Tom Dooley, the jungle doc- tor who at 28 dedicated him- self to helping the people of Laos and died of cancer six years later, became a legend in his own time, An impatient nonconformist, in his early days he was never quite certain about what he wanted to do. Though he played his first piano recital at five and gradu- ated from high school with hon- ors at 16, nothing in Dooley's early life pointed towards great accomplishments. Talented but impatient, he left Notre Dame before he had a degree and was admitted to the Medical School of St. Louis University. His record, 'did not show much real promise". Class. mates dismissed his future with] a shrug and predicted he would end up as a "society doctor". | SOCIAL NOTICES ENGAGEMENT Mr. and Mrs. Frederick C Danks wish to announce the en gagement of their daughter, Doreen Mary, to Mr. Richard Allan Howe, son of Mr. and Mrs. Harry H. Howe, all of Oshawa. The marriage will take place in St. Andrew's United Church on Saturday, September 9, at 3 p.m. tH MARRIAGE Mr, and Mrs. John Barker Beloved Doctor of Laos Devoted Himself to Mankind It was not until 1954, when as a Navy doctor he took part in the evacuation of refugees from Indochina that his almost fana- tical devotion to mankind be- gan to assert itself. Through his best-selling book | and numerous public speeches) he enlisted enough support to set up his first hospital near the Chinese border in Laos. In 1957 he returned to the United States to enlist further aid. Before he died, his dream of a world-wide organization to send medical teams to back- ward areas had come true. Sat- isifed at last that he had ae- complished what he had set out to do, Dooley was able to write during his last illness, *. . . the storm around me does not mat- ter . . . A wilder storm of peace gathers in my heart." Group Furniture For Conversation What to do with a crowd! Many a young homemaker des- pairs of handling a crowd in her small house or apartment. Her first open house is apt to have a bursting-at-the-seams appear- ance which may or may not be fun. Every home needs at least one area furnished to handle more than the ordinary number of people per square foot, comfort- ably. One home planner did this Jomen Jo Aldwinckle, Women's Editor Dial RA 3-3474 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Seturdoy, August 12, 1961 7 announce the marriage of their by running a light-scaled sect- daughter, Donna Claire Scott of ional sofa around the end and Calgary, Alberta, formerly of one side of her comparatively Oshawa, to Mr. Gordon H. Stell, small room. On the other side ADDING THEIR SIGNATURES Pictured after their wedding | late Mr. Hartman Carr and recently at Cedardale United | the bridegroom is the son of Church are Mr. and Mrs. Clif- | Mr. and Mrs. Douglas Barton, ford Douglas Barton. Former- | all of Oshawa. The couple will ly Miss Janet Marion Carr, | live in London, Ontario. the bride is the daughter of > i Mrs. J. Finley Norton and the | =Photo by Hornsby MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Setback Taken In Right Spirit May Open Up New Fields Dear Mary Haworth: My hus-| Can any good come of this band and his brother have been|blow? in business together for over 30| well, if your son has the years. Some years ago my hus-| makings of manhood, it might band lost his sight, but continues| make a man of him. Until now, to go to the office daily and is| he's been more of a clinging active as ever--except. for hav-|yine than a sturdy oak in the ing things read to him. He was| provider role it seems. If he the nucleus of the business. | takes the jolt in the right spirit Our son, though not a mem- he may recall the incident, Bet of he jn, has pres tm. years from now, as the kick-in- ploy S capacity on ajthe.pants that launched him on commission basis for about 12/the road to health. M.iL years. His commissions weren't sufficient to support his family,| Mary Haworth counsels so he bought into another .| through her column, not by mail ness, meanwhile keeping his| OF personal interview. Write her sales job. in care of this newspaper. son of Mrs. Joseph Stell of Kin- and end she placed comfortable sale, Ontario, and the late Mr. chairs with lamp tables, all Stell. The marriage took place| on Friday, July 28, 1961, in| |Scarboro United Church, Cal- gary, with the Reverend Dr. Collett officiating AT HOME Mr. and Mrs. William Fry, 16 Brock street east, will be at home to their relatives and {friends on Saturday, August 19, from 3 to 5 and 7 to 9 p.m. on the occasion of their golden wedding anniversary. AT HOME Mr. and Mrs. Douglas Blore, {290 Simcoe street north, will be at home to their relatives and friends on Tuesday August 15, {from 2 to 5 and 7 to 9 p.m. on |the occasion of their 30th wed- ding anniversary. MARRIAGE The forthcoming marriage is announced of Henrietta Mary May, daughter of Mr. n Mrs. Alex J. Clements, to Mr. Robert Ronald Weroski, son of Mr. and Mrs. Michael Weroski, all of Oshawa. The ceremony is to take place at St. George's Ukrainian Catholic Church on Saturday, September 9, at 3p.m. Recently our son discovered that his uncle was stealing some of his large accounts. When he challenged him, asked what he was doing, the uncle replied (without rhyme or reason): "They are my accounts now, not yours." There was 'a terrible quarrel, which almost came to blows. Nothing like this ever happened in our family before. FATHER VERY UPSET His uncle, who had the au- thority, fired our son immedi ately and my poor blind hus- band could only sit there in panic. We are sick over it, but most of all my husband, who is very depressed. Everyone who has heard of the firing and the story behind it is shocked. Our son's commissions were his main income and he had worked very hard to get these accounts. He had made friends in the trade and was loved by all who knew him. Can any good come of such evil? Is it possible that jealousy is back of this? Or do some people's minds become warped as they get older? Please give your opinions. They may help to lift our spirits. HUNCH IS SOUND Dear R.J.: Heaven only knows what's back of the clash be- tween your son and his uncle. But maybe your hunch is right. Maybe the uncle, getting older, has been overtaken by harden- ing of the arteries, which inter- feres with clear mental function- ing and in some cases stirs great anxiety in the patient, who then begins to take all kinds of precautions against being cheated by formerly trusted associatps. Also, some sgnior citizens be- come wretchedly greedy, grasp- ing and penurious in their later life, haunted by fear that ad- vancing years will find them without enough money to meet their needs--and with no de- votees to look after them--when their health fails or they are retired from money-making. Fretting along these lines, an unhappy business man might think it advisable to cut ex- penses by giting rid of casual help and doing their chores himslY, thus adding something to the profit side of the ledger. Or, again, he might decide it was time to unload hangers-on and excess baggage and let the parasites find other hosts. And from the uncle's view, your son may be expendable on this score overdue to try his own wings. This uncle may feel that your son has been carried by the firm in a make-work routine, trading on the family name in holding his job, and that he,the uncle, has every right to service the firm's customers directly, from his own office, sans com- mission, whenever he likes. Hence the uncle may not con- sider it "stealing" --as you do-- when he bypassed his nephew to do business with established clients, and thus started the row that got your son sacked. Appliques of red and blue, curving over the shoulders and bodice of a full-skirted dress of white terylene, and cotton broadcloth embroidered in a geometric design, were used FOR SUMMER DATES centred around a circular cock- tail table. A carefully chosen color scheme, paced by an in- teresting rug, draws guests to) this spot like a magnet. This is but one of innumerable| ways to get individuals off their, feet and pleasantly conversing with one another. THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW If you have been absorbed in| work, it is likely that this day {you can get some rest. If you want to help someone, keep a level head and you can do some- thing really constructive. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that the year ahead is outstanding. There will be periods through: out the year when you can spend money more freely than previously. Your greatest wish can be fulfilled in December. The stars indicate that you will travel. If you do some work during the current month, try to keep to finishing old jobs rather than starting new ones | NEWLYWEDS Felicia Guzylak and Michael Lubenko, both of Oshawa, were married recently in St. George's Ukrainian Catholic Church, The bride is the daughter of Mr. Nicholas | CHILD GUIDANCE By G. CLEVELAND MYERS A child is hampered in his de- velopment and happiness when a parent or other member of his family is physically ill. How much more he is hampered if one of his family is mentally ill. Fortunately, many who are rd Guzylak of Oshawa and the late Mrs. Guzylak and the bridegroom is the son of the late Mr. and Mrs. Ilko Luben- ko of The Ukraine. --Photo by Mary's studio Katy Ostrowski Jean Nazarowec Exchange Vows The marriage of Katherine Ostrowski and Eugene Nazar- owec, hoth of Oshawa was sol emnized recently at S§t George's Ukrainian Catholic Church. S The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Ostrowski of Poland and the bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Toma Nazar- owec of The Ukraine and the late Mr. Nazarowec, The Reverend J. C. Pereyma officiated and Mr. Harry Rudy was the soloist. The bride wore a full-length gown of lace and nylon net over satin. Lily point sleeves and a scalloped neckline studded with sequins styled the lace bodice and lace panels enhanced the fully-gathered skirt. A pearl studded crown held her short embroidered veil and she car- ried a cascade of white carna- tions and gladiolas. The maid-of-honor was Miss Olga Predko of Toronto in pink nylon over taffeta designed with a scoop neckline and a fully- gathered skirt. Miss Janina Telesnycko was bridesmaid similarly gowned in mauve. They wore matching veiled hats and carried bouquets of white carnations. The flower girl, Miss Lesia Nazarowec, wore white with a matching flowered crown and carried) white carnations. Mr. Michael Piczak of To ronto acted as best man and Mr. Joseph Pylypchuk usher. ed. A reception was held at Het- man Hall, Oshawa. The newly wedded pair' will make their home in Oshawa. "SLOPPY JOE" EGGS For lovers of the old-fashioned | milk toast of popular use in| grandmother's day, here is a modern version offered by the. Poultry Products Institute. Inci- dentally, its originator is one of the maritime directors of the Institute. He poaches eggs in hot milk lightly salted and if de- sired seasoned with a bit of gar- lic, then places them on serv- ings of hot buttered toast and pours some of the hot milk over them. Mistaken Notions Hamper Mental Health Problems hospital patients are in state institutions. T he se hospitals carry a daily load of 540,000 patients and look after about 1,000,000,000 annually. In spite of the eiforts of the various local, state and national organizations aimed at educat- |ing the public on the mental mentally ill can be restored tohealth problem, the average {normal living if they get ade-|proportion of state expenditures quate professional help. Unfor-/for the care of mental hospital |ress can be made for good tal pat You will need some rest at that time. A child born on this day will have determination and a pene-| trating mind. DAY AFTER TOMORROW This is a day in which prog- tunately, there's a scarcity of |such help, and the person men- tally ailing is not so ready, as a rule, to seek professional help lof a physician or hospital as if he were physically ill. Furthermore, of all the men- ients in state hospitals in {the United States, fewer than |half receive professional treat- ment of any kind. Most are | causes. It is a time when you are apt to sway people politi- gally. there to be kept from their FOR THE BIRTHDAY family or community who can't If Monday is your birthday, |*stand them." during the coming year you will{ Most people still, think of the| be under comfortable protec- mentally ill as disturbers and tion. Financial security should offenders and responsible for fill your needs and, if you are their behavior. The notion pre-| conservative about the use of|vails widely that mental illness money, you should be '"'on top|is something for the family to of things." The trend favoring feel ashamed of. | financial e nde a vor continues! Who, for example, having al through January. member of the family entering An increase in income will|a mental hospital, sends a note} make it possible to have the|about it to the local newspaper? | social accessories you need, but|And what editor would print you shouldn't be pretentious with such a note along with the those who know you well. names of persons entering or February is likely to be the leaving a hospital on account of high point ot the year for you.|physical illness? A chi orn on this day would | make a good actor or business| STATE INSTITUTIONS executive. Eight out of every 10 mental GLECOFT SUPERMARKET 174 RITSON RD. S. OSHAWA OPEN DAILY TO 10 P.M. Specials for Mon., Tues., Wed. From Our Druggette and Clothing Department WASHED by Raoul Jean Foure-Jacques | de Montjoye for the summer collection of the Association | of Canadian Couturiers. Crea- tive and colorful use of new | Canadian fabrics was an ex- | citing feature of the collection. SUGAR BAGS 3.1.00 CANDY DISHES ™ ;.. 35° PYJAMAS REG. 1.98 VICK'S VAPOR REC. 44 Rub or Vat-Ro-Nol " " 50° SPECIAL 35° CRYSTAL REG. 49 ASH TRAYS ™ * Ladies' PANTIES 2 ...69* LADIES' BABY DOLL : FOR 1 59 SHOP AND SAVE AT GLECOFF'S FREE PARKING patients has declined in recent years. Surveys also reveal that news articles on mental illness have lower reader appeal than similar articles on heart disease, cancer or polio. There's the popular notion that schizophrenia is a hopeless, incurable disease. Yet through proper treatment, the patient has a three-out-of-five chance of improving enough to lead a Sloppy Joe Eggs provide a quick snack or a nourishing sup- per when accompanied by a HAPPY BIRTHD Celebrating her first birth- day today is Debora Bernice, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Al- lan Porter, Pacific avenue. Blk AY, DEBORA Debora is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. William Burr and Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Por- ter, all of Oshawa. Janet Jones Wed To Frank Wootton The Misses Betty and Beverly Jones, twin sisters of the bride, acted as maid of honor and bridesmaid. Their dresses were of yellow silk organza with |deeply squared necklines and | At Sharbot Lake Sharbot Lake United Church was the setting for the wedding of Janet Fay Jones to Frank Morrison Wootton. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Edmund Jones of Crow Lake, and the bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Mor- rison Wootton, Whitby. The Reverend G. Black offi- ciated with Reverend William Piercy assisting. The bride was given in mar- riage by her father. She chose a gown of pure silk organza with appliques of lace at the neckline and on the front of the skirt. Fabric roses were caught in a bustle back. A pearl tiara held her elbow length veil and she carried red roses with white bouffant skirts." They wore matching headdresses and car- ried nosegays of yellow roses and white chrysanthemums. The best man was John Woot- ton, brother of the bridegroom, and Mr. Charles Speller of Whit- by, was usher. Following the reception the couple left for a honeymoon in the Rockies. Since their return they have taken up residence in Whitby. When you need "HOME-NURSING" Call a V.O.N. Nurse 725-2211 "Home-N Care for EVERYONE" chrysanthemums. green salad. The PPI Home Economist adds a reminder to this recipe. | Always have eggs covered with | liquid and poach below the boil- ling 'point for tender perfectly cooked poached eggs. sional help would be useful. One out of seven actually sought help on problems involving mar- riage, personal adjustment or children. Forty-one per cent sought help of a clergyman; 29 per cent of a physician; 18 per cent of a psychologist or psy- chiatrist; 10 per cent of a social agency or marriage clinic. (A reprint of A Pledge to Mental Health, may be had by sending a self-addressed U.S. stamped envelope to me in care of this newspaper.) PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. What is the range of the| cost of four years at college? | A. From 2,600 to $13,500. The | average tuition at a private col-| lege is $1,000 a year. | Something NEW for Oshawa ARLLY Y with Premium KLEEN-FLO useful life in the community. | |coMMITTEE FINDINGS The foregoing is based on the Report of the Joint Commission {jon Mental Illness and Health. 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