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8 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, August 17, 1961 -------------- HOLIDAYING IN EUROPE Among more than 1,000 pas- sengers to sail from Montreal recently aboard the Canadian Pacific flagship Empress of Canada bound for Liverpool via Greenock, Scotland, were Mr. and Mrs. R. G. Everson, Eversons, who now reside in Montreal, plan a leisurely two-month holiday of the Brit- ish Isles and Continent.. formerly of Oshawa, Ont. The CHILD GUIDANCE How To Start Young Child On The Road To Reading |child to have learned to count |ehjenss up to 10 or 20; to identify some of the letters of the alpha- bet and the number symbols; even to be able to read some street and store signs and the {names of food containers. It's {also very helpful to him if he has gone with you to a farm, zoo, airport, bus and railroad By G. CLEVELAND MYERS [read to a great deal since the|gafion Wishing your child to be strong and well for beginning school next fall, you will have had him checked by your den- tist and physician. He will have learned to enjoy proper food, have acquired regular bedtime habits, toilet training and con- formity to other wholesome |age of two or three; enjoyed |inventing and creating with toys land words, drawing, coloring, [pasting, painting, molding with |clay and using simple tools. EASY TO SPOT Best of all, for the child enter- ing kindergarten and first grade is to have had all his questions answered kindly and patiently by his parents, his curiosity stimulated, in addition to fre- The teacher in kindergarten quent happy family conversa- or first grade can easily spot the child rich in such experi- tion. A current book, Tested Ways family routines and regulations. | on ces in contrast with those|to Help Your Child Learn from Needless to say, he should have learned obedience and re- children poor in them. Your child beginning school Preschool to College, by Vir- ginia Burgess Warren, Prentice spect for the rights of others. (wij need to learn to follow di-{Hall (price $4.95) has a good You want him to be self-re- liant physically and emotionally doing for himself what he is able to do and being responsi- ble for proper care of his own| things. You want him to feel reasonably comfortable out of| your sight and hearing, able to amuse himself for extended pe- riods and to spend ample time at fun with other children of his age. | It's fortunate if he has never spent much of his time viewing TV and no time exposed to pro- grams of violence. It's also fine if he has been rections and often do things| other children of his age are| doing. | How well has he learned to| carry out simple requests or commands at home? Has he learned to listen and do things| along with several other chil- dren, as when playmates are in your home? Some children, without such] experiences at home, may feel| lost and bewildered among so| many children in a classroom. THINGS TO KNOW If he is about to enter the first | grade, it may be helpful to your) chapter on this subject. PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. Our boy is just old enough to apply for a driver's licence, but when he drives our car with {me he drives so fast that I'm MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Dear Mary Haworth: I have three children and a husband who works in a veterans' hos- pital hundreds of miles away. He was assigned there four years ago and I chose to stay here with the children, primarily because I felt ready for a legal separation or a nervous break- :|down, though I used other ex- cuses at the time, My problem then was--and still is--what to fdo? We met in college, married in 1941 and he was drafted in 1942. Late that year I terminated my first pregnancy at his insistance and have always regretted it. He was mustered out of the army in 1945 and by 1947 we had two daughters. In 1948 I was thrown from a horse and was partially para- lyzed for two years. In that § time, our son was born and my husband called an end to our sex life, saying we couldn't af- ford more children. He blamed me for having them. Later I turned to part-time teaching in a dance studio to years). Dick accused me of ne- help only, and I stayed home. ing excessively as usual. ROMANCE FLICKERS OUT another job, was 1955. to Boston, and by then I was money regularly ($30 a week) mas, a week at Easter and usu- ally a week around Labor Day. Should Couple Stay Apart Or Try Partnership Again? For years, my problem has been--should I try to make a go f marriage to Dick? Do people really change? Can we make it work? question of what to do about! Dick--or about the marriage, such as it is. My advice is to ask Dick to decide for you what the next chapter of marriage should be. If he says bring the family to Boston, go. If he buck-passes the decision back to you, it means he doesn't really want you there in which case, you may as well remain as is, mean- while maintaining good will to- wards him. M.H. Waistlines Rising, Belts Cling Close With waistlines rising slightly, the new leather belts have been re-styled accordingly. Especial- ly versatile are pleated, cuffed and softly sashed belts that can be worn at various heights. One belt particularly suited for the higher waistline is the wide suede band or firm leather belt with a soft chamois tie in front]suede and grained leather tex. that can be adjusted by thejtures. ES | wearer With belts, as with handbags and gloves, both mix and match are fashionable this season. To give women the widest choice, leather belt designers have add- ed rich, deep shades to the fall color wheel. Vibrant reds, blues, greens will vie with darkened plums, lilacs, and earth browns in smooth and lustred leathers, Two colors -- green and gold- brown, for example -- are fre- quently combined on one belt -- whether it be a thin spaghetti strand or a wide cummerbund sash with a large buckle cover- ed in self-leather. When two colors are mated on one circlet -- usually in a daytime belt -- differing leather textures are often used to provide greater contrast and fashion interest. Last year I broke with John, 3 I know the decision must be mine, and for years I guess my white lies and the like--since he lassoed you in college with his confidential melodramatics about a boyhood calamity. More than once, in your letter, here condensed, you mention pay doctor bills (it took five|the peace of mind you've -ex- perienced at times when circum- glecting the family. Then the|stances (during the war and| studio changed hands, the new|since) took Dick out of the pic-| {management wanted full-time|ture for a while, leaving you tol |handle the reins at home. Dick was critical as ever, drink-| | |UP TO HUSBAND | | Thus it seems to me that the |present arrangement, whereby He gibed at me to get an-|he lives in one place and you in other job, saying nobody wanted another -- nominally man and or needed me at home, so I got|wife, sharing the children's cus- two evenings 2|tody, legally domestic partners week. There I met John and fell|but habituated to walking dif- for him like a ton of brick. That|ferent paths--is probably the best you can make of the alli- In 1957, Dick was transferred ance. I dare say you subscribed to emotionally detached from him.|this view, too, at least in the 1 don't know if I could ever love depths of your mind, while you for desire him again. He triesihad John's company and your |very hard to be helpful, sendsimother's backing to keep you from feeling lonely in your am- and doesn't drink now when he biguous status. It is only since visits us--two weeks at Christ-lyou broke with John and your mother died that you've re- decision has been to make no i definite decision, which is unfair to Dick, as I have told him. I would appreciate your thought. R.V. NOT SUITED TO MARRIAGE Dear R.V.: Let's put it this way--Dick is more or less in- capable of happy marriage. His fund tal image of hi If is too wavering and negative to sustain an openhearted, stable interchange with a beloved spouse. Hence you've always had to spar, confusedly, with his de- fences, hostilities, self pity, (N TROUD So SHOE ST Nok | ® HIGHEST QUALITY MEATS eo STEAKS WING SIRLOIN, T-BONE RED BRAND 89: BLADE SHORT RIB SHORT CUT (1st 4) PRIME RIB BONELESS PLATE poTROAST 29% | 5s ECONOMY 6th & 7th pie RBAY: | 15 49: JV 39: 1-LB. 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