kin on whom to spend it--or to whom to leave it. Would you de- a Teligh 4 Man's extremity is God's| yu the money? Would that| opportunity," it is said. Also: pr : make sense? There are no atheists in foX| "mpink of the poor, the hungry, " : the homeless, the orphans, the The dauntless Eddie Ricken-| po whom your wealth might backer, aviation ace in the first| pep Your life is wealth, too! has twice, since . wd d 4 then, defeated death by prayer aa OEE Beloved Wite has Sone idence keeps you here, my ad- {vice is to use this grant of extra time by being helpful to "need- backer was literally a wreck, It|iest cases" on life's battlefield. was a long time before rescuers/And do this in memory of your reached him. Seemingly uncon-| Wife. | crash at sea After the land crash Ricken- felt his life ebbing away. The|a family in some depressed area sensation was pleasant, he says.|overseas or get into some] But he decided to resist the tide| branch of volunteer welfare| and fight for life. And so he/work in your city. | did, with excruciating suffering] The YMCA, the public library and prayer-effort jor any good clergyman might] "It would have been far supply suggestions on how to| easier just to die," he reported begin. M.H. | afterward, yet he rejoiced in the], Mary Haworth counsels choice he made. | through her column, not by mail| After the crash at sea, as he|or personal interview. Write her) and a few others adrift for daysiin care of this newspaper. | CHILD GUIDANCE How To Encourage Child To Be Honest and Truthful By G. CLEVELAND MYERS Heres' a practical rule I have emphasized in this column for many years: If you suspect your child has done something wrong but don't have objective proof that he has, don't ask him if he did. Have no trial. Just be more vigilant thereafter, so that he can't repeat the offense without being apprehended and duly punished. Protect him as far as possible from further temptation he's not ready to withstand, and strive tc help him feel more loved and secure as a person and member of the family and of his peer roup and among other relatives |scious on the ground, he had| You might "adopt" a child or ni friends. It's well to remember that a and made him return the money but when that didn't work, my husband told him that if he was going to act like a thief, he would be punished like one. So he was kept in his room half a day with no toys, etc. "Obviously that didn't work, because he took his two-and-a- half-year-old sister's money and hid it. He returned part of it. He lied about the rest. "He made us so angry that his father used his belt on him. "Our family life is fairly happy, even though I am im- patient by nature. But I think I am on better terms with my son now than I was for a while. My husband is a very good man, more patient than I. | "We haven't had much trou- was from the report of the little sister, the boy's answer to ques- tions and your findisg the money. GIVE AN ALLOWANCE This evidence was not con- clusive and the questioning thus caused the lad to lie. Work out with your son a budgeted week- ly allowance covering his few regular expenditures, Add to this a small amount, say up to 25 cents a week, that he may spend as he pleases without having to account for how to spend it. Most of all, you and Dad, es- pecially Dad, should have more fun with this boy, reading to him, going places with him, lattracting boys of his age to your home, conversing com- panionably with him, listening to what he wishes to tell you, explaining things to him and answering his questions. Try to make him feel he is your big boy and is as loved and impor- tant as his little sister. IPARENTS' QUESTIONS | Q. How may we keep our child who lies or steals nearly ple with our daughter and since children, two, four and five, always begins doing so at home. she is quite cute, she gets lots from viewing the violent TV STEALS MONEY An Ohio mother writes: "We have a son who is almost of attention. However, we do our best to treat them evenly." My reply in part: [programs which my husband {turns on for himself around 7:30 lin the evening? six. He has been stealing money| If your husband had actually | A. Don't try until you can win he's not too careful about whose toys belong to whom. {money the punishment he gave {might have been warranted. for the past month or two; also, seen the boy take his sister's|your husband not to turn on {such programs. Work on him in |your most lovely way when the "At first, we scolded gently!But all the information he got!children aren't around. Dear R.P.: Your question is|™ ithe sort that torments a man when he feels he has no signifi-| cant personal value to anybody. And the emotional fatigue that frames your question is com- | parable to that which a soldier | {might feel, - after having been| | physically exhausted, then .crit- lically wounded on a field of] |battle, He finds himself alone) |where he fell, with nobody at| hand to bind up his wounds, help | {him reach sanctuary and revive his recuperative powers Life is a battle of sorts from| ers were Mr Gordon Young, a life well lived Oshawa, and Mr. Allan Lud-|ageously runs its natural course lam, Toronto the individual may be frightfully A reception was held in the wounded more than once in| hall. Receiving, the combat with destructive forces. | mother was in dusty His (or her) will to live may, rose silk organza over shantung be almost extinguished. Hope silk with matching hat and may flicker and reason may| SOCIAL NOTICES | was white chrysanthemums.| The bridegroom's mother wore| space blue chiffon with match- ing hat of velvet, white acces- sories and a pink corsage ENGAGEMENT The honeymoon is being spent| Mr. and Mrs. Steve Rosnik in the United States. Foriapnnounce the engagement of] travelling, the bride wore a|their daughter, Joyce Marie, to| gold color dress and fitted Richard James Fry, son of Mr.| jacket of pure silk shantung with) anq Mrs. Herbert Fry, all of brown accessories and a bronze Oshawa. The wedding will take corsage of baby chrysanthe-| piace on Friday, September 15, mums at Harmony United Church. ed on the skirt. A crown of . crystal and pearl held her elbow- ENGAGEMENT length veil and she carried a Mr. and Mrs. Charles McKay cascade of pink roses of Millville, New Brunswick, an nounce the engagement of eir| The Juairon oi / Honor daughter, Irene Jessie, to Mr.| , which cour-| was Mrs. Gordon Young, sister of the TWO MODERN STORES IN OSHAWA RETAILERS TO THRIFTY CANADIANS ATTENTION ALL "THRIFTY" SHOPPERS! YOU CAN WIN A SMART SCHOOL -~ OUTFIT FOR GIRL OR BOY! OPEN FRIDAY NIGHT UNTIL 9 P.M. Buy Now for the "Back-to-School" Set, and "Charge-it" . . . No Down Payment! . , . and Remember . . . "CHARGE-IT" Customers are eligible to win a Smart School Outfit for Girl or Boy . . . or equal value in other merchandise! Ask for your "Lucky-Buy' Ballots, and enter the Contest NOW ! "DIA-LON" bride and the bridesmaids were Miss Sheila Dancey and Miss Barbara Heyes. They wore dresses of robin's egg blue de- lustred peau de soie with bell Earl N. H. Drinkle, son of Mr.| and Mrs. Arthur Drinkle of] Oshawa. = The marriage is to take place on Saturday, Sep- tember 23, at 8 o'clock in the Reformed Baptist Church, Mill- and Mrs. Roy White. Serving Skirts and portrait necklines, were Mrs. J Stout, Miss Mar- riam Montgomery, Miss Judy Broadbent, Miss Gloria Robson. Miss Janice Tumey kept the| door and Mrs. R. J. Tumey and Mrs. Curtis Sprague displayed the weddirg gifts. The bride-elect has been hon-| Reverend and Mrs. W. G. Dick- son, was given in marriage by her uncle, Mr. Sam Hillier of Buffalo, New York. Her gown of pure silk organza over peau de soie was fashioned der road, entertained at a trous- on flowing lines with a chapel|seau tea, recently, honoring the train and bustle bow. The port- forthcoming marriage of her rait neckline was trimmed with daughter, Margaret Jean, to Mr. Alencon lace and seed pearls Stewart Fraser Holmes which and the lace motifs were repeat-|is to take place tomorrow eve- {ning in Knox Prershyterian | Church. THE STARS SAY | Assisting the hostess and the] {bride-to-be was Mrs. T. K By ESTRELLITA { Creighton, aunt of the prospect- {tive bridegroom. FOR TOMORROW i Pouring tea were Mrs. Ross Opportunities may not be im-/Lee, Mrs. W. H. Birks, Mrs. mediately apparent, but look be-| A. W. Bradford, Mrs. O. R. Rob- low the surface and you may son, Miss June Jolley, Miss| be surprised at the advantages. | Betty Phipps, Mrs. Alfred Austin| Planetary influences encourage all outdoor activities. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that it would be well to take advantage of opportunities to further worthwhile goals now. You have just entered a cycle where job| gored at several showers. Mrs. | and monetary matters are Con-|R. J. Tumey and Mrs. Alfred cerned and, by putting forth best| Austin were co-hostesses at a| efforts, you should see good re-|party at Mrs. Austin's home and| sults by mid-October a shower given by neighbors Stimulating social experiences| was held at the home of Mrs should enliven the period be-|A. H. Dancey, Lauder road. tween now and late September, Members of Mrs. McGregor's nd there is a strong possibility bridge club presented Miss Mec- that, if you are single, a new Gregor with a bedspread romance will enter your life| In Toronto, Miss Betty Phipps later this month |arranged a shower at her home Domestic and property mat- given by the women teachers of ters will be under generally fine Roselands Public School, York aspects in the year to come, Township. Miss Nancy Wilson but avoid speculation in Novem-|and Miss Mae McDermai ber or you might precipitate an brought friends together to unnecessary crisis. Those en- honor the bride - to - be at a dowed with executive ability|shower will be governed by fine influ-| After the rehearsal this eve- ences during early 1962 ning the bridal party and par- A child born on this day will|ents are being entertained at the be one with a fine mind but may|/home of Mr. and Mrs. T. K. be exceedingly temperamental. | Creighton, King street east. | ville, N.B. | - NEWS IN BRIEF | HOTEL SAVERS INVERCARGILL, N.Z. (CP)--| | Australian girls working as tem-| | porary waitresses saved the day | for the New Zealand hotel in| |dustry during the last tourist] |season. F. 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