ST. HEDWIG'S St. Hedwig's Ladies' Society held its annual Maytime in Poland ball last Friday eve- ning. The president, Mrs. Ed- LADIES' SOCIETY ward Krol, is seen with Mr. Krol and some of the assist- ant hostesses. Left to right they are Miss Irena Kupnicki, Miss Luba Wolek, Mrs. Lau- CHILD GUIDANCE Children's Personalities Pose Problem For Mother By G. CLEVELAND MYERS Here's a letter from a wor- ried mother: "This is really quite a prob- lem in our family. Bob, 12, ab- \solutely detests his sister, Ro- salle, 7, not only because she is a girl, but because of different personality patterns. "Bob is quiet and introverted, while Rosalie is constantly on the move and a tease. "She intensely loves Bob even though he can't stand to have her sit near him (her wiggling irritates him no end). I don't know how far to go to give in to him (which I can do), or in making her leave him alone {which is almost an impossibil- ty). "His sense of fairness and justice is constantly bruised be- cause of different discipline them. He says he can't do th same thing about him." ANSWERS MOTHER Here in part is how I a swered this mother: in two different worlds. At be they hardly could be ideal pla; maies. I hope you and Dad he each child to cultivate pia; mates of his or her own age. When friends of one of the "horn in." Perhaps Dad could do mo: games with him, or taking hi; € methods employed between or that, but she can 'get away with it,' and she maintains the In the first place, these chil- dren, so far apart in age, live come in, the other should mind his or her own business and not for the boy by having him out for lunch occasionally, going to ou fishing or hunting trips, only the daughter; should do likewise sometimes. both these children. is N-130 minutes to another room st y- Ip y- more gracious to his sister APPROVE GENEROUSLY m or acts in which the other st erous with approval. m when Bob might invite a few of his pals to go along. So also you, Mother, should go places with and Dad Sit down with Dad privately and figure out if you are equally fair and just and consistent with Privately explain to Rosalie that she must not make herself a nuisance to Bob and not sit near him when she finds her doing so vexes him. Then when she does so, or so teases him, punish her by sending her for Perhaps Dad at quiet mo- ments with Bob alone could lead him to see how he might be Be loath to compliment either one strongly in the presence of the other, especially for traits inferior. But when either of them evinces the slightest con- sideration of the other, be gen- Give Bob some privileges Rosalie doesn"t have, because he is so much older, such as more allowance and later bed- time. In the family group especially at meals, see that they have equal opportunity to talk, when all others will listen appreci- atively. No doubt Bob feels he doesn't stand as well in the family and among the relatives as Rosalie does. PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. What's a good way to keep a child eight or ten from dan- gerous fun with spears or bow and arrow? A. Forbid him making these weapons, for if he makes them he's pretty sure to use them without proper supervision. GREEN BEANS - ALMONDS Cook 2 pounds green beans, lcovered, in a small amount of boiling, salted water, seasoned with 1 teaspoon dried savory, until just tender. Drain, add 2 tablespoons butter or margar- ine, 2 tablespoons chopped pars- ley and 2 tablespoons chopped almonds, which have n blanched and toasted. Makes 4 to 6 servings. is| THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, May 11, 1961 1} THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Do not permit yourself to be- come disturbed if you have to make sudden changes in plans now. The possibility is there but, if you accept matters philo- sophically, you will find that these changes wprk to your ulti- mate advantage. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is yom birthday, your horoscope indicates that some of the ideas that occur to you--especially those regard- ing finances--should be devel- oped without delay, since their potential could be well devel oped by October. But you will have to work hard in the mean- time. Except for brief periods, late December will also be good for monetary matters. If your ideas involve speculation, however, discard them. This is just not your year to take chances. Con- servative policies, carried out with the long-range view, are the only ones which will help you to wind up your year on the credit side of the ledger. In personal affairs, romance holds the spotlight this year. Those who are single may well - be wed before the end of 1961 and, for those already married, the stars promise a happy Sirengthening of the marriage July and August will be the best period for travel, and those in creative lines will find the period between mid-December and next March highly stimu- lating along inspirational lines. - A child born on this day will be extremely conservative, | trustworthy and highly inde. pendent. N MOST VALUABLE The world's most valuable . single piece of jewelry is Eng. land's Imperial State Crown, worn by Queen Elizabeth IT at her coronation. HOLDS DANCE LODGES AND SOCIETIES QUEEN MARY LODGE The regular meeitng of Queen dis Grabarska, Miss Mary Kocon and Miss Teresa Michno. --Oshawa Times Photo GROUPS, CLUBS AND AUXILIARIES Mary Lodge No. 97 was held re- cently in the Orange Temple with Worthy Mistress Sister Dorothy Phillips presiding as- LEGION AUXILIARY | The Ladies Auxiliary, Royal Canadian Legion Branch 43 met] on Tuesday evening, May 9, with president, Mrs. Edward] Bouckley, presiding. Mrs. Walter Underwood was Initiated and welcomed into the Auxiliary. Financial report of] | "Young Churches at Work" was read by Mrs. Marilyn Jackson. Letters of thanks were read by Miss Elsie Fice which were re- ceived from Committee of Over- seas Relief and Nelson House, Manitoba. Secretary's report was given by Mrs. Marilyn Jackson. The recent bazaar was given by the treasurer's report was given by treasurer, Mrs. James Ander- son and a substantial profit realized. A night of cards will be held next Tuesday, May 16, at 8 p.m. under the convener- ship of Mrs. Herbert Bathe. Tickets at the door include re-| freshments and special prizes. The chartered bus for Port] Hope will leave the terminal at| 6.30 p.m. on Thursday, May 18. The visit to the Port Perry| Auxiliary will take place on| May 23 and a few seats are still available on the bus. Tele-| phone Mrs. Eric Jacklin RA| 5-4168. The 25-year dinner will be] Miss Dorothy Fish. It was discussed group have the Albert Street Mission Circle at the church for a rally on Tuesday, May 16 and have a social evening. The plans of the evening were discussed. A questionnaire followed on the Bible study St. John 4 verses 46 to 54. The next meeting will be held at the home of Miss Carol Alexander on. June 12 at 7:30 p.m. THE SOCIABLES GROUP The Sociables Group met on Sunday, May 7, at Northminster United Church and had as its that the|Will be an especially interesting sisted by Deputy mistress, Sis- ter Margaret Martin. The prayers were read by the Chaplain, Sister Gertrude Logan and the flags were presented by Sisters June Goodman and Net- | tie Fenton. The draw for the bedspread was held and the winner was] E. Bell, 189 Albert Street, Osh-| awa. Draw prizes donated by Sis- ters Vi Ambrose, Eleanor Mitchell, Beryl Elliott, Charlotte Griffith were won by Sisters Annie Fish, June Goodman and Opha Shaffer. Sister Elliott Blake and Ger-| trude Logan served refresh-| ments. | guest Captain Greg. Brady of the Oshawa Fire Department. Captain Brady showed a movie entitled '"That They May Live", which dealt with the oral resuscitation method of artificial respiration. He answered ques- tions and demonstrated the Hol- ger-Nielson method of artificial respiration. Next Sunday, May 14 there meeting at which Miss Frances) Stevenson of Indore, India, will show her slides and comment on her work in India. 4TH GROUP COMMITTEE The 4th group committee of the Girl Guide Association held its April meeting with 16 mem- bers present. Reports were given from the annual convention and Gold Cord ceremonies. Members were reminded of the Brownie Fair, on May 26 at 8 p.m. at|The next meeting will be at the | Guide House. home of Mrs. Leslie Magee, 197 A pot luck supper for mothers!Grenfell Street on May 15. Feature--Save 7c AYLMER CHOICE Captain Bonnie Hart about the summer camps. Refreshments were served. Best Buy--Save 8c PEAS 4 MIRACLE WHIP SALAD 5-0Z. TINS 99% Best Buy Save 13¢ AYLMER CHOICE HALVES PEACHES Best Buy | Feature--Save 10c BOSTON BROWN BEANS 5 Feature--Save 35¢ AYLMER 20-0Z. TINS 89° held on May 30. Tickets may be bought from Mrs. Alyn Elliot| at the next business meeting on| Wednesday, May 24. 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