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8 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesday, July 4, 1961 SUSAN Bonnie daughter of Mr. and Mrs. James C. Hardie, Hor- top avenue, is one-year-old Susan Lynn. Susan is the granddaughter of Mr. MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL 36-Year-Old Divorcee In Love With Bachelor, 26 Dear Mary Haworth: 1 am a|ered, it seems sensible not to woman of 36 and have threelhave a splashy reception on teenage children, average kids. your second wedding day. Open I've had to raise them myself, house to welcome friends, after since their father and I were you've got settled in your new divorced five years ago. {house, is an excellent plan. I try to be a good mother and| Use the customary style of an- get no financial help from him nouncement--sent in the name except as he feels like it. |of the bride's parents or, if they Most men I've dated enjoy|are deceased, the newlyweds Mrs. John Saychook and Mrs. Melvina Hardie, all of Osh- awa. and --Photo by Hornsby my company, praise my perso- nality and say I would make somebody a wonderful wife. Now I've found Joe, 26, whom I love a great deal, but I feel 1 should give him up, as his family has planted doubts in may issue the announcement in their own name. Ask any good engraver to show you samples of the traditional wording. It would be bad form to pro-| pose or solicit any kind of gift. A well-mannered bride doesn't 25th Anniversary Mr. end Mrs. Joseph Dominik, Ritson road south, were enter- tained by their family at a din- ner party at the Hotel Genosha on Saturday in honor of their 25th wedding anniversary. The eggshell brocade sheath dress with matching jacket and a cor- sage of pink roses. Mr. Gustav, Szabo was master Szabo, toastmaster. Mr. and Mrs. Dominik, the former Rose Szabo, were mar- ried in Toronto and have spent their married life in Oshawa. They have a son, Joseph, at Uni- versity of Toronto, and a daugh- ter, Margaret, at home. Present for the occasion were Mrs. Dominik's mother, Mrs. Sylvester Szabo of Toronto and Mr. Dominik's father, Mr. Mi- chael Dominik of Peterborough, both of whom spoke briefly. A special guest was Mrs. M. Oder of Maple Grove at whose home the wedding reception : {was held 25 years ago; also the bride of 25 years ago wore an| Dinner Party Marks| CHILD GUIDANCE Normal Slow-Leamers Have Trouble In Reading 'By G. CLEVELAND MYERS Paul Witty of Northwest-| i b ern University, who has written self-reliance and self - confi- Dr. more than any other living per- |son on the gifted child, also wrote in the February 1961 is- { . . " p i h Pp of ceremonies and Mr. Sylvester sue of Education an informative the school might possibly have Jeo iv or tecy nee. SoCs actual suit, processed to smile at showers. SHIRT AND JACKET { larticle on the "Needs of Slow- learning Pupils." | He wrote of children below- |average in ability but not re- {tarded gh to be idered {mentally handicapped. The IQs of these pupils range from 75 ito 90. In many schools they make up from 15 to 18 per cent of the class enrollment. He noted that, in efforts to challenge the average and su- perior students, it is necessary !tive learning ability. Always we often enjoys learning success; hence he may less often enjoy ence. b Dr. Witty does warn that a child labelled a slow learner by average, Or even superior, na- need to seek ways to appeal to his interest and to motivate his learning efforts. As 1 have often pointed out in thie column, Dr. Witty also says that the slow learner tends|a to lag in reading and that the big problem is to help him read better; that it is necessary to|b learn just how far he has de- veloped in this skill and bring Suits Are The Latest In Rainwear Fashions By ELEANOR ROSS More umbrellas will probably be forgotten this season than ever before--and not because people are getting more absent- minded. It's just that an um- rella won't be necessary be- cause the lightweight rainsuit is the latest word in weather rotection. No, not just a rain- The rainsuit consists of a well- tailored skirt which looks good in any weather. With it comes matching jacket which may be waist-length or reach to the hipline or, indeed, any length in etween. So there is a wide choice. Then, too, as a topper-offer to suit amounts to no- thing. But a smart gal will spot- clean her suit after each outing in the rain. Just dip a sponge or cloth into thick soap or detergent suds and swab away the soiled spots. Don't let them remain, day after day, for then they will be more difficult to remove and will give the suit a dingy look. all this, there is the rain hat or hood. So who wants an um- brella? The good tailoring lavished en these rainsuits makes them look good enough for general wear, just as has become the case with the gay raincoats. Some of these water-repellent outfits have jackets lined with print material to match the blouse that comes with many HOUSEHOLD HINT When teaching a small child to wash his hands, keep a stur- dy box under the basin for him to stand on and thus be children, take along a wide- mouthed screw-topped jar half suits. And any one of these practical suits will make you able to reach the basin mo feel well dressed, in or out of Te comfortably. ! full of sudsy water and a wash cloth, for wiping sticky or dirty hands and faces. doors. Cotton poplin, cotton shan- tung and cotton duck are popu- lar fabrics for these suits, as is a Dacron and cotton blend for suits with contrasting piping as their smart touch. EASY UPKEEP The upkéep on such a rain- learners are challenged. Less Stable Studies show that the slow ' | maid of honor, now Mrs. Gustav Szabo. The couple received numer- 'lous gifts and greetings from family and friends. Guests were present from Peterborough and Toronto. Two-Ring Rites | For Carol Martel | And William Judd The Reverend Herbert Mutton ceremony recently in Cedardale United Church, when Carol L. Martel was united in marriage with William George Judd. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Rene Martel and the bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Judd, all of Oshawa. The wedding music was play- ed by Mrs. Alfred Barassin. For the occasion the bride wore a street-length gown of carnation white nylon lace over taffeta. White gloves with pearl trimming complemented the bracelet-length sleeves and the slim bodice was offset with a scoop neckline. She wore a white net whimsy hat and aj white hybrid orchid and lilies of the valley comprised her cor- sage. She carried a white satin learner is not usually different from other pupils in physical development, but may have a {ward instability. Naturally so, since he less often comprehends what is being taught and less duster coat with white ac- also to make sure that the slow |him up from there. Unfortu- slightly great er tendency to- th nately, what he is supposed to read at school is too hard for {him to read with pleasure and | success. Although all children might mmer, there are obvious reasons for parents to read to the slow learner and to find |¢ books he will enjoy reading, and |¢ 0 provide help for him in im-| proving his skill at reading. | Here let me urge parents tol profit from practice at reading 4 CHILL-PACKED Ist aan y -RUN THRILLERS !§ TONiG/71 We DARE You To Look Into... "DOCTOR BLOOD'S COFFIN" Weird! Supernatural! "THE SNAKE THORNTON RD. AT HIGHWAY 401. . .PHONE 723-4972 BOX-OFFICE OPEN 8:00 SHOW STARTS 9:25 WOMAN" officiated at the double - ring cessories and the bridegroom's i iovs mother wore powder blue chan-| 2d to any child who enjoys 3 A {being read to, no matter how | tilly lace over taffeta, with har-| 14 he is, or how slowly hel monizing accessories. They both| ' i 4 wore corsages of pink roses. |Scems to learn at school. The reception was held at|{Parents' Questions | Club 401, Oshawa, where dinner] Q. Our daughter, four, is a | was served to the bridal party. poor eater at meals but is con- IN COLOR = STARTS with SUSAN TRAVERS "THE THREE WORLDS OF GULLIVER" plus "GUN FURY" -- Both in Color! LAST 2 DAYS! For the honeymoon trip to|Stantly begging for food, espe- Niagara Falls and Buffalo, the|cially sweets, between meals. ALL OF THEM WERE BY LOVE POSSESSED! bride travelled in a mauve wool| -:. izictly keep all foods from walker suit with white Whimsy her between meals, no matter hat and an orchid corsage. {how much she pleads or cries On their return the couple will| for them, except some fruit reside in Oshawa. juice, perhaps. The mighty spectacle of Mr. Rock 'n' Roll a city that lived in sin in the story he and died in flame! was born to play. | hi "LOVE ME | LAST DAYS TENDER" OF POMPEII bag embroidered with pearls. Mrs. Robert Brewster was] matron of honor, wearing aj * STARRING * STEVE REEVES yith pink accents complement- ing her corsage of pink carna- his mind, after he had professed |initiate a shower for herself, his love for me regardless of nor do members of her immed-| my age and the children and iate family or other next-of-kin.| the fact that I can't have any M.H. tions and a white whimsy hat. The bride's mother chose a Ichecked- dress with navy blue! | * STARRING * ELVIS PRESLEY DEBRA PAGET dress of oyster-toned silk linen | & bod | ) (MARKS =: Hin oping GONE WIT COMPLETE! INTACT! The Spectacular Romance that thrilled millions! DADO SENCKS / wascerwrss CLARK GABLE VIVIEN LEIGH LESLIE HOWARD OLVIA de om SHOWN TWICE DAILY AT 2:00 ond 7:30 P.M, y H THE WIND WINNER OF TEN AWARDS iW Jk DOORS OPEN PRIR-COOLID | AT 1:30 and 6:30 P.M. A Froaes FEATURE TIMES: i 1:25 - 3:25 - 5:25 . 7:30 Last Complete Show 9:20 on ove AIR CONDITIONED AW BAYS PLA more. Oppose Romance Joe's family wants him to marry a girl much younger than I to whom he was engaged in the past. He says he needs time to find himself and I am giving him time. He still calls me and I see him at least once a week. I am not trying to rush him into marriage. I am in no hurry. I know he loves me and is confused. He says there are no other women except the girl I've mentioned, and he hasn't seen her in quite a while. What must I do? I need ad- vice badly. I have been very faithful to him. Deceives Self Dear L.P.: I don't think mar- riage to Joe is in the cards for you. I believe you are kidding yourself in supposing that he has ever seriously considered the idea--soberly, in the light of day. He is probably smitten with you, yes and dazzled by the fact that you love him. But in giving you to understand that his family "has planted doubts in his mind" and wants him to wed the younger girl, Joe is tak- ing the usual elusive line of a man who intends to stay in the clear while nlaving alone with a love affair. What must you do? My advice is: take the blind- ers from your eyes and ring down the curtain on hopes of marrying Joe. Don't waste your time playing the role of his faithful true love. If you continue to wait for him to make up his mind, you will end like the girl in the Dor- othy Parker poem -- the girl "who still waits at the same old gate, the gate her true love gave her." M.H. Middleaged Marriage Dear Mary Haworth: My fiance and I, both middleaged, will be married (each for the second time) in a few weeks. Finances are something of a problem. We would like to have a fairly large reception, with champagne, except for the ex- pense. Please answer the following questions: 1. 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