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r¥ae Wei War rs ww er mye > MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Husband's Devotion To Mother Constitutes A Family Problem Dear Mary Haworth: I read [ |your column daily and feel that|in wanting that? you give sunerb answers to peo- |ple's questions. 1S SHE JEALOUS? | Is it natural for a man of 28 tr {be overly protective of his wid- owed mother? he is always worried about her and gives her his whole attention. a and will cancel any previous ap- My mother-in-law lives in af? different part of the country and pointments just to stay home and spends her vacations here with talk with her. family and friends. Am I wrong|p When we are with his mother. | us. When our vacation time| He is the youngest of her sever them to his people and doesn't|man's yardstick of success, by seem too eager to spend much the way?) time with them -- which doesn't] In consequence of the Ameri- bother me, however. lcan father's somewhat other-en- | Do American boys have a dif-| grossed or permissive attitude as ferent relationship with their head of the house, the American {mothers than Europeans? Or is it mother may drift into a relation- |just my husband? Or is my atti-|ship more comradely than matri- {tude wrong? Thanking you for|archal in rearing her children. any suggestions, I am, sincerely,|This trend may increase as the LY. children grow up; and might be more pronounced still, in the case of a widow dealing with sons. [AMERICAN MOTHERS Dear F.Y.: It's possible that| tne American mother - son re-MAN'S ATTITUDE |1ationship differs from the Euro-| All of which may have a bear- pean one. It is my impression ing on your husband's markedly that European fathers, by and|friendly fondness for his mother large, tend to exercise a more as a person--not just as a "duty" cleselv supervizery authoritarian|relation in his background. [rule in family life--especially in I construe it as more to his [through her column, not by mail or personal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, Mey 19, 1960 11 NEWS IN BRIEF FREE BARKING DUNCAN, B.C. (CP)--Roy S. Temple and his wife said they are the barking of a neighbor's dog. The authorities are baffled, too-- barking is considered a natural anti-noise bylaw. CUPID WINS RAINHAM, England ANCIENT POTTERY restored. Officials acquired the MONTREAL (CP) -An ancient! missing piece from the owner of piece of reek pottery at the Montreal Museum of Fine Arts, A small shop in Italy. The article which has been missing a frag-|is a shallow drinking eup with ment for 100 years, now has beer|iwo handles. just about at their wits' end over noise and is not included in the (CP)-- JORDAN'S GREENHOUSES Cupid is bowling out the women's comes, we visit her, That has|children, all of whom are awfully| oo been the pregram since I mar-{nice and helpful to their mother [Toding sons fian mos, So credit than not, that he has the ried her son two years ago. Bion though not Beatly 30 alors do. capacity to love both mother and As he and I both do salaried|lentive as he. When we have dis-| : wife, and to be loyal to each with work, 1 feel that our vacation|cussed this, he says I am just The average American husband" jiop ing the other. In mani- should be a relaxing escape from|'>~lous like all the daughters-in- and father rather tends to leave festing loyal devotion and reason- SPECIAL FONT law. domestic routine, which to him|able attentiveness to his mother, | | | I don't want to be jealous and|; ji i that she can count on, it seems he] PREWLEY MOOR, England of 'my Tedueny Diygram io mi think his mother is a veryl Wiles fhe rearing ue iat ties you at the same, or) hy Jom made from Soul nounce tha ad star [sw \ \y . : ers and water from a smal Syeb! person hut | faut under {pretty much in his wife's hands,|time. Instead he includes you as| long road to slimness after my| " : fons? . |stream were used when a bab: } small daughter asked iy) Fiaud the relationship. Between . 3 until she invites his| one with him" (one flesh: as 7 vacat isits h s | ign ay in hi 2 if I would ever be a real her aca Bon Tos eal er a judgment, opinion or backing, |HaTHASE is) a oi tani are "I forgot to mention that I am Meanwhile, he wrestles with the a%ut Me? WEI CECE o.| . CHILDREN'S GALLERY 27 years of age and, at the start DO WE DIFFER? outer world in quest of security| e 2 Io rt pd Sharing Itis VANCOUVER (CP) -- An art of my reducing, 1 was 82 pounds My family all live abroad; and and advantages measured sure BY eart, 8 gallery for children has been overweight. In "my first letter 1/the few times some relative has|chiefly in terms of a materialistic !ii€. ad opened on the second floor of told of a loss of 18 pounds which visited this country, he compares yardstick. (What is the European! Mary Haworth counsels/the Vancouver Art Gallery. | Two Modern Stores in Oshawa ® Open Friday Night Until 9 P.M. "Another trip to the doctor and scads of lean meat, vegetables | and fruits later, I have now lost It's time to prepare for Summer Fun and Comfort, indoors and out- doors ! In the second week of its Great May Sale, Zeller's features i a total of 35 pounds. This has *|brought me down to 187 from 222 "Fabulous Bargains' in just the things you need and want for a delightful Summer. And the Sale Prices are 'delightful' for the <b : | pounds. Purdy, Bowmanville, is one- | Mr and Mrs. Robert Gutsole, by Christmas, 1960. I shall drop| E. J. Luke, Oshawa, and Mr. 1 shall send you a picture of my are already far too big for me. 1 off my dietitian' is . . Overweight Mother Jeopardizes couse: sous maser ian: Smart-and-Thrifty Family Shopper ! n |peel and eat. It is victory over| greatest favor you can do your- Overweight young mothers, to.|@ check-up and a diet. thy road to fewer pounds. you have to do, it Is natural fo) pg oe Maren gives her progres: beginning . . . then eating to re- had to be involved with a diet. - to be more patient and a better. Oi. : * KEVIN WILLIAM "I still want to lose that other year-old Kevin William. Kevin | 5,00 ang Mr, and Mrs. [vou another letter in about 5 or 6 and Mrs. George Purdy, Bow- | --Photo by Ireland self with the same slacks on that "I couldn't be happier if some rageous young mother. Happi- The Happiness Of The Family |self that brings genuine joy. | TINY TOT Ie I ' -TOT NIGHTIES ! 79¢ Value! self and your family is to change day's column is for you. With all| PROGRESS REPORT rationalize that you couldn't pos-|report. duce becomes a stimulating chal- You may even think that carry-| natured mother, Son of Mr. and Mrs. Keith | manville, and great-grandson of |47 excess pounds. My goal is 140 : on of Mr, and Mrs. reeks W % A 0 is the grandson of Mr. and Mrs Featik Puidy, Bowinanville weeks, When 1 get down to 14 Te I wore when I weighed 222. They one gave me a million dollars." ness is not an apple that one can| Overweights, recognize that thé] By IDA JEAN KAIN |went straight to her doctor for |yo food habits and get on the he Her second letter, written the 00k upon this venture as a new sibly get through your day if youl "I wrote you at the beginning|lenge. ing the extra weight helps you The attitude that you would be cricket club of this Kent town. So many members have mar- ried that they no longer can put out a team, TERS TEN TNE Top Quality Spring Plants ALL VARIETIES We Grow Our Own 120 ARLINGTON AVE. (OFF SIMCOE ST. NORTH) Circular Driveway RA 3.3243 was christened in this Devon- RA 3-3243 : " > 4 \ 4 9 ' or A wr w 7 of 4 Ed # RETAILERS TO THRIFTY CANADIANS SATISFACTION GUARANTEED SPECIAL ! 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