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HAPPY FIRST BIRTHDAY Celebrating his first birth- day today is Cameron Scott, son of Mr, and Mrs. Cameron Butler, Central Park Boule- vard North. Scott is the grand- MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Mother Asks How To Cope With Dad's Bad Example son of Mrs. George Wiles, Ajax, and Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd Butler, Montague, Prince Ed- ward Island. --Aldsworth Photography Dear Mary Haworth: My hus-|am crazy to care about him and| band is a kind man and good I am beginning to think so, too provider for his four children, He doesn't go to church or| of whom three are teenagers./Sunday School The baby is eight years old. But for years he and a cer- tain woman have been the talk po she's in love with to love of the town because he spends her? K.P so much time at her house. I 2 i used to mention it, but he would) CAN'T COMPEL LOVE say it didn't mean anything and] Dear K.P.: The one thing sure now I don't bring it up any about love is this: It cannot be more. compelled to exist. If you love However, the children take no- somebody, and he doesn't love tice, and seeing him coming and|you, that's that, going in her neighborhood they, However, love begets love but ask him why he can't stay away only if the love is generously from her house, which makes given, with no demands, no him angry at the whole family. strings attached. He gets upset and won't buy (or| 1, your case, you are pester- regularly and has quite a few bad habits. What can a girl do to get the give) us anything for two or three weeks. He tells them that) as he is grown, he will do as he pleases (and he doesn't seem to care who sees him going there). She almost separated us two years ago. . . What do you think| of a father who doesn't care| about his children seeing him in| the wrong? What is his prob- lem? ing the boy with your messages of love, your central purpose being to get him in love with you--as a kind of feather in your cap, perhaps. My advice is, drop the chase. Love him in your heart, if you must, but don't make a prob- lem of it either to yourself or him, M.H. Mary Haworth counsels GROUPS, CLUBS, AUXILIARIES LEGION AUXILIARY The Ladies Auxiliary, Royal Canadian Legion Branch 43 met on Tuesday, February 7, with |president Mrs. Edward Bouck- ley, presiding. Finished work for the bazaar was brought in and other goods given out to be done. The ba- zaar will take place on April 25. Once again the attendance of members was much better and it is hoped this will continue. Zone commander, Miss Rose Bate, will make her official visit mext Tuesday, February 14, and all interested members in Auxiliary work should attend. The business meeting will com- mence at 7.30 p.m. followed by a social time and refresh- ments, The "Night of Cards" will be held on February 21. Tickets are now on sale and some fine prizes have been donated for winners of games, also door prize and many others. Mr. Herbert Bathe is convener. Tickets can be purchased at the door and will include refresh- ments. Members reported sick were Mrs. William Beaton, Mrs. Alyn Elliot and Mrs. William Rutherford. ' PILOT CLUB The regular meeting of the Pilot Club was held recently at Simcoe Hall with the president, Miss Lillian. Beamish, presid- ing. The nominating committee was named as follows: Mrs, Leslie Gorrie, Miss Lorraine Os- tle, Miss Lillian Beamish with alternates, Mrs. Jay Goyne and Mrs. Russell Flutter. | The committee chairmen |were requested to prepare their annual reports and forward to {the co-ordinating chairman, |Miss Beverley Storie, by Febru- lary 15. Members were reminded that the spring convention would be held on April 21 and 23 in St. | Thomas. Miss Muriel Wilson was re- quested to act as chairman of a committee to further investi- gate a request from the Provin- cial Council of Women regard- ing the organization of a Local Council of Women. HOLY CROSS WA The Women's Auxiliary of Holy Cross Roman Catholic Church held its monthly meet- ing on Tuesday evening. Mrs. J. T. Mullen presided. The various reports were read. The welfare convener stated that 21 articles of cloth- ing and one hamper of grocer- ies had been sent to the needy during January. The Red Cross convener, Mrs. Stephen Coe, asked for volunteers to do sew- | Mrs. George Hester led in the singing of the hymn, "Count Your Blessings", followed by prayer by Mrs. Chris Osbourn, Mrs. Eldon McDonald read the Scripture, and Mrs. William Short, Sr., read an article on "Mountain Tops". Mrs. Wilbert Clarke sang a solo, "Have You Been In the Garden With Je- sus?"; Mrs. Maynard Nelson read a poem, "God's Master- piece". Mrs. Buller told a story, es- pecially for the children of the little boy and the loaves and fishes, and how he shared his food with Jesus. Eleanor Sar- geant sang a solo, "This Little Light Of Mine"; Mrs. Buller led in the singing of a hymn, and Mrs. Major Rankin closed in prayer. 4 Tea was served by the Sun- shine Group. Next week will be a Valentine meeting with Mrs. David Owen in charge. WESTMINSTER WF The February meeting of the Westminster United Church Wo- men's Federation opened with the president Mrs. Kenneth Young presiding. Mrs. Clarence Scott spoke on "Stewardship begins at Home." Devotional was led by Mrs. George Lofthouse. Scripture | reading was given by Mrs. John {Redko. | Mrs. Lofthouse introduced {guest speaker Miss Evelyn Gay |who spoke on "A child's rela- tionship to his church". Blind-Deaf Girl Aspires To Enroll in University By EDNA BLAKELY Finally she got a job with a Canadian Press Staff Writer | family with eight children, in- in ORONTO (CP)-Mae Browit's\ cluding 13-monht-old twins. She ndshake is a search for] : friendship. Both deaf and blind, | *1€P* with one of the children her clasp lingers as she at. Who regularly scratched Mae's tempts to draw through herlegs with her toenails. fingers what others are able to] "I lasted eight days. Then I see and hear. {looked for a new job. When they But the 24-year-old former|,greq if I was experienced I Fort William girl has no time fats for self-pity. {thought, 'Eight days with eight She's too busy with'a full-time} job as a braille proofreader at| the Canadian National Institute| for the Blind. { "As for the future," she says| in a matter-of-fact way, I plan| to finish my high school by mail then enroll in university to qual- ify as a social worker." --scratches on my legs. I was experienced'." ered she had a brain tumor. liberately enunciated. The oper-| | children--13 - month - old twins By this time her hearing was getting poor and she came to Toronto where docotrs discov- | They gave her no longer than |a year to live without the op- Each word she speaks is de-| eration and a thousand-to-one chance of surviving the opera- THE OSHAWA TIMES, Fridey, February 10, 1961 7 tion. "I trusted in God and God| nursing course recently she did certainly pulled me through. [s0 with the help of Marjorie HEARING GONE TOO Drew, a blind girl who does Although she knew she would| volunteer work with he Sou be without her sight she had) JC NUNC AC Cl be. fot expected to lose her hear-| ended Mae and acy a her 4 {interpreter tapping the con- "I remembered a verse that| 's hand a minister's wife had read oli eatin On Mae's | nf pug me back in Fort William. It es ihe Dith Pulm, verse six:)..Some day Mae would like to '1 will freely sacrifice unto Thee: I will praise thy name, RELATIVE PRIVACY 0 Lord: for it is good.' Then I] HATFIELD, England: (CP)-- understood the real purpose ininfothers - in - law who move in had k fi my fe God had work Lo. sung couples in this Hert That is why Mae is gonig/fordshire town will no longer be to school, to help others wholin the way. The council is build- are deaf and blind. ling special maisonettes above When Mae attended and grad- the newlyweds' flats--complete uated from a Red Cross homeiwith separate entrances. | | be A het and her _ Jon would inc] marriage 's God's wish." Hush-A-Bye DIAPER SERVICE Diapers supplied . . . san- itized and fluffy soft. Canisters available Gift Certificates. CALL RA 3-2139 For Further Information ation which left her deaf andj blind at 17 also paralysed one| ¢heek and both lips. ! Her conversation is sprinkled] with witty remarks and occa-| sionally she touches her com-| | panion's chin to find out if she |is sharing the joke. | It gives me a good feeling to | make other people laugh." Mae is one of the 300 deaf | and blind people in Canada and lone of seven who reside at !Clarkewood on the CNIB's beautiful Bayview Avenue| grounds in northeastern Tor-/ onto. | | ANXIOUS TO HELP | She describes her affinity for| other deaf and blind people as about the same as the way a mother feels about her chil dren. "If they don't help them- selves I could give them a good kick," she says. Mae's fair hair is cut short and curled softly around her face. She's as interested in clothes as other girls her age. By the time she was 15 her| eyesight had failed to the point| where she had to quit school. "But people wouldn't give me a chance--not even to do house- work. Everywhere I went they asked if I had experience." | | Blacks SO PERFECT FOR EVERY OCCASION. ., | Fashionable KNITS Ideal to weor now , . » and into Summer , . our Cotton Knits cost so little and are so comfort. able, eosy to care for, resist wrinkle. Choose now. Sizes 10 to 20 ooo from ,... 19.95 | | In a Hurry ? 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The visiting committee re- ported twenty-four visits to the sick including 16 visits to the hospital, one member is in hos- pital at the present time, ding from truth in a fog of de- fiance, pretence and fluster, What do I think of a father who doesn't care about his chil- dren seeing him in the wrong? Well, when you consider the extent to which he is cheating himself of the good life, you know that he is more to be pitied than scorned. ~~ He is off the beam of happi- ness; so far off, indeed, that he doesn't even know what he 1is| missing of the deep, abiding peace and joy that are only to e found by sticking to the straight and narrow path of kindly, honorable, self - discip- lined devotion to duty. As your husband is a family man, his primary and principal duty in the sight of God is to be a good helpmate and father, giving his children a godly ex-| ample. In setting a bad example he strikes at the roots of their character, crippling them with the sense of shame that they SUNBEAM CHAPTER, OES The regular meeting was held in the Masonic Temple, Mrs. Marianne Girard presided, as- sisted by Mr. William Hender- son, WP, | Along with the following Past Matrons and Patrons of Sun- beam, Mrs, Meta Moore, PDDGM, and Mrs. Eleanor Train, PM, from Bowmanville, were all warmly welcomed, Mrs. May Lang, Mrs. Laura Stewart, Mrs. Martha Dunlop, Mrs. Bert Wight, Mrs. Meta Moore, Mrs, Betty McKinstry, Mrs. Dorothy Haley, Mrs, Frank Train and Mr. William Hender- son. A special welcome was given to a visitor from Have. lock. Mrs. Mabel Alpin gave a lengthy sick report. The altar was draped in memory of Mr. Samuel McCoy, Past Grand Patron of Ontario, 'An invitation was accepted to visit Aloha Chapter April 26. feel for him M.H. Dear Mary Haworth: I am an adolescent girl, a little fat, in love with a boy two years older than I who isn't in love with me. He just ignores me. He thinks 1 am too young to know the meaning of love, but] 1 do, although this is the first time I have been really in love| with a boy. He reads my letters aloud to his chums and when he does, word spreads all over school, which makes me feel about one inch tall, The kids in both grade school and high school think I | FRESH-BREWED FLAVOUR mere Cups to the . Refreshments were served by Mrs. Jean Scott and committee. HOUSEHOLD HINT To remove candle wax drip- pings from wool and linen, place brown wrapping paper over the spots and press with a medium hot iron. The brown aper will absorb the wax. ape Final plans were made for| the Valentine party in the form| of progressive euchre to be held in the parish hall on February| 14, The penny sale that evening| will be in charge of Mrs. Ernest! Spear. It was decided to hold the annual bridge and euchre on May 2. Conveners will be ap- pointed at the next meeting. Refreshments were served by Mrs. James Hickey and Mrs. Harry Canfield, including a cake made and donated by Mrs. J. H, Lyons as it was the wed- ding anniversary of the presi- dent, Mrs. J. T. Mullen. A gift was presented to Mrs. Mullen| by Mrs. Joseph Callahan on be-| half of those present. During the social half-hour the Rever- end M, Beriault gave a talk and was thanked by Mrs. J. H.| Lyons. | The next meeting will be held| March 7 in the parish hall, SA HOME LEAGUE | The regular meeting of the] Salvation Army Home League was held on Tuesday afternoon, February 7, with 68 members resent. Mrs. Major Rankin led in the singing of a few choruses, and Mrs. William James made the announcements. The Fellowship Group, under {the leadership of Mrs. Frank! TOWN-TAILORED By ANNE ADAMS Dandy collar plunges to a one- button V, mock pockets accent a slenderness of skirt -- it all adds up to a dashing, town-tailored look! Make 'it your look, make it in plain, checks, print. 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