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: -in JF MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Grandmother Is Worried Over Daughter's Children Dear Mary Haworth: My characteristic emotional tone, neighbor and dearest friend, a'his customary ways of assert. grandmother, is worrying her-|ing himself, all irresistibly in- self sick over the way her fluence the wife's disposition daughter is rearing her fourland effectiveness in dealing] *hiiires. ola wild with their children. older children are girls in their early teens; the prs the point is Hate me younger boys are 7 and 9. All|Rights of Infants" (Columbia are being reared to do abso- University Press) that good lutely nothing--not even pick up mothering is greatly dependent their clothes or wash a dish. upon good support from a good Still, they have plenty of sense|father. Or, one might say, de- and I hope it isn't too late to pendent upon good leadership, help them. i loyal backin; t The husband and father, a col- val hack § 3m hi i rete lege graduate, is a successful Dad Must Correct business man, When the least thing doesn't suit him, he flies| Ideally, the father is the head into cursing rages at wife and|of the family--the adjudicator, children. But also he buys them protector, provider; the exem- everything and gives them ev-|plar of reason, logic, justice and ery pleasure, including cars,|the like. The mother is the heart and he requires nothing of of the family relationship--the them. exponent of boundless love, gen- Behind In School jesosily, patience, faith and The mother allows them to be| pe. most impudent, while she her.| Children need familiar asso- self gives-and does everything ciation with both aspects of pa- for them, not requiring a thing renthood in order to become from them. The children never|%" ¢11 formed psychologically have sat at their lovely dining|2nd socially in order that, as room table for a meal. Instead, [SONS and daughters, they may they eat around a bar, using|83in 8 clear image of the dis- THE OSHAWA TIME a S, Wednesday, July 5, 1961 9 How To Make Your Kitchen Into A Second Living Room In what room in your home do you spend the most time? The answer probably is your kitchen, So why not make the kitchen just as attractive and livable as the living room? When you make a decorative plan, outlaw such time - worn kitchen colors as primary blue, red and green. Be adventurous and original in the color plan. Don't be afraid of high-style col- ors that you associate with a living room. | If your first concern is whether *'front-of-the-house' col- ors are practical for a kitchen, you can forget your worries, Ceramic tile is the answer. Requiring no upkeep and little more than a wipe-off with a damp cloth to remain bright and shining, ceramic tile is a natural material for counter tops, splash backs, wainscoting, floors and areas around the range that re- quire frequent cleaning. Adding to these virtues, tile is now tive notes in a plain wall or wainscoting. Some of the new decorative| tiles have a Chinese feeling, re- flecting the current interest in the Orient. A new so-called "'tufted tile" has a concave centre that cre ates a quilted effect on the wall. PAPERS PROCESSED If you like wallpaper, then by all means place a decorative paper above a plain tile wains- coting. Some of the new papers are already processed with a coating to make them easily washable, If you select one that does not have this coating, your dealer can have it applied for you. Perhaps you prefer pictures to wallpaper. | If so, treat the wall above the, wainscoting with an easily wash- able paint and use pictures. Old prints of flowers, fruits and herbs make attractive and per- fect-for-the-kitchen wall decora- available in more than 200 colors and shades, ranging from deli-| cate blues to pomegranate red, tangerine and violet. If you like decorative designs, | there are vivid color combina-| tions in tiles with insets sug-| gesting jewels. Such tiles would any kind of manners, while/Similar but complementary their mother stands and waits| qualities of first-rate manhood on them, and Grade-A womanhood. They go to good public schools! As for my helping the chil- hi i) are falling Sows dren to whom you refer, they! eir grades since entering i o | their teens. Now the climax is cant be helped except through coming, as the father sees poor their parents. A turn for the neighbor children getting A's|better must begin in the father, | and B's and he is talking of Working with the mother and a| whipping these girls. He also family relations counsellor, to] says their manners are bad, repair the havoc wrought by his | which is true. lavish negligence to date.-M.H. ; But what else can he expect, in view of their rearing? If only HOUSEHOLD HINT he would be gentle, kind and| Place a transparent positive -- not giving so much h rv toned and letting them do something |? ane wrap over your sitver| in exchange for what they want. trays before using them for I am hoping you can help.-G.F. deviled eggs, canapes or salted foods in order te protect them | from tarnish. PICTURE FRAMING? SEE . .. cello- | Depends On Dad Dear G.F.: As you indicate, the father in this picture is con- tributing heavily, if indirectly, to undermining his children's character. It is true, of course, that a| mother is closer physically to] children and emotionally more | involved (as a rule) than the father in shaping their social | growth. Hence it might seem, | at surface glance, that the re- sults produced represent the mother's handiwork for the! most part. But the fact is that, in a two- & Magill parent family situation, the ; 9 KING ST. E. father's presence and personal- | Sis OSHAWA Walmsley be pretty as occasional decora-| tions. Another idea is to select ie recipes and copy them in a dec- orative script with a few illus- beautiful n¥agazine page color | pictures of prepared dishes. | Shellac them over. HOME 16 SIMCOE THE trations around the script. Or use cut-outs of some of DAIRY | NEW TEMPORARY LOCATION THE FOOD SHOP, 42 Simcoe St. N., Oshawa and WHITBY PLAZA BAILEY FOODS, Oshawa Shopping Centre and THE HOME DAIRY, Ajax BUTTER BUNS RAISIN PIE THURSDAY --FRIDAY--SATURDAY SPECIALS PECAN COFFEE CAKE ... 37c ST. 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