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Fm pig Cass CHR A SPR RR This sophisticated gown, modelled in the Queen Eliza- beth huilding of the CNE, is designed by Olivia of Hamilton and is made of a luxurious tex- tured aipaca knit fabric. Done in a subtle shade of grey, the a SE oH J Et strapless bodice. The slim, fig | ure-flattering skirt drapes into | a fish-iail train at the back. An added touch: the enormous | stole that can be draped many | different ways lush, rustly pink taffeta (to match the deep pink roses -- lined in a | > TT ly THE LAST WORD IN ELEGANCE worn with the gown). it is made of an acrylic fibre she can dance all night and never worry about a wrinkle. | Even in the wee hours of the morning she'll look as fresh as | the moment she siepped into the gown. gown has a gracefully draped CHILD GUIDANCE How To Help A Youth "Who Mumbles By G, CLEVELAND MYERS + A neighbor youth, this year 'senior In college, is president of : . He expresses himself ease. I enjoy visiting 'words, as wove for love. Today we shall consider the youth who, mouth full of food, or may run his words together or not speak loudly enough to be heard. He may be five, ninc or 14. In a few imstances this youth may not hear well. But usually #'s an emotionai problem. He feels shy as he speaks. BREATHING IS HINDERED Any fears or feelings of self- consciousness interfere with his breathing as he speaks. He may not blow emough wind over his vocal cords at the proper time. His Words To put him through mecuan- the answer, umless he strongly chooses to do so. The big prob- lem is to help him feel more com- fortable and secure when he speaks. His teacher, encumbered with so many other classroom prob- .|lems, may incline to shout at this child to speak louder, Like a drowning person clutching at a €| straw, he may say a few words Jouder only to revert to mumbling later, even to grow worse. FRIENDLIER ATMOSPHERE You and I wish the teacher would not shout "Louder" at this child. If she were more patient and understanding she would work to create such a friendly atmosphere in her classroom that each child would feel at ease and other children. | More specifically, we wish the teacher, when a child can't be| distinctly heard by her, were to walk nonchalantly toward him, | proving her eagerness to hear| him. Then, after doing so, as he| continued talking, she could! secure when he spoke before the| -- slowly and unobtrusively back away from him. HELP AT HOME You can help this timid-at- speaking child in the family cir- cle, especially at mealtime. With all the worla shut out, cultivate a relaxed, companionable atmos- phere in which each person speaks comfortably" and enjoys alical breathing exercises is hardly |letting others present have proper share in the conversation, when those not speaking listen raptly [is speaking. | As parents, you can take the initiative in setting good example at courteous listening. PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. Did you ever fee! the need of apologizing to your own chil- dren for having rebuked or pum- ished them unjustly? A. Yes, indeed; but it gave me self-regard and won genuine es- teem from them. MUSICAL BIRD The piping crow of Australia, known as the "flute player," can be taught to whistle tunes. Because and courteously to the one who MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Asks Help For Dear Mary Haworth: Can you please help me? Am I too jeal- ous? I am 27 and my wife is 23 and we have been married a little over four years. Our first year of marriage was wonderful; but after our son was born, things began to turn. As of now we are on the verge of separ- on anything but my being jealous. I have tried hard to overcome this, and at times believed that I had succeeded. Some time ago my wife went to visit her sister in Canada, where she remained for six weeks; and we did quite a bit of letter writing, in which I promised to change. And 1 did, for about a month after her return. To this day, she has never done anything to give me cause 7459 CHIC, NEW CHICKS | By ALICE BROOKS Color riot! Bright, bold barn- yard characters make a fine show on cloths, towels, curtains. parade of roosters 'n' hens on center of a dinette cloth. Pattern 7459: four 6 x 10% inch motifs; four 10% x 16 inches. (coins) for this pattern (stamps cannot be accepted) to The Oshawa Times, Household Arts Dept., Oshawa, Ontario. Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS, PAT- TERN NUMBER. Our 1959 ALICE BROOKS Needlecraft Cat, has many lovely: designs-tu order: crochet- ing, knitting embroidery, quilts, dolls, weaving. A special gift, in the catalog to keep a child hap- pily occupied -- a cutout doll and clothes to color. Send 25 cents for your copy of the book. MONDAY! -- MARKS ation, and 1 can't put the blame| Embroider and applique a gay Send THIRTY - FIVE CENTS His Jealousy Which He Feels Is Unfounded to be jealous; yet I am. Though I love her and my son very much, am always thinking and saying things that make her feel I am judging her guilty of some wrong. ASKS HIM LEAVE HER how much 1 'ove her. UNMANLY REACTION In recent weeks she has taken a job and arranged for foster home day care of our son. Now she wants me to leave, as she says she has no love for me any more, and that she can support herself and the boy, But T just can't go; I can only keep feeling 1 was raised in a strict re- ligious family and look down on separation and divorce. I want so very much to stay with my wife, even despite her theory that she doesn't love me--and try to over- come my faults. Is this so very young? Or is it too late for me? Please can you advise me? C.D. Dear C.D.: The first year of marriage was wonderful, you say; it was only after the baby was born that things began to turn {for the worse. Here is a clue to your deepdown trouble, I think. You began to lose out with your a MEE TIED AT SR ER OS EER CER ET a Sa i i ee Sha ie Ba oi dh al Sala dha ih hat di Ah Sh ie tagonistic towards her, as she de- do likewise. You reacted in a childish way, as if your nose were out of joint, You felt shoved aside, marked in her life; but expected, rather, in diapers. enough, or mature enough psy- |chologically, to measure up to the new demands of the three-cor- nered love that had entered your marriage. And so ill will and mis- understanding 'and conflict be- gan to take over and crowd out harmony. FAILED TO READ HIM your wife fell short of mature wisdom too, in failing to fathom the nature of your distress-- which might have been eased from the start, if she'd had the insight to treat you as King Pin, and to understate the baby's im- portance, him first-class mothering. left your solved, Namely, baby son. Very likely X is this jealous, voted herself to the care of your son, and seemed to expect you to down, no longer the big cheese to play second fiddle to a squirt In short, you just weren't man On the other hand, perhaps even while sneaking However, if she had taken that tack (which some psychologists might favor), it still could have essentiai problem un- your chronic need of special ego support at all times, in a group situation, to help you feel equai to others present -- even including your vying, anxiously dependent, de- wife, and to feel jealous and an-pressing aspect of your personal- ity that has caused your wife to feel fed up, and out of love with you at last. As for your wish to stay dom- jciled with her, while trying to overcome your faults, that's terol tion of a devoted but husband who doesn't r ignorant THE OSHAWA TIMES, Friday, September 18, 1959 Hale and Hearty On 101st Birthday HALIFAX (CP) -- Mrs. Katie 200 or more." 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