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HONEYMOON IN FLORIDA Oshawa will be the home of Mr. and Mrs. John A. Weiss whose mazrrizge was sole aniz ed recently at Birchcliffe Unit- PATIO DRESS Summer entertainment sug- gestion: the patio dress. A checked gingham sash is in in- genue contrast to the new soph- isticated shape and length of evening fashion in this cotton pique version by Mr. Mort, Montreal. The bright white fabric is from a Cana- dian mill. HOUSEHOLp HINT When buying half a ham, note whether any center slices have been removed. Centre slices con- tain little bone and are the choice part of the ham half. If you can't tell if the half is full, ask to have a ham cut for you rather than buy it precut. -Ithey blow up or use the hand. ed Church, Scarborough. The | bride, the former Miss Eliza- | beth D. ter of Mrs. Kurt Nebel and the # AND MEXICO Pcdehl, is the daugh- | THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW | Another good day! Planetary {aspects favor practically all en- |deavors: business, financial and creative enterprises; also good ipersonal and relationships, social | functions and written matters. Do make the most of fine influences! FOR TH% BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that the next year should provide you with !many occupational challenges. |Your insight into matters which |affect your future should goad you into trying your best Avoid, however, the Cancerite's tend- ency to slip into routine. Other- | wise, you may miss out on good Jo Aldwinckle, Women's Editor Dial RA 3-3474 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, July 18, 1960 7 MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Rirline Hostess Disappointed In So-Called Glamorous Job sds tiie Dear Mary Haworth: Over a Surely anybody "in the know" toes and you should do well. year ago | entered a so-called|about such menacing conditions| You may experience some an- glamorous and exciting profes-|of mischievous disregard for air-|xiety in financial matters for the bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs, Max Weiss, all of s proush | Photo by Gust Studio, Torento |away from home" to the crew. You fly in "such unstable com- % wrong in having dinner and a | | dress--which sometimes turn into|T % |all night affairs / | think it's. right for a girl to demnk|-- : |ally while on duty. It was after ' lone such | "written up" (reported) as a0D-|going on a picnic. Then you'll pithy The wedding is to take | because I refused to enter % |had | | sengers. i lor try to excuse it, as I felt ¢ lwould do no, good. % ¥ i --t THE AGE OF INNOCENCE Son of Mr. and Mrs. Arnold Eggleton, Cabot street, is six- month-old Robert Leslie. Robert is the grandson of Mr. and Mrs. Clarence Henry, Oshawa, and the Reverend and Mrs. CHILD GUIDANCE Harry Eggleton, Bridgetown, The Barbadoes, and great- grandson of Mr. L. G. Weaver, Nelson, B.C. and Mrs. Alfred Eggleton, Vancouver, B.C Photo by Ireland Try Controlling Anger Instead Of Exploding By G. CLEVELAND MYERS You've been reading and hear-| ing, from some of those supposed to know, that you should let chil-| dren freely express their emo-| | tions and that you should not hold| {in your own | This advice, as usually inter- preted, is confined to anger. In- | deed, when you read or hear the {matter discussed, the concrete examples given practically al- |ways relate to violent anger, | rage LET IT OUT Accordingly parents often have been told not to hold in on their {anger at a child, be he four or 14, and to feel no remorse when the youngster harm If she tried to control herself WRONG INTERPRETATION As for the child, the parent's interpretation of this advice usu- ally is, no doubt, that if the youngster in a rage throws things, endangers persons or pro- perty, his actions should not be curbed. If, while enraged at his father or mother, he calls him or her violent, ugly names, or even curses, he's only expressing his | angers which should come out. Hour after hour, day after day, the tot, almost as soon as he can toddle and for years and years thereafter, sees on TV how anger is expressed by torturing, slug- ging, stabbing, shooting, murder- |1t's the one instance when spank- ing or striking the child is most often approved by certain influ- ential 'experts'. They say, 'Let the youngster know you are hu- man." Hearing and reading such ad- | vice, many a parent supposes she |should whack or shriek at any {time she feels mad enough to do Iso; that she might do herself and | PORTRAIT OF JAN ELIZABETH The family's pride and joy is Jan Elizabeth, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Mercil Zajac, Blgor street east. Jan was one ing. Practically always anger is | violently expressed on TV. Many |sometime airways .traveller a youngster will say, "It must be |right, it's the way they do it on|P Sent FOOLISH THEORY The oft-expounded theory that anger in the parent or child should never be held in, but should be freely expressed, as- sumes that when any person is enraged he has just so much anger inside him, as if it could be measured like food or water, and that when this anger escapes no more (is) left Yet anybody knows this isn't so. As anger ex- presses itself (violently), it can anger, In this column 1 have main- tained that every parent and, in- deed, every other adult, needs constantly to exercise control of his anger, that if he can't keep from exploding, he had better do it when no other person is pre- up the child so he will gradually learn to do likewise. More on this tomorrow. | (My bulletins, "Tantrums:| Prevention and Correction" and| "A Parent's Prayer," may be had by sending a self-addressed, | U.S. stamped envelope to me in| care of this newspaper.) PARENTS' QUESTIONS { Q. Are twins slower in develop- ing speech than siblings? A. Published studies reveal that, as a rule, they are. They can, however, get along pretty well at communicating with each other without conventional! speech, WIFE PRESERVER | year old on June 5. She is the granddaughter of Mrs. William Zajac of Oshawa and Mr. and |i Mrs. Percy Bongard, Picton. outlets to prevent children from |and causing shock or electrocu- Photo by Ireland ) tion. nserting bits of metal into them, | joke. ~ \married) ; : i trown on and won't share in isifailing that, turn to a different daughter, Jessie Jean, to Mr.| ? late TV-show viewing and drink-|. Z|. 3 hn field " ling (illegal on less than a 24-hour and usually does, generate more sent; that he should try to bring| sion. that 1 also considered very|l'~ safety on the part of cruci-ibalance of this month; also in respectable; namely, airline hos. | ally trusted personnel, whose October, but a little serious think- tess. | "husguver" nerves may spark|ing on your part should help On my first trip, the captain group disaster--surely this per- to resolve problems. Important: let me know that the titles are] son has a duty to the public, in avoid extravagance. Personal re- [not captain, first officer and hos- common decency, to sound a|lationships will be under good as- toss, but "captain, first mate and warning where it may do some pects for most of the year ahead, playmate." Jokingly, 1 thought; good. |with travel and romance especi- {but I, was to find it was not a| So speak up to the FAA, if you|ally favored in August, early | cau sammon the courage. And in Desember ih Mays doy vill | ha upposed my job was to|any case, don't hesitate to quit Z ) s a Lola hai comfortable: | your job with this particular out-|be trustworthy, highly Sthice) and land have done my best and been|fit at least, because it doesn't | extremely devoted to loved ones. {complimented by many; but in| make sense, it isn't intelligent, to| SOCIAL NOTICE reality it seems we (airline hos-| risk your life pointlessly, day| tesses) are expected to be "wives| after day, as you are doing when Being no prude, 1 saw nothing| pany. Co ENGAGEMENT Look around and find similar; Mr, and Mrs. Samuel Ernest movie with these men (usually| Work, if possible, with a higher Brown of Smiths Falls wish to but the program I} type, better disciplined group; or, e the enga t of their of employment. Pursuit of Neill Lewis Johnston, son of Mr. a wis sh- excitement for Ws. ow. sake. in on, WE, Lewis Johnson of uh a rational activity--~M. H. [place in the Bethel Pentecostal Haworth counsels, Church, Smiths Falls, on Satur- GETS BLACK MARK through her column, not by mil day, August 6, at 3 o'clock. Please understand: I don't dis- or personal interview. Write her ENGAGEMENT approve of drinking; but I don't/in ee of this newspaper, Mr. and Mrs. Bertus Bernar- 2 dus Wolfe announce the engage-| layover), in various stages of un- Mary WEDDING PRINCIPALS Christine Antonina Bienkow- ski of Oshawa and Francis Henry Stolwyk of Toronto were married recently at Hedwig's Roman Catholic Church. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. GROUPS, CLUBS AUXILIARIES MARY. ELLIOTT SMITH The monthly meeting of Mary Elliott Smith Mission Circle of First Baptist Church was held at the home of Mrs. Harold Par- rott, The president, Mrs. Robert {Moon, opened the meeting with prayer. The treasurer, Mrs, Sid- ney Canfield, and the secretary, Mrs. Richard Britton, gave re- ports. The worship period was led by Mrs. Robert Moon, The topic was in the charge of Mrs, Harold Parrott on an interesting study of Missions in Angola, Africa. Mrs. . |Ralph Hopson, Mrs. Richard Britton, and Mrs. Walter Nicker- son, each dressed as an Afrigan woman, assisted in giving 1 ¢ of living conditions of these peo- IE 7 Walter Bienkowski of Oshawa and the late Mr. Bienkowski and the bridegroom is the son of Mr, and Mrs, Leonard Stolwyk of Amsterdam Holland. : Photo by Hornsby ple. Mrs, Parrott also gave a resume of the work of Dr. John- son in Angola Hospital, A record was played of an African boys' choir singing a hymn in English. This ends the study of Africa. The next meeting will be at the home of Mrs. Walter Nickerson, July 27. Superfluous Hair PERMANENTLY REMOVED your true self, of worry end ember. rossment. FREE Consultation MARIE MURDUFF will be in Oshawa ot the Genoshe Hotel, July 19-20th PHONE RA 3-464 for appointment on these detes in the company of half dressed) ment of their daughter, Anna men, married or single, esncci- g Maria Gertrudis, to Mr. Jacobus (Heijnemans, son of Mr. and Mrs. C. Heijnemans, all of HOUSHOLD HINT Take along a jar of soapsuds situation that I was and another of clean water when co-operative. It must have been iy ..q your own portable sink for|place at St. John the Evangelist nto cleaning hands before lunch and|Church, Whitby, on Saturday, as 1 have never from pas-| When its time to leave for home. July 30, at 10 a.m. such festivities, any complaints _ I didn't protest the "write-up" it I thought of going to the Federal Aviation gency but don't want the oubli- |city. Also my parents paid for my training at great sacrifice, and as they aren't well - off, 1 | would hate to let them down. I have been told I am behind |the times and don't realize this {is the 20th century; but I can't {take part in such hehavior, even {though it hurts to be called an oddball. I enjoy the job and the { opportunity to travel, if it weren't | for this difficulty with the crew, Whatever you advise, I will do; and please answer soon, as it will |help a lot of other girls in the sa 1e boat.--P. Y, | CLUE DISASTERS? Dear P. Y.: In your long jetter, here condensed, you test- ify to professional and moral ir- responsibility, and emotional in-| | stability, -on the part of men who| | are piloting and crewing airliners) today. | You say in so many words:| £5" | "This is not an uncommon thing. | * After a year, I know it is the | rule, not the exception--." i | "1¢ 'such is indeed the case, per-| i haps here is a clue to a consistent f hidden or concealed factor, con-|: tributing to a growing list of pas- senger plane crashes--that seem to occur, more often than not, for| inexplicable reasons, unrelated to| 4 atmospheric changes or mechan-| = ical equipment, Maybe the "hu-| man element" in charge of the| { ship is giving chronic trouble, |{ The average man or woman: |who reads your account of the|° background cause and' continuing theme of your dismay on the job, is going to wonder: 'How does|{ this affect me?" --that is, if he or| |she, or anyone dear to them, is a|° DTV 10 PUBLIC WED IN DOUBLE-RING CEREMONY sumi ie truth.| Pictured after their mar- ter of Mr. and Mrs. William ling Jou Tops is riage recently in a double-ring Gould of Oshawa and the bride- I should think you might well feel ceremony at Albert Street | groom is the son of Mrs. Ken- |a compelling obligation in con-| United Church are Mr. and | neth Miller and the late Mr. | | science to get the story off your| vi. Ronald James Radcliffe. | Donald Ratcliffe and stepson of {eh *¢ with someone in authority _ ™ . yg Mr. Kenneth G. Miller of Osh- | | at FAA--if that someone will lis. Formerly Miss Kathaleen Ruth | awa, ten, open-mindedly. | Gould, the bride is the daugh- ~-Photo by Hornsby SMemM aN aM Lm Ma aM aS Laman | DOWNTOWN STORE ONLY SPECIAL! BOYS' SHORT SLEEVE SPORT SHIRTS Boys will like these smart wash-and-wear cotton print sport shirts. Short sleeve style. Sizes R to 16. Buy several at this Special Sale Price. : ZELLER'S LIMITED 21 SIMCOE ST. S. PHONE RA 3-2294 PERSONALS Mr, and Mrs, George Wilson, Eulalie avenue, have returned from a vacation spent at Miami Beach. They were accompanied by Miss Barbara Wilson and Miss June Sutcliffe of Toronto. Mr. and Mrs. Robert Malcolm- | son, and family, Cadillac aven south, have returned from a vaca-| tion trip to Prince Albert, Sas-| katchewan. | Mr. and Mrs. C. 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