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MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Daughter's Marriage Plans Marred By Father's Objection Dear Mary Haworth: My|idea. For safety's sake, you do mind is clear on one thing--my need a firsthand, continuing, enduring love for Alan. Per-|confidential relationship with a haps I should say, our enduring wise, compassionate and trust- 8 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Mondey, July 10, 1961 {Travelling With a Baby Need Not Be Bothersome necessary for car and railroad travel only -- airlines supply plane, she is assured of a supply of the prepared baby food of her choice during the flight on most airlines. When feeding time ar- rives, the stewardess will heat land present it as baby needs it. Many Canadian mothers today are discovering that travelling with baby, by car, train or plane, can be accomplished without fuss. Modern traisgor- tation trends in baby care as- sure comfort for both mother and baby, removing anxiety love for each other. He is 21 and from travel, even if the trip is around the world. The secret of travelling in comfort with baby is to keep him as close to his normal rou- tine as possible. Avoid baby's becoming overtired or too hungry. Keep him comfortable and well-fed and he'll be happy the whole home. ASK YOUR PORTER derful co-operation from the|pyt so far no success. dining car waiter in the matter obtaining smali comforts for mother. If you are travelling by car, the same service can be ob- tained from the waitress or cook! .. : oe roadside resturant, who|Wiich I am very active, time away from I will be 18 in November. We When travelling by train, a want to be married and I have special arrangement with your been waiting for months for the porter can often achieve Wwon- right moment to tell my father, R Father and I have been very of warming baby's formula and gistant for almost my entire life. There is no spirit of unity in our family. Therefore I joined the church of my choice, in worthy father figure who can help you arrive at right de- cisions in planning the year ahead. It is regrettable that your |flesh - and - blood father is so harshly unfriendly to your inter- ests and 'enthusiasms. The pitch of his churlish attitude and stabbing remarks indicates that he is unconsciously jealous and resentful of your social affilia- [tions. Although himself intolerant of affectional closeness -- as the family record shows--his beha- vior reveals that he nonetheless quite unreasonably feels slighted and miffed at seeing you de- light in other more responsive relationships. FATHER ILLOGICAL Thus in a sort of sour-grapes spirit, he calls you and your boy friends trash, which is terribly unfair of him. Such illogical, brutal disparagement is a crime of sorts against decency. could drive a desperately (wounded girl to hasty action {that might irreparably damage her life. MAKE A LIST A good tip for mother to re- finds it no trouble at all to warm, Since 1 started dating, over s TM three years ago, my father has member as soon as she has de. baby's bottle and baby food tins. | owed all my dates as "trash cided how long she'll be away A between-meal offering of | --of course. What can 'you ex- from kitchen facilities and how water or orange juice will usual- pect when your daughter is she will travel is to make a list.|lv keep things going smoothly. trash?" You can't know the ter- Begin by setting down the rible feeling I get in my heart things baby'll need: his clothes, when he says this, for I am toilet articles, eating equipment, proud of my boy friends. the number of tins of prepared I am popular in school, main- tain a B-plus average and have held student body offices and been voted other honors. I will be graduating this week and had hoped it might bring my father | closer to me. But when I asked | him hopefully if he could attend | the commencement and bacca" laureate exercises, he replied: ["Im goin' fishin'."" He left last Friday. Fortunately, you seem to -be HAVE DATED OTHER bearing up remarkably well. Alan and I have been going The tone of your letter is im- _|together off and on for three pressively judicious and ma- special formula. If baby is hav ing more solid foods, take along an adequate number of tins of junior foods in the varieties baby likes best. These are pre- pared in convenient 5-ounce tins. Include some favorite toys, extra towels, a box of tissues and a plastic sheet. | BASSINETS SUPPLIED | Reserve a special suitcase for 3 | baby's things and line it with ald |waterproof material in case of|# { | spills. This will come in handy, too, for bringing home soiled QUEEN MOTHER WEARS SPECIAL SHOE Queen Mother Elizabeth shakes hands with Mayor J. Stretton of Rugby, Warwick- shire, England during a visit | to the town recently. Standing with her is Lord Willoughby- De-Broke, Lord Lieutenant of the county. Still suffering from Economics For Young Brides More than one million young women will wed this year. But in some things, many will be unprepared. Most mothers and many schools "tell all" today--when it comes to the "birds and bees." But they sidestep the facts of life about money. Yet it is the housewife who, on the authority of none other than the American Bankers' As- sociation. For in the space age, it would seem, the housewife is no longer just cook, Dbottle- washer and companion to her mate. She is the family finan- cier, too. So if you plan to marry, learn the economics of home eco- nomics, say the bankers. Or if vou have a daughter being mar- ried, tell her all. The housewife these days is an economist and today, handles the finances in|practices economics every day most families. And we have that|of her married life. a recent foot injury, the Queen Mother wore a special shoe with a single strap over her bandaged left foot. --AP Wi rephoto ~ As a housewife, young woman, you will take money in and pay money out. But much beyond that, you will help make decisions on credit, home loca- tion and expansion. All sorts of questions will be threshed out Should you buy a new house now or wait until later? Will a new rug for the living room cost less in six months--or maybe more? You will shop and watch! prices. Your family will have in- come, outgo, working capital, clothes. If you don't have a sp cial baby carrier, take along a large basket with handles for|' | years and meantime have dated ture. But even so, at barely 18 | i baby to rest in. This will beg their own bassinets. If mother decides to travel d : one - year plans and 20-year! plans. Of course, as a housewife, the economics are personal and family. But for all that, it will still be the '"Real Thing", but on a minor scale. To that end the austere but very sympathetic officers of the American Bankers' Association have drawn up a ten-point pian designed to start and keep mar- riage on a sound financial foot- ing. We're glad, because money | troubles have a way of wreck-| ing even the most promising marriage. So, next time, we'll give you assets, liabilities, investments, the ten-point plan. "TO BE WED On Saturday, July 29, Miss Victoria Thachuk will become the bride of Mr. Glen Hal- penny, both of Whitby. The bride-to-be, daughter of Mrs. Steven Thachuk, graduated this spring from the Ontario Hospital, School of Nursing, Whitby, and is a former stu- dent of Henry Street High School. Her fiance is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Milton Hal- penny. --Photo by LeRoy Toll |others, too, to be sure of our|you are rather too young for {love. We have a real compan-/immediate marriage, I think. lionship, something I've never| ac gor how to help your een my parents enjoy. We gather open his heart to normal |share joy 'and happiness and human feeling, there's nothing also help one another in times|yo, can do about that except to jot sorrow. Alan lost his mother |}o a sound person in your own a year ago. right and pray (preferably in Do I sound mature enough for unison with effective prayer |marriage? Financially, the r e|partners) that God will attend |would be no problem, as Alan|to his need of change. M.H. {has very nice savings (so do I)| Mary Haworth counsels land a wonderful job. I don't|¢p ou0h her column, not by mail {want to use marriage as escape or personal interview. Write her {from my family's turmoil. Il, care of this newspaper. iwant my family to work as a {unit, sharing, contributing and {loving. How can I help my {father to understand this? R.V. WINDSOR, Ont. 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