B THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, Descsmber 22, 1960 and mifieren ariament, especial) nen placed LUXURIOUS OPERA CAPE Vier cision peuiy of HW U Want a preity, effective and in TOPS in glamor and luxury is this opera cape made of vio let azurine mink with wide eol- lar and deep, turned-hack eufls, W's the dream gift for a doting bushand to present on Christ MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Interfering Mother-In-Law Creates Problem In Family DEAR MARY HAWORTH; |(take care to prevent by the use have a problem with my mother-|of foresight Wnlaw's interference when I am| My advice is that you face scolding or spanking my children. your mistake and work for re- et This has been going on for some form As a start, you might read|E | : - | Phin ! * time Dr. Robert Odenwald"s book, 1 . As my mother - in - law doesn't |Your Child's World: From In live in our town 1 have over-|fants thrdough Adolescence (Ran looked her interference, because dom House) muscles : silver fof, can be srranged here everything is Wn perfest working sestion should he covered ( KEEP IN TRIM Some New Suggestions redo ald a assiog ve ! i Finish off with well Plug each string in amd move the S Si li ' lgreen lenves or hollysprigs cord hack and forth slong is en invest 8 a sew ested Routine ; . ' . tire lengih to chee RP: mon ugg imp e \ WEDGES OF CHEESE Bh 10 heck (or any Pos cheap BHCE PRERIN By ELEANOR ROSS EXPENSIVE cemierpiece tor tahie or wedges of ol-wrapped Last roundup for holiday dec huffet? among the fruit, selking guests to By IDA JEAN KAIN {| Methods of relaxing muse his year some suggestions passed fooled compote dish, use if; cheese at the conclusion of the Tension is today's No. | grem- larly also vary, If you have heenlon after the last holidays hylotherwise, use a large Wass goh- meal or during the evening daydo-day Ving, for when we feel cramped, Thythmic exer One kind friend sent along a lorger gas pate {less thelr discerning hosless! {are tense and nervously tired, it\cises or a relaxed walk can helpicolor pieture of one handsome| Select perfectly - haned spIEs,| And o lest reminder--this one { : | relax, to feel at pence, even ot excellent way to rouse the circu tions for duplicating i iset th work wri v p vg " {this heart-warming seaéon of the lation and ring out tensions, TrY| The ornament a large, color we fru with fou ri | etal tol rome } "r 4 '| Before using exiension cords 4 and dining room, but UW wolldiples, gold for hananas and pearsito make sure there are no frayed small museles--the muscles of Iifting the chest. Push hack with "0 obey : : fl oF on & Lree ¢ the eyes, fingers and hand-- your head, hending it toward the!" , Uf gd Large walnuts, covered with burnt-out bulbs, In short, see that Hing Sor Sith art wilh oy A rt | VA, BOX BY SMILES 'N CHUCKLES big muscles of the body helps ré- arm, Next, ead toward the lease tensions 4 left, stretching up sirong with the|'® neck tied with string ! i LO = i | MT Wy ETSY FW more tense then thelr seere- WIR, getting the entire hody tol "woo come wool yarn is dipped! me taries, for executives take their the movement In a thick solution of flour and, K from the philosophical approach| various muscle groups, folowed|ouiorior "tl "is then hung up tl to dealing directly with the ex-|hy methodical "ietting-g0" of thelgp "goroneniy © 0 0 4 on A classic little book, A Way Of|this method 1s that fension 1s Femave cord from; N Lite, by Dr. William Osler deals| partly subconscious, By deliber:|neck of balloon and deflate, Whai| ib with relaxing from the mental] #tely tensing the muscles and|you have left--or should have f angle, The gist of Dr. Ogler's|slowly releasing the tension, con} & stiff, rounded "nothing MeCORMICK'S DELUXE yeserday and carried today, willl inder the bend of your Knees. \ioon has a ehance to dry make fhe strongest falter, He| Start with the muscles of the We tried it and it really dos "FUR SALON" (the habit of living life in day Frown, and feel their tighiness {Hight eompartments, { takes! Gently release | hese muscles ' bd tig ts, | | | 26 SIMCOE §7, SOUTH RA 5:2722 % or. ae b-verteet oi day, But It's a habit, as easy or| allowing the jaw lo sag POWNTOWN OSHAWA mas day, aleo a perfect choice | ac" hard to adopt as any. other] Dao this with neck With practice you can train the OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE tante daughter provided, of ly ) course, that the gentlemen of Peace! W's wonderful ROA AE oe ky A AE A problems home with them Another method of relaxin€lwater and at once wound any message is a plea to do the day's| 5eious control 16 acquired Spread all-purpose white house Assorted Chocolates .. 2.99 ssorie COIAICS sox DR | praciice to close a mental door! You'll feel the brow smooth out the family are in the chips! Placed word seems very For Glittering Holiday or en mis Tee 0 Pie wire breaks Any frayed fire hazard! To Help Relieve Tension ds p eorations! We set aside for use, UW yon. have wm epergne orihelp thembelves 19 fruit and Vin, It can take the hoy ont of siting all dey and your muscles thoughtful readers [lef upended and topped with 4) Pie calorie - conseions will : K be = S G E- S Is next to § ible to let go, to) you let gn. Stretching Is also anldecoration, together with instruc: pears, small Plums, bananas #dlin the interest of salety in the | year, {IL IE possible, Ne down on theiful, glittery sphere, was Bung onl sticking to the seme wplor for J ive Hobdy an shor, it FOR BOXED CHOCOLATES omemakers, The constant use of clenched. Take breath, |. equally well suspended from and blue for small pums (cords, no logse connections, nol builds up tension, while using the right, siretching up with the leftl, to B"Coe Jn Si Srl 2 Executives are likely to be FEN arm. Biretch and pull andingxy gygp Techniques for relaxing vary eas for deliberate tensing of\yhich.way around the balloo's A JANUARY SALE Vark®, 50° 148, 95 OF 0X #Ox cess tension held in the muscles | tensions, The reasoning hack of Fes, When dry work and he done with it! Thel Iie om your hack and close hold glue over the rounded skele So ' ' author emphasizes that the load| Your eyes, You may wish 1oiton; then sprinkle on assorted | ashion [¥/ of tomorrow, added to that of| Place a folded fowel or soft Plow colors of glitter hefore the hal recommends that we eultivaie| forehead make an effective 2 STORES TO SERVE YOU BETTER on your wark al the close of each) Tense your jaw and lef go,| OPEN TONIGHT UNTIL Ve O'CLOCK for Father to give his debi- |yanit "Practice shows the way, |arms and so on muscles to relax at will I By TRACY ADRIAN Treat him to the bold new look SAVE NOW... PAY NEXT YEAR! NO EXTRA CHARGES OF ANY KIND » " YARDLEY she would stay with us only for for longer visits, She isn't staying with us now J h This is a handbook of practical|¥ | @ week or so. Hut now she Says) 0. idance for parents, Though Dr, Odenwald those who share his Christian but during her visits the children) pooq his keen, sympathetic diss speaks primarily to owt up, knowing that if 1 go 10. coion" of family relations will spank them she will hold them ponent any thoughtful reader | or argue with me My husband thinks 1 should overlook this, hut 1 fe Mary Haworth svubavis sél the chil-| rough her column, not by mail dren should be scolded or Personal interview. Writer her spanked when they do something| wrong, not just whem she lsn'f| around in care of (name of newspaper), | WASSAIL! For a Christmas Eve . buffet, * SHAVING FOAM * AFTER SHAVING LOTION PAL . 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R strenuous business of directing and protecting children's growth in any other way After all, what is discipline? It is to teach, to train, or fo exer cise sell control or obedience to glven standards, It isn't a matter| of boss rule hy brute force, as you seem to believe I Parents teach more by example and performance than hy in struction (or blows), Children el ther love, admire, enjoy and em ulate edifying parents or fear, re sent, unconsciously reject and fight the destructive sort, They| can't attack your children wasp ishly as the usual thing and thereby instill good behavior in i JAIL Wem b/ LiGs i'w unt cra sour vo! SEEING STARS I sponses when the ehildren try| your patience; if you can't make Ay ALICE RROOKS understanding allowance for their! Star attraction! 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