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#4 #4 ' THE INCOMING president, | Lean, left, and Miss Beverley | cille Bascom, Mrs, Fred Lind. Miss Lillian Beamish, is seen | Storie, Standing left to right are ' say and Mrs, Leslie Gorrie. seated between Miss Mary Mc- | Mrs, Russell Flutier, Miss Lu- Miss Lucille Bascom, N. Toronto Installs Pilot Club Officers Members of the Pilot Club of|ing and corresponding secretary, Oshawa and guests gathered for|Mis Russell Flutter; treasurer, a dinner meeting at the Hotel Mrs. Leslie Gorrie; directors, Genosha recently. Seated at the Mrs. Fred Lindsay, Miss Beth head table were Miss Beverley Miller and Miss Muriel Wilson, Storie, Miss Ethel Clark of the Committee chairmen -- Co-ordin- Pilot Club of North Toronto, Miss ating, Miss Beverley Storie; fi- Lillian Beamish, Miss Lucille nance, Miss Beth Miller; public Bascom also of the Pilot Club of|ity and public relations, Mrs. North Toronto and Miss Muriel Fred Lindsay; community ser- Wilson vice, Mrs. Kenneth Cowan; mem- Miss Lucille Bascom installed bership and information, Miss the new officers for 1960-61, in an| Muriel Wilson impressive ceremony, complet-| Miss Beverley Storie presented ing it with the presentation of ,,, i . i dainty corsages 'made of nylon M'ss Bascom with a gift of ap- preciation from the Club butterflies. The officers are as follows: President, Miss Lillian] Films secured by Miss Muriel| oman Wilson from the Camera Clubij.. o half-day a week a belonging = to - change for a collective enterpris fact didn't dawn on you. It hasn yet. sciously to recapture the illu riage: namely, the illusion th: as a bride you were enroute t than you could childhood treatment Squeeze the budget for from to hire Beamish; lst vice-president, Miss Beverley Storie; 2nd vice-presi- were shown to complete a very dent, Miss Mary McLean; record- enjoyable evening. MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Psychiatric Help Is Indicated To Unravel Girl's Problem Dear Mary Haworth: I am 24 |loved pexually, in a respected| married six years and have two arrangement that paid your bills children. 1 feel trapped and des- and upped your social status perate. from maid to matron. a college freshman, 1 Yas eg PLAN A BREAK | snae studying art, when I met Hank. We married soon after and our| The fact that you were re-'method of reducing weight. | seeing friends; but get out of th {ular routine, M H. | Mary Haworth counsel or personal interview in care of this newspaper SIMPLE METHOD --~Oshawa Times Pholc nouncing the single way of life oneself, in ex- with you the anchor person, at the center of the circle as wife, | mother and homemaker -- this| : 3 po) After the birth of two children, ¢rom school induces a parent to you are still struggling uncon-|sommand the child, "Go get sion with which you entered mar unalloyed enjoyment of a larger io require the child, in the third slice of carefree self-indulgence or ninth grade, to go at his home-| command in|work at a regular period. But the| So much for background. Now, funds TRAGIC SCENES mother's helper, a good reliable yragic scenes in which the par-| to stand-in for you at| ent, helping the child with his| Use this time to consult a psy-|per, raises the voice and charges | chologist at first. Later, employ the child with being lazy or not {your "break" for shopping, visit- naying attention |ing libraries or art galleries or| (house, to relieve the mONOtONY|....r then the angry parent may |and thus restore zest for the reg- shriek at him or utter a mono-| {through her column, not by mail Write her PATIENCE VITAL Eating less at meals, and cut- [ting out those between - meal ks, is the simplest and safest (CHILD GUIDANCE How To Help Children | With Lessons At Home By G. CLEVELAND MYERS | immeasurable is the possibilil: [ot gains in book learning and in companionship with his parent: by the school child at home, if his parents find ideal ways of helping him with his lessons. Most parents have enough edu- cation to achieve this noble ob- | jective, especially while the child |{is im the elementary grades. {Most other parents who are ldoing well at this up to high school, could go on learning com-| panionably with the child as he advances. The secret of success, as a rule| is in the parent's ability to im- |agine himself in the child's place, to master his own emotions and ways of acting, and to win the child's esteem and companion. laving read daily to the child, | {from the timg he was two or three, and continuing to do so |while this child is in the early] grades, the parent should enjoy| help with THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, May 26, 1960 © "THE STARS SAY |B By ESTRELLITA will go it alone, Or, more wisely, ure a stranger who can really him, 'My bulletins, Helping Child Lessons at Home and Par- 2s and the Child's Homework, may be had by sending a self- ressed, U.S. stamped envel- ope to me in care of this news- paper.) PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. What are desirable stand- ards for teen-age parties? \, A concerted stand against holding parties on school nights. Where parties are held, strong drinks should not be served, un- invited guests should not be ad- mitted and, above all, parents should be present. TO REPEL DAMP If your home freezer is located in a damp basement, cover the on the underside with hearing the child read when he aluminum paint and keep the ex- wants to show how well he can. terior finish waxed, advise On- BIG GAIN If the child then can feel as specialists. comfortable as when listening to |the parent reading to him, great will be his gain from the help. |So may it be as he learns to {spell some words or do some |sums in arithmetic, Such help| 'might be so effective that this | {child will advance well up in his school years, without once hear- ing from his parents or teacher that he should study harder. It's when low grades on the report card or other information 't I*|your book and do your homework | with me," that problems may | ill oecasionally arise. 0 | It may be necessary, of course, | parent reveals his skill and gen-| jus from there on. | a All over America tonight are homework, loses his or her tem-| If the child makes a mistake, ©|is corrected and repeats the 1s logue criticizing the teacher at| S| school. | If you help your child with his |lessons, you will to be very | |calm and patient. The moment | you feel stirrings inside and hear your voice rising, you need to| fwalk away from the child. | If you find that you can't con- Itrol yourself, you had better Ed first child, now 8, was born 10, mouths later, rm ------------------ 1 have been a good mother but' was eager for the day when Julie would start school and I could] bave time, to myself. My hus. band works in real estate and has odd hours, thus we could get out together during the day f Last year we decided to move town, so we sold our house and with the profit took a trip to Europe, which was very nice, except that I became preg- pent again. NO JOB EXPERIENCE When we returned, Hank found another good job and we enrolled Julie In nursery school. I felt terrible the whole nine months but expected to feel better, and freer, after the baby was born Now the baby is five weeks old and I can't find two hours to call my own. ! I used to drive, but would have to learn again; and with two babies, how to find time? have wanted to go to work, but we have only one car which Hank needs for business; and as I've| had no job experience, the little] 1 could earn would just about pay | for a baby sitter. Also 1 would| have guilt feelings about leaving the children with a hired woman However, if 1 don't do some- thing soon, things will get worse, I know. I do all my own house-| work and am always tired. I feel trapped, with no escape. Please advise me P.F. | RUNAWAY SPIRIT Dear P.F.: You do have aj problem and there is no escape from it. There is only a cure for # in terms of getting emotion- ally re-educated for reality, and psychologically pulled together, so that you may start the long process of growing-up and learn- ing to appreciate adult type liv-| ing. In speaking of feeling trapped | and desperate, you are admit-| ting, unawarely, that you mar ried with hardly any sense of] what you were doing. You had no| notion of the self-giving discip- lines involved, or the responsibil- ities you were contracting--that is if you were gbing to conform to the requirements of true mar- riage. | You married in a runaway from - reality spirit, I gather. (Maybe you eloped?) 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